Kira Hayes

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, IMFT

Kira Hayes

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, IMFT (she, her)

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today

7 Endorsed

Columbus, OH 43215

(740) 240-0927

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I have immediate weekday afternoon availability for Relational/Couples Therapy! I am a queer, Native, neurodivergent therapist with an engaged, honest, and collaborative approach rooted in Relational Life Therapy. You can expect direct feedback, real tools that work, and a co-created path to help you communicate better, repair what’s broken, and reconnect in meaningful, lasting ways. If you’re ready for real change, and willing to work for it, we can get there, together. Finding the right therapist matters. Let’s connect for a free 15-minute virtual consult to see if my approach fits what you need. I do my best to reply quickly!

I specialize in working with gender, sexual/affectional, and relationship structure diverse communities (LGBTQ+, ENM, BDSM), drawing from both personal and professional experience. I help with communication, triggers, repeat conflict, infidelity, deepening connection, intimacy, neurodiversity, and more. Relational tools meet real talk—with zero judgment.

It’s not too much, too late, or too broken to start. In our free consult, you get to ask anything about my style, experience, or how I might help with your goals. I’ll answer openly and honestly so you can decide if I’m the right fit. Therapy is a big commitment. You deserve to feel clear, confident, and in control of who you’re choosing to trust.

Call or Email Kira Hayes now for a free 15 minute consultation - (740) 240-0927

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Columbus, OH 43215

(740) 240-0927

Hamilton, OH 45011

I'm offering Teletherapy which is available to anyone located in Ohio. I also offer RLT Coaching via Teletherapy for any location.

I specialize in LGBTQ+, Relationship Issues and ADHD

$160 Per Session

I see individuals, couples and families

Let's Connect (740) 240-0927

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Columbus, OH 43215

(740) 240-0927

Hamilton, OH 45011

I'm offering Teletherapy which is available to anyone located in Ohio. I also offer RLT Coaching via Teletherapy for any location.

I specialize in LGBTQ+, Relationship Issues and ADHD

$160 Per Session

I see individuals, couples and families

Finances

Fees

Individual Sessions $160
Couple Sessions $160

Payment Methods

American Express, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

Out of Network

I work with Out-of-Network/Self-Pay options. I can assist you with documentation for reimbursement from your insurance provider if needed.

Kira Hayes

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, IMFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (740) 240-0927

I work with Out-of-Network/Self-Pay options. I can assist you with documentation for reimbursement from your insurance provider if needed.

Kira Hayes

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, IMFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (740) 240-0927

Qualifications

Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Ohio / F.2300381 Kira Hayes

Education and Years In Practice

In Practice for 7 years

Attended Northcentral University, MA, Graduated 2020

Additional Credentials

Certificate from Relational Life Institute RLT Certified Coach / 2025

I am a Marriage and Family Therapist (IMFT) specializing in LGBTQ (plus) and Relational Life Therapy. Trained in adult Neurodiversity and systemic approaches, I bring a wealth of experience in addressing complex relational dynamics with empathy and always backed by evidence-based strategies.

Kira Hayes

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, IMFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (740) 240-0927

Kira Hayes

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, IMFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (740) 240-0927

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

LGBTQ+
Relationship Issues
ADHD

Expertise

Autism
Bisexual
Codependency
Divorce
Family Conflict
Gender, Sexual & Relationship Structure Minorities
Impulse Control Disorders
Infidelity
Lesbian
Marital and Premarital
Mood Disorders
Narcissistic Personality (NPD)
Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
Parenting
Peer Relationships
Personality Disorders
Racial Identity
Relationship Therapy - Non Monogamy/BDSM/Kink
Sex Therapy
Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
Transgender
Trauma and PTSD

I can help with improving communication, repairing from major relationship fractures, developing healthy tools for resolving conflicts, and an overall deepening of intimacy. A typical treatment plan involves personalized sessions integrating Relational Life Therapy and evidence-based approaches. You can expect enhanced relationship satisfaction, greater understanding, and lasting change.

