Lily Ostler

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW

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Lily Ostler

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW (she, her)

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New York, NY 10010

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Do you ever feel caught between who you’re expected to be and who you truly are? Maybe it shows up as second-guessing yourself, burnout at work, or feeling overwhelmed by family or relationship dynamics. For others, it’s imposter syndrome, big transitions, or questioning purpose. Therapy offers space to slow down, reflect, and reconnect with yourself. Here, your experiences are honored and your voice is valued as you move toward clarity and confidence.

I work with people facing career stress, identity challenges, family pressures, and times of transition. Together we’ll explore your story, uncover strengths, and build practical tools that help you feel more grounded, resilient, and aligned with who you are.

My style is warm, collaborative, and flexible—sometimes focusing on coping strategies, other times on deeper patterns and mindfulness. If you’re ready to feel more confident and connected, I’d love to meet you. Reach out today for a free consultation.

Call or Email Lily Ostler now for a free 15 minute consultation - (332) 239-1712

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

New York City Psychotherapy Collective

New York, NY 10010

(332) 239-1712

My website

Discover a supportive space to explore your emotions, gain insight, and create lasting change in how you show up for yourself

I specialize in Life Transitions, Early adulthood and Anxiety

I accept insurance

Individual one-on-one therapy

Discover a supportive space to explore your emotions, gain insight, and create lasting change in how you show up for yourself

Let's Connect (332) 239-1712

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

New York City Psychotherapy Collective

New York, NY 10010

(332) 239-1712

My website

Discover a supportive space to explore your emotions, gain insight, and create lasting change in how you show up for yourself

I specialize in Life Transitions, Early adulthood and Anxiety

I accept insurance

Individual one-on-one therapy

Discover a supportive space to explore your emotions, gain insight, and create lasting change in how you show up for yourself

Finances

Fees

Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

ACH Bank transfer, American Express, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

Aetna
Anthem
Blue Cross
Blue Shield
BlueCross and BlueShield
Empire Blue Cross Blue Shield
Out of Network

In-network with Aetna and an approved out of network provider for other plans! I'll happily provide superbills for reimbursement to make therapy more affordable for you. Let's talk about your insurance options. Therapy can be accessible and within reach!

Lily Ostler

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (332) 239-1712

Lily Ostler

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (332) 239-1712

Qualifications

Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of New York / 099132 Lily Ostler

Education and Years In Practice

Attended New York University Silver School of Social Work, Master's of Social Work

My approach centers on continuous growth, mentorship, and delivering nuanced, high-quality therapeutic support. I've been practicing for many years & continue to attend regular trainings & supervision to enhance my clinical skills.

Lily Ostler

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (332) 239-1712

Lily Ostler

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (332) 239-1712

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

Life Transitions
Early adulthood
Anxiety

Expertise

Coping Skills
Depression
Family Conflict
Grief
Infidelity
LGBTQ+
Peer Relationships
Relationship Issues
Self Esteem
Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
Shame
Stress
Women's Issues

The basis of therapeutic improvement is a strong and collaborative relationship. I strive to create an environment that allows us to work together to help you achieve the relief or growth you're seeking. Even early on, I hope for you to experience relief and comfort knowing you're in a nurturing space.

Lily Ostler

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (332) 239-1712

Lily Ostler

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (332) 239-1712

12 Endorsements

Gabriella L Giachin

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW

Lily is an excellent therapist and co-worker!

Rachel Gordon

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW

Lily is a wonderful therapist who compassionately cares for her clients!

Lindsey Schafer Turner

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW

Lily is a compassionate, intellectual, warm therapist providing affirming care to couples and individuals. As a colleague, I have learned a lot from Lily and felt comfortable approaching her with a variety of topics and challenges!

New York City Psychotherapy Collective

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EdM

Lily offers a compassionate and collaborative approach to therapy, helping teens and adults navigate identity, relationships, and life transitions. She brings curiosity, humor, and deep empathy to her work, creating a space for both support and honesty.

Cristina Shea

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW

Lily is a compassionate and relatable therapist, offering a wide range of therapeutic modalities to meet her clients' needs. She is highly skilled in her work with couples and as a sex therapist and is a joy to work with for clients and colleagues alike!

Allison Soss

Counselor, LMHC-D, MA

Lily is a supportive, open, and curious clinician who creates a safe space for all identities and relationship structures. With expertise in sex and couples therapy, she helps clients navigate the complexities of life, connection, and relationships.

Greta Weiss

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW

Lily creates a warm and open space for clients to explore all aspects of identity and relationships. She brings authenticity and open-mindedness to her work, both as a therapist and as a person.

Nikol Metaxa Rozenfeld

Counselor, MA, LPC, LMHC-D, NCC

Lily is a warm, thoughtful therapist who brings clarity and compassion to her work with teens and adults-both individually and in couples. She has a grounded, empathetic presence and skillfully helps clients navigate the complexities of life!

Maggie McCarthy

Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW

Lily brings warmth and authenticity to every interaction. Her genuine care and curiosity creates an ideal environment for clients to feel safe and empowered to fully explore their needs, wants, and dreams to build a more fulfilling life.

Johanna Bellorin

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW

Lily brings a unique, fun, and well rounded approach to her work with individual and couples. Her training and experience makes her a great fit to work with couples and people in the queer community.

Deanna Aliperti

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW

If you're looking for a relatable personalty, a wildly talented clinician, & a touch of humor when needed - Lily's your person. Her clients stick with her for a reason! Lily is so smart, engaging, and judgement free. Working with her would be a treat!

Veda Massanari-Thatcher

Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW

Lily brings a genuine, relational presence that helps clients feel truly seen and met. Grounded in a social justice framework, she approaches identity and lived experience with care and intention, making meaningful change feel more accessible.

Client Focus

Age

Teen ,

Adults

Participants

Individuals

Communities

Bisexual Allied ,

Gay Allied ,

HIV / AIDS Allied ,

Lesbian Allied ,

Non-Binary Allied ,

Queer Allied ,

Racial Justice Allied ,

Sex Worker Allied ,

Transgender Allied

Age

Teen ,

Adults

Participants

Individuals

Communities

Bisexual Allied ,

Gay Allied ,

HIV / AIDS Allied ,

Lesbian Allied ,

Non-Binary Allied ,

Queer Allied ,

Racial Justice Allied ,

Sex Worker Allied ,

Transgender Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

Attachment-based
Clinical Supervision and Licensed Supervisors
Compassion Focused
Culturally Sensitive
Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
Emotionally Focused
Humanistic
Internal Family Systems (IFS)
Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
Person-Centered
Positive Psychology
Psychodynamic
Relational
Strength-Based
Trauma Focused

I pride myself on weaving many different therapy modalities into my work to best suit your needs - we will work together to find a mode of treatment that best connects to your needs, problem areas, and personality.

Lily Ostler

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (332) 239-1712

Lily Ostler

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (332) 239-1712

Location

Primary Location

New York City Psychotherapy Collective

New York, NY 10010

(332) 239-1712

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Cities

Counties

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Discover a supportive space to explore your emotions, gain insight, and create lasting change in how you show up for yourself

Lily Ostler

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW

Call for a free consultation now - (332) 239-1712

Discover a supportive space to explore your emotions, gain insight, and create lasting change in how you show up for yourself

Lily Ostler

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW

Call for a free consultation now - (332) 239-1712

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