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Lilly Jay
Psychologist, PsyD, PMH-C

Lilly Jay

Psychologist, PsyD, PMH-C (she, her)

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New York, NY 10011
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Whether you're struggling through a specific season of life that is particularly hard or ready to better understand yourself, therapy is an investment and act of kindness for yourself and your loved ones. I am here to work with you, to hold on to hope when things feel bleak, and to celebrate the moments of clarity that are undoubtedly ahead for you. I combine warmth and humor with expertise in child development, perinatal mental health and helping men and women navigate demanding careers. My patients appreciate both feeling deeply and thinking critically alongside someone invested in their growth.
I have completed advanced training and a postdoctoral fellowship in treating parents navigating infertility, birth trauma, NICU parenting or the loss of a child. More generally, my research and clinical interest in grief informs my work with people suffering losses that are not traditionally recognized, like divorce, job loss and chronic illness.
Additionally, I provide play therapy for young children, adolescent psychotherapy, and parenting support. Adults benefit from my expertise in working with families, as I firmly believe that a key to a healthy adulthood is developing a nuanced understanding of childhood. Together we'll reduce your daily distress and update old narratives keeping you stuck.
Lilly Jay now for a free 15 minute consultation

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Prospect Psychology

New York, NY 10011

I offer therapy in-person in Greenwich Village or via a secure telehealth platform. I am licensed in 42 states via PSYPACT.
I specialize in Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum, Child and Grief 
I see individuals, families and groups  
Connect with Lilly Jay
Photo of Lilly Jay, Psychologist, PsyD, PMH-C

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Prospect Psychology

New York, NY 10011

I offer therapy in-person in Greenwich Village or via a secure telehealth platform. I am licensed in 42 states via PSYPACT.
I specialize in Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum, Child and Grief 
I see individuals, families and groups  

Finances

Payment Methods

American Express, Cash, Check, Discover, Mastercard, Venmo, Visa, Zelle

Insurance

  • Out of Network
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Patients use their out-of-network benefits with United HealthCare, EmblemHealth, Blue Cross Blue Shield, Cigna, Aetna, Oxford, and other health insurance plans. While I am not an in-network provider, the practice will submit for your out-of-network reimbursement.
Photo of Lilly Jay, Psychologist, PsyD, PMH-C
Lilly Jay
Psychologist, PsyD, PMH-C
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
"
Patients use their out-of-network benefits with United HealthCare, EmblemHealth, Blue Cross Blue Shield, Cigna, Aetna, Oxford, and other health insurance plans. While I am not an in-network provider, the practice will submit for your out-of-network reimbursement.
Photo of Lilly Jay, Psychologist, PsyD, PMH-C
Lilly Jay
Psychologist, PsyD, PMH-C
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of New York / 025190 Lilly Jay
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 4 years
  • Attended Long Island University , PsyD, Graduated 2021
  • Additional Credentials

  • License: PSYPACT 20731 / 2025
  • Degree/Diploma from Amherst College B.A. / 2014
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I am a licensed psychologist and a certified perinatal mental health specialist who has worked in children's hospitals and with families involved in the foster care system. I am accustomed to supporting people in times of crisis and change without judgment and with hope. I am licensed in NY and NJ.
Photo of Lilly Jay, Psychologist, PsyD, PMH-C
Lilly Jay
Psychologist, PsyD, PMH-C
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
"
I am a licensed psychologist and a certified perinatal mental health specialist who has worked in children's hospitals and with families involved in the foster care system. I am accustomed to supporting people in times of crisis and change without judgment and with hope. I am licensed in NY and NJ.
Photo of Lilly Jay, Psychologist, PsyD, PMH-C
Lilly Jay
Psychologist, PsyD, PMH-C
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum
  • Child
  • Grief

Expertise

  • ADHD
  • Adoption
  • Anxiety
  • Behavioral Issues
  • Bipolar Disorder
  • Body Positivity
  • Chronic Illness
  • Codependency
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Family Conflict
  • Infertility
  • Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
  • Oppositional Defiance (ODD)
  • Parenting
  • School Issues
  • Sexual Abuse
  • Stress
  • Suicidal Ideation
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Women's Issues
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Even under the best of circumstances, pregnancy and early parenthood can introduce new stressors, intensify existing mental health concerns or reawaken painful parts of your personal history. Throughout our work together, I will support you in identifying your parenting identity, provide valuable information about child development and hold your whole family in mind so that everyone can thrive.
Photo of Lilly Jay, Psychologist, PsyD, PMH-C
Lilly Jay
Psychologist, PsyD, PMH-C
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
"
Even under the best of circumstances, pregnancy and early parenthood can introduce new stressors, intensify existing mental health concerns or reawaken painful parts of your personal history. Throughout our work together, I will support you in identifying your parenting identity, provide valuable information about child development and hold your whole family in mind so that everyone can thrive.
Photo of Lilly Jay, Psychologist, PsyD, PMH-C
Lilly Jay
Psychologist, PsyD, PMH-C
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

Client Focus

Age

Toddler
Children (6 to 10)
Preteen
Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Family
Group

Age

Toddler
Children (6 to 10)
Preteen
Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Family
Group

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
  • Family / Marital
  • Family Systems
  • Feminist
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Play Therapy
  • Psychodynamic
  • Trauma Focused
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Because of my unique training in cognitive behavioral, dialectical behavioral and psychodynamic therapy, my patients can expect to learn skills for better coping in the present and greater insight into their past. Together, we'll identify your priorities for therapy and maintain an open dialogue about your experience of the therapeutic process.
Photo of Lilly Jay, Psychologist, PsyD, PMH-C
Lilly Jay
Psychologist, PsyD, PMH-C
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
"
Because of my unique training in cognitive behavioral, dialectical behavioral and psychodynamic therapy, my patients can expect to learn skills for better coping in the present and greater insight into their past. Together, we'll identify your priorities for therapy and maintain an open dialogue about your experience of the therapeutic process.
Photo of Lilly Jay, Psychologist, PsyD, PMH-C
Lilly Jay
Psychologist, PsyD, PMH-C
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

Location

Primary Location

Prospect Psychology

New York, NY 10011

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I offer therapy in-person in Greenwich Village or via a secure telehealth platform. I am licensed in 42 states via PSYPACT.
Photo of Lilly Jay, Psychologist, PsyD, PMH-C
Lilly Jay
Psychologist, PsyD, PMH-C
"
I offer therapy in-person in Greenwich Village or via a secure telehealth platform. I am licensed in 42 states via PSYPACT.
Photo of Lilly Jay, Psychologist, PsyD, PMH-C
Lilly Jay
Psychologist, PsyD, PMH-C