Karl
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
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I'm not going to spend this time telling you that your feelings are valid. You already know that. You've heard it from every podcast, every book, and every well-meaning friend, and it hasn't been enough.
What you're missing isn't validation alone. It's origin. Why the pattern formed, why it made complete sense at the time, and why it's still running the show years after the thing that built it is over. You can have all the insight in the world and still be stuck, because insight and change happen in two different places. Closing that gap is the actual work.
I'm a licensed marriage and family therapist in Irvine, and this is the work I do. I help adults trace the patterns of early life back to where they began, so present-day reactions, the relational distance, the inner critic, the "why am I still like this" feeling, finally start to make sense. Not as flaws, but as a story that can be understood and changed.
Alongside my own life experience as an adoptee, I built a framework for understanding how adoption, early trauma and disrupted caregiving continues to shape identity. This isn't therapy aimed at helping you tolerate your life as it is. It's aimed at resolution, so your nervous system can finally stop treating old hurt like it's still happening.
Call or Email Karl Stenske now for a free 15 minute consultation - (949) 922-0734
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Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $225
- Couple Sessions $225
Payment Methods
American Express, Cash, Check, Mastercard, VisaInsurance
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Karl Stenske
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (949) 922-0734
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 150804 Karl Stenske
- In Practice for 3 years
- Attended Touro University Worldwide, Marriage and Family Therapy, Graduated 2023
- Degree/Diploma from Goddard College BA - Psychology of Communication / 2009
- Degree/Diploma from Goddard College Master's Degree - Adoption Studies / 2011
Education and Years In Practice
Additional Credentials
Karl Stenske
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (949) 922-0734
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Relationship Issues
- Adoption
- Trauma and PTSD
Expertise
- Disrupted Caregiving
- Early Life Trauma
Karl Stenske
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (949) 922-0734
2 Endorsements
Client Focus
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Family
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Family
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Attachment-based
- Disrupted Caregiving Base
- Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Experiential Therapy
- Psychoanalytic
- Trauma Focused
Karl Stenske
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (949) 922-0734
Location
Additional Location
Lake Forest, CA 92610
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Karl Stenske
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Call for a free consultation now - (949) 922-0734