Kalaya Irby

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, AMFT

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4 Endorsed

Victorville, CA 92392

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Have you ever heard promises like, "This is the last time," or excuses like, "It’s not a big deal," only to discover the truth felt like a deeper wound? Maybe you’re stuck replaying the lies, the betrayal, or the pain of broken trust, wondering how you got here—or if things will ever feel normal again. If this resonates, you’re not alone. Feeling this way is a sign that you’re ready for clarity, healing, and change.

I help betrayed partners heal from the pain of infidelity and broken trust, offering a safe space to process emotions and rebuild security. I also offer couples support using a holistic approach, combining evidence-based techniques and integrating therapy for the addict, partner, and couple to restore trust, improve communication, and foster lasting change.

Whether you need support as an individual or as a couple, I provide a safe space to navigate the hurt, process emotions, and take steps toward healing and growth. You don’t have to face this alone—I’m here to walk with you every step of the way.

Call or Email Kalaya Irby now for a free 15 minute consultation - (760) 823-9167

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Victorville, CA 92392

(760) 823-9167

I offer therapy that meets you where you are. Connect with me from the comfort and security of your own home, creating a safe space to heal.

$150 Per Session, I accept insurance

I see individuals, couples and families

Welcome

Let's Connect (760) 823-9167

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Victorville, CA 92392

(760) 823-9167

I offer therapy that meets you where you are. Connect with me from the comfort and security of your own home, creating a safe space to heal.

$150 Per Session, I accept insurance

I see individuals, couples and families

Welcome

Finances

Fees

Individual Sessions $150
Couple Sessions $150
Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Cash, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

Aetna
Blue Shield
Optum
TRICARE
TriWest
UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH

I am in-network for Optum/United Healthcare, Aetna, BlueShield of CA, Cigna/Evernorth, TriWest and TriCareWest. I can also provide a superbly for my out-of care network clients and help with reimbursement. Please reach out with any questions, I'm happy to work with you to keep therapy affordable.

Kalaya Irby

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, AMFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (760) 823-9167

Kalaya Irby

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, AMFT

Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (760) 823-9167

Qualifications

Verified by Psychology Today Prelicense by State of California / AMFT 149022 Supervised by Alex Lerza (California / 83946) Kalaya Irby

Additional Credentials

Prelicense by State of California / AMFT 149022

Kalaya Irby

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, AMFT

Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. Email or (760) 823-9167

Kalaya Irby

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, AMFT

Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. Email or (760) 823-9167

Specialties and Expertise

Expertise

Addiction
Anxiety
Child
Chronic Impulsivity
Coping Skills
Depression
Divorce
Infidelity
Life Coaching
Life Transitions
Marital and Premarital
Relationship Issues
Sex Therapy
Sexual Addiction
Veterans

Kalaya Irby

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, AMFT

Do these issues align with your needs? Email or (760) 823-9167

Kalaya Irby

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, AMFT

Do these issues align with your needs? Email or (760) 823-9167

4 Endorsements

Juen Arzadon

Counselor, MA, APCC, AMFT

Kalaya is a compassionate therapist who expertly guides betrayed partners through the healing process after infidelity. Her holistic, evidence-based approach creates a safe environment for individuals and couples to rebuild trust and improve communication.

Jeremy Larson

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, AMFT, APCC

Kalaya is a supportive, helpful, and compassionate therapist. She helps betrayed partners and supports individuals and couples with healing and growth. If you want a great therapist to meet you where you are, choose Kalaya.

Alex Lerza

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CSAT

I highly recommend Kalaya to anyone, especially betrayed partners and couples who have been hurt by porn or sex addiction. She excels at blending compassion and a structured approach.

Eric Ford

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, APCC, AMFT

Kalaya is thoughtful, present and hopeful in many interactions I've had with her as a colleague at ITR. She strives to bring her best with clients, helping them feel safe and cared for. She understands addiction, trauma and family systems. Recommended!

Client Focus

Age

Preteen ,

Teen ,

Adults ,

Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals ,

Couples ,

Family

Communities

Single Mother

Religion

Christian

Age

Preteen ,

Teen ,

Adults ,

Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals ,

Couples ,

Family

Communities

Single Mother

Religion

Christian

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

Christian Counseling
Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
Culturally Sensitive
Family / Marital
Family Systems
Integrative
Internal Family Systems (IFS)
Person-Centered
Psychodynamic
Strength-Based

Kalaya Irby

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, AMFT

Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. Email or (760) 823-9167

Kalaya Irby

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, AMFT

Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. Email or (760) 823-9167

Location

Primary Location

Victorville, CA 92392

(760) 823-9167

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Nearby Areas

Cities

Counties

Zips

Neighborhoods

I offer therapy that meets you where you are. Connect with me from the comfort and security of your own home, creating a safe space to heal.

Kalaya Irby

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, AMFT

Call for a free consultation now - (760) 823-9167

I offer therapy that meets you where you are. Connect with me from the comfort and security of your own home, creating a safe space to heal.

Kalaya Irby

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, AMFT

Call for a free consultation now - (760) 823-9167