Teletherapy for Kansas

Most of my clients come to me because they’re struggling with their sex life and they’re pretty sure it’s all their fault. They’re not having the kind of sex that they want or sex has just become an enormous problem in their relationship. I often find that at the root of these issues surrounding sexuality is shame. Sometimes that shame is connected to: poor self-esteem or body image, believing you don’t deserve sexual pleasure, a belief that whatever you’re into is just too "weird" and you want to feel “normal” but can’t shake this particular desire, or societal & cultural expectations of gender roles.

​​You've been experiencing sexual issues recently or maybe for some time. You may be experiencing erectile difficulties or pain during sex . You’ve tried everything you’ve found on the internet but still, it's not working how you want. It's frustrating, isolating, infuriating, and confusing. It may even be difficult to remember a time when things didn’t feel this way. But now, you’re ready for some relief. You’re ready to break the pattern and have your body and brain on the same page. You're ready for a more fulfilled sex life. And most of all, you’re ready to feel more connected in your sexuality !

I am a holistic and somatic therapist. There are times in life where we get stuck; locked in traumas of the past, or fearful of things to come. Our body tells us we’re on the wrong path through anxiety, disordered eating, conflict in our relationships, GI problems, and other adverse symptoms. In therapy, I help you discover what your body is telling you. Through Somatic Experiencing, you’ll learn how to heal the intensity of your experience of past events that keeps you feeling overwhelmed and settle your nervous system in the here and now. For those seeking nutritional psychology this is used to improve anxiety & other symptoms.

Welcome to my profile! Do you want better relationships and to feel more sexually alive? If this is you, then I'd like to help you create the type of meaningful life, fulfilling relationships, and enjoyable sexuality you want. I want to empower you to live your best life and to feel good about your sexuality . I am a nationally certified sex therapist (aka tons of training) and specialize in sexual health issues such as little to no interest in sex , men's and women's sex concerns, erectile dysfunction, sexual pain, infidelity, sexual identity, midlife and post-menopausal issues.

If you're searching for an experienced therapist to help you overcome challenges and achieve a fulfilling life, look no further. As a passionate therapist, activist, and scholar specializing in repairing trauma and relational dysfunction, I offer specialized expertise in improving relationships, sex therapy , trauma therapy, and gender-affirming care. My trauma-informed approach focuses on exploring and understanding unmet attachment needs, which can often unconsciously sabotage our well-being. Contact me today to take the first step towards a happier, more fulfilling life. If you're struggling with:

Three decades of experience helping couples and individuals overcome problems and begin to thrive again. I work with individuals and couples struggling with everything from Sexual Secrets to Breaches in Trust such as Infidelity, Resentments, Lies, Sex , Kinks, Non-traditional Relationships, Mixed Orientation Relationships, ENM, Lifestyle, Bi+ topics, and the myriad of challenges that we all face. They don't have to be road blocks, it's what we do with them and how we use them to learn and grow to become a better partner and ally to each other and ourselves. See the link to the left for our website for more info.

I am a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in Kansas and a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Washington State who works from a CBT perspective but does utilize a collaborative style. My approach is to work with you and help you realize your strengths and to find healthy ways to cope with difficult situations in your life. I work with adolescents(13-18), adults and geriatric on a variety of mental health concerns, however, I specialize in helping individuals with mood disorders and sexual addiction/dysfunction.

I sincerely trust in an individual’s ability to heal, even from profound pain and trauma, and have dedicated my professional life to guiding patients through some of the most challenging times of their lives. My practice focuses on intimacy and reproductive well-being, as well as a wide range of psychological concerns, including: anxiety, recovery following illness or medical trauma, relationship concerns, and grief. I also make it a sincere priority to provide a welcoming space for the LGBTQIA community. My website presents a great deal of information about sexual therapy, simply because it is often omitted from healing, sadly.