Kira Hayes

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, IMFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (740) 240-0927

Kira Hayes

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, IMFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (740) 240-0927

7 Endorsements

Jaden List

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSSA, LISW, OCPS

Kira is an intuitive professional that makes a point to teach real-life, research-based skills. I wouldn't hesitate to recommend her services to any intimate relationship(s) in need of care. She provides a safe, trusting place for relationships to heal.

Brian J Sambecki

Counselor, MA, LPCC, CWC

I highly recommend Kira and her practice!

Jill Clemans Niswonger

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MS, IMFT

Affirming Pathways is an empathetic and amazing therapy group. Not only does Kira provide excellent therapy to the LBGTQ+ and BIPOC but to all relationships!

Kel Hall

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LISW-S, LCSW

Kira is fantastic! Kira brings a wealth of knowledge into sessions that is perfectly balanced with a comforting, laid back approach that allows clients to show up as they are. I highly recommend talking with Kira and the folks at Affirming Pathways!

Abigail Griffith

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LISW-S

If you're looking for an authentic Queer and affirming relationship therapist, I highly recommend Kira Hayes. You will get your investment's worth, times two.

Amber Raffeld

Marriage & Family Therapist, IMFT, SEP, NARM L2

Kira's ability to work with couples and her expertise in relationship dynamics, makes her an amazing asset to the field, and is highly recommended. Kira brings her humanness, and is kind and direct, providing a supportive, unbiased space to explore.

S. Lorena Shadwick

Marriage & Family Therapist, IMFT-S, LMFT-S, ATR-BC

Kira is a dedicated couples therapist. She is insightful and astute. Her perceptive and caring nature will support you in the toughest relational moments. She will work alongside you while also challenging you to live to your potential.

Client Focus

Age

Teen ,

Adults ,

Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals ,

Couples ,

Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied ,

Blind Allied ,

Deaf Allied ,

Gay Allied ,

HIV / AIDS Allied ,

Immuno-disorders ,

Intersex Allied ,

Lesbian Allied ,

Little Person Allied ,

Non-Binary Allied ,

Queer Allied ,

Racial Justice Allied ,

Sex Worker Allied ,

Single Parent ,

Transgender Allied

Ethnicity

Native American ,

Other Racial or Ethnic Background

Age

Teen ,

Adults ,

Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals ,

Couples ,

Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied ,

Blind Allied ,

Deaf Allied ,

Gay Allied ,

HIV / AIDS Allied ,

Immuno-disorders ,

Intersex Allied ,

Lesbian Allied ,

Little Person Allied ,

Non-Binary Allied ,

Queer Allied ,

Racial Justice Allied ,

Sex Worker Allied ,

Single Parent ,

Transgender Allied

Ethnicity

Native American ,

Other Racial or Ethnic Background

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

Attachment-based
Coaching
Experiential Therapy
Family / Marital
Family Systems
Feminist
Humanistic
Integrative
Internal Family Systems (IFS)
Interpersonal
LGBTQ+/CNM/Polyamory/Kink Knowledgable Therapy
Multicultural
Relational
Relational Life Therapy
Trauma Focused

For Relational Work: I use Relational Life Therapy (RLT) and specialize in LGBTQ issues. Your experience will focus on understanding and improving relational dynamics, using straightforward language to navigate conflicts and deepen intimacy. My approach is direct, always evidenced backed, empathetic, and rooted in fostering authentic connections.

Kira Hayes

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, IMFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (740) 240-0927

Kira Hayes

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, IMFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (740) 240-0927

Location

Primary Location

Columbus, OH 43215

(740) 240-0927

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Additional Location

Hamilton, OH 45011

(740) 240-0927

Nearby Areas

Cities

Counties

Zips

Neighborhoods

Kinsmith

I'm offering Teletherapy which is available to anyone located in Ohio. I also offer RLT Coaching via Teletherapy for any location.

Kira Hayes

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, IMFT

Call for a free consultation now - (740) 240-0927

I'm offering Teletherapy which is available to anyone located in Ohio. I also offer RLT Coaching via Teletherapy for any location.

Kira Hayes

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, IMFT

Call for a free consultation now - (740) 240-0927

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