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Kady Fleckenstein
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT

Kady Fleckenstein

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT (she, her)

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
20 Endorsed
2030 Viborg Rd., Suite 107, Solvang, CA 93463
Let's Connect (805) 303-5383
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Now accepting CA adults and couples for in-person (Solvang) and online sessions! Have you tried therapy before and felt you kept walking away without tangible tools for change? Are you new to therapy and unsure where to start? Whether your problems feel small or insurmountable, therapy is an excellent way to learn new ways to face any obstacle. Sometimes we're not sure what exactly is wrong but that we just want things to change. In my practice, I provide an honest, compassionate approach that empowers you to become your best self. If you are looking for change and growth, you have come to the right place!
Many clients come to me with reoccurring challenges due to anxiety, relationship issues, chronic pain or illness, divorce, parenting, ADHD, and so much more. We will focus on positive change without falling trap to toxic positivity that can lead us feeling more isolated and alone. I will always be transparent with you and encourage you to do the same.
As one of my favorite sayings goes: "Nothing Changes if Nothing Changes". Together, with you at the helm, we will address your needs by providing comprehensive tools that lead to real change. By focusing on the mind and the body through somatic and cognitive approaches, we will address what is holding you back and how to move forward toward your goals.
Call or Kady Fleckenstein now for a free 15 minute consultation - (805) 303-5383

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

2030 Viborg Rd.

Suite 107

Solvang, CA 93463 map

(805) 303-5383

Virtual Sessions

Santa Barbara, CA 93101

Welcome! I offer therapy sessions in-person and online (or a mix of both!) with daytime and evening sessions (based on availability).
I specialize in Relationship Issues, Autoimmune disease and pain disorders and Anxiety 
$200 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  
I'm looking forward to helping you reach your goals in therapy!
Kady Fleckenstein
Let's Connect (805) 303-5383
Photo of Kady Fleckenstein, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

2030 Viborg Rd.

Suite 107

Solvang, CA 93463 map

(805) 303-5383

Virtual Sessions

Santa Barbara, CA 93101

Welcome! I offer therapy sessions in-person and online (or a mix of both!) with daytime and evening sessions (based on availability).
I specialize in Relationship Issues, Autoimmune disease and pain disorders and Anxiety 
$200 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  
I'm looking forward to helping you reach your goals in therapy!
Kady Fleckenstein

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $200
  • Couple Sessions $200
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Cash, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa, Zelle
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I currently do not accept insurance. I am happy to walk you through how to submit a superbill to your insurance; available upon request.
Photo of Kady Fleckenstein, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Kady Fleckenstein
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 303-5383
"
I currently do not accept insurance. I am happy to walk you through how to submit a superbill to your insurance; available upon request.
Photo of Kady Fleckenstein, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Kady Fleckenstein
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 303-5383

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 152625 Kady Fleckenstein
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 2 years
  • Attended Antioch University Santa Barbara, Masters in Clinical Psychology, Graduated 2022
  • Additional Credentials

  • Certificate from Psychological First Aid National Center for PTSD & The National Child Traumatic Stress Network / 2020
  • Certificate from Youth Mental Health First Aid Mental Health First Aid / 2021
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I have over 20 years experience in communications, chronic pain and chronic illness. In addition, I have completed well over 100 trainings on relationships, sex, anxiety, chronic pain, grief, trauma, play therapy, CBT, DBT, ACT, IFS, mindfulness, nutrition and much more.
Photo of Kady Fleckenstein, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Kady Fleckenstein
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 303-5383
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I have over 20 years experience in communications, chronic pain and chronic illness. In addition, I have completed well over 100 trainings on relationships, sex, anxiety, chronic pain, grief, trauma, play therapy, CBT, DBT, ACT, IFS, mindfulness, nutrition and much more.
Photo of Kady Fleckenstein, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Kady Fleckenstein
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 303-5383

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Relationship Issues
  • Autoimmune disease and pain disorders
  • Anxiety

