
Lilly Jay
Psychologist, PsyD, PMH-C (she, her)
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New York, NY 10011
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Whether you're struggling through a specific season of life that is particularly hard or ready to better understand yourself, therapy is an investment and act of kindness for yourself and your loved ones. I am here to work with you, to hold on to hope when things feel bleak, and to celebrate the moments of clarity that are undoubtedly ahead for you. I combine warmth and humor with expertise in child development, perinatal mental health and helping men and women navigate demanding careers. My patients appreciate both feeling deeply and thinking critically alongside someone invested in their growth.

I have completed advanced training and a postdoctoral fellowship in treating parents navigating infertility, birth trauma, NICU parenting or the loss of a child. More generally, my research and clinical interest in grief informs my work with people suffering losses that are not traditionally recognized, like divorce, job loss and chronic illness.
Additionally, I provide play therapy for young children, adolescent psychotherapy, and parenting support. Adults benefit from my expertise in working with families, as I firmly believe that a key to a healthy adulthood is developing a nuanced understanding of childhood. Together we'll reduce your daily distress and update old narratives keeping you stuck.
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Lilly Jay
Psychologist, PsyD, PMH-C
Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now.
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of New York / 025190 Lilly Jay
- In Practice for 4 years
- Attended Long Island University , PsyD, Graduated 2021
- License: PSYPACT 20731 / 2025
- Degree/Diploma from Amherst College B.A. / 2014
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Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum
- Child
- Grief
Expertise
- ADHD
- Adoption
- Anxiety
- Behavioral Issues
- Bipolar Disorder
- Body Positivity
- Chronic Illness
- Codependency
- Coping Skills
- Depression
- Divorce
- Family Conflict
- Infertility
- Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
- Oppositional Defiance (ODD)
- Parenting
- School Issues
- Sexual Abuse
- Stress
- Suicidal Ideation
- Trauma and PTSD
- Women's Issues
Client Focus
Age
Toddler ,
Children (6 to 10) ,
Preteen ,
Teen ,
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Family ,
Group
Age
Toddler ,
Children (6 to 10) ,
Preteen ,
Teen ,
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Family ,
Group
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Attachment-based
- Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
- Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
- Family / Marital
- Family Systems
- Feminist
- Motivational Interviewing
- Play Therapy
- Psychodynamic
- Trauma Focused
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Lilly Jay
Psychologist, PsyD, PMH-C