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Kara Tolman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
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Kara Tolman

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW (she, her)

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11 Endorsed
Wilmington, NC 28403
Let's Connect (910) 766-9634
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I specialize in assisting individuals with honoring their most authentic selves as well as navigating some of life’s toughest transitions. As individuals, we are constantly going through transitions whether its welcomed or unwelcomed. Transitions can influence emotional distress and have you questioning your values in life. I can help clients with identifying important values, instilling boundaries, and honoring your most authentic self. I enjoy collaborative and client centered sessions where we both are active participants in the client’s overall wellbeing.
Trauma can dissolve our sense of identity and impair our capacity for emotional regulation. Trauma impacts so much more than our mind but our whole bodies. I utilize body scans in sessions to help clients become self-aware of how their body keeps the score. I teach my clients helpful skills that are often practiced inside and outside of sessions.
Whether we experience trauma or not, we are all shaped by our environments and the experiences that happen to us. I enjoy putting time into developing a strong therapeutic alliance and utilizing empathy. Empathy drives connection and creates a safe environment for my clients to come to session to do the hard work.
Call or Kara Tolman now for a free 15 minute consultation - (910) 766-9634

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Making Waves Counseling and Wellness

Wilmington, NC 28403

(910) 766-9634
My website
I'm welcoming new clients! Join me in a warm, cozy office with a balcony, complimentary drinks & snacks, or connect via telehealth at home!
I specialize in Anxiety, Life Transitions and Peer Relationships 
$150 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals and couples  
Hi, I would love to assist in navigating through this crazy thing called life & often use humor in sessions!
Kara Tolman
Let's Connect (910) 766-9634
Photo of Kara Tolman, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Making Waves Counseling and Wellness

Wilmington, NC 28403

(910) 766-9634
My website
I'm welcoming new clients! Join me in a warm, cozy office with a balcony, complimentary drinks & snacks, or connect via telehealth at home!
I specialize in Anxiety, Life Transitions and Peer Relationships 
$150 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals and couples  
Hi, I would love to assist in navigating through this crazy thing called life & often use humor in sessions!
Kara Tolman

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $150
  • Couple Sessions $180

Payment Methods

American Express, Apple Cash, Cash, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • Aetna
  • Aetna State Health Plan
  • Ambetter
  • Anthem
  • Blue Value
  • BlueCross and BlueShield
  • Optum
  • TRICARE
  • United Medical Resources (UMR)
  • UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
  • Out of Network
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Tricare Prime clients will need a PCP referral. I'm happy to provide superbills for out-of-network reimbursement. Private pay can be a good option for those seeking extra privacy, security, or sessions without insurance paperwork.
Photo of Kara Tolman, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Kara Tolman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (910) 766-9634
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Tricare Prime clients will need a PCP referral. I'm happy to provide superbills for out-of-network reimbursement. Private pay can be a good option for those seeking extra privacy, security, or sessions without insurance paperwork.
Photo of Kara Tolman, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Kara Tolman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (910) 766-9634

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of North Carolina / C014666 Kara Tolman
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 8 years
  • Attended Edinboro University, MSW, Graduated 2017
  • Additional Credentials

  • Membership with Marine Raider Foundation 2017
  • Degree/Diploma from University Of North Carolina Wilmington Bachelor's of Social Work / 2017
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QPR Suicide Prevention, Polyvagal Theory, Somatic, Mindful Self Compassion, Trauma Informed Therapy, Talk Therapy. My sessions are tailored to fit your needs. Not a one size fits all approach!
Photo of Kara Tolman, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Kara Tolman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (910) 766-9634
"
QPR Suicide Prevention, Polyvagal Theory, Somatic, Mindful Self Compassion, Trauma Informed Therapy, Talk Therapy. My sessions are tailored to fit your needs. Not a one size fits all approach!
Photo of Kara Tolman, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Kara Tolman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (910) 766-9634

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Anxiety
  • Life Transitions
  • Peer Relationships

