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Lily Alexander (Meiss)
Counselor, LMHC, LPC
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Lily Alexander (Meiss)

Counselor, LMHC, LPC (she, her)

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
1 Endorsed
West Des Moines, IA 50265
Not accepting new clients
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Can't stop procrastinating? Keep repeating the same unhealthy relationship patterns? Afraid your loved ones will leave or stop loving you if you do anything wrong? Burnt out & unable to juggle it all? Drained from trying to prove yourself at work and in relationships? Unsure who you are after compromising your own values & needs for others? Controlled by impulsive behaviors like scrolling, spending, or drinking too much? If this sounds familiar, I might be a good fit for you. I help adults struggling with these issues to build confidence, improve relationships, and find relief from trauma & other emotionally distressing experiences.
My approach is about more than just coping skills. I blend relational and experiential therapies with EMDR to treat the root problem, not just the symptoms. Together, we can identify and work through issues & patterns keeping you stuck. We will work to reduce the distress you are feeling, so you can be present and engaged as the best version of you.
Head to my website to book a free 20 minute consultation with me. In the consultation, we will spend some time exploring your needs and my approach to see if we're a good fit. Even if we decide you need something different, I'll help you determine how to find it. You deserve to prioritize yourself and find the best therapist for you.
Lily Alexander (Meiss) now for a free 15 minute consultation

My Practice at a Glance

Currently unable to accept new clients

West Des Moines, IA 50265

My website
I am currently providing telehealth sessions only.
I specialize in Attachment Concerns, Chronic Impulsivity and Trauma and PTSD 
$175 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals and groups  
Connect with Lily Alexander (Meiss)
Photo of Lily Alexander (Meiss), Counselor, LMHC, LPC

My Practice at a Glance

Currently unable to accept new clients

West Des Moines, IA 50265

My website
I am currently providing telehealth sessions only.
I specialize in Attachment Concerns, Chronic Impulsivity and Trauma and PTSD 
$175 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals and groups  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $175

Payment Methods

American Express, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • BlueCross and BlueShield
  • Wellmark BCBS
  • Out of Network
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I can accept most Wellmark and BCBS insurance plans. I'm also happy to submit out of network claims if you have out of network benefits.
Photo of Lily Alexander (Meiss), Counselor, LMHC, LPC
Lily Alexander (Meiss)
Counselor, LMHC, LPC
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
"
I can accept most Wellmark and BCBS insurance plans. I'm also happy to submit out of network claims if you have out of network benefits.
Photo of Lily Alexander (Meiss), Counselor, LMHC, LPC
Lily Alexander (Meiss)
Counselor, LMHC, LPC
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Iowa / 113164 Lily Meiss
  • Additional Credentials

  • License: Virginia Board of Counseling 0701010483 / 2021
  • License: Pennsylvania Board of Social Workers, Marriage and Family Therapists, and Professional Counselors PC012566 / 2020
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I am licensed to practice psychotherapy in Iowa, Virginia, Pennsylvania, and Michigan.
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Lily Alexander (Meiss)
Counselor, LMHC, LPC
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
"
I am licensed to practice psychotherapy in Iowa, Virginia, Pennsylvania, and Michigan.
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Lily Alexander (Meiss)
Counselor, LMHC, LPC
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Attachment Concerns
  • Chronic Impulsivity
  • Trauma and PTSD

Expertise

  • Addiction
  • ADHD
  • Alcohol Use
  • Anxiety
  • Body Image
  • Career Counseling
  • Codependency
  • Depression
  • Family Conflict
  • Gambling
  • Impulse Control Disorders
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Transitions
  • Mood Disorders
  • Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
  • Peer Relationships
  • Relationship Anxiety
  • Relationship Issues
  • School Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
  • Stress
  • Substance Use
  • Thinking Disorders
  • Veterans
  • Women's Issues
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I work with adults struggling with impulse control, attachment issues, trauma, and other emotionally distressing experiences. My mission is to help you increase your confidence, improve your relationships, and find relief from the challenges that are holding you back. Together, we'll identify and work through the issues & patterns keeping you stuck.
Photo of Lily Alexander (Meiss), Counselor, LMHC, LPC
Lily Alexander (Meiss)
Counselor, LMHC, LPC
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
"
I work with adults struggling with impulse control, attachment issues, trauma, and other emotionally distressing experiences. My mission is to help you increase your confidence, improve your relationships, and find relief from the challenges that are holding you back. Together, we'll identify and work through the issues & patterns keeping you stuck.
Photo of Lily Alexander (Meiss), Counselor, LMHC, LPC
Lily Alexander (Meiss)
Counselor, LMHC, LPC
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

Endorsement

Jen Ackerson
Jen Ackerson
Licensed Professional CounselorMALPCACSATR-BCATCS
Lily's warmth, humor, and deep empathy make her an incredible therapist. She creates a safe, supportive space while helping clients break unhealthy patterns and build confidence.

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Group

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Immuno-disorders
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Little Person Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Transgender Allied

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Group

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Immuno-disorders
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Little Person Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Transgender Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • AEDP
  • Attachment-based
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • EMDR
  • Existential
  • Experiential Therapy
  • Feminist
  • Gestalt
  • Humanistic
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Narrative
  • Person-Centered
  • Relational
  • Somatic
  • Strength-Based
  • Trauma Focused
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My approach combines relational and experiential therapies with EMDR to help you uncover the root of your struggles and develop the skills and insights you need to overcome them. When you come to therapy, you deserve to feel at ease and in control. I believe in creating a relaxed and conversational atmosphere where you can feel comfortable expressing yourself freely.
Photo of Lily Alexander (Meiss), Counselor, LMHC, LPC
Lily Alexander (Meiss)
Counselor, LMHC, LPC
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
"
My approach combines relational and experiential therapies with EMDR to help you uncover the root of your struggles and develop the skills and insights you need to overcome them. When you come to therapy, you deserve to feel at ease and in control. I believe in creating a relaxed and conversational atmosphere where you can feel comfortable expressing yourself freely.
Photo of Lily Alexander (Meiss), Counselor, LMHC, LPC
Lily Alexander (Meiss)
Counselor, LMHC, LPC
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

Location

Primary Location

West Des Moines, IA 50265

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I am currently providing telehealth sessions only.
Photo of Lily Alexander (Meiss), Counselor, LMHC, LPC
Lily Alexander (Meiss)
Counselor, LMHC, LPC
"
I am currently providing telehealth sessions only.
Photo of Lily Alexander (Meiss), Counselor, LMHC, LPC
Lily Alexander (Meiss)
Counselor, LMHC, LPC