Jen Kilpatrick
Counselor, LMHC (she, her)
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Hi, I'm Jen!
I'm a queer, neurodivergent (ADHD) therapist specializing in complex trauma and attachment & what those things do to your relationships, your self-worth, and your ability to just... freaking exist without it being so hard.
The people I work with are usually extremely self-aware. They've read all the books, they know their attachment style (and probably everyone else’s) & they could probably explain their childhood to you in clinical detail. Yet, they're still struggling, because understanding your wounds and actually healing them are two very different things.
If you relate to any of this, we might be a good fit:
You have a critical voice in your head expecting you always to be perfect, no excuses!
You give a lot but have a really hard time receiving.
Resting feels wrong…so instead of resting you’re filled with the guilt of what you should be doing. (hello, capitalism!)
I'm sex/kink affirming, sex-work positive, cannabis friendly, gender affirming, and neurodivergence affirming (aka I accept you fully as you are, from day 1)
My approach is integrative: parts work, inner child work, brain-based and emotion-focused techniques. So yes, I will ask what that feels like in your body! ◡̈
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Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $150
- Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible
Payment Methods
ACH Bank transfer, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, VisaInsurance
- Aetna
- Cigna and Evernorth
- Optum
- Oscar Health
- Oxford
- UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
Jen Kilpatrick
Counselor, LMHC
Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now.
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of New York / 012456 Jen Kilpatrick
- In Practice for 8 years
Education and Years In Practice
Jen Kilpatrick
Counselor, LMHC
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Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- C-PTSD
- Anxiety
- ADHD
Expertise
- Autism
- Body Image
- Codependency
- Depression
- LGBTQ+
- Relationship Issues
- Self Esteem
- Self-Harming
- Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
- Sexual Abuse
- Transgender
- Trauma and PTSD
Jen Kilpatrick
Counselor, LMHC
Do these issues align with your needs? Email
Client Focus
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals
Communities
Gay Allied ,
Intersex Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied ,
Transgender Allied
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals
Communities
Gay Allied ,
Intersex Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied ,
Transgender Allied
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Attachment-based
- Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
- Compassion Focused
- Emotionally Focused
- Integrative
- Internal Family Systems (IFS)
- Person-Centered
- Psychodynamic
- Trauma Focused
Jen Kilpatrick
Counselor, LMHC
Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now.
Location
Additional Location
Brooklyn, NY 11220
Nearby Areas
Jen Kilpatrick
Counselor, LMHC