Julie Koven, PhD - Trauma & Relationships

Psychologist, PhD

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Julie Koven, PhD - Trauma & Relationships

Psychologist, PhD (she, her)

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You’ve spent so long tuning into others’ needs and performing for society that it’s hard to tell what you want for yourself. You’re disconnected from your emotions, chronically overthinking, and can’t trust your gut. Setting boundaries feels scary, and asking for more brings guilt, so you stay quiet, over-explain, or go along with things that don’t actually feel good. Your inner voice says you’re not enough, yet you feel burnt out and resentful. Deep down, you want honest, fulfilling relationships where you can be fully yourself, but you’re unsure what kind of partner or relationship structure feels right for you.

In therapy, we’ll reconnect with your suppressed emotions and explore how past experiences shape your current patterns. Together, we’ll clarify your needs and use evidence-based approaches like CBT and ACT to shift unhelpful thinking, improve communication skills, and make meaningful, values-aligned changes.

I specialize in working with queer and ENM folks navigating dating and relationships outside traditional scripts. Whether you’re defining boundaries, exploring desire, or working through jealousy, you want support that understands your world. My approach is trauma-informed, sex-positive, and culturally sensitive. Email me for a free consultation.

Call or Email Julie Koven, PhD - Trauma & Relationships now for a free 15 minute consultation - (646) 859-2354

Practice at a Glance

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New York, NY 10016

(646) 859-2354

Jersey City, NJ 07302

Website

I offer virtual sessions for clients in NY & NJ. I'm available on weekdays at times that can be flexible with your schedule.

I specialize in Anxiety, Trauma and PTSD and Relationship Issues

$225 Per Session, I accept insurance

Individual one-on-one therapy

Check out my video to hear about my areas of specialty! Learn more about my approach on my website: www.juliekovenphd.com

Julie Koven, PhD - Trauma & Relationships

Let's Connect (646) 859-2354

Practice at a Glance

Waitlist. Contact to join the list for online therapy.

New York, NY 10016

(646) 859-2354

Jersey City, NJ 07302

Website

I offer virtual sessions for clients in NY & NJ. I'm available on weekdays at times that can be flexible with your schedule.

I specialize in Anxiety, Trauma and PTSD and Relationship Issues

$225 Per Session, I accept insurance

Individual one-on-one therapy

Check out my video to hear about my areas of specialty! Learn more about my approach on my website: www.juliekovenphd.com

Finances

Fees

Individual Sessions $225
Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa, Zelle

Insurance

Aetna
Out of Network

I am private pay and in-network with Aetna. For out-of-network clients, I can provide a superbill, and if cost is a barrier, please feel free to ask about sliding scale.

Julie Koven, PhD - Trauma & Relationships

Psychologist, PhD

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (646) 859-2354

I am private pay and in-network with Aetna. For out-of-network clients, I can provide a superbill, and if cost is a barrier, please feel free to ask about sliding scale.

Julie Koven, PhD - Trauma & Relationships

Psychologist, PhD

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (646) 859-2354

Qualifications

Psychologist: Julie Koven

Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of New York / 025939 Julie Koven

Education and Years In Practice

In Practice for 12 years

Attended University of Massachusetts Boston, Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology, Graduated 2021

Additional Credentials

License: New Jersey Practicing Psychologist 35SI00797200

Degree/Diploma from University of Pennsylvania M.S.Ed. Mental Health Counseling / 2016

In addition to being a licensed psychologist, I am also a professor of psychology and mental health counseling.

Julie Koven, PhD - Trauma & Relationships

Psychologist, PhD

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (646) 859-2354

In addition to being a licensed psychologist, I am also a professor of psychology and mental health counseling.

Julie Koven, PhD - Trauma & Relationships

Psychologist, PhD

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (646) 859-2354

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

Anxiety
Trauma and PTSD
Relationship Issues

Expertise

ADHD
Depression
Family Conflict
LGBTQ+
Life Transitions
Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
Polyamory & ENM
Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
Women's Issues

You are not your diagnosis! I want to get to know you and your story. Together, we'll identify what is causing you suffering and create a plan for making the changes you need to improve your quality of life.

Julie Koven, PhD - Trauma & Relationships

Psychologist, PhD

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (646) 859-2354

Julie Koven, PhD - Trauma & Relationships

Psychologist, PhD

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (646) 859-2354

11 Endorsements

Chloe Kinman - Anxiety, Trauma & Chronic Illness

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW

Julie is a warm and compassionate therapist who builds meaningful connections with her clients. If you're looking for relationship support, navigating setting boundaries and exploring your emotions, I highly recommend her!

