Infidelity Therapists in Boston, MA
I specialize in helping couples recover from infidelity using the Gottman Method.
I take a directive approach with a proven 3-phase roadmap: Phase 1 - Rebuild basic trust through structured disclosure and accountability. Phase 2 - Address underlying relationship issues that created vulnerability (such as communication). Phase 3 - Safely restore emotional and physical intimacy. We'll have a clear plan from day one.
I specialize in helping couples recover from infidelity using the Gottman Method.
I take a directive approach with a proven 3-phase roadmap: Phase 1 - Rebuild basic trust through structured disclosure and accountability. Phase 2 - Address underlying relationship issues that created vulnerability (such as communication). Phase 3 - Safely restore emotional and physical intimacy. We'll have a clear plan from day one.
When divorce is on the table or an infidelity has been revealed, your world can go into a tailspin.
I specialize in helping couples struggling with infidelity, divorce, and other marriage and relationship struggles. Using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Attachment Theory, or Discernment Counseling, I help couples stop fighting each other and start attacking the real issues.
When divorce is on the table or an infidelity has been revealed, your world can go into a tailspin.
I specialize in helping couples struggling with infidelity, divorce, and other marriage and relationship struggles. Using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Attachment Theory, or Discernment Counseling, I help couples stop fighting each other and start attacking the real issues.
You're struggling with anxiety that won't quit, anger that feels out of control, or depression that's draining your energy and hope. Maybe past trauma is affecting how you show up in relationships, or bipolar disorder makes emotional regulation feel impossible. You're tired of feeling overwhelmed, misunderstood, or like you're failing the people you love. Your goal is to regain stability, understand what's driving your reactions, and develop healthier coping strategies. You want relationships—romantic, family, or otherwise—that don't feel like constant work or sources of pain. You need someone who understands your complexity.
You're struggling with anxiety that won't quit, anger that feels out of control, or depression that's draining your energy and hope. Maybe past trauma is affecting how you show up in relationships, or bipolar disorder makes emotional regulation feel impossible. You're tired of feeling overwhelmed, misunderstood, or like you're failing the people you love. Your goal is to regain stability, understand what's driving your reactions, and develop healthier coping strategies. You want relationships—romantic, family, or otherwise—that don't feel like constant work or sources of pain. You need someone who understands your complexity.
I provide a confidential and trusting space where you can finally exhale; where you don’t have to explain or defend who you are. Maybe you are burnt out from juggling life’s responsibilities. Maybe you are trying to break free from unhealthy relationship patterns. Or maybe you are finally ready to heal and transform into your best you. Together, we’ll help you come home to yourself: more confident, more at peace, and more aligned with who you’re meant to be. I specialize in supporting first responders and medical professionals, but my caseload encompasses a variety of careers.
I provide a confidential and trusting space where you can finally exhale; where you don’t have to explain or defend who you are. Maybe you are burnt out from juggling life’s responsibilities. Maybe you are trying to break free from unhealthy relationship patterns. Or maybe you are finally ready to heal and transform into your best you. Together, we’ll help you come home to yourself: more confident, more at peace, and more aligned with who you’re meant to be. I specialize in supporting first responders and medical professionals, but my caseload encompasses a variety of careers.
Everyone has strengths and vulnerabilities that need to be empathically recognized and understood for there to be realistic change. My job is to create a safe place where individuals and couples explore their current or long standing problems in order to find realistic solutions. A significant part of this involves carefully and mutually developing an appreciation of people's actual qualities and circumstances. I work with people in crisis or who sense they have patterns of living that could benefit from a clear understanding and want an expert and experienced partner to help facilitate their desired change.
Everyone has strengths and vulnerabilities that need to be empathically recognized and understood for there to be realistic change. My job is to create a safe place where individuals and couples explore their current or long standing problems in order to find realistic solutions. A significant part of this involves carefully and mutually developing an appreciation of people's actual qualities and circumstances. I work with people in crisis or who sense they have patterns of living that could benefit from a clear understanding and want an expert and experienced partner to help facilitate their desired change.
Many are seeking support and guidance healing from the trauma of infidelity.
My therapy style is client focused and humanistic. I use Emotionally Focused Therapy when working with couples in crisis. In individual therapy I use CBT and ACT to help clients manage feelings of anxiety and depression. I have certificates in TF-CBT, Emotionally Focused Therapy, and Trauma and the Roots of Infidelity.
Many are seeking support and guidance healing from the trauma of infidelity.
My therapy style is client focused and humanistic. I use Emotionally Focused Therapy when working with couples in crisis. In individual therapy I use CBT and ACT to help clients manage feelings of anxiety and depression. I have certificates in TF-CBT, Emotionally Focused Therapy, and Trauma and the Roots of Infidelity.
I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Colorado and Wyoming with over 16 years of experience. I specialize in treating depression, trauma, family and relationship issues, OCD, ADHD, anger, stress, women’s issues, behavioral concerns, and more.
I earned my Master’s degree in Psychology from Walden University and am currently writing my dissertation for a Ph.D. in Health Psychology. I’m certified in Brainspotting, CAMs, and Motivational Interviewing.
I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Colorado and Wyoming with over 16 years of experience. I specialize in treating depression, trauma, family and relationship issues, OCD, ADHD, anger, stress, women’s issues, behavioral concerns, and more.
I earned my Master’s degree in Psychology from Walden University and am currently writing my dissertation for a Ph.D. in Health Psychology. I’m certified in Brainspotting, CAMs, and Motivational Interviewing.
Mitch PsyD & Lisa Couples Relationship Life Coach, Specialize in Marriage/Couples, Communication, Alcohol, Infidelity, Narcissism & Parenting.
Gaslighting: Psychological manipulation that makes the recipient question their feeling, instincts & their sanity. One of the worst forms of dirty fighting which includes: Pretending not to understand someone when they do, Labeling your partners thoughts as crazy or imagined, Questioning the other person's memory, Pretending to forget what actually occurred
Mitch PsyD & Lisa Couples Relationship Life Coach, Specialize in Marriage/Couples, Communication, Alcohol, Infidelity, Narcissism & Parenting.
Gaslighting: Psychological manipulation that makes the recipient question their feeling, instincts & their sanity. One of the worst forms of dirty fighting which includes: Pretending not to understand someone when they do, Labeling your partners thoughts as crazy or imagined, Questioning the other person's memory, Pretending to forget what actually occurred
Marissa Dungan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW, CST
2 Endorsed
Boston, MA 02131
Waitlist for new clients
My training includes working with issues related to desire, intimacy, infidelity, conflict management, and parenting.
Additionally, I work with families to address topics such as adoption, mental health, queerness, and disability. I have experience working with gay men, heterosexual couples, lesbian couples, and queer couples, as well as those in monogamous, swinging, non-monogamous relationships.
My training includes working with issues related to desire, intimacy, infidelity, conflict management, and parenting.
Additionally, I work with families to address topics such as adoption, mental health, queerness, and disability. I have experience working with gay men, heterosexual couples, lesbian couples, and queer couples, as well as those in monogamous, swinging, non-monogamous relationships.
I specialize in PTSD, Anxiety, Depression, Family Estrangement as well as Betrayal Trauma.
I believe we all want to be seen and heard. As people we long to be loved and accepted, free of overwhelming anxiety and/or depression. My clients are looking for validation that their pain is real. They are looking to make changes in their lives to alleviate some of the depression, trauma and anxiety they are experiencing. They understand that change takes time and that engaging in therapy takes courage. In this one life, pain is inevitable but suffering is optional. My clients want to make better choices and learn self care practices so that they put themselves first. They want more out of life and learning that they deserve more.
I specialize in PTSD, Anxiety, Depression, Family Estrangement as well as Betrayal Trauma.
