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Jacob Gotwals

Counselor, MA

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Albuquerque, NM 87108
Do you find yourself caught in the same painful relationship patterns no matter how hard you try to change them? Maybe you’ve leaned on books, courses, or advice from friends, but the same frustrations, conflicts, and disappointments keep coming back. This can leave you anxious, ashamed, and wondering if things will ever get better. I’m Jacob Gotwals, an EMDR Certified Therapist. I help thoughtful adults heal wounds, build confidence, and create healthier connections through relationship counseling. You don’t have to be in couples therapy to work on relationships — individual therapy can also be a powerful way to shift old patterns.
In our work together, we’ll explore the roots of your struggles and help you discover new, more empowering ways forward. Using Relational Life Therapy (RLT), EMDR therapy, and guided imagery, you’ll gain both deep emotional healing and practical skills for communication, boundaries, and decision-making in the relationships that matter most.
Change really is possible. Even if others don’t shift right away, your growth can open the door to more supportive, genuine, and lasting connections. If you’re ready to stop repeating old patterns and start creating the relationships you truly want, I invite you to take the first step and schedule a free consultation today.
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My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Albuquerque, NM 87108

(520) 230-5949

Denver, CO 80206

My website
I serve all locations in New Mexico and Colorado (by video only).
I specialize in Relationship Issues  
$170 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
Please watch my video to learn more about me and my practice.
Jacob Gotwals
Let's Connect (520) 230-5949
Photo of Jacob Gotwals, Counselor, MA

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Albuquerque, NM 87108

(520) 230-5949

Denver, CO 80206

My website
I serve all locations in New Mexico and Colorado (by video only).
I specialize in Relationship Issues  
$170 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
Please watch my video to learn more about me and my practice.
Jacob Gotwals

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $170
  • Couple Sessions $190

Payment Methods

American Express, Discover, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • Out of Network
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I am an out-of-network provider (I am not in-network with any insurances). If you want to seek out-of-network reimbursement yourself, I may be able to provide a monthly receipt/superbill you can submit to your insurance. If you are interested in this option, please let me know so we can discuss.
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Jacob Gotwals
Counselor, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (520) 230-5949
"
I am an out-of-network provider (I am not in-network with any insurances). If you want to seek out-of-network reimbursement yourself, I may be able to provide a monthly receipt/superbill you can submit to your insurance. If you are interested in this option, please let me know so we can discuss.
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Jacob Gotwals
Counselor, MA
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Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of New Mexico Jacob Gotwals
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 10 years
  • Attended Southwestern College (Santa Fe, NM), MA, Graduated 2015
  • Additional Credentials

  • Certificate from Southwestern College Human Sexuality / 2016
  • Certificate from EMDR International Association Certified Therapist / 2020
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New Mexico LPCC license number CCMH0206221, Colorado LPC license number LPC.0016856.
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Jacob Gotwals
Counselor, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (520) 230-5949
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New Mexico LPCC license number CCMH0206221, Colorado LPC license number LPC.0016856.
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Jacob Gotwals
Counselor, MA
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Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Relationship Issues

Expertise

  • Anxiety
  • Bisexual
  • Codependency
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Family Conflict
  • Grief
  • Infidelity
  • Insecure Attachment Style
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Transitions
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Men's Issues
  • Mindfulness
  • Peer Relationships
  • Polyamory & ENM
  • Self Esteem
  • Sex Therapy
  • Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
  • Sexual Abuse
  • Stress
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Women's Issues
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Jacob Gotwals
Counselor, MA
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Jacob Gotwals
Counselor, MA
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2 Endorsements

Sylvan Schneider
Sylvan Schneider
CounselorMALPCC
Jacob and I went to counseling school together and he is someone who I trust and respect as a therapist and friend. Jacob is a gifted therapist who brings clarity, wisdom, and a wealth of experience. I highly recommend Jacob as an outstanding therapist!
Dalila Michele Baied
Dalila Michele Baied
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLCSW
Jacob and I worked together for some time and even shared a group together! I enjoyed working with Jacob. He always communicated clearly, he is very professional, and cares deeply for his patients. I admire his work ethic and passion.

Client Focus

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Transgender Allied

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Transgender Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
  • Attachment-based
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • Eclectic
  • EMDR
  • Guided Imagery (with Ideal Parent Figures)
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Relational Life Therapy (RLT)
  • Transpersonal
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My approach is eclectic, integrating Relational Life Therapy (RLT), EMDR, and cognitive behavioral therapy, and is informed by other therapies, too. I'm guided by my intuition and over a decade of clinical experience.
Photo of Jacob Gotwals, Counselor, MA
Jacob Gotwals
Counselor, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (520) 230-5949
"
My approach is eclectic, integrating Relational Life Therapy (RLT), EMDR, and cognitive behavioral therapy, and is informed by other therapies, too. I'm guided by my intuition and over a decade of clinical experience.
Photo of Jacob Gotwals, Counselor, MA
Jacob Gotwals
Counselor, MA
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (520) 230-5949

Location

Primary Location

Albuquerque, NM 87108

(520) 230-5949

Additional Location

Denver, CO 80206

(520) 230-5949
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I serve all locations in New Mexico and Colorado (by video only).
Photo of Jacob Gotwals, Counselor, MA
Jacob Gotwals
Counselor, MA
Call for a free consultation now - (520) 230-5949
"
I serve all locations in New Mexico and Colorado (by video only).
Photo of Jacob Gotwals, Counselor, MA
Jacob Gotwals
Counselor, MA
Call for a free consultation now - (520) 230-5949