
Jess Nicholas Laird
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW (he, him)
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Marion, IA 52302
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Very few of us were given the tools and affirmation needed to navigate sex, identity, and relationships, despite these things being a fundamental part of our humanity. I am a sex & relationship therapist passionate about reducing sexual shame, fostering a lens of curiosity and self-acceptance in sexuality, building a sense of playfulness and confidence, developing a personal acumen of sexual values, and unlearning messages of sex-negative cultures.
Here are some of the topics that often come up in sex & relationship therapy with the folks I work with:
Kink/fetish; non-monogamy/polyamory/open relationships; gender/sexual identity; sexual shame/self-acceptance; erectile dysfunction, pain, vaginismus, premature ejaculation, compulsive behavior, etc.; desire/libido mismatch; Purity Culture recovery; affairs/infidelity; performance anxiety; intimacy issues; sex & dating; low libido; "Am I normal?" questions
No two experiences or people are the same. Please don’t hesitate to reach out, even if what you are looking doesn’t fall neatly into one of these categories—it is a non-exhaustive list!
I am a queer and trans-identified therapist licensed in Ohio, Wisconsin, Iowa, Delaware, & California. Please see my website for more details about me and my practice.
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Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $150
- Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible
Payment Methods
ACH Bank transfer, American Express, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa
Jess Nicholas Laird
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
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Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 110685 Jess Nicholas LairdLicense state differs from primary location state.
- In Practice for 9 years
- Attended California State University - San Bernardino, MSW/MPA, Graduated 2019
- License: Wisconsin Department of Safety & Professional Services - LCSW 11628-123
- License: Iowa Board of Social Work - LCSW 132341
Education and Years In Practice
Additional Credentials
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Sex Therapy
- Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
- Transgender
Expertise
- ADHD
- Anxiety
- Body Positivity
- Codependency
- Coping Skills
- Divorce
- Emotional Disturbance
- Family Conflict
- LGBTQ+
- Life Transitions
- Marital and Premarital
- Men's Issues
- Peer Relationships
- Relationship Issues
- Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
- Stress
- Trauma and PTSD
- Women's Issues
Client Focus
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
HIV / AIDS Allied ,
Intersex Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied ,
Transgender Allied
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
HIV / AIDS Allied ,
Intersex Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied ,
Transgender Allied
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
- Attachment-based
- Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
- Compassion Focused
- Culturally Sensitive
- Emotionally Focused
- Family / Marital
- Internal Family Systems (IFS)
- Interpersonal
- Motivational Interviewing
- Person-Centered
- Positive Psychology
- Psychodynamic
- Relational
- Strength-Based
Location
Additional Location
Milwaukee, WI 53215
Nearby Areas

Jess Nicholas Laird
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW