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Joseph Estess
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, Veteran
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Joseph Estess

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, Veteran

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
3 Endorsed
San Antonio, TX 78258
Let's Connect (210) 762-4926
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Have you been silently struggling with anxiety, loneliness, betrayal, or conflicts that leave you feeling isolated and disconnected? Facing these experiences alone is exhausting. You're seeking understanding, trust, emotional safety, and clear guidance to rebuild your sense of self and strengthen your connections. I'm here to help you regain clarity, improve communication, heal from emotional wounds, and cultivate meaningful, trusting relationships.
I specialize in helping individuals and couples overcome trauma, anxiety, infidelity, and communication issues using Gottman techniques and Interpersonal Neurobiology. With 12+ years of experience and practical insights from other fields, I offer skills and strategies grounded in real-life solutions, not just theory.
If you’ve ever felt misunderstood or dismissed by a therapist, I get it. Therapy shouldn’t feel cold or one-size-fits-all. It should honor your unique story and goals. If this old, retired veteran can learn to talk about 'icky' emotions, so can you (or your spouse). Let’s explore what your next chapter might look like—together.
Call or Joseph Estess now for a free 15 minute consultation - (210) 762-4926

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

San Antonio, TX 78258

(210) 762-4926

Austin, TX 78731

Flexible scheduling Monday-Saturday 10am-8pm. Call and leave a message & I will get back to you personally. Online appointments only
I specialize in Trauma and PTSD, Infidelity and Anxiety 
$120 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
I use EMDR and Gottman therapy to relieve the distress of the past individually and restructure communication in relationships
Joseph Estess
Let's Connect (210) 762-4926
Photo of Joseph Estess, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, Veteran

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

San Antonio, TX 78258

(210) 762-4926

Austin, TX 78731

Flexible scheduling Monday-Saturday 10am-8pm. Call and leave a message & I will get back to you personally. Online appointments only
I specialize in Trauma and PTSD, Infidelity and Anxiety 
$120 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
I use EMDR and Gottman therapy to relieve the distress of the past individually and restructure communication in relationships
Joseph Estess

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $120
  • Couple Sessions $120
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

Cash, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Paypal, Visa
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I am an out-of-network provider but I can send you an invoice for you to seek reimbursement.
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Joseph Estess
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, Veteran
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (210) 762-4926
"
I am an out-of-network provider but I can send you an invoice for you to seek reimbursement.
Photo of Joseph Estess, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, Veteran
Joseph Estess
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, Veteran
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (210) 762-4926

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Texas / 202590 Joseph Estess
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 13 years
  • Attended Chapman University, Graduated 2012
  • Additional Credentials

  • Licensed by State of Texas / 202590
  • Certificate from American Association of Marriage & Family Therapy
  • Certificate from Texas Association of Marriage & Family Therapy
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Joseph Estess
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, Veteran
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. or (210) 762-4926
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Joseph Estess
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, Veteran
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. or (210) 762-4926

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Infidelity
  • Anxiety

Expertise

  • Bisexual
  • Depression
  • Lesbian
  • LGBTQ+
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Men's Issues
  • Mood Disorders
  • Relationship Issues
  • Stress
  • Veterans
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Joseph Estess
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, Veteran
Do these issues align with your needs? or (210) 762-4926
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Joseph Estess
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, Veteran
Do these issues align with your needs? or (210) 762-4926

3 Endorsements

Dr. Nicholas Todd Wilkens
Dr. Nicholas Todd Wilkens
Marriage & Family TherapistPhDLMFT-SLPC-S
Joe has become a trusted and compassionate colleague of mine. I value his insights and his expertise immeasurably. I am lucky to have Joe as a referral source as a professional that I trust and admire.

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Aviation Professionals

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Aviation Professionals

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • EMDR
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Experiential Therapy
  • Gottman Method
  • Humanistic
  • Interpersonal
  • Interpersonal Neurobiology Informed Therapy
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Trauma Focused
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I use the Gottman Method for Couples Therapy and a mix of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Experiential Therapy for individuals. In your first session, we'll discuss your concerns and goals and how these approaches can help you. With these methods, we'll explore patterns affecting your life and relationships, focusing on practical tools to create meaningful change.
Photo of Joseph Estess, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, Veteran
Joseph Estess
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, Veteran
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (210) 762-4926
"
I use the Gottman Method for Couples Therapy and a mix of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Experiential Therapy for individuals. In your first session, we'll discuss your concerns and goals and how these approaches can help you. With these methods, we'll explore patterns affecting your life and relationships, focusing on practical tools to create meaningful change.
Photo of Joseph Estess, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, Veteran
Joseph Estess
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, Veteran
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (210) 762-4926

Location

Primary Location

San Antonio, TX 78258

(210) 762-4926

Additional Location

Austin, TX 78731

(210) 762-4926
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Flexible scheduling Monday-Saturday 10am-8pm. Call and leave a message & I will get back to you personally. Online appointments only
Photo of Joseph Estess, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, Veteran
Joseph Estess
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, Veteran
Call for a free consultation now - (210) 762-4926
"
Flexible scheduling Monday-Saturday 10am-8pm. Call and leave a message & I will get back to you personally. Online appointments only
Photo of Joseph Estess, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, Veteran
Joseph Estess
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, Veteran
Call for a free consultation now - (210) 762-4926