I believe we all want to be seen and heard. As people we long to be loved and accepted, free of overwhelming anxiety and/or depression. My clients are looking for validation that their pain is real. They are looking to make changes in their lives to alleviate some of the depression, trauma and anxiety they are experiencing. They understand that change takes time and that engaging in therapy takes courage. In this one life, pain is inevitable but suffering is optional. My clients want to make better choices and learn self care practices so that they put themselves first. They want more out of life and learning that they deserve more.
When infidelity shatters your world, you need someone who understands the shock, trauma, and confusion that follow.
Clients often come to me feeling stuck between love and anger, wanting to heal but unsure how to move past the lies, gaslighting, or broken trust. I provide a clear roadmap for recovery with practical tools, emotional stabilization, and guidance for rebuilding communication and respect.
When infidelity shatters your world, you need someone who understands the shock, trauma, and confusion that follow.
Clients often come to me feeling stuck between love and anger, wanting to heal but unsure how to move past the lies, gaslighting, or broken trust. I provide a clear roadmap for recovery with practical tools, emotional stabilization, and guidance for rebuilding communication and respect.
As spring begins and life keeps moving quickly, stress can still feel like it’s winning in your relationship. Between work, parenting, and constant responsibility, connection may start to thin out. Or you might be a young man or high school student feeling pressure, anger, or confusion and stuck in patterns you don’t know how to change. You don’t want endless rehashing — you want practical tools to communicate better, regain control, and feel aligned again.
As spring begins and life keeps moving quickly, stress can still feel like it’s winning in your relationship. Between work, parenting, and constant responsibility, connection may start to thin out. Or you might be a young man or high school student feeling pressure, anger, or confusion and stuck in patterns you don’t know how to change. You don’t want endless rehashing — you want practical tools to communicate better, regain control, and feel aligned again.
Trust has been disrupted through infidelity, secrecy, or unresolved conflict.
I work with individuals and couples navigating infidelity, ongoing communication difficulties, and sexual disconnection. I help slow things down, identify the patterns shaping your interactions, and support conversations that are more direct, less reactive, and easier to stay present in together.
Trust has been disrupted through infidelity, secrecy, or unresolved conflict.
I work with individuals and couples navigating infidelity, ongoing communication difficulties, and sexual disconnection. I help slow things down, identify the patterns shaping your interactions, and support conversations that are more direct, less reactive, and easier to stay present in together.
I help individuals make sense of their emotions, break long-standing patterns, and feel more grounded and steady. I have a particular interest and extensive experience working with men who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or off track, often carrying pressure they rarely speak about. Many clients come to me during stressful transitions, relationship strain, or periods of low motivation. Therapy offers a clear, steady space to sort through what you’re carrying, understand what you truly need, and build practical steps toward a more confident and meaningful direction.
I help individuals make sense of their emotions, break long-standing patterns, and feel more grounded and steady. I have a particular interest and extensive experience working with men who feel stuck, overwhelmed, or off track, often carrying pressure they rarely speak about. Many clients come to me during stressful transitions, relationship strain, or periods of low motivation. Therapy offers a clear, steady space to sort through what you’re carrying, understand what you truly need, and build practical steps toward a more confident and meaningful direction.
Joleena is a former Certified Sex Addiction Therapist Candidate, a Certified Clinical Trauma and Addiction Specialist, a Certified Functional Medicine and Trauma Specialist, a Betrayal Trauma Coach, with a Masters of Psychology.
She has developed unique skills for working with Betrayal Trauma clients as well as Sex Addicts. She uses state of the art therapies, based off of the newest research such as, Multichannel Eye Movement Integration (MEMI), EMDR (Bilateral Stimulation), EFT, CBT, and Restoration Therapy techniques. See her website for full credentials and training.
Joleena is a former Certified Sex Addiction Therapist Candidate, a Certified Clinical Trauma and Addiction Specialist, a Certified Functional Medicine and Trauma Specialist, a Betrayal Trauma Coach, with a Masters of Psychology.
