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Kelly Shanley Intriligator

Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, MA

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Available both in-person and online
1115 Broadway 11th Floor (16 Madison Square West) Suite 1100 New York, NY 10010
Relationships and intimacy are living, evolving processes - and even the strongest couples can find themselves feeling stuck, disconnected, or misunderstood. As a Gestalt Therapist with extensive training in Gottman Couples and sex therapy, I help partners deepen emotional and physical connection, rebuild trust, and create more satisfying relationships. My style is compassionate, direct, and experiential, grounded in curiosity about how each partner’s experience shapes the relationship dynamic. My work integrates training in Gestalt therapy, sex therapy, and the Gottman Method.
Gestalt principles guide my focus on present-moment awareness and authentic dialogue; the Gottman Method offers practical tools to reduce conflict and strengthen friendship and trust; and my background in sex therapy helps couples explore intimacy, desire, and communication around sexuality with openness and respect.
I provide a free initial phone consultation to discuss my therapeutic approach, answer any questions you may have, and allow you to make an informed decision about what would be best for you. I wish you the best of luck in your therapeutic journey. For quickest response when first contacting me, please use e-mail.
Call or Kelly Shanley Intriligator now for a free 15 minute consultation - (917) 924-6204

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

1115 Broadway 11th Floor (16 Madison Square West)

Suite 1100

New York, NY 10010 map

(917) 924-6204
My website
I specialize in Relationship Issues, ADHD and Anxiety 
$250 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  
Let's Connect (917) 924-6204
Photo of Kelly Shanley Intriligator, Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, MA

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

1115 Broadway 11th Floor (16 Madison Square West)

Suite 1100

New York, NY 10010 map

(917) 924-6204
My website
I specialize in Relationship Issues, ADHD and Anxiety 
$250 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $250
  • Couple Sessions $350

Payment Methods

Paypal, Venmo

Insurance

  • Out of Network
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I am not in-network with any insurance companies, however I will submit all claims on your behalf to apply towards any out-of-network benefits you may have. I try to make it as simple a process as possible so we can focus on you and your work in therapy.
Photo of Kelly Shanley Intriligator, Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, MA
Kelly Shanley Intriligator
Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (917) 924-6204
"
I am not in-network with any insurance companies, however I will submit all claims on your behalf to apply towards any out-of-network benefits you may have. I try to make it as simple a process as possible so we can focus on you and your work in therapy.
Photo of Kelly Shanley Intriligator, Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, MA
Kelly Shanley Intriligator
Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (917) 924-6204

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of New York / 004658 Kelly Shanley Intriligator
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 19 years
  • Attended Florida Gulf Coast University, Graduated 2007
  • Additional Credentials

  • Certificate from Gottman Level 3 Trained Clinician Gottman Level 3 Training Completed / 2025
  • Certificate from Gestalt Associates for Psychotherapy Certified Gestalt Therapist / 2022
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Level 3 Trained Gottman Clinician; Certified in Sex Therapy completed in October 2025- Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy, New York, Ny.
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Kelly Shanley Intriligator
Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (917) 924-6204
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Level 3 Trained Gottman Clinician; Certified in Sex Therapy completed in October 2025- Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy, New York, Ny.
Photo of Kelly Shanley Intriligator, Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, MA
Kelly Shanley Intriligator
Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (917) 924-6204

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Relationship Issues
  • ADHD
  • Anxiety

Expertise

  • Addiction
  • Chronic Impulsivity
  • Codependency
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Grief
  • Impulse Control Disorders
  • LGBTQ+
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Mood Disorders
  • Obesity
  • Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
  • Parenting
  • Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum
  • Self Esteem
  • Sleep or Insomnia
  • Stress
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Weight Loss
  • Women's Issues
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Kelly Shanley Intriligator
Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, MA
Do these issues align with your needs? or (917) 924-6204
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Kelly Shanley Intriligator
Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, MA
Do these issues align with your needs? or (917) 924-6204

22 Endorsements

Yuliya Golubev
Yuliya Golubev
Counselor, MA, LMHC-D, LPC, CASAC-2
Kelly brings her expertise in Gestalt therapy, couples, and sex therapy to support couples who are struggling with communication and intimacy. Kelly helps partners better understand each other and express their needs more openly.
Rebekah Windmiller
Rebekah Windmiller
LCAT, REAT, Gestalt, Somatic
Kelly is curious and dedicated to being a therapist who will stay with you in whatever you bring to therapy. I've seen Kelly work and experienced her warmth. I fully recommend her as a skilled and compassionate therapist!
NYC Cognitive Therapy
NYC Cognitive Therapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, A-CBT, BICBT
Kelly is an excellent therapist. I recommend her highly.
Kemper Orton
Kemper Orton
Counselor, MEd, LMHC, NCC, CCATP
Friend; known Kelly for 6 years.
Danielle Feldman
Danielle Feldman
Licensed Psychoanalyst, MSc, JD, LP
I would strongly recommend Kelly to anyone looking for a compassionate knowledgeable therapist. She has a lot of experience and training and is a warm empathetic listener with a wonderful presence.
Jen Hastings
Jen Hastings
Creative Arts Therapist, MA, LCAT, MT-BC
In a world full of the unaware, Kelly shines with alive presence. She is bright and cognizant of all levels at once, from the micro to the big picture. As a therapist, Kelly holds you with a focused, loving, and truthful presence.
Jenna Cohan
Jenna Cohan
Licensed Psychoanalyst, LP, MS
Kelly is a very attuned and present clinician. She is extremely skilled at hearing what is not always being said, while giving the space and warmth to help her clients bring forward what might feel daunting. I recommend Kelly highly.

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals , 
Couples , 
Family

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals , 
Couples , 
Family

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Gestalt
  • Gottman Method
  • Imago
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Somatic
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Kelly Shanley Intriligator
Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, MA
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (917) 924-6204
Photo of Kelly Shanley Intriligator, Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, MA
Kelly Shanley Intriligator
Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, MA
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (917) 924-6204

Location

Primary Location

1115 Broadway 11th Floor (16 Madison Square West)

Suite 1100

New York, NY 10010

(917) 924-6204
Photo of Kelly Shanley Intriligator, Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, MA
Kelly Shanley Intriligator
Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, MA
Call for a free consultation now - (917) 924-6204
Photo of Kelly Shanley Intriligator, Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, MA
Kelly Shanley Intriligator
Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, MA
Call for a free consultation now - (917) 924-6204