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Jake Sims
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT

Jake Sims

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT (he, him)

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
7 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94102
Let's Connect (415) 903-2585
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Do you ever feel like something’s just off, and you can’t quite name it, but life feels heavier than it should? Perhaps you wake up feeling anxious, disconnected, or weighed down by a kind of numbness that’s hard to describe. You go through the motions, but your relationships feel distant, life seems like it's lost its color, and you wonder why you can’t seem to shake the sense that something’s missing. Therapy provides a space to slow down and make sense of what’s happening beneath the surface, allowing you to begin to feel more alive, grounded, and connected to yourself and the people who matter most.
If you’re anxious, depressed, or struggling in your relationships, I help you understand why you feel this way. My approach focuses on building a trusting relationship where we can gain insight into what’s really going on beneath the surface. We’ll work to understand what brought you here and help you move toward a more authentic version of yourself.
Starting therapy can feel vulnerable, especially if you’ve been holding a lot in for a long time. You don’t have to do it alone. I offer a grounded, compassionate space to explore what’s not working and move toward clarity, connection, and change. If something here resonates, I invite you to reach out.
Call or Jake Sims now for a free 15 minute consultation - (415) 903-2585

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

San Francisco, CA 94102

(415) 903-2585
I offer therapy in-person on Mondays and Tuesdays at my office in Hayes Valley, or via telehealth on Wednesdays and Thursdays.
I specialize in Men's Issues, Anxiety and Self Esteem 
$220 Per Session  
I see individuals, families and groups  
Please watch my video to learn more about me and my practice.
Jake Sims
Let's Connect (415) 903-2585
Photo of Jake Sims, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

San Francisco, CA 94102

(415) 903-2585
I offer therapy in-person on Mondays and Tuesdays at my office in Hayes Valley, or via telehealth on Wednesdays and Thursdays.
I specialize in Men's Issues, Anxiety and Self Esteem 
$220 Per Session  
I see individuals, families and groups  
Please watch my video to learn more about me and my practice.
Jake Sims

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $220
  • Couple Sessions $250
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

Cash, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa
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For clients with out-of-network benefits, I can provide a monthly superbill that may be submitted to your insurance provider for potential reimbursement.
Photo of Jake Sims, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Jake Sims
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 903-2585
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For clients with out-of-network benefits, I can provide a monthly superbill that may be submitted to your insurance provider for potential reimbursement.
Photo of Jake Sims, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Jake Sims
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 903-2585

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 149106 Jake Sims
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 4 years
  • Attended California Institute of Integral Studies, Integral Counseling Psychology, Graduated 2022
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I have nearly five years of experience supporting adults in crisis, including work in a high-intensity setting serving unhoused individuals. I'm a licensed therapist in California and have completed additional training in Buddhist Psychology through Spirit Rock Meditation Center.
Photo of Jake Sims, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Jake Sims
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 903-2585
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I have nearly five years of experience supporting adults in crisis, including work in a high-intensity setting serving unhoused individuals. I'm a licensed therapist in California and have completed additional training in Buddhist Psychology through Spirit Rock Meditation Center.
Photo of Jake Sims, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Jake Sims
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 903-2585

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Men's Issues
  • Anxiety
  • Self Esteem

Expertise

  • Addiction
  • Anger Management
  • Behavioral Issues
  • Bipolar Disorder
  • Codependency
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Emotional Disturbance
  • Family Conflict
  • Grief
  • Impulse Control Disorders
  • Infidelity
  • Internet Addiction
  • Life Transitions
  • Mood Disorders
  • Personality Disorders
  • Relationship Issues
  • Stress
  • Substance Use
  • Suicidal Ideation
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Video Game Addiction
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I work with those navigating depression, anxiety, addiction, low self-esteem, and relationship conflict. Our work helps you understand the deeper roots of your struggles so change can last. In early sessions, we'll clarify what's not working and why. Most clients begin to feel more grounded, less burdened, and better connected to both to themselves and others.
Photo of Jake Sims, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Jake Sims
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 903-2585
"
I work with those navigating depression, anxiety, addiction, low self-esteem, and relationship conflict. Our work helps you understand the deeper roots of your struggles so change can last. In early sessions, we'll clarify what's not working and why. Most clients begin to feel more grounded, less burdened, and better connected to both to themselves and others.
Photo of Jake Sims, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Jake Sims
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 903-2585

7 Endorsements

Ashley Gallagher
Ashley Gallagher
Marriage & Family TherapistMA
I have consulted with Jake for many years, so I can speak to his exceptional clinical skills. He is one of the most skilled therapists I know. His approach is incredibly effective and transformative. I refer him to anyone looking for a male therapist.
Jim Morein
Jim Morein
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateAMFT
An incredibly intuitive and talented therapist, I would highly recommend him to anyone seeking high quality healing, and especially to men needing to get their lives together. As a colleague, he’s the first person I think of when I want a second opinion.
Yagmur Akay
Yagmur Akay
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Jake is a fantastic therapist! He provides on going individual and couples therapy that is grounded in empathy, compassion and insight. He is an outstanding clinician and I recommend working with Jake.
Jacob Glazebnik
Jacob Glazebnik
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFT
I have had the privilege of working with Jake and I cannot recommend him highly enough. He embodies a rare combination of wisdom, heartfelt compassion, and unwavering dedication to the healing process. He brings both skill and genuine care to his work.
Ida Ahmadi
Ida Ahmadi
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Jake is a highly knowledgeable and skilled therapist who brings a grounded, authentic, compassionate approach. I deeply trust his work and I absolutely recommend him to anyone in need of support.
Lis Elle Werth
Lis Elle Werth
Marriage & Family TherapistMASEPLMFTLMHC-LP
Jake is a highly skilled therapist whose strengths shine through his presence, insight, warmth, and relatability with those he collaborates with. As his colleague, I have witnessed his care and integrity he maintains with clients of various backgrounds.
Jonathan Toniolo
Jonathan Toniolo
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateMA
Jake goes above and beyond as a therapist. He is thoughtful and compassionate, an excellent listener, and holds a safe, non-judgemental space for clients to explore the deeper parts of themselves. Highly recommend!

Client Focus

Age

Teen
Adults

Participants

Individuals
Family
Group

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Transgender Allied

Age

Teen
Adults

Participants

Individuals
Family
Group

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Transgender Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Psychoanalytic
  • Psychodynamic
  • Relational
  • Trauma Focused
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I practice psychodynamic therapy, drawing on relational and mindfulness-based approaches. We'll explore how past experiences and internal patterns shape your present life. This deeper work supports lasting change, emotional clarity, and more fulfilling relationships. I also incorporate CBT and parts work when helpful to your goals.
Photo of Jake Sims, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Jake Sims
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 903-2585
"
I practice psychodynamic therapy, drawing on relational and mindfulness-based approaches. We'll explore how past experiences and internal patterns shape your present life. This deeper work supports lasting change, emotional clarity, and more fulfilling relationships. I also incorporate CBT and parts work when helpful to your goals.
Photo of Jake Sims, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Jake Sims
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 903-2585

Location

Primary Location

San Francisco, CA 94102

(415) 903-2585
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I offer therapy in-person on Mondays and Tuesdays at my office in Hayes Valley, or via telehealth on Wednesdays and Thursdays.
Photo of Jake Sims, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Jake Sims
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (415) 903-2585
"
I offer therapy in-person on Mondays and Tuesdays at my office in Hayes Valley, or via telehealth on Wednesdays and Thursdays.
Photo of Jake Sims, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Jake Sims
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Call for a free consultation now - (415) 903-2585