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Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC
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Jae (Janet) Bigley

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC

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Oakland, CA 94607
Ever wonder to yourself, "Why am I like this?", or "What is wrong with me that I can't just..." That's me too, I’m Jae, a Bay Area-based therapist who found their way into this work hoping to become the therapist I couldn't find when I needed it most. Bring me your weird, your awkward, your YOU. I bring a grounded, warm, and deeply curious presence to my work, infused with my authentic (and sometimes delightfully awkward) humanness. Try as I might, a blank slate therapist I am not—I tend to be direct yet gentle, results-oriented yet patient, and I’ll almost always laugh at a perfectly timed sardonic remark.
Together we'll work to find your story and then devise ways to help you get unstuck from where you find yourself right now. We will work to identify all of the unique strengths you already possess and help you make sense of what is and isn't working to achieve your goals.
Finding the right therapist can feel overwhelming, even on your best days, and nearly impossible when you’re struggling. I believe that a strong, comfortable therapeutic relationship is one of the best predictors of success. I offer a free no-obligation consultation to see if we’re a good fit. If we aren't, know that I'll try and connect to someone who is!
Call or Jae (Janet) Bigley now for a free 15 minute consultation - (415) 980-7759

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Oakland, CA 94607

(415) 980-7759
My website
I offer sessions via telehealth video sessions as I grow my practice. Looking forward to offering in person sessions soon though!
I specialize in LGBTQ+, Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly and Polyamory & ENM 
$125 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  
Let's Connect (415) 980-7759
Photo of Jae (Janet) Bigley, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Oakland, CA 94607

(415) 980-7759
My website
I offer sessions via telehealth video sessions as I grow my practice. Looking forward to offering in person sessions soon though!
I specialize in LGBTQ+, Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly and Polyamory & ENM 
$125 Per Session  
I see individuals, couples and families  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $125
  • Couple Sessions $150
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Cash, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • Out of Network
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I am currently cash pay only but do hope to provide support with insurance offerings in the future. For now, I can provide a superbill so you can get help with reimbursements if needed. If you've got a PPO, reach out to me, I may be able to link you with a service that navigates insurance for you.
Photo of Jae (Janet) Bigley, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC
Jae (Janet) Bigley
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 980-7759
"
I am currently cash pay only but do hope to provide support with insurance offerings in the future. For now, I can provide a superbill so you can get help with reimbursements if needed. If you've got a PPO, reach out to me, I may be able to link you with a service that navigates insurance for you.
Photo of Jae (Janet) Bigley, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC
Jae (Janet) Bigley
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 980-7759

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Prelicense by State of California / AMFT 151036 Supervised by Dennis Reno (California / Ph.D 9896) Jae (Janet) Bigley
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • Attended The Wright Institute, Masters in Counseling Psychology
  • Additional Credentials

  • Membership with CAMFT 10070470 / 2025
  • Certificate from City and County of San Francisco Department of Public Health 2025
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I'm pursuing dual licensure as an LMFT and a LPCC in hopes of getting licensed in states that lack affirming care for our most marginalized populations. Everyone deserves to have a therapist who truly understands the unique challenges and experiences from someone who's walked in your shoes.
Photo of Jae (Janet) Bigley, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC
Jae (Janet) Bigley
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 980-7759
"
I'm pursuing dual licensure as an LMFT and a LPCC in hopes of getting licensed in states that lack affirming care for our most marginalized populations. Everyone deserves to have a therapist who truly understands the unique challenges and experiences from someone who's walked in your shoes.
Photo of Jae (Janet) Bigley, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC
Jae (Janet) Bigley
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 980-7759

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • LGBTQ+
  • Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
  • Polyamory & ENM

Expertise

  • ADHD
  • Anxiety
  • Bisexual
  • Coping Skills
  • Dual Diagnosis
  • Family Conflict
  • Gay
  • Geriatric and Seniors
  • Grief
  • Impulse Control Disorders
  • Infidelity
  • Lesbian
  • Life Transitions
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Mood Disorders
  • Peer Relationships
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Stress
  • Suicidal Ideation
  • Transgender
  • Trauma and PTSD
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I love working with clients who are struggling with accepting themselves for who they are. I love helping clients see their innate worthiness, their special and unique qualities that make them who they are, and gently helping them get back on a path of liking who they see in the mirror. To watch my clients move from self-loathing to accomplishing dreams they didn't know they had, what an honor.
Photo of Jae (Janet) Bigley, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC
Jae (Janet) Bigley
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 980-7759
"
I love working with clients who are struggling with accepting themselves for who they are. I love helping clients see their innate worthiness, their special and unique qualities that make them who they are, and gently helping them get back on a path of liking who they see in the mirror. To watch my clients move from self-loathing to accomplishing dreams they didn't know they had, what an honor.
Photo of Jae (Janet) Bigley, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC
Jae (Janet) Bigley
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 980-7759

3 Endorsements

Nels Sundquist
Nels Sundquist
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateAMFTAPCC
Jae is a deeply trusted colleague who I have worked alongside for several years. They are a go-to for me for clinical consultation, and I appreciate their straightforward, direct approach, and I am grateful for their professional insights and humor.
Brannon Reid Lewis
Brannon Reid Lewis
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateAMFT
Jae is a wonderful clinician and overall human who is kind, willing to thoughtfully challenge, and social justice oriented in their work. Jae's curiosity and love of learning shine in their work, and they are skilled at asking insightful questions.
Michele Sloane
Michele Sloane
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateAMFT
Jae is a skilled clinician who holds space with care and compassion for the messiness of being human. They bring a calm, steady presence, offering support and understanding during life's most tender and challenging moments.

Client Focus

Age

Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Transgender Allied

Age

Teen
Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Transgender Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
  • Attachment-based
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
  • Existential
  • Family / Marital
  • Feminist
  • Gottman Method
  • Humanistic
  • Integrative
  • Ketamine-Assisted
  • Narrative
  • Person-Centered
  • Strength-Based
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I love to find what works best for the person sitting in front of me, even if that means I need to seek out and learn new things. I find that everyone is different in what works for them. I love to learn, and I love to adapt the things I've learned. That being said, I love narrative therapy, family systems, attachment theory, Gottman, EFT, DBT, and ACT to name a few.
Photo of Jae (Janet) Bigley, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC
Jae (Janet) Bigley
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 980-7759
"
I love to find what works best for the person sitting in front of me, even if that means I need to seek out and learn new things. I find that everyone is different in what works for them. I love to learn, and I love to adapt the things I've learned. That being said, I love narrative therapy, family systems, attachment theory, Gottman, EFT, DBT, and ACT to name a few.
Photo of Jae (Janet) Bigley, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC
Jae (Janet) Bigley
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 980-7759

Location

Primary Location

Oakland, CA 94607

(415) 980-7759
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I offer sessions via telehealth video sessions as I grow my practice. Looking forward to offering in person sessions soon though!
Photo of Jae (Janet) Bigley, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC
Jae (Janet) Bigley
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC
Call for a free consultation now - (415) 980-7759
"
I offer sessions via telehealth video sessions as I grow my practice. Looking forward to offering in person sessions soon though!
Photo of Jae (Janet) Bigley, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC
Jae (Janet) Bigley
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC
Call for a free consultation now - (415) 980-7759