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Lou Farley

LCSW Associate, MSW (they, them)

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Chapel Hill, NC 27514
Let's Connect (984) 315-7281
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I believe therapy is based in connection. The relationship between you and your therapist can be a powerful vessel for transformation. It is a space to explore what it's like to build trust and security, repair ruptures, and be seen in moments of vulnerability. It can be a safe container with ample space for all parts of you and whatever you might need help holding. To me, therapy is a place to deepen our capacity for authentic connection and evolve how we relate to ourselves, others, and the world around us.
My work weaves together AEDP (Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy), parts work, body-based approaches, mindfulness, and sex therapy. My goal is to help folks get to know and reconnect with the parts of themselves that have learned to protect, perform, or disappear — and to invite those parts back into belonging.
I hold deep respect for the courage it takes to turn toward what hurts and to move toward what brings life. Whatever you’re looking to learn, explore, and move through, you are welcome here.
Call or Lou Farley now for a free 15 minute consultation - (984) 315-7281

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Somatic Collaborative

Chapel Hill, NC 27514

(984) 315-7281
My website
I primarily offer virtual therapy with limited in-person availability on Saturdays.
I specialize in Sex Therapy, Relationship Issues and Open Relationships Non-Monogamy 
$125 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals and couples  
Let's Connect (984) 315-7281
Photo of Lou Farley, LCSW Associate, MSW

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Somatic Collaborative

Chapel Hill, NC 27514

(984) 315-7281
My website
I primarily offer virtual therapy with limited in-person availability on Saturdays.
I specialize in Sex Therapy, Relationship Issues and Open Relationships Non-Monogamy 
$125 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals and couples  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $125
  • Couple Sessions $175
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Cash, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • Aetna
  • Blue Cross
  • Blue Shield
  • BlueCross and BlueShield
  • Out of Network
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I am in-network with most Blue Cross Blue Shield and Aetna plans for individual therapy. If you are out of network or a couple, I can provide a superbill to help with reimbursement.
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Lou Farley
LCSW Associate, MSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (984) 315-7281
"
I am in-network with most Blue Cross Blue Shield and Aetna plans for individual therapy. If you are out of network or a couple, I can provide a superbill to help with reimbursement.
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Lou Farley
LCSW Associate, MSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (984) 315-7281

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Prelicense by State of North Carolina / P021479 Supervised by Jan Tate (North Carolina / C012511) Samantha Farley
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 1 year
  • Attended UNC Chapel Hill School of Social Work, MSW, Graduated 2023
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I am an AEDP Level 1 clinician.
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Lou Farley
LCSW Associate, MSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (984) 315-7281
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I am an AEDP Level 1 clinician.
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Lou Farley
LCSW Associate, MSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (984) 315-7281

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Sex Therapy
  • Relationship Issues
  • Open Relationships Non-Monogamy

Expertise

  • Anxiety
  • Behavioral Issues
  • Bisexual
  • Codependency
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Emotional Disturbance
  • Family Conflict
  • Infidelity
  • Lesbian
  • LGBTQ+
  • Men's Issues
  • Out of Control Sexual Behavior
  • Peer Relationships
  • Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
  • Sexual Abuse
  • Sexual Addiction
  • Sexual Dysfunction and/or Pain
  • Stress
  • Transgender
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Women's Issues
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I often work with folks who are experiencing difficulty in relationships; depression; trauma; sexual dysfunction or pain, sexuality/gender exploration, and out-of-control sexual behavior (OCSB). I support and celebrate all relationship structures. My work is anti-racist, body-neutral, and queer, neuro- and kink-affirming. I currently have a waitlist for couples therapy.
Photo of Lou Farley, LCSW Associate, MSW
Lou Farley
LCSW Associate, MSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (984) 315-7281
"
I often work with folks who are experiencing difficulty in relationships; depression; trauma; sexual dysfunction or pain, sexuality/gender exploration, and out-of-control sexual behavior (OCSB). I support and celebrate all relationship structures. My work is anti-racist, body-neutral, and queer, neuro- and kink-affirming. I currently have a waitlist for couples therapy.
Photo of Lou Farley, LCSW Associate, MSW
Lou Farley
LCSW Associate, MSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (984) 315-7281

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Transgender Allied

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Transgender Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Family Systems
  • Gestalt
  • Gottman Method
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Narrative
  • Psychoanalytic
  • Psychodynamic
  • Relational
  • Somatic
  • Strength-Based
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Lou Farley
LCSW Associate, MSW
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Photo of Lou Farley, LCSW Associate, MSW
Lou Farley
LCSW Associate, MSW
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (984) 315-7281

Location

Primary Location

Somatic Collaborative

Chapel Hill, NC 27514

(984) 315-7281
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I primarily offer virtual therapy with limited in-person availability on Saturdays.
Photo of Lou Farley, LCSW Associate, MSW
Lou Farley
LCSW Associate, MSW
Call for a free consultation now - (984) 315-7281
"
I primarily offer virtual therapy with limited in-person availability on Saturdays.
Photo of Lou Farley, LCSW Associate, MSW
Lou Farley
LCSW Associate, MSW
Call for a free consultation now - (984) 315-7281