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Kyle Bender
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
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Kyle Bender

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT (he, him)

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4 Endorsed
4009 Banister Lane, Suite 330, Austin, TX 78704
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Available both in-person and online
4009 Banister Lane Suite 330 Austin, TX 78704
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Now accepting new clients. You're holding it together — work, relationships, responsibilities — but something feels off. Maybe you're numbing out, going through the motions, or just can't figure out why life still feels flat despite doing everything right. A lot of the people I work with look fine from the outside. Inside, they're exhausted, disconnected, and running on fumes.
Therapy with me is direct, experiential, and grounded in the latest neuroscience. We don't just talk about what's happening — we work to understand why, tracing current patterns back to their roots and building something more sustainable
You don't have to have it figured out before you reach out. Email me for a free 15-minute consultation.
Call or Kyle Bender now for a free 15 minute consultation - (512) 601-4501

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

4009 Banister Lane

Suite 330

Austin, TX 78704 map

 (512) 601-4501
My website
Welcome! I offer therapy in-person (in an office with a great view) or online. I'm available M-F and some evenings.
I specialize in Marital and Premarital, Men's Issues and Anxiety 
$200 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  
Let's Connect (512) 601-4501
Photo of Kyle Bender, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

4009 Banister Lane

Suite 330

Austin, TX 78704 map

 (512) 601-4501
My website
Welcome! I offer therapy in-person (in an office with a great view) or online. I'm available M-F and some evenings.
I specialize in Marital and Premarital, Men's Issues and Anxiety 
$200 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $200
  • Couple Sessions $200
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I can work with you as private pay or as an Out of Network provider. If choosing Out of Network, I can provide you with a superbill to share with your insurance company for reimbursement.
Photo of Kyle Bender, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Kyle Bender
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (512) 601-4501
"
I can work with you as private pay or as an Out of Network provider. If choosing Out of Network, I can provide you with a superbill to share with your insurance company for reimbursement.
Photo of Kyle Bender, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Kyle Bender
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (512) 601-4501

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Texas / 204412 Kyle Bender

    • Additional Credentials

  • Certificate from Gottman Method Couples Therapy Level One: Bridging the Couple Chasm 2020
  • Certificate from Academy of Therapy Wisdom - S.T.A.I.R. - Level One - Working Experientially with Clients 2024
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I am licensed in TX and have additional training and certifications in experiential, trauma-informed therapy and couple's work.
Photo of Kyle Bender, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Kyle Bender
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (512) 601-4501
"
I am licensed in TX and have additional training and certifications in experiential, trauma-informed therapy and couple's work.
Photo of Kyle Bender, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Kyle Bender
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (512) 601-4501

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Marital and Premarital
  • Men's Issues
  • Anxiety

Expertise

  • Alcohol Use
  • Anger Management
  • Behavioral Issues
  • Career Counseling
  • Codependency
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Emotional Disturbance
  • Family Conflict
  • Grief
  • Infidelity
  • Internet Addiction
  • Life Coaching
  • Life Transitions
  • Parenting
  • Peer Relationships
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Spirituality
  • Stress
  • Substance Use
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I work with clients who want to enjoy their life, but find, far too often they are looking to numb or escape the stress of it all. I specialize in working with men and couples and would love the opportunity to meet you where you are, collaborate on where you want to go and take steps to get there. Whether its a current challenge of modern life, trauma related, or relational patterns, let's talk!
Photo of Kyle Bender, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Kyle Bender
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (512) 601-4501
"
I work with clients who want to enjoy their life, but find, far too often they are looking to numb or escape the stress of it all. I specialize in working with men and couples and would love the opportunity to meet you where you are, collaborate on where you want to go and take steps to get there. Whether its a current challenge of modern life, trauma related, or relational patterns, let's talk!
Photo of Kyle Bender, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Kyle Bender
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (512) 601-4501

4 Endorsements

Megan Berg Donnelly
Megan Berg Donnelly
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPCC
Kyle offers a warm and empathetic space allowing clients the freedom to uncover what is holding them back. He is a skilled clinician and uses evidence based treatments that help clients succeed.
Ivon Herrera
Ivon Herrera
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA
I highly recommend Kyle. He is dedicated to his clients and work. His experience and commitment to fostering growth and connection truly transform the lives of those he works with. He is a very warm-hearted and kind individual.
Amanda Snyder
Amanda Snyder
Pre-Licensed Professional, LPCC
Kyle's calm, grounded presence creates a safe, non-judgmental space for men and couples to explore their challenges. With his deep understanding of relational dynamics and men's struggles, he's committed to helping clients achieve meaningful growth.
Amanda Bradley
Amanda Bradley
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LCDC, NCC
Kyle is approachable, relatable, and highly supportive. He provides a safe, nonjudgmental space to explore life's challenges. With his guidance, you'll feel empowered to address obstacles and make meaningful progress toward your goals.

Client Focus

Age

Teen , 
Adults

Participants

Individuals , 
Couples , 
Family

Age

Teen , 
Adults

Participants

Individuals , 
Couples , 
Family

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Coaching
  • Compassion Focused
  • Experiential Therapy
  • Family / Marital
  • Gottman Method
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Interpersonal Neurobiology
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Trauma Focused
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I approach my work through the lens of the nervous system. So often, we are tempted to ask, "what's wrong with me?". A better question with the nervous system in mind, is "what have I experienced?" Our nervous system is active and engaged everyday. Understanding ourselves in light of it can bring healing and growth.
Photo of Kyle Bender, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Kyle Bender
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (512) 601-4501
"
I approach my work through the lens of the nervous system. So often, we are tempted to ask, "what's wrong with me?". A better question with the nervous system in mind, is "what have I experienced?" Our nervous system is active and engaged everyday. Understanding ourselves in light of it can bring healing and growth.
Photo of Kyle Bender, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Kyle Bender
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (512) 601-4501

Location

Primary Location

4009 Banister Lane

Suite 330

Austin, TX 78704

(512) 601-4501

Email Me

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Welcome! I offer therapy in-person (in an office with a great view) or online. I'm available M-F and some evenings.
Photo of Kyle Bender, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Kyle Bender
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (512) 601-4501
"
Welcome! I offer therapy in-person (in an office with a great view) or online. I'm available M-F and some evenings.
Photo of Kyle Bender, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Kyle Bender
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (512) 601-4501