Kelly Bender
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, BCPC
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
1 Endorsed
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As co-owner of Chrysalis Emotional Wellness, I believe therapy works best when people feel respected, understood, and comfortable being themselves. I meet clients where they are and work with teens, adults, and couples facing concerns such as trauma, relationship issues, anxiety, depression, phobias, and self-esteem challenges. My approach is flexible—there’s no one-size-fits-all method. I integrate practical tools, including Somatic Polyvagal techniques, EFT, ACT, and HeartMath to support meaningful change. Email is usually the easiest way to reach me; if you call, please leave a voicemail, and I’ll return your message.
We do not have one treatment preference as one does not work for every client or every situation. We work with clients that range from lower to very high functioning and find it important to meet each on a level they are comfortable with and easily able to grasp.
We go beyond mainstream methodologies by using rapid personal transformation tools, including Somatic Polyvagal, Emotional Freedom Techniques, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, & Heart Math (TM) to provide rapid relief.
When contacting, text or email works best. If you're calling, please leave a voicemail. We will get back to you asap.
Call or Email Kelly Bender now for a free 15 minute consultation - (405) 896-6261
Let's Connect (405) 896-6261

Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $135
- Couple Sessions $135
- Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible
Payment Methods
Cash, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Paypal, VisaInsurance
- Aetna
- BlueCross and BlueShield
- Humana
- Medicaid
- Oklahoma Complete Health
- SoonerCare
Kelly Bender
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, BCPC
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (405) 896-6261
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Oklahoma / 3204 Kelly Bender
- Attended University of Oklahoma, Graduated 2001
Education and Years In Practice
Kelly Bender
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, BCPC
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (405) 896-6261
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Family Conflict
- Anxiety
- Depression
Expertise
- ADHD
- Behavioral Issues
- Bisexual
- Caregivers
- Codependency
- Coping Skills
- Divorce
- Domestic Abuse
- First Responders
- Grief
- LGBTQ+
- Life Coaching
- Marital and Premarital
- Mood Disorders
- Parenting
- Personality Disorders
- Polyamory & ENM
- Relationship Issues
- Self Esteem
- Sexual Abuse
- Trauma and PTSD
- Women's Issues
Kelly Bender
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, BCPC
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (405) 896-6261
Endorsement
Client Focus
Age
Preteen ,
Teen ,
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Family
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
HIV / AIDS Allied ,
Intersex Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Single Parent ,
Transgender Allied
Religion
Other Spiritual or Religious Affiliations
Age
Preteen ,
Teen ,
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Family
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
HIV / AIDS Allied ,
Intersex Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Single Parent ,
Transgender Allied
Religion
Other Spiritual or Religious Affiliations
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Coaching
- Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
- Compassion Focused
- Emotionally Focused
- Family / Marital
- Feminist
- Humanistic
- Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
- Online Counseling
- Person-Centered
- Relational
- Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
- Somatic
- Strength-Based
- Trauma Focused
Kelly Bender
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, BCPC
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (405) 896-6261
Location
Nearby Areas
Kelly Bender
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, BCPC
Call for a free consultation now - (405) 896-6261