Jack May

My ideal clients are struggling with sex addiction, financial disorders, anger, or relationship challenges (including couples work). They feel overwhelmed and want a nonjudgmental space to be honest about what’s happening. I offer compassionate support and clear accountability to help break unhealthy patterns, manage emotions, and strengthen relationships. Their goals are more control, financial stability, and deeper connection—so they can build a life that feels balanced and fulfilling.

I’m Jack May, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based in Santa Barbara. I specialize in sex addiction, financial disorders, and anger management, and I integrate CBT, mindfulness, and EFT in my work. I also serve as the Community Engagement Director for SB-CAMFT. Outside the office, I enjoy outdoor time—especially off-grid camping and golf.

If you’re struggling with sex addiction, financial stress, anger, or relationship challenges, you may feel isolated and overwhelmed. You’re not alone. I offer a nonjudgmental space and compassionate, personalized support. Together, we can break unhealthy patterns, manage emotions, and strengthen your relationships.

Take the first step to help. Call or Email Jack May now - (805) 243-1170

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

735 State Street

Santa Barbara, CA 93101 map

2001 South Barrington Avenue

Los Angeles, CA 90025 map

All sessions are phone & video. Call or text 805-203-0717

I specialize in Anger Management, Depression and Sexual Addiction

$225 Per Session, I accept insurance

I see individuals, couples and families

I am looking forward to helping

Let's Connect (805) 243-1170

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

735 State Street

Santa Barbara, CA 93101 map

2001 South Barrington Avenue

Los Angeles, CA 90025 map

All sessions are phone & video. Call or text 805-203-0717

I specialize in Anger Management, Depression and Sexual Addiction

$225 Per Session, I accept insurance

I see individuals, couples and families

I am looking forward to helping

Finances

Fees

Individual Sessions $225
Couple Sessions $225
Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

American Express, Cash, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Paypal, Venmo, Visa, Zelle

Insurance

Aetna
Anthem
Blue Shield
BlueCross and BlueShield
CenCal
Cigna and Evernorth
First Health
Government Employees Health Association (GEHA)
Health Net
Managed Health Network (MHN)
Modern Health
Optum
UC Ship
UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
Out of Network

I work on a sliding scale. If you make under $100,000 per year my fee is $185. If you make over $100,000 per year my fee is $225. Additionally, I will coach you on how to find out your co-pay, in-network benefits and how to get your affordable therapy.

Jack May

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT, CBRT

Email me or call with questions - (805) 243-1170

Jack May

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT, CBRT

Email me or call with questions - (805) 243-1170

Qualifications

Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 94423 Jack May

Education and Years In Practice

In Practice for 15 years

Attended Phillips Graduate Institute, Graduated 2011

Additional Credentials

Certificate from California Association of Anger Management Providers CAAMP2017 / 2017

Dedicated to talk therapy primarily focusing on adult males ages 18 years to 60 years old.

Jack May

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT, CBRT

Email me or call with questions - (805) 243-1170

Dedicated to talk therapy primarily focusing on adult males ages 18 years to 60 years old.

Jack May

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT, CBRT

Email me or call with questions - (805) 243-1170

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

Anger Management
Depression
Sexual Addiction

Expertise

Addiction
ADHD
Alcohol Use
Anxiety
Behavioral Issues
Body Image
Cancer
Codependency
Divorce
Drug Abuse
Dual Diagnosis
Emotional Management
Emotional Tolerance
Family Conflict
Infidelity
Internet Addiction
Life Coaching
Marital and Premarital
Men's Issues
Parenting
Polyamory & ENM
Self Esteem
Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
Stress
Trauma and PTSD
Veterans

Jack May

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT, CBRT

Do these issues align with your needs? Email or (805) 243-1170

Jack May

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT, CBRT

Do these issues align with your needs? Email or (805) 243-1170

24 Endorsements

Kristine Tye

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Jack May is a dedicated individual and therapist. He is passionate about helping his clients achieve their personal goals!

Vasily Todoriko

Highly professional yet warm, Jack goes above and beyond when considering the needs of his clients. When working with him, rest assured you are in the hands of a highly qualified clinician.

Rudi Lion

Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT

Jack is a highly skilled and thoughtful therapist. Good to have on anyone's team!

Karima Shamma

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT

Jack cares deeply for his clients and is an attentive, insightful and caring therapist with an easy-going style.

