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Kaoru (Kay) Pasache
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
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Kaoru (Kay) Pasache

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate (she, her)

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
4 Endorsed
Riverside, CA 92507
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Do you feel stuck in your partnership or marriage due to communication difficulties or boundary issues? Are you finding it difficult to move forward as a couple due to individual traumas, unconscious biases, or differences in values, culture, perceptions, or attitudes? Have you felt that your dignity as a person has been harmed by oppression or macroaggressions from others? Do you identify as a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) and find interpersonal relationships emotionally exhausting? I would like to hear your story and support you as you process your feelings, engage in self-exploration and discovery, and cultivate self-compassion.
I am a firm believer in the power of dialogue. An hour of meaningful dialogue can be a transformative experience—one that leads to finding a lifelong friend or partner. I believe that such quality dialogue is also both possible and essential in the therapy room, helping couples and family members build mutual understanding.
Your courage in reaching out for help already demonstrates your strength; I respond with respect, compassion, and integrity. I strive to create a safe, nonjudgmental space.As a person-centered therapist with a collaborative and eclectic style, I see my role as walking alongside you—carrying a lantern as you navigate a dark and bumpy road—so you can see more
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My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Riverside, CA 92507

I currently focus on working with couples and underserved individuals and families. I respect and honor my clients' spirituality and faith.
I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and families  
The core principles of my practice are humanism, DEI, and integrity. I look forward to having dialogues with you.
Kaoru (Kay) Pasache
Connect with Kaoru (Kay) Pasache
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My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Riverside, CA 92507

I currently focus on working with couples and underserved individuals and families. I respect and honor my clients' spirituality and faith.
I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and families  
The core principles of my practice are humanism, DEI, and integrity. I look forward to having dialogues with you.
Kaoru (Kay) Pasache

Finances

Payment Methods

American Express, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • Aetna
  • Blue Shield
  • Cigna and Evernorth
  • Managed Health Network (MHN)
  • TRICARE
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Please feel free to inquire about my fees during the initial consultation.
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Kaoru (Kay) Pasache
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
"
Please feel free to inquire about my fees during the initial consultation.
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Kaoru (Kay) Pasache
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Prelicense by State of California / AMFT152518 Supervised by Dr. Avis Attaway (California / LMFT 34493) Kaoru (Kay) Pasache
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 4 years
  • Attended Touro University Worldwide, Master of Arts in Marriage & Family Therapy, Graduated 2024
  • Additional Credentials

  • Membership with American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy
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I am working towards LMFT licensure.
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Kaoru (Kay) Pasache
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
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I am working towards LMFT licensure.
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Kaoru (Kay) Pasache
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

Specialties and Expertise

Expertise

  • Anxiety
  • Behavioral Issues
  • Chronic Illness
  • Codependency
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Emotional Disturbance
  • Family Conflict
  • Infertility
  • Life Transitions
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Mood Disorders
  • Peer Relationships
  • Racial Identity
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Spirituality
  • Stress
  • Suicidal Ideation
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Women's Issues
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In some cases, I encourage holistic approaches, such as reviewing diet and daily activities, engaging with nature and animals, and using art and music. I am originally from Japan, so I naturally draw from Eastern approaches, including mindfulness and meditation, yoga, tapping, and acupressure. I am happy to share practical tips and somatic approaches to help ease emotional and physical symptoms.
Photo of Kaoru (Kay) Pasache, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
Kaoru (Kay) Pasache
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
"
In some cases, I encourage holistic approaches, such as reviewing diet and daily activities, engaging with nature and animals, and using art and music. I am originally from Japan, so I naturally draw from Eastern approaches, including mindfulness and meditation, yoga, tapping, and acupressure. I am happy to share practical tips and somatic approaches to help ease emotional and physical symptoms.
Photo of Kaoru (Kay) Pasache, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
Kaoru (Kay) Pasache
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

4 Endorsements

Diane L Maldonado
Diane L Maldonado
Pre-Licensed ProfessionalAPCC
Kaoru is an amazing therapist who is able to attune with her clients and find the best way to help them navigate their mental health and self healing by learning the newest techniques. She brings her skill and expertise to therapists she works with.
Paloma Margaret Mckenna
Paloma Margaret Mckenna
Pre-Licensed ProfessionalAMFTMA
Compassionate, kind and mindful. I recommend Kaoru :)
Kenneth Lyman
Kenneth Lyman
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Kaoru is a compassionate and intuitive therapist. Her presence is grounding and affirming, creating a safe space for meaningful healing and growth. She brings clinical skill, emotional depth, and genuine care to her work. I wholeheartedly recommend her.
Damian Lucas Margason
Damian Lucas Margason
Pre-Licensed ProfessionalBAMSAMFT
Kaoru is a warm and caring therapist. She practices with a wholistic approach, emphasizing the client's well being and comfort towards healing deep wounds.

Client Focus

Age

Children (6 to 10)
Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Immuno-disorders
Non-Binary Allied
Racial Justice Allied

Ethnicity

Asian
Other Racial or Ethnic Background

I also speak

Japanese

Age

Children (6 to 10)
Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Immuno-disorders
Non-Binary Allied
Racial Justice Allied

Ethnicity

Asian
Other Racial or Ethnic Background

I also speak

Japanese

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Compassion Focused
  • Comprehensive Resource Model (trauma-informed)
  • Eclectic
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Existential
  • Expressive Arts
  • Family Systems
  • Imago
  • Multicultural
  • Person-Centered
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
  • Somatic
  • Strength-Based
  • Trauma Focused
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My personal beliefs align with person-centered and existential therapy. In many circumstances, we don't have control over obstacles in life. Still, what choices do we make to move forward? How do we continue to grow as a person? From the family systems perspective, we can review multiple aspects of family and explore how they have impacted your development and coping methods.
Photo of Kaoru (Kay) Pasache, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
Kaoru (Kay) Pasache
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
"
My personal beliefs align with person-centered and existential therapy. In many circumstances, we don't have control over obstacles in life. Still, what choices do we make to move forward? How do we continue to grow as a person? From the family systems perspective, we can review multiple aspects of family and explore how they have impacted your development and coping methods.
Photo of Kaoru (Kay) Pasache, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
Kaoru (Kay) Pasache
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

Location

Primary Location

Riverside, CA 92507

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I currently focus on working with couples and underserved individuals and families. I respect and honor my clients' spirituality and faith.
Photo of Kaoru (Kay) Pasache, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
Kaoru (Kay) Pasache
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
"
I currently focus on working with couples and underserved individuals and families. I respect and honor my clients' spirituality and faith.
Photo of Kaoru (Kay) Pasache, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
Kaoru (Kay) Pasache
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate