Conroe
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Dr. John D VanderKaay
Marriage & Family Therapist, DMin, LMFT-S, BCPCC, BCPC
(936) 220-2403
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Dr. John D VanderKaay

Marriage & Family Therapist, DMin, LMFT-S, BCPCC, BCPC

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
100 Interstate 45 N, Suite 200, Conroe, TX 77301
(936) 220-2403
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Does your marriage need open heart surgery to survive? If you're married and facing the aftermath of infidelity, sex addiction, & other life traumas & want to reclaim your love & rebuild your connection & are willing to take personal responsibility for your part in making it happen, even if they don’t know exactly what that looks like, we need to talk. Would you want open heart surgery done one hour a week for months, or would you like it to be done all at one time? Our innovative and effective full days Marriage Intensives have helped many couples' marital heart beat stronger than ever & be filled with more love and connection.
I empower couples to heal from past pain, rebuild trust, communicate well, & rediscover the intimacy that once brought them together. My approach goes beyond simply resolving conflict; it’s about creating a thriving, deeply connected partnership where communication flows well, emotional bonds are strong, & both spouses feel seen, heard, understood & valued.
I will work hard to work myself out of a job with you. I will offer my best to get you to the point that you say, "Dr. John, we just don't need you any more. We'll take it from here." I don't do counseling TO people, but partner WITH people to see their lives transformed. I may be an expert in relationships, but you are the expert in your relationship.
Call or Dr. John D VanderKaay now for a free 15 minute consultation - (936) 220-2403

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Restoration Counseling Ministries

100 Interstate 45 N

Suite 200

Conroe, TX 77301 map

 (936) 220-2403
My website
I am licensed in Texas, Missouri, & Colorado. My offices are north of Houston, Texas, but I can see clients virtually who are not local.
$200 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and families  
I will work hard to work myself out of a job with you. We can partner together so you'll say, "Dr. John, we just don't need you any more."
Dr. John D VanderKaay
Let's Connect (936) 220-2403
Photo of Dr. John D VanderKaay, Marriage & Family Therapist, DMin, LMFT-S, BCPCC, BCPC

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Restoration Counseling Ministries

100 Interstate 45 N

Suite 200

Conroe, TX 77301 map

 (936) 220-2403
My website
I am licensed in Texas, Missouri, & Colorado. My offices are north of Houston, Texas, but I can see clients virtually who are not local.
$200 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and families  
I will work hard to work myself out of a job with you. We can partner together so you'll say, "Dr. John, we just don't need you any more."
Dr. John D VanderKaay

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $200
  • Couple Sessions $200

Payment Methods

ACH Bank transfer, American Express, Apple Cash, Cash, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Paypal, Visa, Zelle

Insurance

  • Aetna
  • Out of Network
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We don't want finances to be the reason you don't get the help you want. We also know that "where your treasure is, there your heart is also." We offer a very valuable service that is changing lives. Talk to us about what your best is financially and we'll do our best to meet you where you are.
Photo of Dr. John D VanderKaay, Marriage & Family Therapist, DMin, LMFT-S, BCPCC, BCPC
Dr. John D VanderKaay
Marriage & Family Therapist, DMin, LMFT-S, BCPCC, BCPC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (936) 220-2403
"
We don't want finances to be the reason you don't get the help you want. We also know that "where your treasure is, there your heart is also." We offer a very valuable service that is changing lives. Talk to us about what your best is financially and we'll do our best to meet you where you are.
Photo of Dr. John D VanderKaay, Marriage & Family Therapist, DMin, LMFT-S, BCPCC, BCPC
Dr. John D VanderKaay
Marriage & Family Therapist, DMin, LMFT-S, BCPCC, BCPC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (936) 220-2403

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Texas / 203148 John D VanderKaay

    • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 31 years
  • Attended Denver Seminary, DMin, Graduated 2015

    • Additional Credentials

  • License: State of Colorado MFT.0002824 / 2025
  • License: State of Missouri 2025003594 / 2025
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Board Certified Professional Christian Counselor and Board Certified Pastoral Counselor. I am a retired US military chaplain with extensive experience in counseling military personnel and family members.
Photo of Dr. John D VanderKaay, Marriage & Family Therapist, DMin, LMFT-S, BCPCC, BCPC
Dr. John D VanderKaay
Marriage & Family Therapist, DMin, LMFT-S, BCPCC, BCPC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (936) 220-2403
"
Board Certified Professional Christian Counselor and Board Certified Pastoral Counselor. I am a retired US military chaplain with extensive experience in counseling military personnel and family members.
Photo of Dr. John D VanderKaay, Marriage & Family Therapist, DMin, LMFT-S, BCPCC, BCPC
Dr. John D VanderKaay
Marriage & Family Therapist, DMin, LMFT-S, BCPCC, BCPC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (936) 220-2403