Expertise

  • Addiction
  • ADHD
  • Anger Management
  • Behavioral Issues
  • Career Counseling
  • Child
  • Chronic Illness
  • Chronic Pain
  • Codependency
  • Coping Skills
  • Divorce
  • Family Conflict
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Coaching
  • Life Transitions
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
  • Parenting
  • School Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Sex Therapy
  • Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
  • Stress
  • Veterans
  • Women's Issues
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I work with clients to reduce symptoms (e.g. anxiety, depression, chronic pain, conflict), improve or navigate their relationships (marriage, divorce, sex, etc.), and start to live an intentional life. During our first session we will talk about goals you want to set in therapy so we can track progress as we go. In the first month of therapy, my clients learn new tools to improve their life.
Photo of Kady Fleckenstein, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Kady Fleckenstein
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 303-5383
"
I work with clients to reduce symptoms (e.g. anxiety, depression, chronic pain, conflict), improve or navigate their relationships (marriage, divorce, sex, etc.), and start to live an intentional life. During our first session we will talk about goals you want to set in therapy so we can track progress as we go. In the first month of therapy, my clients learn new tools to improve their life.
Photo of Kady Fleckenstein, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Kady Fleckenstein
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 303-5383

20 Endorsements

Nicole A. Botaitis
Nicole A. Botaitis
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFTLPCC
Kady uses a client-centered approach, integrating various modalities and provides tangible coping tools so that her clients walk away feeling empowered. She is skilled, empathetic & collaborates with her clients so they feel heard. I highly recommend Kady!
Claire Blakey
Claire Blakey
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFTPMH-C
Kady, where do I begin!? 10/10! If you are looking for a therapist who brings presence, assertiveness, and rolls up her sleeves and supports you in doing the hard internal work of looking inward and processing challenging moments - Kady is your person!
Natalie Alderson┃somatic therapy
Natalie Alderson┃somatic therapy
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Kady is a truly gifted therapist. She is dedicated to helping her clients find the growth, tools, and resources to create lasting change. Her approach is honest and compassionate, while putting her clients unique needs at the forefront of her work. 10/10!
Riley Ellis
Riley Ellis
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFT
I highly recommend Kady for anyone seeking compassionate, insightful, and effective therapy. With a deep knowledge of therapeutic techniques and a genuine commitment to helping others, Kady creates a safe and supportive space for her clients.
Jack May
Jack May
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFTCAMFCSAT
I am happy to endorse Kady! Her approach to therapy with her clients is effective and compassionate. Kady empowers people to be the best version of themselves.
Annie Ewald
Annie Ewald
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Kady is a highly skilled clinician who is deeply committed to the well-being of her clients. I highly recommend!
Danielle Sharkey
Danielle Sharkey
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateMAAMFT
Kady offers a plethora of tools and skills that help clients make sustainable changes. Her direct, open-minded approach guides clients in exploring the mind/body connection and how it affects their emotions and life. I highly recommend her.
Haley Fuller
Haley Fuller
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateMAAMFT
Kady is deeply committed to providing thorough and effective care for her clients. She is warm, attuned and will not leave any stone unturned.
Jeremy Bohrer
Jeremy Bohrer
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateMAAMFT
Kady's genuine, honest, and thoughtful approach creates a deep and beneficial relationship between her and all of her clients. I highly recommend her.
Christina Fornecker
Christina Fornecker
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateAMFT
Kady has a keen ability to conceptualize complex psychological issues, and a remarkable capacity for empathetic, client-centered care. She has a skill in creating a safe, supportive, and transformative therapeutic environment.
Jonathan Makiri
Jonathan Makiri
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateMAAMFT
Kady provides compassionate and dynamic support, insight, and tools, that empower her clients to strengthen their self- awareness, self-esteem and relationships. She is hard working, resourceful, creative, driven, and a damn good therapist.
Natalie Reina
Natalie Reina
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateAMFT
Kady is thorough, kind and motivated to find what works best for you. She is constantly researching new techniques and styles to be the therapist you need! She is energetic, warm and compassionate. Anyone would benefit greatly from working with her.
Edward Fales
Edward Fales
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Kady is a compassionate, skilled therapist who brings focus, motivation, and passion to her work. With an extensive wealth of tools and exceptional guidance, she's perfect for those ready to make meaningful changes. I can't recommend her enough.
Erica Bruckner
Erica Bruckner
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateMAAMFT
Kady is a clever, creative, and deeply committed therapist. With warmth, professionalism, and compassion, Kady is incredibly gifted in meeting her clients where they are at and helping them get where they want to go.
Erika Fales
Erika Fales
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Kady combines such an effective blend of realism and enthusiasm, she is a highly skilled therapist. She shows up for her clients with her whole heart, intellect, and wit. I highly recommend Kady to anyone looking to be supported in their healing journey.
Nathan Seaford
Nathan Seaford
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateAMFT
Kady is one of the most thorough and careful clinicians I've ever met. She immerses herself in research and training, offering high expertise in a wade range of areas. I trust her to find tools, strategies, and paths to relief for anyone in her office.
Ceci Frost
Ceci Frost
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateAMFT
Kady is an excellent clinician who offers both expertise and a supportive environment for her clients. It's clear that she provides a space where people can feel safe to process and work through their challenges. You will feel understood and welcomed!
Katie Pederson
Katie Pederson
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateMAAMFT
Kady is dedicated, resourceful, and innovative. I highly recommend her.
LightHaven Therapy for Women and Children
LightHaven Therapy for Women and Children
Marriage & Family TherapistMAPhDLMFT
Kady has been a wonderful resource for clients in our community and I am always more than happy to refer clients to her practice as I know they will be in good hands!
Annie Finch
Annie Finch
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFTEMDRCSATCADC I
Kady is a highly skilled therapist with a compassionate and thoughtful approach. She connects with clients in a way that builds trust and encourages meaningful progress, supporting them as they move forward with clarity, balance, and well-being.

