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Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
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Kate Varley

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT

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Escondido, CA 92026
You don't have to navigate this alone. For many people I work with, like healthcare providers, veterans, and military families, carrying more than others realize, often while showing up fully for everyone else, can feel more tiring over time. I offer a compassionate space to explore how personal history shapes present struggles with trauma, PTSD, burnout, grief, loss, and life transitions. Using EMDR, IFS, Solution-Focused, and Contextual Therapy, I help people rebuild a sense of identity, safety, and trust. I also have deep experience in palliative and end-of-life care.
Together we can rediscover meaning, safety, trust, and direction following life altering events through understanding how your personal history has impacted the patterns and processes occurring in the present. When things feel unfair, or unjust, we can talk about how rebalancing the ledger in contextual therapy may be helpful, and discuss adding EMDR.
The goal is to help you reclaim agency, rebuild trust in yourself and others, and live intentionally. Whether you’re a healthcare provider, first responder, veteran, or facing life-altering challenges, you don’t have to carry this alone. Healing isn’t about forgetting the past but learning to live fully in its aftermath, empowered to move forward.
Call or Kate Varley now for a free 15 minute consultation - (760) 350-3642

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Escondido, CA 92026

(760) 350-3642
My website
Available for online appointments Fri-Sat-Sun for clients located in California. Please email or call to schedule a free consultation.
I specialize in Trauma and PTSD, Anxiety and Grief 
$180 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and families  
You are not broken. With EMDR, solution, and strengths-based therapy we can help you manage anxiety, burnout, conflict, and recreate meaning
Kate Varley
Let's Connect (760) 350-3642
Photo of Kate Varley, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Escondido, CA 92026

(760) 350-3642
My website
Available for online appointments Fri-Sat-Sun for clients located in California. Please email or call to schedule a free consultation.
I specialize in Trauma and PTSD, Anxiety and Grief 
$180 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and families  
You are not broken. With EMDR, solution, and strengths-based therapy we can help you manage anxiety, burnout, conflict, and recreate meaning
Kate Varley

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $180
  • Couple Sessions $210

Payment Methods

Mastercard, Paypal, Visa, Zelle

Insurance

  • Aetna
  • Anthem
  • Blue Cross
  • Blue Shield
  • BlueCross and BlueShield
  • Cigna and Evernorth
  • Health Net
  • HMC Healthworks
  • Managed Health Network (MHN)
  • MHNet Behavioral Health
  • Optum
  • Tricare non-sponsor dependents
  • TriWest
  • United Medical Resources (UMR)
  • UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
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Reach out of you would like to utilize insurance for your services. We are glad to confirm your insurance benefit prior to the beginning of therapy. We also accept private payment.
Photo of Kate Varley, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Kate Varley
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (760) 350-3642
"
Reach out of you would like to utilize insurance for your services. We are glad to confirm your insurance benefit prior to the beginning of therapy. We also accept private payment.
Photo of Kate Varley, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Kate Varley
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (760) 350-3642

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Prelicense by State of California / 154369 Supervised by Eric Herrera (California / 145749) Kate Varley
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 1 year
  • Attended National University, MA Marriage and Family Therapy, Graduated 2025
  • Additional Credentials

  • Degree/Diploma from Ohio State University College of Dentistry DDS
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My experience supporting healthcare providers, veterans, and their families through transitions, burnout, grief, and conflict has shaped my approach as a therapist, dentist, and U.S. Army veteran.
Photo of Kate Varley, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Kate Varley
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (760) 350-3642
"
My experience supporting healthcare providers, veterans, and their families through transitions, burnout, grief, and conflict has shaped my approach as a therapist, dentist, and U.S. Army veteran.
Photo of Kate Varley, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Kate Varley
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (760) 350-3642

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Anxiety
  • Grief

Expertise

  • Anger Management
  • Career Counseling
  • Caregivers
  • Coping Skills
  • Divorce
  • Family Conflict
  • First Responders
  • Geriatric and Seniors
  • Life Coaching
  • Life Transitions
  • Moral Injury
  • Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
  • Peer Relationships
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Sleep or Insomnia
  • Stress
  • Substance Use
  • Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI)
  • Veterans
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I help individuals navigate burnout, grief, and trauma, focusing on restoring agency, reconnecting with core values, and fostering meaningful living. This process involves addressing unresolved emotions, rebuilding self-trust, and finding new ways to engage with life after disruption.
Photo of Kate Varley, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Kate Varley
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (760) 350-3642
"
I help individuals navigate burnout, grief, and trauma, focusing on restoring agency, reconnecting with core values, and fostering meaningful living. This process involves addressing unresolved emotions, rebuilding self-trust, and finding new ways to engage with life after disruption.
Photo of Kate Varley, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Kate Varley
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (760) 350-3642

2 Endorsements

Leighla Etters
Leighla Etters
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, AMFT
Kate is thoughtful, insightful, and deeply committed to her clients. She makes complex processes feel clear and approachable, helping clients recognize patterns, build insight, and create lasting change.
Diana Arroyo
Diana Arroyo
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Kate brings a rare blend of knowledge, empathy, and real world experience to her work. As a veteran, she brings a unique perspective and is skilled in grief, loss, illness, and life transitions. I highly recommend Kate, especially for trauma work and EMDR!

Client Focus

Age

Adults , 
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals , 
Couples , 
Family

Age

Adults , 
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals , 
Couples , 
Family

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Contextual Therapy
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • EMDR
  • Experiential Therapy
  • Family / Marital
  • Interpersonal
  • Multicultural
  • Narrative
  • Person-Centered
  • Relational
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
  • Strength-Based
  • Structural Family Therapy
  • Trauma Focused
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Contextual therapy examines the broader system influencing current challenges, including cultural and social norms, family dynamics, and past experiences. It helps us understand how these factors shape our perceptions of ourselves, others, and the world. EMDR helps reduce the emotional charge of traumatic memories, enabling them to be processed and stored safely in the past.
Photo of Kate Varley, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Kate Varley
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (760) 350-3642
"
Contextual therapy examines the broader system influencing current challenges, including cultural and social norms, family dynamics, and past experiences. It helps us understand how these factors shape our perceptions of ourselves, others, and the world. EMDR helps reduce the emotional charge of traumatic memories, enabling them to be processed and stored safely in the past.
Photo of Kate Varley, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Kate Varley
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (760) 350-3642

Location

Primary Location

Escondido, CA 92026

(760) 350-3642
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Available for online appointments Fri-Sat-Sun for clients located in California. Please email or call to schedule a free consultation.
Photo of Kate Varley, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Kate Varley
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (760) 350-3642
"
Available for online appointments Fri-Sat-Sun for clients located in California. Please email or call to schedule a free consultation.
Photo of Kate Varley, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Kate Varley
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (760) 350-3642