Kim
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
2 Endorsed
Let's Connect (571) 339-3103
Are you a woman in midlife who feels drained, resentful, or disconnected in your relationship? You don’t have to keep carrying it alone.
I help individual adults untangle the impact of chronic conflict, emotional disconnection, relationship trauma, exhaustion, anxiety, people-pleasing, codependency, depression, and infidelity.
And in couples therapy, I help partners move beyond stuck patterns, heal past hurts, and build a relationship that feels more connected, resilient, and mutually fulfilling.
I offer Discernment Counseling for couples who feel uncertain or conflicted about the future of the relationship.
Specialized experience working with:
Adults with ADHD and their spouses; Individuals recovering from abusive relationships/divorce; Parents of struggling young adults.
My approach is trauma-responsive & neurodivergence-informed. I’m both compassionate & direct—I’ll help you develop clarity, boundaries, and emotional steadiness to create meaningful change.
I understand how complex life can be—marriage, parenting, work demands, grief, major transitions & decisions, and daily stress can collide in overwhelming ways. You deserve a place to rebuild self-trust, reconnect with your values, and feel more secure in yourself and your relationships. If this resonates, I warmly invite you to reach out for a consultation.
Call or Email Kim Arellano now for a free 15 minute consultation - (571) 339-3103
Let's Connect (571) 339-3103
Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $175
- Couple Sessions $175
Payment Methods
Health Savings Account, Mastercard, VisaInsurance
- Anthem
- Anthem BCBS out-of-state
- Out of Network
Kim Arellano
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (571) 339-3103
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Virginia / 0717001810 Kim Arellano
- In Practice for 10 years
- Attended St. Mary's University
- Certificate from EMDRIA 50-hour EMDR basic training / 2020
- Certificate from The Couples Institute The Developmental Model of Couples Therapy: Integrating Attachment, Differentiation and Neuroscience / 2024
Education and Years In Practice
Additional Credentials
Kim Arellano
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (571) 339-3103
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Relationship Issues
- ADHD
- Trauma and PTSD
Expertise
- Anxiety
- Codependency
- Coping Skills
- Depression
- Divorce
- Emotional Disturbance
- Family Conflict
- Grief
- Infidelity
- Life Transitions
- Loneliness
- Marital and Premarital
- Mood Disorders
- Neurodivergence
- Parenting
- Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum
- Self Esteem
- Spirituality
- Stress
- Veterans
- Women's Issues
Kim Arellano
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (571) 339-3103
2 Endorsements
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Client Focus
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Religion
Christian
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Religion
Christian
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Attachment-based
- Coaching
- Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
- Divorce Discernment Counseling
- EMDR
- Emotionally Focused
- Family Systems
- Gottman Method
- Internal Family Systems (IFS)
- Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
- Multicultural
- Person-Centered
- Psychodynamic
- Relational Life Therapy (RLT)
- Trauma Focused
Kim Arellano
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (571) 339-3103