You want to improve your relationship without spending months in therapy. You want to make significant changes with a therapist to whom you feel a connection. You wish you could be content, happy, engaged, and connected with your partner like you used to be. Perhaps porn or infidelity has devastated your relationship. Or, you feel unhappy, disconnected, stuck, and hopeless in other ways. Maybe you're experiencing conflict resolution difficulty, intimacy and sexuality issues, parenting disagreements, or financial conflicts. Gottman Therapy is the gold standard of couples therapy for a reseached-based reason.

I am a Licensed Clinical Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist from the State of Kansas with a focus on sexual issues and disorders. I am a member of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy and American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists. I celebrate the diversity of each family unit. I enjoy working with all kinds of family systems: individuals, couples (married or unmarried), as well as variety of backgrounds, sexual orientations, ages, and cultures.

I'm a Sex -Positive Relationship Therapist. I practice Gottman Method Couples Therapy, which integrates empirical evidence on what makes love last. Based on 40 years of relationship research, the Gottman approach takes the guess-work out of how we can cultivate strong and lasting relationships. I utilize the Developmental Model for Couples to support my clients with actualizing their interpersonal potential, while honoring their individuality in the context of their relationships.

At GENEX, Rae Bowerman (pronouns they/them) utilizes trauma-informed therapeutic modalities and approaches in their psychotherapy work, prioritizing an overarching gender-expansive awareness, respect, and validation. Rae believes the key to a solid, productive, trusting therapeutic relationship comes from acknowledging each client as unique, the expert of their own experiences; this is the foundation of each and every therapeutic interaction at GENEX. Soothing drinks, tasty treats, comfy pillows, a calm friendly goldendoodle named Ruby, and a refreshingly unconventional therapist all are here when you're ready to schedule.

As a Licensed Clinical Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist through AASECT since 2005, I offer a dynamic and intensive relationship therapy/coaching experience. I have many years of experience diagnosing and treating a variety of sexually related issues, in addition to numerous other behavioral health issues, including mood disorders and substance abuse/addiction. I believe a therapy session is a very sacred space. I consider it a privilege to be chosen to accompany someone into that space and bear witness to their work.

I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and have 20 years of experience working with adolescents and adults. I create a safe, non-judgmental environment for you to work on achieving your goals. I would love the opportunity to work with you on finding the healthiest, happiest version of you! I have experience working with sexual problematic behaviors, revitalizing sexual activity and partner support. I also work with individuals with anxiety, depression and trauma. I work with issues of sexual identity/orientation and consensual non-monogamy. My practice is LGBTQ affirmative.

I’m a psychologist fueled by a deep sense of compassion and a desire to bring about real healing in the lives of my clients. Cultivating greater awareness in the mind, body, soul and spirit, I can guide you towards creating a more awakened and centered life. By learning how to reduce reactivity to events, situations and people, you can learn to respond consciously to the things you encounter and begin to create the life you want to live. This process can help move you away from reacting to life towards finding peace within yourself, and connecting more powerfully to your true life purpose.

I specialize in treating anxiety, depression, relational issues and single sexuality struggles. My desire is to help my clients grow emotionally, spiritually and behaviorally from a Christian perspective. I have a passion working alongside individuals who desire to bring new life to themselves and their relationships and help them experience healthy growth.

I am a Licensed Clinical Marriage and Family Therapist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist. My practice is trauma informed to address symptoms of PTSD and Acute Stress and I have received trainings in Hypnotherapy and Internal Family Systems as well as CBT and DBT. I incorporate mindfulness practices into my work and periodically run groups for those who desire to develop these skills more fully. Please know that my practice is LGBTQIA affirmative and I will not provide any form of conversion therapy.

Therapy is about making a personal connection for change. Over 30 years as a family psychologist I've logged some 31,000 hours face-to-face with teens, young adults, couples and families on issues ranging from life adjustment to major psychological disorders. I am a certified sex therapist (AASECT) and Board Certified in Couples and Family Psychology (ABPP). I'm equally comfortable with straight and LGBTQ clients. Please check my website for further details on my training, experience, books and scope of practice.