Postpartum & Hormonal Therapist -Talor Hawkins

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, LCSW

I highly recommend Julie for individuals seeking support with trauma, relationships, sexuality, and identity exploration. Julie creates a compassionate, affirming space where clients can process challenges and deepen their self-understanding.

Kristen Krueger, Trauma Therapist

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, PMH-C

Julie's work is grounded in empathy, curiosity, and affirmation. She supports clients navigating trauma, relationship concerns, sexuality, and gender identity with sensitivity and care. I would confidently recommend her as a therapist.

Sophie Bell: Childhood Trauma, Relationships, EMDR

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW

Julie is a dedicated therapist who brings a high level of skill to her work supporting clients around trauma, relationships, and sexuality/gender identity. She makes clients feel safe and seen and fosters true healing and change. I highly recommend her!

Kellie Boyle, EMDR, Trauma, Mid Life

Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC

Julie has proven to help individuals over and over again re-connect with their emotions, regain clarity and autonomy over their life and relationships. She is a wonderful asset to the queer & ENM community. I have no hesitation recommending her.

Victoria Taylor, EMDR & Trauma Therapist

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW

I highly recommend Julie! She expertly blend evidence-based care with a trauma-informed, inclusive approach. Her deep understanding of queer and ENM relationship dynamics makes her an invaluable, safe guide for everyone navigating relationships.

The DBT Center of Pennsylvania- Erin O'Brien

Licensed Professional Counselor, MPhil, LPC, LBC-DBT

Julie's specialty in trauma and relationships makes her essential for anyone looking to reconnect with their emotions, let go of the constant overthinking, and build trust with themselves. She is skilled in evidenced based approaches including CBT/ACT!

Alexandra Askenazi - Trauma, Relationships, & Loss

Counselor, LMHC-D, LPC

Julie uses evidence based therapies such as CBT and ACT to support you in healing traumatic experiences and the way these experiences impact your daily life. I also fully trust her to support queer/ENM clients I refer to her given her expertise/knowledge.

Lia Bermudez - Couples & Relationship Counseling

Licensed Professional Counselor, MA

Julie is a much-needed resource in today's world, helping queer clients navigate relationships, self-discovery, identification of emotions, and setting healthy boundaries. She is a gem for those who want to find themselves - maybe for the first time!

Somatic Therapist for Anxiety, Grief & Trauma

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT

Julie is a skilled, kind, and deeply accepting therapist. If you're looking to deepen the quality of your relationship with yourself and others, Julie can help. I feel confident referring clients navigating all kinds of relationships to Julie!

Amelia DiDomenico, Performance Anxiety

Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT

Julie is truly a fantastic therapist that understands couples and people are unique and come in many styles. Her work centers around boundaries and supporting clients to trust themselves. Highly recommend for folks dating and in relationships.

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals

Communities

Bisexual Allied ,

Non-Binary Allied ,

Queer Allied ,

Racial Justice Allied ,

Transgender Allied

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals

Communities

Bisexual Allied ,

Non-Binary Allied ,

Queer Allied ,

Racial Justice Allied ,

Transgender Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
Emotionally Focused
Person-Centered
Psychodynamic
Trauma Focused

I combine insight-oriented approaches (psychodynamic and EFT) with change-oriented modalities (CBT and ACT) to help clients understand the "why" behind their patterns, shift unhelpful thinking, and develop healthier coping strategies.

Julie Koven, PhD - Trauma & Relationships

Psychologist, PhD

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (646) 859-2354

Julie Koven, PhD - Trauma & Relationships

Psychologist, PhD

Call or Email us for a free 15 minute consultation now - (646) 859-2354

Location

Primary Location

New York, NY 10016

(646) 859-2354

Email Us

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Additional Location

Jersey City, NJ 07302

(646) 859-2354

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Cities

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Neighborhoods

I offer virtual sessions for clients in NY & NJ. I'm available on weekdays at times that can be flexible with your schedule.

Julie Koven, PhD - Trauma & Relationships

Psychologist, PhD

Call for a free consultation now - (646) 859-2354

I offer virtual sessions for clients in NY & NJ. I'm available on weekdays at times that can be flexible with your schedule.

Julie Koven, PhD - Trauma & Relationships

Psychologist, PhD

Call for a free consultation now - (646) 859-2354

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