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Jess Nicholas Laird
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW

Jess Nicholas Laird

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW (he, him)

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Woodstock, IL 60098
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Very few of us were given the tools and affirmation needed to navigate sex, identity, and relationships, despite these things being a fundamental part of our humanity. I am a sex & relationship therapist passionate about reducing sexual shame, fostering a lens of curiosity and self-acceptance in sexuality, building a sense of playfulness and confidence, developing a personal acumen of sexual values, and unlearning messages of sex-negative cultures. Here are some of the topics that often come up in sex & relationship therapy with the folks I work with:
Kink/fetish; non-monogamy/polyamory/open relationships; gender/sexual identity; sexual shame/self-acceptance; erectile dysfunction, pain, vaginismus, premature ejaculation, compulsive behavior, etc.; desire/libido mismatch; Purity Culture recovery; affairs/infidelity; performance anxiety; intimacy issues; sex & dating; low libido; "Am I normal?" questions
No two experiences or people are the same. Please don’t hesitate to reach out, even if what you are looking doesn’t fall neatly into one of these categories—it is a non-exhaustive list! I am a queer and trans-identified therapist licensed in Ohio, Wisconsin, Iowa, Delaware, & California. Please see my website for more details about me and my practice.
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My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Jess Laird Therapy

Woodstock, IL 60098

In-person office: Woodstock, IL; Telehealth available for residents of: Illinois, Iowa, Ohio, Wisconsin, Delaware, Oregon, or California
I specialize in Sex Therapy, Open Relationships Non-Monogamy and Transgender 
$150 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
Connect with Jess Nicholas Laird
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My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

Jess Laird Therapy

Woodstock, IL 60098

In-person office: Woodstock, IL; Telehealth available for residents of: Illinois, Iowa, Ohio, Wisconsin, Delaware, Oregon, or California
I specialize in Sex Therapy, Open Relationships Non-Monogamy and Transgender 
$150 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $150
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

ACH Bank transfer, American Express, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa
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I offer a sliding scale between $100-150 (per 50 minute session) as well as a limited number of slots for low-fee clients. I'm not an in-network insurance provider, but will gladly offer support in providing documentation to you for insurance reimbursement.
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Jess Nicholas Laird
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
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I offer a sliding scale between $100-150 (per 50 minute session) as well as a limited number of slots for low-fee clients. I'm not an in-network insurance provider, but will gladly offer support in providing documentation to you for insurance reimbursement.
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Jess Nicholas Laird
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Illinois / 149.029716 Jess Nicholas Laird
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 9 years
  • Attended California State University - San Bernardino, MSW/MPA, Graduated 2019
  • Additional Credentials

  • License: Wisconsin Department of Safety & Professional Services - LCSW 11628-123
  • License: Iowa Board of Social Work - LCSW 132341
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I am sex therapist licensed to practice in California, Wisconsin, Ohio, and Iowa and am trained by the Sexual Health Alliance.
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Jess Nicholas Laird
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
for a free 15 minute consultation now.
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I am sex therapist licensed to practice in California, Wisconsin, Ohio, and Iowa and am trained by the Sexual Health Alliance.
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Jess Nicholas Laird
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
for a free 15 minute consultation now.

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Sex Therapy
  • Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
  • Transgender

Expertise

  • ADHD
  • Anxiety
  • Body Image
  • Codependency
  • Coping Skills
  • Divorce
  • Emotional Disturbance
  • Family Conflict
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Transitions
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Men's Issues
  • Peer Relationships
  • Relationship Issues
  • Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
  • Stress
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Women's Issues
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Jess Nicholas Laird
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Do these issues align with your needs?
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Jess Nicholas Laird
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Do these issues align with your needs?

Endorsement

Shannon Pedersen
Shannon Pedersen
CounselorMALCPC-C
Jess exemplifies the breadth and depth of knowledge and empathy clients seek when preparing to work on such vulnerable aspects of life. He balances care and patience with expertise in sex therapy. I regularly recommend him to clients and practitioners!

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Transgender Allied

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Transgender Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
  • Attachment-based
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Compassion Focused
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Family / Marital
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Interpersonal
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Person-Centered
  • Positive Psychology
  • Psychodynamic
  • Relational
  • Strength-Based
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Jess Nicholas Laird
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like.
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Jess Nicholas Laird
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like.

Location

Primary Location

Jess Laird Therapy

Woodstock, IL 60098

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In-person office: Woodstock, IL; Telehealth available for residents of: Illinois, Iowa, Ohio, Wisconsin, Delaware, Oregon, or California
Photo of Jess Nicholas Laird, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Jess Nicholas Laird
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
"
In-person office: Woodstock, IL; Telehealth available for residents of: Illinois, Iowa, Ohio, Wisconsin, Delaware, Oregon, or California
Photo of Jess Nicholas Laird, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Jess Nicholas Laird
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW