Laurel van der Toorn

Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT

Laurel van der Toorn

Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT (she, her)

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5 Endorsed

San Francisco, CA 94115

(628) 216-2543

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High-achieving professionals—lawyers, executives, and entrepreneurs—often feel overwhelmed despite their success. You're all-in at work, but everything else is suffering: strained relationships, health problems, sleep disruption. To make things worse, old coping strategies no longer work. You want to feel more in control, build stronger connections, recover from burnout, and find sustainability in your busy life. I help ambitious individuals process trauma, manage anxiety, and create fulfilling relationships. Together, we’ll find clarity, peace, and a way forward that aligns with the life you want.

I am trained in EMDR and have years of experience working with trauma, sexual assault, and LGBTQ issues. My approach is built on a foundation of feminist values. I warmly invite LGBTQ+ people to my practice.

I’m direct and engaged in sessions, and often use humor to create a comfortable space. I'm also not afraid to call you out when something you're doing isn't working for you anymore. If that sounds like a good fit for you, schedule a free phone consultation today.

Call or Email Laurel van der Toorn now for a free 15 minute consultation - (628) 216-2543

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

San Francisco, CA 94115

(628) 216-2543

Los Angeles, CA 90034

My website

My staff and I are ready to support you with secure video therapy.

I specialize in Women's Issues, Trauma and PTSD and Relationship Issues

$275 Per Session

Individual one-on-one therapy

I love working with motivated young professionals via video. Let's work through your anxiety and trauma from the comfort of your home.

Let's Connect (628) 216-2543

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

San Francisco, CA 94115

(628) 216-2543

Los Angeles, CA 90034

My website

My staff and I are ready to support you with secure video therapy.

I specialize in Women's Issues, Trauma and PTSD and Relationship Issues

$275 Per Session

Individual one-on-one therapy

I love working with motivated young professionals via video. Let's work through your anxiety and trauma from the comfort of your home.

Finances

Fees

Individual Sessions $275
Couple Sessions $275

Payment Methods

Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

Out of Network

I'm happy to offer you a receipt to submit for insurance reimbursement.

Laurel van der Toorn

Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (628) 216-2543

I'm happy to offer you a receipt to submit for insurance reimbursement.

Laurel van der Toorn

Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (628) 216-2543

Qualifications

Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 116695 Laurel van der Toorn

Education and Years In Practice

In Practice for 12 years

Attended Dominican University of California, Graduated 2012

Additional Credentials

License: Florida Telehealth Provider TPMF654 / 2022

License: Washington 61587006 / 2024

I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with licenses in California, Colorado, Florida, Michigan, and Washington

Laurel van der Toorn

Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (628) 216-2543

I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with licenses in California, Colorado, Florida, Michigan, and Washington

Laurel van der Toorn

Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (628) 216-2543

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

Women's Issues
Trauma and PTSD
Relationship Issues

Expertise

Anxiety
Bipolar Disorder
Body Image
Grief
Lesbian
LGBTQ+
Life Transitions
Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
Sexual Abuse

I use a combination of talk therapy and EMDR to look at the many layers of your life: health, behavior, relationships, and your inner world. This tailored holistic approach helps us figure out how to make positive change.

Laurel van der Toorn

Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (628) 216-2543

Laurel van der Toorn

Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (628) 216-2543

5 Endorsements

Marla Leigh Caplan

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFA

Laurel is a therapist with a firm hold who knows how to create a feeling of safety and security from which her clients find a solid footing, sense of stability, and confident way forward. Colleagues for several years now, I can say with assurance that anyo...

Sean Monsarrat

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT

Laurel is a highly competent, professional and caring therapist who offers clients a safe environment and a highly attuned presence. I recommend her without hesitation.

Veronica Cisneros

Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT

Laurel Roberts-Meese is a creative, collaborative therapist who blends research with personalized care. She offers therapy for lawyers, millennials, EMDR, and Enneagram work. Her warmth and insight make her an excellent choice for anyone seeking healing.

Shoshana Polansky

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA

Laurel is an extremely smart, skilled and compassionate clinician. When you still want to excel in your work, hobbies and relationships while dealing with burnout; when you need healing from trauma through EMDR - she's an expert!

Dr. Ingrid Solano

Psychologist, PhD

An exceptional clinician with rare depth and warmth. Their clinical insight is matched by integrity, emotional intelligence, and steady presence. Clients feel deeply seen, while colleagues trust their judgment, ethics, and thoughtful, skillful care.

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals

Communities

Bisexual Allied ,

Gay Allied ,

HIV / AIDS Allied ,

Lesbian Allied ,

Non-Binary Allied ,

Queer Allied ,

Transgender Allied

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals

Communities

Bisexual Allied ,

Gay Allied ,

HIV / AIDS Allied ,

Lesbian Allied ,

Non-Binary Allied ,

Queer Allied ,

Transgender Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

Eclectic
EMDR
Feminist
Strength-Based
Trauma Focused

I'm trained in many different types of therapy and my style is active and eclectic. Depending on your needs, I use techniques from a variety of theoretical orientations, including CBT and EMDR, which I'm happy to talk about if you're a therapy nerd like me. I also incorporate mindfulness practices, feminist theory, the Enneagram, and somatics into my work.

Laurel van der Toorn

Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (628) 216-2543

Laurel van der Toorn

Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (628) 216-2543

Location

Primary Location

San Francisco, CA 94115

(628) 216-2543

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Additional Location

Los Angeles, CA 90034

(628) 216-2543

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Cities

Counties

Zips

Neighborhoods

My staff and I are ready to support you with secure video therapy.

Laurel van der Toorn

Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT

Call for a free consultation now - (628) 216-2543

My staff and I are ready to support you with secure video therapy.

Laurel van der Toorn

Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT

Call for a free consultation now - (628) 216-2543

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