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Kai Lillie

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT

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Available both in-person and online
San Luis Obispo, CA 93401
What brings you here? If you are scrolling through these pages, you are likely looking for support, either for yourself or someone you care about. While it is easier now to find psychological support, finding the right person to work with is as important as ever. While working with me you will be received in a warm, non-judgmental, and curiosity filled environment. While considering what brought you into therapy, we will reflect on the circumstances contributing to where you are today. Our focus will be on integrating what has been in order to develop into what can be.
I work with individuals, families, children, couples, and groups. With individuals, adults and children, I specialize in supporting clients as they work through and integrating peak life experiences; unpacking the potent stories we weave of our pasts so that we can create the stories we want to live out in our futures.
With families and couples. my focusing is on understanding the dynamics of each member, and how these dynamics create the cycles that play out within the system. Often the focus is on developing and strengthening understanding and healthy communication. Email or call to see if what we might do together is the support you’re seeking.
Call or Kai Lillie now for a free 15 minute consultation - (510) 990-9815

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

San Luis Obispo, CA 93401

(510) 990-9815

Oakland, CA 94618

My website
I am only able to see people in person in San Luis Obispo at The Trauma Healing Center. All other sessions will be conducted online.
$180 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  
Hi, you've found my Psychology today page, please reach out if you have any questions.
Kai Lillie
Let's Connect (510) 990-9815
Photo of Kai Lillie, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

San Luis Obispo, CA 93401

(510) 990-9815

Oakland, CA 94618

My website
I am only able to see people in person in San Luis Obispo at The Trauma Healing Center. All other sessions will be conducted online.
$180 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  
Hi, you've found my Psychology today page, please reach out if you have any questions.
Kai Lillie

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $180
  • Couple Sessions $205
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Kai Lillie
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Check fees and, if listed, ask to verify your insurance coverage. or (510) 990-9815
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Kai Lillie
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Check fees and, if listed, ask to verify your insurance coverage. or (510) 990-9815

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 137200 Kai Lillie
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 7 years
  • Attended Pacifica Graduate Institute, MA Counseling Psychology, Graduated 2021
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Kai Lillie
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. or (510) 990-9815
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Kai Lillie
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. or (510) 990-9815

Specialties and Expertise

Expertise

  • Anxiety
  • Body Image
  • Career Counseling
  • Child
  • Codependency
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Family Conflict
  • Grief
  • Infertility
  • Infidelity
  • Internet Addiction
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Coaching
  • Life Transitions
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Men's Issues
  • Peak-Experience Integration
  • Polyamory & ENM
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
  • Sexual Addiction
  • Spirituality
  • Stress
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Kai Lillie
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Do these issues align with your needs? or (510) 990-9815
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Kai Lillie
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Do these issues align with your needs? or (510) 990-9815

6 Endorsements

Stephanie Bain
Stephanie Bain
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFT
Kai is a dynamic clinician who offers an integrative depth approach while also utilizing evidence-based modalities.
Hanne Steen
Hanne Steen
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Kai is an exceptionally thoughtful, warm, and compassionate clinician and I would highly recommend working with him.
Liam Kalin McAuliffe
Liam Kalin McAuliffe
Marriage & Family TherapistMTSLMFT
Kai creates a remarkably safe space in which he offers a special blend of supportive warmth and transformative insight.
Michael Harris
Michael Harris
Marriage & Family TherapistMSLMFT
Kai is genuine, heartfelt, and brings an uplifting energy to any room. I highly recommend him as a therapist.
Rebecca Brewster
Rebecca Brewster
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFTMA
Kai has an empathetic, non-judgmental, and kind presence. He is able to approach with a depth psychological lens that is both unique and creative.
Jennie Tranter
Jennie Tranter
Marriage & Family TherapistMALPCCLMFT
Kai is a skillful clinician who brings his keen intellect and endless curiosity along with his open heart to deeply understanding and supporting his clients through their life experiences and challenges with great empathy and insight.

Client Focus

Age

Preteen
Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Gay Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Transgender Allied

Age

Preteen
Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Gay Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Transgender Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Coaching
  • Compassion Focused
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
  • Eclectic
  • Existential
  • Family / Marital
  • Family Systems
  • Feminist
  • Humanistic
  • Integrative
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Jungian
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Multicultural
  • Narrative
  • Neuro-Linguistic (NLP)
  • Person-Centered
  • Play Therapy
  • Positive Psychology
  • Psychoanalytic
  • Psychodynamic
  • Relational
  • Somatic
  • Strength-Based
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Kai Lillie
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (510) 990-9815
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Kai Lillie
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (510) 990-9815

Location

Primary Location

San Luis Obispo, CA 93401

(510) 990-9815

Additional Location

Oakland, CA 94618

(510) 990-9815
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I am only able to see people in person in San Luis Obispo at The Trauma Healing Center. All other sessions will be conducted online.
Photo of Kai Lillie, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Kai Lillie
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (510) 990-9815
"
I am only able to see people in person in San Luis Obispo at The Trauma Healing Center. All other sessions will be conducted online.
Photo of Kai Lillie, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Kai Lillie
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (510) 990-9815