Client Focus

Age

Preteen
Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Immuno-disorders
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Single Parent
Transgender Allied

Age

Preteen
Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Immuno-disorders
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Single Parent
Transgender Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
  • Family / Marital
  • Family Systems
  • Feminist
  • Integrative
  • Multicultural
  • Narrative
  • Person-Centered
  • Psychodynamic
  • Sandplay
  • Somatic
  • Strength-Based
  • Trauma Focused
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I take an integrated approach using neurobiology to empower clients to learn how their brain and nervous system works as the foundation to healing, growth and change. My treatment approach is customized to help you with your unique brain, body and life circumstances. During treatment you'll learn how to live intentionally by learning new skills for a purposeful, fulfilling life.
Photo of Kady Fleckenstein, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Kady Fleckenstein
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 303-5383
"
I take an integrated approach using neurobiology to empower clients to learn how their brain and nervous system works as the foundation to healing, growth and change. My treatment approach is customized to help you with your unique brain, body and life circumstances. During treatment you'll learn how to live intentionally by learning new skills for a purposeful, fulfilling life.
Photo of Kady Fleckenstein, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Kady Fleckenstein
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 303-5383

Location

Primary Location

2030 Viborg Rd.

Suite 107

Solvang, CA 93463

(805) 303-5383

Additional Location

Virtual Sessions

Santa Barbara, CA 93101

(805) 303-5383
"
Welcome! I offer therapy sessions in-person and online (or a mix of both!) with daytime and evening sessions (based on availability).
Photo of Kady Fleckenstein, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Kady Fleckenstein
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (805) 303-5383
"
Welcome! I offer therapy sessions in-person and online (or a mix of both!) with daytime and evening sessions (based on availability).
Photo of Kady Fleckenstein, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Kady Fleckenstein
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (805) 303-5383