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Jeffrey Ly | Porn Addiction | Relationship
LPHA, MA, AMFT

Jeffrey Ly | Porn Addiction | Relationship

LPHA, MA, AMFT

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Rutherford, NJ 07070
Let's Connect (201) 331-9493
Photo of Jeffrey Ly | Porn Addiction | Relationship, LPHA, MA, AMFT
Pornography doesn’t have to destroy the relationships that matter most to you. For many men, turning to Pornhub, OnlyFans, cam sites, or even Instagram creates a growing emotional gap, eroding trust, intimacy and connection. It can leave your partner feeling unwanted and you feeling trapped in a cycle of guilt and shame. Over time, this struggle can lead to heartbreak, divorce, and a future far from the one you envisioned. You do not have to let this define you. It is time to take back control.
I work with men who feel trapped by secrecy, shame, and fear of losing valued connections. I understand this struggle personally because I’ve been in your shoes. As a mental health professional and someone who’s faced these challenges, I help you overcome barriers, rebuild trust, restore intimacy, and become the partner you want to be.
If you’re ready to make a change, I offer limited complimentary 25-minute consultations. Book directly through my website; a booking button is on my profile near the contact info. You can also text (888) 883-4018 to arrange your consultation. This is your chance to take meaningful steps toward healing for yourself and the relationships that matter most.
Call or Jeffrey Ly | Porn Addiction | Relationship now for a free 15 minute consultation - (201) 331-9493

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Rutherford, NJ 07070

(201) 331-9493

Flushing, NY 11361

I work specifically with men and couples to regain control over their life from pornography.
I specialize in Porn Addiction, Men's Issues and Life Coaching 
$199 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
Learn more about my approach, helping men quit porn to regain control in their life and relationships (website below).
Jeffrey Ly | Porn Addiction | Relationship
Let's Connect (201) 331-9493
Photo of Jeffrey Ly | Porn Addiction | Relationship, LPHA, MA, AMFT

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Rutherford, NJ 07070

(201) 331-9493

Flushing, NY 11361

I work specifically with men and couples to regain control over their life from pornography.
I specialize in Porn Addiction, Men's Issues and Life Coaching 
$199 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
Learn more about my approach, helping men quit porn to regain control in their life and relationships (website below).
Jeffrey Ly | Porn Addiction | Relationship

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $199
  • Couple Sessions $199
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible
  • Pay by American Express, Discover, Mastercard, Paypal, Visa
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Direct pay via Credit/Debit payment is accepted since our specialty is not covered by insurance.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (201) 331-9493
Photo of Jeffrey Ly | Porn Addiction | Relationship, LPHA, MA, AMFT
Jeffrey Ly | Porn Addiction | Relationship
LPHA, MA, AMFT
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Direct pay via Credit/Debit payment is accepted since our specialty is not covered by insurance.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (201) 331-9493
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Jeffrey Ly | Porn Addiction | Relationship
LPHA, MA, AMFT

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Degree/Diploma from Azusa Pacific University Jeffrey Ly | Porn Addiction | Relationship
  • In Practice for 5 Years
  • Attended Azusa Pacific University, M.A. Clinical Psych Marriage and Family Therapy, Graduated 2020
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I have over 5 years of specialized experience helping men and couples quit porn to regain control of their life and relationships. If you'd like to arrange a complimentary consultation, you can self-book on my website.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (201) 331-9493
Photo of Jeffrey Ly | Porn Addiction | Relationship, LPHA, MA, AMFT
Jeffrey Ly | Porn Addiction | Relationship
LPHA, MA, AMFT
"
I have over 5 years of specialized experience helping men and couples quit porn to regain control of their life and relationships. If you'd like to arrange a complimentary consultation, you can self-book on my website.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (201) 331-9493
Photo of Jeffrey Ly | Porn Addiction | Relationship, LPHA, MA, AMFT
Jeffrey Ly | Porn Addiction | Relationship
LPHA, MA, AMFT

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Porn Addiction
  • Men's Issues
  • Life Coaching

Expertise

  • Addiction
  • Anxiety
  • Chronic Impulsivity
  • Chronic Relapse
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Internet Addiction
  • Life Transitions
  • Men's Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Sexual Addiction
  • Stress
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My primary focus is helping men and couples quit pornography to regain control in their lives. Other common areas related to my focus revolve around men's issues in life, relationships, and work. If you'd like to learn more or arrange a complimentary consultation, you can self-book an appointment on my website.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (201) 331-9493
Photo of Jeffrey Ly | Porn Addiction | Relationship, LPHA, MA, AMFT
Jeffrey Ly | Porn Addiction | Relationship
LPHA, MA, AMFT
"
My primary focus is helping men and couples quit pornography to regain control in their lives. Other common areas related to my focus revolve around men's issues in life, relationships, and work. If you'd like to learn more or arrange a complimentary consultation, you can self-book an appointment on my website.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (201) 331-9493
Photo of Jeffrey Ly | Porn Addiction | Relationship, LPHA, MA, AMFT
Jeffrey Ly | Porn Addiction | Relationship
LPHA, MA, AMFT

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Ethnicity

Asian
Other Racial or Ethnic Background

I also speak

Vietnamese

Religion

Other Spiritual or Religious Affiliations

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Ethnicity

Asian
Other Racial or Ethnic Background

I also speak

Vietnamese

Religion

Other Spiritual or Religious Affiliations

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
  • Adlerian
  • Attachment-based
  • Coaching
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Integrative
  • Men's Issues
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Person-Centered
  • Porn Dependency/Addiction
  • Positive Psychology
  • Psychoanalytic
  • Psychodynamic
  • Somatic
  • Strength-Based
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I take a holistic approach tailored to each individual's unique situation and needs, aiming to create lasting change. My method is results-oriented, focusing on practical goals, actionable steps, and daily adjustments in your life and relationships that foster deeper insights for an enduring transformation. If you'd like to arrange a complimentary consultation, you can self-book on my website.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (201) 331-9493
Photo of Jeffrey Ly | Porn Addiction | Relationship, LPHA, MA, AMFT
Jeffrey Ly | Porn Addiction | Relationship
LPHA, MA, AMFT
"
I take a holistic approach tailored to each individual's unique situation and needs, aiming to create lasting change. My method is results-oriented, focusing on practical goals, actionable steps, and daily adjustments in your life and relationships that foster deeper insights for an enduring transformation. If you'd like to arrange a complimentary consultation, you can self-book on my website.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (201) 331-9493
Photo of Jeffrey Ly | Porn Addiction | Relationship, LPHA, MA, AMFT
Jeffrey Ly | Porn Addiction | Relationship
LPHA, MA, AMFT

Location

Primary Location

Rutherford, NJ 07070

(201) 331-9493

Additional Location

Flushing, NY 11361

(201) 331-9493
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I work specifically with men and couples to regain control over their life from pornography.
Call for a free consultation now - (201) 331-9493
Photo of Jeffrey Ly | Porn Addiction | Relationship, LPHA, MA, AMFT
Jeffrey Ly | Porn Addiction | Relationship
LPHA, MA, AMFT
"
I work specifically with men and couples to regain control over their life from pornography.
Call for a free consultation now - (201) 331-9493
Photo of Jeffrey Ly | Porn Addiction | Relationship, LPHA, MA, AMFT
Jeffrey Ly | Porn Addiction | Relationship
LPHA, MA, AMFT