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Jack May
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT

Jack May

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT (he, him)

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
25 Endorsed
Santa Barbara, CA 93108
Let's Connect (805) 243-1170
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Jack May's ideal client faces challenges like sex addiction, financial disorders, anger management, or relationship struggles, including couples work. They feel overwhelmed and seek a non-judgmental space to explore their difficulties. They need compassionate guidance and accountability to break unhealthy patterns, manage emotions, and improve relationships. Their goals include gaining control, achieving financial stability, and fostering deeper connections. Driven by a desire for growth, they seek a fulfilling, balanced life.
Jack May, based in Santa Barbara, is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist specializing in sex addiction, financial disorders, and anger management. He integrates CBT, mindfulness, and EFT in his practice. Jack is the Community Engagement Director for SB-CAMFT and enjoys various outdoor activities, including off-grid camping and golf.
truggling with sex addiction, financial stress, anger, or relationship challenges can leave you feeling isolated and overwhelmed. You're not alone, and it’s okay to seek help. In a non-judgmental space, I offer compassionate guidance tailored to your unique journey. Together, we can break unhealthy patterns, manage emotions, and strengthen your relationships
Call or Jack May now for a free 15 minute consultation - (805) 243-1170

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Santa Barbara, CA 93108

(805) 243-1170

Los Angeles, CA 90025

(805) 203-0021
All sessions are phone & video. Call or text 805-203-0717
I specialize in Anger Management, Depression and Sexual Addiction 
$250 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and families  
I am looking forward to helping
Jack May
Let's Connect (805) 243-1170
Photo of Jack May, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Santa Barbara, CA 93108

(805) 243-1170

Los Angeles, CA 90025

(805) 203-0021
All sessions are phone & video. Call or text 805-203-0717
I specialize in Anger Management, Depression and Sexual Addiction 
$250 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and families  
I am looking forward to helping
Jack May

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $250
  • Couple Sessions $250
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Cash, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Paypal, Venmo, Visa, Zelle

Insurance

  • Aetna
  • Anthem
  • Blue Shield
  • BlueCross and BlueShield
  • CenCal
  • Cigna and Evernorth
  • First Health
  • Government Employees Health Association (GEHA)
  • Health Net
  • Managed Health Network (MHN)
  • Modern Health
  • Optum
  • UC Ship
  • UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
  • Out of Network
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I work on a sliding scale. If you make under $100,000 per year my fee is $175. If you make over $100,000 per year my fee is $250. Additionally, I will coach you on how to find out your co-pay, in-network benefits and how to get your affordable therapy.
Photo of Jack May, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT
Jack May
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 243-1170
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I work on a sliding scale. If you make under $100,000 per year my fee is $175. If you make over $100,000 per year my fee is $250. Additionally, I will coach you on how to find out your co-pay, in-network benefits and how to get your affordable therapy.
Photo of Jack May, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT
Jack May
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 243-1170

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 94423 Jack May
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 14 years
  • Attended Phillips Graduate Institute, Graduated 2011
  • Additional Credentials

  • Certificate from California Association of Anger Management Providers CAAMP2017 / 2017
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Dedicated to talk therapy primarily focusing on adult males ages 18 years to 40 years old.
Photo of Jack May, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT
Jack May
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 243-1170
"
Dedicated to talk therapy primarily focusing on adult males ages 18 years to 40 years old.
Photo of Jack May, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT
Jack May
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 243-1170

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Anger Management
  • Depression
  • Sexual Addiction

Expertise

  • Addiction
  • ADHD
  • Alcohol Use
  • Anxiety
  • Behavioral Issues
  • Body Positivity
  • Cancer
  • Codependency
  • Divorce
  • Drug Abuse
  • Dual Diagnosis
  • Emotional Management
  • Emotional Tolerance
  • Family Conflict
  • Infidelity
  • Internet Addiction
  • Life Coaching
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Men's Issues
  • Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
  • Parenting
  • Self Esteem
  • Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
  • Stress
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Veterans
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Jack May
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT
Do these issues align with your needs? or (805) 243-1170
Photo of Jack May, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT
Jack May
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT
Do these issues align with your needs? or (805) 243-1170

