Kourtney DeBoer

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CCTP, CSTS, MA, MSc

Kourtney DeBoer

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CCTP, CSTS, MA, MSc (she, her)

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3 Endorsed

Frederick, MD 21704

(202) 902-8326

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At Cultivating Capacity, I support women, survivors, and helping professionals as they unravel patterns that no longer serve them. If parts of you have been silenced, dismissed, or stretched thin, or you feel stuck, unseen, or out of alignment with your inner truth, we'll create space for reconnection. With deep presence, compassion, and evidence-based care, I support you in reclaiming self-trust, deepening clarity, and reshaping how you relate to yourself and others. This is a space to feel grounded in your own wisdom and supported in what comes next—a place where you can start thriving, not just surviving.

With advanced training in neuroscience, trauma, sexual violence, relational therapy, and systems theory, I integrate narrative and somatic approaches with accessible education—helping you understand how your nervous system and relationships shape your daily life. Through attuned care and genuine partnership, you are centered as the expert in your healing.

This is not therapy as usual. This is therapy that respects your depth, invites your truth, and invests in your transformation. Together, we'll untangle old narratives, restore boundaries, and cultivate a deeper connection with yourself and others. Our work is not about fixing who you are. You are not broken. There is space for all of you here.

Call or Email Kourtney DeBoer now for a free 15 minute consultation - (202) 902-8326

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Frederick, MD 21704

(202) 902-8326

Cultivating Capacity Virtual Office

Arlington, VA 22204

My intentionally curated small caseload ensures every client receives deep, attuned care, relational depth, and genuine partnership.

I specialize in Women's Issues, Trauma and PTSD and Sexual Abuse

$150 Per Session, I accept insurance

I see individuals, couples and families

Welcome to my home office space where I meet with clients during telehealth sessions. As you can probably tell, I love art, plants, & books!

Let's Connect (202) 902-8326

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Frederick, MD 21704

(202) 902-8326

Cultivating Capacity Virtual Office

Arlington, VA 22204

My intentionally curated small caseload ensures every client receives deep, attuned care, relational depth, and genuine partnership.

I specialize in Women's Issues, Trauma and PTSD and Sexual Abuse

$150 Per Session, I accept insurance

I see individuals, couples and families

Welcome to my home office space where I meet with clients during telehealth sessions. As you can probably tell, I love art, plants, & books!

Finances

Fees

Individual Sessions $150
Couple Sessions $150
Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

Inclusive Therapist Fund
Loveland Foundation Fund
WA Therapy Fund Foundation

I do not accept insurance, but I can help you determine what your insurance may cover for Out-of-Network providers and provide superbills for reimbursement directly to you. I also offer sliding scale to valid members of Open Path Psychotherapy Collective. Check my Open Path profile for availability.

Kourtney DeBoer

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CCTP, CSTS, MA, MSc

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (202) 902-8326

Kourtney DeBoer

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CCTP, CSTS, MA, MSc

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (202) 902-8326

Qualifications

Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of District of Columbia / LMFT200001325 Kourtney DeBoer

License state differs from primary location state.

Education and Years In Practice

In Practice for 15 years

Attended University of San Diego, Marital & Family Therapy , Graduated 2011

Additional Credentials

License: VA Department of Health Professions LMFT0717002067 / 2025

License: Washington Department of Health LF60497597

Virtual therapy available in CA, DC, IA, ID, MD, PA, VA, VT, and WA. D-SAACP certified. Kourtney helps victims and survivors thrive in all domains of life. She brings both lived and professional experience and provides a grounded, nurturing path forward.

Kourtney DeBoer

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CCTP, CSTS, MA, MSc

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (202) 902-8326

Kourtney DeBoer

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CCTP, CSTS, MA, MSc

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (202) 902-8326

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

Women's Issues
Trauma and PTSD
Sexual Abuse

Expertise

ADHD
Bisexual
Chronic Illness
Domestic Abuse
Domestic Violence
Grief
Lesbian
LGBTQ+
Marital and Premarital
Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
Relationship Issues
Self Esteem
Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
Stress
Survivors of incest
Transgender
Veterans

Cultivating Capacity is a highly specialized practice designed for women, LGBTQIA2S(plus), Service Members and military families, dynamic partner and family units (ENM, polyamory, multifamily and kin households), violence and crime survivors, neurodiverse persons, and persons living with intergenerational family trauma. You'll receive a curated treatment plan supported by neuroscience.

Kourtney DeBoer

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CCTP, CSTS, MA, MSc

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (202) 902-8326

Kourtney DeBoer

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CCTP, CSTS, MA, MSc

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (202) 902-8326

3 Endorsements

Andre St. Hilaire

Counselor, MEd, LMHCA

Kourtney is a great therapist! A resource for other therapists with great knowledge and warmth...highly recommend!

Justin Gregory MacArthur

Counselor, MC, CCC, CT

Highly recommend

Dr. Adriane Weaver

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW

Kourtney is a dedicated and compassionate clinician who brings a trauma-informed approach to her work. She offers a strong foundation in evidence-based practices and a sensitivity to the impact of trauma on individuals and families.

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals ,

Couples ,

Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied ,

Gay Allied ,

Intersex Allied ,

Lesbian Allied ,

Non-Binary Allied ,

Queer Allied ,

Racial Justice Allied ,

Sex Worker Allied ,

Single Parent ,

Transgender Allied

Ethnicity

Native American ,

Other Racial or Ethnic Background

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals ,

Couples ,

Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied ,

Gay Allied ,

Intersex Allied ,

Lesbian Allied ,

Non-Binary Allied ,

Queer Allied ,

Racial Justice Allied ,

Sex Worker Allied ,

Single Parent ,

Transgender Allied

Ethnicity

Native American ,

Other Racial or Ethnic Background

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
Attachment-based
Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
Compassion Focused
Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
Eclectic
Existential
Family Systems
Gottman Method
Interpersonal
Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
Narrative
Person-Centered
Somatic
Trauma Focused

Together, we'll untangle old narratives, restore boundaries, and cultivate a deeper connection with yourself and others. Our work is not about fixing who you are—it's about remembering what's always been true beneath the noise. At Cultivating Capacity, you'll find grounded presence, discerning insight, and emotionally intelligent care—always leading with depth over drama.

Kourtney DeBoer

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CCTP, CSTS, MA, MSc

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (202) 902-8326

Kourtney DeBoer

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CCTP, CSTS, MA, MSc

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (202) 902-8326

Location

Primary Location

Frederick, MD 21704

(202) 902-8326

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My website

Additional Location

Cultivating Capacity Virtual Office

Arlington, VA 22204

(202) 902-8326

Nearby Areas

Cities

Counties

Zips

Neighborhoods

My intentionally curated small caseload ensures every client receives deep, attuned care, relational depth, and genuine partnership.

Kourtney DeBoer

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CCTP, CSTS, MA, MSc

Call for a free consultation now - (202) 902-8326

My intentionally curated small caseload ensures every client receives deep, attuned care, relational depth, and genuine partnership.

Kourtney DeBoer

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CCTP, CSTS, MA, MSc

Call for a free consultation now - (202) 902-8326

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