Kourtney DeBoer

Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, LMFT, CCTP

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Kourtney DeBoer

Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, LMFT, CCTP (she, her)

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Frederick, MD 21704

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Whether you're looking for your first therapist or your next one, you'll find deep resonance with me if you're a... Woman who's juggling everything & everyone else, but you can't sustain this pace much longer... Survivor seeking care that doesn't blame, shame, or pathologize you with labels and pills... Creative person feeling disconnected from your craft or muse... Helper or healer struggling with imposter syndrome & burnout that "professional development" can't solve... Therapy newbie seeking lasting depth over quick fixes... Therapy veteran wanting less BS & more challenge... Let's explore what's possible, together.

I specialize in women's issues, trauma and PTSD, sexual abuse, and survivors of incest. My caseload is intentionally small, so sessions offer genuine partnership rather than superficial check-ins. My training and expertise are unique because I treat all of your relationships: brain, body, family, friends, work, and even your environment. It's all connected.

This is not therapy as usual. This is an eclectic, feminist therapy approach that respects your lived experiences and invests in you. We untangle old narratives, build & restore boundaries, and cultivate deep connections that last. We'll go beyond pop-psychology "women's issues" to address how broader systems and forces impact your well-being as a woman.

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My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Frederick, MD 21704

(240) 220-9592

Cultivating Capacity Virtual Office

Arlington, VA 22204

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Virtual therapy takes place in my cozy home office, periodically joined by my resident felines: Amelia, Mina, and Araby.

I specialize in Women's Issues, Trauma and PTSD and Sexual Abuse

$150 Per Session, I accept insurance

I see individuals, couples and families

Welcome to my home office, where I meet virtually with clients. As you can probably tell, I love art, plants, books, and critters!

Let's Connect (240) 220-9592

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Frederick, MD 21704

(240) 220-9592

Cultivating Capacity Virtual Office

Arlington, VA 22204

My website

Virtual therapy takes place in my cozy home office, periodically joined by my resident felines: Amelia, Mina, and Araby.

I specialize in Women's Issues, Trauma and PTSD and Sexual Abuse

$150 Per Session, I accept insurance

I see individuals, couples and families

Welcome to my home office, where I meet virtually with clients. As you can probably tell, I love art, plants, books, and critters!

Finances

Fees

Individual Sessions $150
Couple Sessions $150
Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

Inclusive Therapist Fund
Loveland Foundation Fund
WA Therapy Fund Foundation

I am not credentialed with insurance, which tends to dictate a version of therapy not supported for trauma and PTSD, but I do provide superbills for reimbursement directly to you. YOU own your therapy, not the insurance company.

Kourtney DeBoer

Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, LMFT, CCTP

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (240) 220-9592

Kourtney DeBoer

Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, LMFT, CCTP

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (240) 220-9592

Qualifications

Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of District of Columbia / LMFT200001325 Kourtney DeBoer

License state differs from primary location state.

Education and Years In Practice

In Practice for 16 years

Attended University of San Diego, Marital & Family Therapy , Graduated 2011

Additional Credentials

License: VA Department of Health Professions LMFT0717002067 / 2025

License: Washington Department of Health LF60497597

Virtual therapy available in CA, DC, DE, IA, ID, MD, PA, VA, VT, & WA. I am a survivor-advocate-therapist and D-SAACP-credentialed. I am also a subject matter expert in the Department of Defense on military sexual trauma. As a therapist and neuroscientist, I look at the big picture & the details.

Kourtney DeBoer

Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, LMFT, CCTP

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (240) 220-9592

Kourtney DeBoer

Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, LMFT, CCTP

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (240) 220-9592

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

Women's Issues
Trauma and PTSD
Sexual Abuse

Expertise

ADHD
Bisexual
Chronic Illness
Domestic Abuse
Domestic Violence
Grief
Lesbian
LGBTQ+
Marital and Premarital
Polyamory & ENM
Rape victims
Relationship Issues
Self Esteem
Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
Stress
Survivors of incest
Transgender
Veterans

I help women, rape victims, survivors of incest, and helping professionals with trauma and PTSD, grief, relationship issues, and self esteem. My approach blends narrative therapy, systems theory, and neuroscience education, paced to your needs and goals. My clients can expect steadier boundaries, deeper self-trust, and relationships that no longer cost them their voice or self-respect.

Kourtney DeBoer

Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, LMFT, CCTP

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (240) 220-9592

Kourtney DeBoer

Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, LMFT, CCTP

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (240) 220-9592

4 Endorsements

Andre St. Hilaire

Counselor, MEd, LMHC

Kourtney is a great therapist! A resource for other therapists with great knowledge and warmth...highly recommend!

Justin Gregory MacArthur

Counselor, MC, CCC, CT

Highly recommend

Dr. Adriane Weaver

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW

Kourtney is a dedicated and compassionate clinician who brings a trauma-informed approach to her work. She offers a strong foundation in evidence-based practices and a sensitivity to the impact of trauma on individuals and families.

Dr. Cornealius Stamps

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, DSW, LCSW-C, LSCW

Ms. DeBoer is an asset to the profession and will undoubtedly continue to make meaningful contributions to the field of behavioral health.

Client Focus

Age

Teen ,

Adults ,

Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals ,

Couples ,

Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied ,

Gay Allied ,

Immuno-disorders ,

Intersex Allied ,

Lesbian Allied ,

Non-Binary Allied ,

Queer Allied ,

Racial Justice Allied ,

Sex Worker Allied ,

Transgender Allied

Ethnicity

Native American

Age

Teen ,

Adults ,

Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals ,

Couples ,

Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied ,

Gay Allied ,

Immuno-disorders ,

Intersex Allied ,

Lesbian Allied ,

Non-Binary Allied ,

Queer Allied ,

Racial Justice Allied ,

Sex Worker Allied ,

Transgender Allied

Ethnicity

Native American

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

Attachment-based
Compassion Focused
Eclectic
Existential
Expressive Arts
Family Systems
Feminist
Gottman Method
Humanistic
Integrative
Narrative
Person-Centered
Relational
Somatic
Trauma Focused

I draw on a variety of frameworks, tools, and techniques to ensure your experience feels collaborative, 100 percent personalized, and paced to your nervous system rather than a script, with space to be heard rather than managed. Therapy is not about fixing who you are—it's about bringing forward what serves you best and what will help you accomplish your goals and dreams.

Kourtney DeBoer

Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, LMFT, CCTP

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (240) 220-9592

Kourtney DeBoer

Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, LMFT, CCTP

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (240) 220-9592

Location

Primary Location

Frederick, MD 21704

(240) 220-9592

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Additional Location

Cultivating Capacity Virtual Office

Arlington, VA 22204

(240) 220-9592

Nearby Areas

Cities

Counties

Zips

Neighborhoods

Virtual therapy takes place in my cozy home office, periodically joined by my resident felines: Amelia, Mina, and Araby.

Kourtney DeBoer

Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, LMFT, CCTP

Call for a free consultation now - (240) 220-9592

Virtual therapy takes place in my cozy home office, periodically joined by my resident felines: Amelia, Mina, and Araby.

Kourtney DeBoer

Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, LMFT, CCTP

Call for a free consultation now - (240) 220-9592

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