Expertise

  • Body Image
  • Career Counseling
  • Coping Skills
  • Divorce
  • Domestic Abuse
  • Family Conflict
  • First Responders
  • Military Spouse Support
  • Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
  • Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Stress
  • Thinking Disorders
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Women's Issues
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I support clients facing trauma, anxiety, relationship challenges, and military family stress. My goal is to create a safe, understanding space where you can heal, build resilience, and find healthier ways to move forward. I will be offering Accelerated Resolution Therapy in April 2026!
Photo of Kara Tolman, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Kara Tolman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (910) 766-9634
"
I support clients facing trauma, anxiety, relationship challenges, and military family stress. My goal is to create a safe, understanding space where you can heal, build resilience, and find healthier ways to move forward. I will be offering Accelerated Resolution Therapy in April 2026!
Photo of Kara Tolman, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Kara Tolman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (910) 766-9634

11 Endorsements

Rachel Hendricks
Rachel Hendricks
Clinical Social Work/TherapistMSWMEdLCSW
Kara is phenomenal at working with clients experiencing major life transitions and/or trying to live genuine, authentic lives. She embraces the Wilmington area and brings a passion to her work grounded in connecting the emotional experience with the physic...
Lauren Duffy
Lauren Duffy
Psychiatric Nurse PractitionerPMHNP
Kara is a compassionate and caring individual who provides exceptional care to her clients.
Connor Keeter
Connor Keeter
CounselorMSLCMHCNCC
Kara is a great therapist who shows empathy and compassion to all of her clients while also providing them with the tools they need to succeed!
Megan Best
Megan Best
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLCASLCSWT-RPS
Kara is a compassionate and skilled clinician who meets her clients where they are to co-create a safe space to engage healing. Her clients are fortunate to have her knowledge, support and encouragement as they navigate their journey!
Whitney Graves
Whitney Graves
Clinical Social Work/TherapistMSWLCSW
Kara is an exceptional therapist with a collaborative, person-centered approach. Personable and honest, she creates a warm environment while also being direct in her approach. I highly recommend Kara for meaningful and supportive therapy.
Staci Ellsworth
Staci Ellsworth
CounselorLCMHCA
Kara has such valuable knowledge and experience as a therapist and business owner, and she has a passion for helping others navigate the ins and outs of owning a practice! She is fun, relatable, and helps others reach their professional goals!
Clare Rolquin
Clare Rolquin
Clinical Social Work/TherapistMSWLCSW-ALCAS
Kara is truly dedicated to her clients, and I frequently recommend her to others. She's a warm, approachable therapist with years of experience refining her skills.
Angela Williams
Angela Williams
Psychiatric Nurse PractitionerMSNAPRNPMHNP
I've come to know Kara as both a colleague and a trusted resource in our community. She's warm, grounded, and deeply knowledgeable. With her expert care and genuine compassion, Kara is someone I confidently recommend to those seeking support.

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Single Parent

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Single Parent

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
  • Clinical Supervision and Licensed Supervisors
  • Coaching
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Compassion Focused
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Family / Marital
  • Interpersonal
  • Mindful Self Compassion (MSC)
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
  • Trauma Focused
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I prefer to use a blend of CBT and somatic interventions in my sessions with clients. I also enjoy incorporating mindful self compassion into sessions with clients to help them be kinder to themselves and decrease stress, depression, anxiety, and shame. Using these different blends helps my clients increase their overall happiness.
Photo of Kara Tolman, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Kara Tolman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (910) 766-9634
"
I prefer to use a blend of CBT and somatic interventions in my sessions with clients. I also enjoy incorporating mindful self compassion into sessions with clients to help them be kinder to themselves and decrease stress, depression, anxiety, and shame. Using these different blends helps my clients increase their overall happiness.
Photo of Kara Tolman, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Kara Tolman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (910) 766-9634

Location

Primary Location

Making Waves Counseling and Wellness

Wilmington, NC 28403

(910) 766-9634

Nearby Areas

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I'm welcoming new clients! Join me in a warm, cozy office with a balcony, complimentary drinks & snacks, or connect via telehealth at home!
Photo of Kara Tolman, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Kara Tolman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Call for a free consultation now - (910) 766-9634
"
I'm welcoming new clients! Join me in a warm, cozy office with a balcony, complimentary drinks & snacks, or connect via telehealth at home!
Photo of Kara Tolman, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Kara Tolman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Call for a free consultation now - (910) 766-9634