Therapists in 10009
Helen Nemes
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10009
Do you engage in self-defeating behaviors? Are you drawn to relationships that will disappoint you? Are you not living up to your potential? I will help you discover your strengths and how you can be more resilient! I am a Psychotherapist using cognitive behavioral, evidence-based techniques as well as a holistic approach to help you cope with anxiety, depression, addictions, as well as relationships with partners, families, and work. I will help you break negative and patterns in order for you to develop loving and caring relationships in your family and at work.
Do you engage in self-defeating behaviors? Are you drawn to relationships that will disappoint you? Are you not living up to your potential? I will help you discover your strengths and how you can be more resilient! I am a Psychotherapist using cognitive behavioral, evidence-based techniques as well as a holistic approach to help you cope with anxiety, depression, addictions, as well as relationships with partners, families, and work. I will help you break negative and patterns in order for you to develop loving and caring relationships in your family and at work.
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Intervention Therapists
How does an intervention work?
An intervention is a planned, structured meeting in which a person’s family or friends voice concerns about the person’s behavior and its consequences; the goal is for the person to accept treatment. In this meeting, the person’s loved ones (often with the guidance of a trained interventionist) share how the person’s behavior has harmed them and the consequences if the person refuses treatment. They collectively ask the person to accept a proposed treatment plan.
How effective are interventions?
There isn’t extensive research on the efficacy of interventions, in part because success is difficult to measure. Individuals often enter addiction treatment after an intervention, for example, but treatment itself may not work, especially if the person only begins due to external pressure from others rather than due to internal motivation to change. However, if all other attempts at helping someone have failed, an intervention may be worth exploring.
What are the limitations of interventions?
While a friend or family member’s intentions are in the right place in wanting to help a loved one through an intervention, there are significant limitations to the approach. The surprising nature of the event can make the person feel ambushed or judged. They may feel embarrassed or ashamed as a result, and relationships may be strained or broken. This can make it difficult for the individual to be receptive to the concerns of their loved ones and the interventionist.
Are there alternatives to interventions?
Rather than confronting a loved one through an intervention, an effective and less pressured approach is to create space for a caring, open, one-on-one conversation. This works best if the loved one asks open-ended questions, listens attentively to the answers, and frames their observations and statements with concern rather than judgment. More than one conversation may be needed, but change can take root over time.