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Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT

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Arlington, VA 22201
You look like you have it all together, but inside, you feel anxious or overwhelmed, and are stuck in the same relationship patterns. Maybe you grew up with a parent who was emotionally immature, narcissistic, or unpredictable, and now you find yourself overthinking, people-pleasing, or questioning your own needs. You might notice that you're giving more than you get in relationships, second-guessing yourself, or even feeling guilty for wanting more. I work with adults who are tired of these patterns repeating and want to understand how to actually change them.
My approach is compassionate, nonjudgmental, and insight-oriented. Together, we'll explore the deeper roots of what you're experiencing and help you shift the patterns that are holding you back so that you can feel more grounded, confident, and connected in your relationships.
Call or Jessica Shaffer now for a free 15 minute consultation - (818) 392-5045

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Arlington, VA 22201

(818) 392-5045

Los Angeles, CA 90002

I provide virtual therapy for clients across both California and Virginia. I accept Aetna, UHC, Cigna, Blue Cross, and other major plans.
I specialize in Relationship Issues, Anxiety and Life Transitions 
$165 Per Session, I accept insurance 
Individual one-on-one therapy 
Let's Connect (818) 392-5045
Photo of Jessica Shaffer, Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Arlington, VA 22201

(818) 392-5045

Los Angeles, CA 90002

I provide virtual therapy for clients across both California and Virginia. I accept Aetna, UHC, Cigna, Blue Cross, and other major plans.
I specialize in Relationship Issues, Anxiety and Life Transitions 
$165 Per Session, I accept insurance 
Individual one-on-one therapy 

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $165
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Insurance

  • Aetna
  • Carelon Behavioral Health
  • Cigna and Evernorth
  • Kaiser (Out-of-Network)
  • Magellan
  • Optum
  • Oscar Health
  • Oxford
  • Quest Behavioral Health
  • UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
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Jessica Shaffer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Check fees and, if listed, ask to verify your insurance coverage. or (818) 392-5045
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Jessica Shaffer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Check fees and, if listed, ask to verify your insurance coverage. or (818) 392-5045

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 122865 Jessica Shaffer
    License state differs from primary location state.
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 10 years
  • Attended California State University, Northridge, MS in Counseling, Graduated 2017
  • Additional Credentials

  • License: Commonwealth of Virginia Board of Counseling 0717002593 / 2026
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Jessica Shaffer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. or (818) 392-5045
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Jessica Shaffer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. or (818) 392-5045

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Relationship Issues
  • Anxiety
  • Life Transitions

Expertise

  • Codependency
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Family Conflict
  • Grief
  • Lesbian
  • LGBTQ+
  • Peer Relationships
  • Self Esteem
  • Stress
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Women's Issues
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Jessica Shaffer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Do these issues align with your needs? or (818) 392-5045
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Jessica Shaffer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Do these issues align with your needs? or (818) 392-5045

Endorsement

Dr. Nikki Reed
Dr. Nikki Reed
PsychologistPsyD
I've had the pleasure of knowing Jessica professionally. Her warmth, empathy, and authenticity truly stand out. She creates a safe space where people feel seen and understood. Jessica is a wonderful therapist who genuinely cares about those she works with.

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Transgender Allied

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Transgender Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • EMDR
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Family Systems
  • Humanistic
  • Psychodynamic
  • Relational
  • Trauma Focused
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Jessica Shaffer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (818) 392-5045
Photo of Jessica Shaffer, Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Jessica Shaffer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (818) 392-5045

Location

Primary Location

Arlington, VA 22201

(818) 392-5045

Additional Location

Los Angeles, CA 90002

(818) 392-5045
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I provide virtual therapy for clients across both California and Virginia. I accept Aetna, UHC, Cigna, Blue Cross, and other major plans.
Photo of Jessica Shaffer, Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Jessica Shaffer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (818) 392-5045
"
I provide virtual therapy for clients across both California and Virginia. I accept Aetna, UHC, Cigna, Blue Cross, and other major plans.
Photo of Jessica Shaffer, Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Jessica Shaffer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (818) 392-5045