Kristi Miller, LMFT

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, Author

Jack May has an innate skill to connect with his clients and provide relevant and helpful therapeutic support. I refer clients to him often.

Alina P. Halonen

Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCC

If you are looking for a highly skilled clinician who specializes in treating men's issues or you are a couple who is seeking guidance and support, I highly recommend Jack May. He has a successful track record of helping his clients achieve their goals.

Kady Fleckenstein

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT

Jack has a magnetic personality that makes you feel instantly at ease. He listens with intent, is a terrific resource and very reliable. His straight-forward approach is always appreciated as is his passion for helping people.

Danielle Sharkey

Jack is passionate and committed to helping his clients reach their therapeutic goals. I highly recommend him!

Erika Fales

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, LPCC

Jack is a highly skilled therapist! He genuinely cares about helping his clients.

Jonathan W. Thompson II

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LPCC, CCTP-II, CSAM

Jack is a highly skilled mental health clinician who works with men's issues, individuals, couples and families. He utilizes an eclectic approach that is warm and inviting. He also is a compassionate supervisor who has assisted me in becoming licensed.

Brandi Davis

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CPT, CPC

Jack is the real deal. Not only is he both kind and well-educated, he is also truly committed to providing the best possible care to his clients. It's clear that his heart is in this work and that clients can expect the best with him.

Tesa Saulmon

LMHC, CSAT

Jacks dedication to his client's well-being was evident during our training together. His insightful and empathetic approach to therapy is truly commendable.

Dr. Emelina Bellé

Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, CST, CSAT, CPTT, Gottman

Jack is an outstanding therapist who has extensive experience and specialty expertise in ensuring high-quality care. I highly recommend Jack and am confident in referring clients.

Dave Fung

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CSAT, MA

You want someone who has the tools and skillset to navigate the challenges of sex addiction. Jack has trained for this and exemplifies a clinican who can warmly and expertly support you. See for yourself!

Adi Goral

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW

Jack's expertise, empathy, and genuine care for his clients are truly remarkable. Jack has a unique ability to create a trusting and supportive therapeutic environment that encourages personal growth and healing. I highly recommend working with Jack!

Michelle Trudeau LeBeau

Sonja Lindstrom

Marriage & Family Therapist, RN, MFT, CHT

Avedian Counseling Center

Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, CAMS-IV, TFT

Ariel L LANDRUM

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, ATR, LMFT

Teagan Manny

Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT, APCC

Jack brings years of experience and innovative techniques to his practice. His thorough understanding of client needs and his warm, approachable demeanor create an ideal environment for personal development.

John Vargas

Jack brings an abundance of knowledge and expertise to help men break unhealthy patterns, manage emotions, and strengthen relationships. Specializing in sex addiction, anger management, and relationships, you'll feel heard and safe in his care!

Susanna De Mari

Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT

Jack offers a comprehensive approach to therapy, with expertise in co-occurring disorders and addictive behaviors. If you're looking for support in a safe and compassionate environment, Jack is an outstanding choice for your therapeutic journey.

Edward Fales

Registered Psychotherapist, BTh, MDiv, RP, CSAT, EMDR

Jack offers a safe, compassionate space where clients feel supported and understood. His non-judgmental approach and knowledgeable guidance help individuals break patterns, face issues, and create meaningful changes for a healthier, more fulfilling life.

Christal Wilson

Jack is an incredible therapist. I highly recommend his expertise to any persons looking to do intentional and specific work in Sex Addiction recovery. I trust his skill and depth of compassion for his clients.

Client Focus

Age

Adults ,

Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals ,

Couples ,

Family

Communities

Aviation Professionals ,

Racial Justice Allied

Ethnicity

Hispanic and Latino

I also speak

Portuguese ,

Spanish

Age

Adults ,

Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals ,

Couples ,

Family

Communities

Aviation Professionals ,

Racial Justice Allied

Ethnicity

Hispanic and Latino

I also speak

Portuguese ,

Spanish

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

Attachment-based
Coaching
Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
Eclectic
Emotionally Focused
Family Systems
Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
Motivational Interviewing
Narrative
Person-Centered
Positive Psychology
Reality Therapy
Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
Strength-Based
Structural Family Therapy

Jack May

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT, CBRT

Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. Email or (805) 243-1170

Jack May

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT, CBRT

Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. Email or (805) 243-1170

Location

Primary Location

735 State Street

Santa Barbara, CA 93101

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Additional Location

2001 South Barrington Avenue

Los Angeles, CA 90025