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Karl Stenske

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA

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15615 Alton Pkwy Suite 450 Irvine, CA 92618
I'm not going to spend this time telling you that your feelings are valid. You already know that. You've heard it from every podcast, every book, and every well-meaning friend, and it hasn't been enough. What you're missing isn't validation alone. It's origin. Why the pattern formed, why it made complete sense at the time, and why it's still running the show years after the thing that built it is over. You can have all the insight in the world and still be stuck, because insight and change happen in two different places. Closing that gap is the actual work.
I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist in Irvine, and this is the work I do. I help adults trace the patterns of early life back to where they began, so present-day reactions, the relational distance, the inner critic, the "why am I still like this" feeling, finally start to make sense. Not as flaws, but as a story that can be understood and changed.
Alongside my own life experience as an adoptee, I built a framework for understanding how adoption, early trauma and disrupted caregiving continues to shape identity. This isn't therapy aimed at helping you tolerate your life as it is. It's aimed at resolution, so your nervous system can finally stop treating old hurt like it's still happening.
Call or Karl Stenske now for a free 15 minute consultation - (949) 922-0734

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

15615 Alton Pkwy

Suite 450

Irvine, CA 92618 map

(949) 922-0734

Lake Forest, CA 92610

My website
Immediate availability! I have openings for in-person sessions. Call or email to book a free 15 minutes consult call.
I specialize in Relationship Issues, Adoption and Trauma and PTSD 
$225 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  
Let's Connect (949) 922-0734
Photo of Karl Stenske, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

15615 Alton Pkwy

Suite 450

Irvine, CA 92618 map

(949) 922-0734

Lake Forest, CA 92610

My website
Immediate availability! I have openings for in-person sessions. Call or email to book a free 15 minutes consult call.
I specialize in Relationship Issues, Adoption and Trauma and PTSD 
$225 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $225
  • Couple Sessions $225

Payment Methods

American Express, Cash, Check, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • Out of Network
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I'm an out-of-network provider and am able to offer you superbills to submit to your insurance for reimbursement. Let's set up a consultation call and I can discuss how we may be able to make your insurance situation work. Reach out via email or phone, and let me help you along each step.
Photo of Karl Stenske, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Karl Stenske
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (949) 922-0734
"
I'm an out-of-network provider and am able to offer you superbills to submit to your insurance for reimbursement. Let's set up a consultation call and I can discuss how we may be able to make your insurance situation work. Reach out via email or phone, and let me help you along each step.
Photo of Karl Stenske, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Karl Stenske
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (949) 922-0734

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 150804 Karl Stenske
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 3 years
  • Attended Touro University Worldwide, Marriage and Family Therapy, Graduated 2023
  • Additional Credentials

  • Degree/Diploma from Goddard College BA - Psychology of Communication / 2009
  • Degree/Diploma from Goddard College Master's Degree - Adoption Studies / 2011
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I am based in Irvine, California, holding graduate degrees in both Marriage and Family Therapy and Adoption Studies. My own experience as an adoptee and the fractured caregiving that followed led me to over 15 years of specialized work in the field of adoption prior to becoming a licensed therapist.
Photo of Karl Stenske, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Karl Stenske
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (949) 922-0734
"
I am based in Irvine, California, holding graduate degrees in both Marriage and Family Therapy and Adoption Studies. My own experience as an adoptee and the fractured caregiving that followed led me to over 15 years of specialized work in the field of adoption prior to becoming a licensed therapist.
Photo of Karl Stenske, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Karl Stenske
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (949) 922-0734

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Relationship Issues
  • Adoption
  • Trauma and PTSD

Expertise

  • Disrupted Caregiving
  • Early Life Trauma
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If you've done the work on the surface and still feel stuck in old patterns, you're in the right place. I specialize in early life trauma, attachment wounds, and the quiet relational patterns that get set in childhood and run our adult lives. Depth-oriented, collaborative, and grounded. We go below the symptom to the story underneath.
Photo of Karl Stenske, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Karl Stenske
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (949) 922-0734
"
If you've done the work on the surface and still feel stuck in old patterns, you're in the right place. I specialize in early life trauma, attachment wounds, and the quiet relational patterns that get set in childhood and run our adult lives. Depth-oriented, collaborative, and grounded. We go below the symptom to the story underneath.
Photo of Karl Stenske, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Karl Stenske
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (949) 922-0734

2 Endorsements

Holly Pittaway
Holly Pittaway
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFTAPCCMAMSEMDR
Karl is a great, caring, compassionate clinician. I would recommend Karl to anyone looking for a warm, safe, emotionally focused approach. Karl would be a great fit for someone wanting to process and talk through relationships, trauma, and adoption.
Carter Hasbrook
Carter Hasbrook
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFTEMDR
I routinely refer couples, adoptees, and trauma survivors to Karl and do so with full confidence. This saying is overused and often trite, but Karl truly has a remarkable calming presence. He makes clients genuinely feel seen, understood, and heard. .

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Disrupted Caregiving Base
  • Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
  • Experiential Therapy
  • Psychoanalytic
  • Trauma Focused
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My approach is relational and insight-oriented, combining Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), attachment-based work, and psychodynamic exploration. We look beneath surface behaviors to understand what's driving them. Helping you make sense of your story, your patterns, and how to create lasting change from the inside out. Email, Text or Call. I am here when you are ready!
Photo of Karl Stenske, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Karl Stenske
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (949) 922-0734
"
My approach is relational and insight-oriented, combining Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), attachment-based work, and psychodynamic exploration. We look beneath surface behaviors to understand what's driving them. Helping you make sense of your story, your patterns, and how to create lasting change from the inside out. Email, Text or Call. I am here when you are ready!
Photo of Karl Stenske, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Karl Stenske
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (949) 922-0734

Location

Primary Location

15615 Alton Pkwy

Suite 450

Irvine, CA 92618

(949) 922-0734

Additional Location

Lake Forest, CA 92610

(949) 922-0734
"
Immediate availability! I have openings for in-person sessions. Call or email to book a free 15 minutes consult call.
Photo of Karl Stenske, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Karl Stenske
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Call for a free consultation now - (949) 922-0734
"
Immediate availability! I have openings for in-person sessions. Call or email to book a free 15 minutes consult call.
Photo of Karl Stenske, Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Karl Stenske
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Call for a free consultation now - (949) 922-0734