25 Endorsements

Kristine Tye
Kristine Tye
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Jack May is a dedicated individual and therapist. He is passionate about helping his clients achieve their personal goals!
Vasily Todoriko
Vasily Todoriko
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFT
Highly professional yet warm, Jack goes above and beyond when considering the needs of his clients. When working with him, rest assured you are in the hands of a highly qualified clinician.
Rudi Lion
Rudi Lion
Marriage & Family TherapistMFT
Jack is a highly skilled and thoughtful therapist. Good to have on anyone's team!
Karima Shamma
Karima Shamma
Marriage & Family TherapistMAMFT
Jack cares deeply for his clients and is an attentive, insightful and caring therapist with an easy-going style.
Kristi Miller, LMFT
Kristi Miller, LMFT
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFTAuthor
Jack May has an innate skill to connect with his clients and provide relevant and helpful therapeutic support. I refer clients to him often.
Alina P. Halonen
Alina P. Halonen
Licensed Professional CounselorMSLPCCCCTPCEO
If you are looking for a highly skilled clinician who specializes in treating men's issues or you are a couple who is seeking guidance and support, I highly recommend Jack May. He has a successful track record of helping his clients achieve their goals.
Kady Fleckenstein
Kady Fleckenstein
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Jack has a magnetic personality that makes you feel instantly at ease. He listens with intent, is a terrific resource and very reliable. His straight-forward approach is always appreciated as is his passion for helping people.
Danielle Sharkey
Danielle Sharkey
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateMAAMFT
Jack is passionate and committed to helping his clients reach their therapeutic goals. I highly recommend him!
Erika Fales
Erika Fales
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateMAAMFTAPCC
Jack is a highly skilled therapist! He genuinely cares about helping his clients.
Jonathan W. Thompson II
Jonathan W. Thompson II
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFTAPCCCCTPCSAM
Jack is a highly skilled mental health clinician who works with men's issues, individuals, couples and families. He utilizes an eclectic approach that is warm and inviting. He also is a compassionate supervisor who has assisted me in becoming licensed.
Brandi Davis
Brandi Davis
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFTCPTCPC
Jack is the real deal. Not only is he both kind and well-educated, he is also truly committed to providing the best possible care to his clients. It's clear that his heart is in this work and that clients can expect the best with him.
Tesa Saulmon
Tesa Saulmon
LMHCCSAT-C
Jacks dedication to his client's well-being was evident during our training together. His insightful and empathetic approach to therapy is truly commendable.
Dr. Emelina Bellé
Dr. Emelina Bellé
Marriage & Family TherapistPhDCSTCSATCPTTCCBRT
Jack is an outstanding therapist who has extensive experience and specialty expertise in ensuring high-quality care. I highly recommend Jack and am confident in referring clients.
Dave Fung
Dave Fung
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFTCSATMA
You want someone who has the tools and skillset to navigate the challenges of sex addiction. Jack has trained for this and exemplifies a clinican who can warmly and expertly support you. See for yourself!
Alexus Padilla
Alexus Padilla
Associate Professional Clinical CounselorMSAPCC
Jack is a very skilled individual who has a deep care for his clients. He is easy to connect with and has a high level of experience. He has a genuine care and passion for helping others!
Adi Goral
Adi Goral
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Jack's expertise, empathy, and genuine care for his clients are truly remarkable. Jack has a unique ability to create a trusting and supportive therapeutic environment that encourages personal growth and healing. I highly recommend working with Jack!
Teagan Manny
Teagan Manny
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateMAAMFT
Jack brings years of experience and innovative techniques to his practice. His thorough understanding of client needs and his warm, approachable demeanor create an ideal environment for personal development.
Donny Lavezzo
Donny Lavezzo
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Jack is a compassionate, insightful, and skilled therapist. His years of experience, expertise, and genuine care make him an invaluable resource for anyone looking to create meaningful, lasting change in their life.
John Vargas
John Vargas
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateMAAMFTAPCC
Jack brings an abundance of knowledge and expertise to help men break unhealthy patterns, manage emotions, and strengthen relationships. Specializing in sex addiction, anger management, and relationships, you'll feel heard and safe in his care!
Susanna De Mari
Susanna De Mari
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFT
Jack offers a comprehensive approach to therapy, with expertise in co-occurring disorders and addictive behaviors. If you're looking for support in a safe and compassionate environment, Jack is an outstanding choice for your therapeutic journey.
Edward Fales
Edward Fales
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateMAAMFTAPCC
Jack offers a safe, compassionate space where clients feel supported and understood. His non-judgmental approach and knowledgeable guidance help individuals break patterns, face issues, and create meaningful changes for a healthier, more fulfilling life.

Client Focus

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Aviation Professionals
Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Transgender Allied

Ethnicity

Hispanic and Latino
Other Racial or Ethnic Background

I also speak

Portuguese
Spanish

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Aviation Professionals
Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Transgender Allied

Ethnicity

Hispanic and Latino
Other Racial or Ethnic Background

I also speak

Portuguese
Spanish

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Coaching
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Eclectic
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Family Systems
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Narrative
  • Person-Centered
  • Positive Psychology
  • Reality Therapy
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
  • Strength-Based
  • Structural Family Therapy
Photo of Jack May, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT
Jack May
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (805) 243-1170
Photo of Jack May, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT
Jack May
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (805) 243-1170

Location

Primary Location

Santa Barbara, CA 93108

(805) 243-1170

Additional Location

Los Angeles, CA 90025

(805) 203-0021
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All sessions are phone & video. Call or text 805-203-0717
Photo of Jack May, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT
Jack May
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT
Call for a free consultation now - (805) 243-1170
"
All sessions are phone & video. Call or text 805-203-0717
Photo of Jack May, Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT
Jack May
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT
Call for a free consultation now - (805) 243-1170