She has developed unique skills for working with Betrayal Trauma clients as well as Sex Addicts. She uses state of the art therapies, based off of the newest research such as, Multichannel Eye Movement Integration (MEMI), EMDR (Bilateral Stimulation), EFT, CBT, and Restoration Therapy techniques. See her website for full credentials and training.
I am passionate about working with couples to achieve a more intimate and satisfying relationship. In therapy, I work with each individual to identify issues that are interfering in achieving these and use a strengths-based approach to support clients to develop better ways of relating. I believe that the best way to get to the root of the issue is through being open and direct with clients.
I am passionate about working with couples to achieve a more intimate and satisfying relationship. In therapy, I work with each individual to identify issues that are interfering in achieving these and use a strengths-based approach to support clients to develop better ways of relating. I believe that the best way to get to the root of the issue is through being open and direct with clients.
Are you struggling with betrayal trauma, sex addiction, porn addiction, infidelity, loss of trust & intimacy in your relationship, narcissistic abuse and/or coercive control.
I completed my education with The International Institute for Trauma & Addiction Professionals as a Sex Addiction Therapist & Partner Trauma Therapist. This level of education is rare & the most in-depth & highest training currently available to therapists for the treatment of Betrayal Trauma, Sex Addiction & Multiple Addictions.
Are you struggling with betrayal trauma, sex addiction, porn addiction, infidelity, loss of trust & intimacy in your relationship, narcissistic abuse and/or coercive control.
I completed my education with The International Institute for Trauma & Addiction Professionals as a Sex Addiction Therapist & Partner Trauma Therapist. This level of education is rare & the most in-depth & highest training currently available to therapists for the treatment of Betrayal Trauma, Sex Addiction & Multiple Addictions.
I have many areas of interest including adult autism, attention deficit disorder, internet/pornography addiction, infertility, gambling addiction, insomnia, erectile dysfunction, infidelity, adoption, cross cultural issues.
I am a licensed mental health counselor with nearly twenty years of experience in the human services field. Very little surprises me, and nothing you share will be “too much.” I believe in solution-focused therapy as well as CBT and psychodynamic theory.
I have many areas of interest including adult autism, attention deficit disorder, internet/pornography addiction, infertility, gambling addiction, insomnia, erectile dysfunction, infidelity, adoption, cross cultural issues.
I am a licensed mental health counselor with nearly twenty years of experience in the human services field. Very little surprises me, and nothing you share will be “too much.” I believe in solution-focused therapy as well as CBT and psychodynamic theory.
My clients are individuals and couples who want to understand themselves and their relationships on a deeper level. They may feel stuck in repeated patterns of conflict, emotional disconnection, or self-doubt. Together, we explore how past experiences and current dynamics shape their lives, fostering awareness, emotional balance, and healthier ways of relating so they can build more authentic and fulfilling connections.
My clients are individuals and couples who want to understand themselves and their relationships on a deeper level. They may feel stuck in repeated patterns of conflict, emotional disconnection, or self-doubt. Together, we explore how past experiences and current dynamics shape their lives, fostering awareness, emotional balance, and healthier ways of relating so they can build more authentic and fulfilling connections.
My practice also includes supporting individuals and couples dealing with infertility, affairs, depression, anxiety, and ADHD/ADD, as well as those who have recently separated or divorced.
I utilize a variety of therapies including the Gottman Method, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Brainspotting, Family Therapy, Mindfulness and Meditation and Solution Focused Therapy. The first two sessions will consist of a thorough assessment which will allow us set objectives and goals for treatment. We will then meet for weekly or biweekly sessions.
My practice also includes supporting individuals and couples dealing with infertility, affairs, depression, anxiety, and ADHD/ADD, as well as those who have recently separated or divorced.
I utilize a variety of therapies including the Gottman Method, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Brainspotting, Family Therapy, Mindfulness and Meditation and Solution Focused Therapy. The first two sessions will consist of a thorough assessment which will allow us set objectives and goals for treatment. We will then meet for weekly or biweekly sessions.
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Infidelity Therapists
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.