Specialties and Expertise

Expertise

  • ADHD
  • Family Conflict
  • Infidelity
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Parenting
  • Relationship Issues
  • Sexual Addiction
  • Spirituality
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Veterans
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I specialize in treating infidelity, sexual addictions (including porn), and trauma of all types, especially at the hands of people you are supposed to be able to trust. Relational wounds run very deep for relational beings. Utilizing Evidenced Based Practices, we measure to see if we are actually accomplishing what we are trying to accomplish. Don't just Trust us, see our Trustworthiness, too.
Photo of Dr. John D VanderKaay, Marriage & Family Therapist, DMin, LMFT-S, BCPCC, BCPC
Dr. John D VanderKaay
Marriage & Family Therapist, DMin, LMFT-S, BCPCC, BCPC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (936) 220-2403
"
I specialize in treating infidelity, sexual addictions (including porn), and trauma of all types, especially at the hands of people you are supposed to be able to trust. Relational wounds run very deep for relational beings. Utilizing Evidenced Based Practices, we measure to see if we are actually accomplishing what we are trying to accomplish. Don't just Trust us, see our Trustworthiness, too.
Photo of Dr. John D VanderKaay, Marriage & Family Therapist, DMin, LMFT-S, BCPCC, BCPC
Dr. John D VanderKaay
Marriage & Family Therapist, DMin, LMFT-S, BCPCC, BCPC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (936) 220-2403

Client Focus

Age

Teen , 
Adults , 
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals , 
Couples , 
Family

Religion

Christian

Age

Teen , 
Adults , 
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals , 
Couples , 
Family

Religion

Christian

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Christian Counseling
  • Clinical Supervision and Licensed Supervisors
  • Coaching
  • EMDR
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Family / Marital
  • Family Systems
  • Gottman Method
  • Grace2Rebuild (G2R)
  • Hope Focused
  • Integrative
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Relational
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
  • Trauma Focused
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Because of the breadth and depth of my training and experience, I integrate the best of a wide array of counseling modalities to customized counseling to the needs of every client. That doesn't mean I just grab something from the tool box each session. Treatment planning is a vital part of the success our clients experience. My military career taught me, "A failure to plan is a plan to fail."
Photo of Dr. John D VanderKaay, Marriage & Family Therapist, DMin, LMFT-S, BCPCC, BCPC
Dr. John D VanderKaay
Marriage & Family Therapist, DMin, LMFT-S, BCPCC, BCPC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (936) 220-2403
"
Because of the breadth and depth of my training and experience, I integrate the best of a wide array of counseling modalities to customized counseling to the needs of every client. That doesn't mean I just grab something from the tool box each session. Treatment planning is a vital part of the success our clients experience. My military career taught me, "A failure to plan is a plan to fail."
Photo of Dr. John D VanderKaay, Marriage & Family Therapist, DMin, LMFT-S, BCPCC, BCPC
Dr. John D VanderKaay
Marriage & Family Therapist, DMin, LMFT-S, BCPCC, BCPC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (936) 220-2403

Groups

High Ground - Brotherhood

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Hosted by
Dr. John D VanderKaay

A brotherhood of Christian men who are struggling with pornography or other sexual compulsions or addictions, who want to be free and stay free from it. This group isn't for men wanting to check a box or get their wife off their back. It's for men who want to change.

Expertise

Sexual Addiction
Spirituality
Trauma and PTSD

Age

Adults

Session Cost

$30-$40

Group Meets

Every Mon, Tue 7 P.M. - 8:30 P.M.

Location

Restoration Counseling Ministries

702 North Thompson Street

Conroe, TX 77301

Email Dr. John D VanderKaay about this group or call - (936) 220-2403

Location

Primary Location

Restoration Counseling Ministries

100 Interstate 45 N

Suite 200

Conroe, TX 77301

(936) 220-2403

Email me

My website

Nearby Areas

Cities

Counties

Zips

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I am licensed in Texas, Missouri, & Colorado. My offices are north of Houston, Texas, but I can see clients virtually who are not local.
Photo of Dr. John D VanderKaay, Marriage & Family Therapist, DMin, LMFT-S, BCPCC, BCPC
Dr. John D VanderKaay
Marriage & Family Therapist, DMin, LMFT-S, BCPCC, BCPC
Call for a free consultation now - (936) 220-2403
"
I am licensed in Texas, Missouri, & Colorado. My offices are north of Houston, Texas, but I can see clients virtually who are not local.
Photo of Dr. John D VanderKaay, Marriage & Family Therapist, DMin, LMFT-S, BCPCC, BCPC
Dr. John D VanderKaay
Marriage & Family Therapist, DMin, LMFT-S, BCPCC, BCPC
Call for a free consultation now - (936) 220-2403