Therapists in Bellevue, WA

Photo of Erik Ploof, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate in Bellevue, WA
Erik Ploof
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, LMFTA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bellevue, WA 98005
Tired of arguing and thinking about divorce? Do you want to be seen, heard & understood in your relationship? Has your marriage been hurt by infidelity or sexual addiction? If you're feeling discouraged about your relationship, it's time to get support. I help couples create a safe space together to explore conflict, deepen their connection, resolve communication problems and repair trust. Your relationship does not have to be this hard. I'll show you how to to break old patterns, approach challenges together, and respond in ways that foster connection & enhance intimacy. Together we'll create a plan for your relationship to thrive.
Tired of arguing and thinking about divorce? Do you want to be seen, heard & understood in your relationship? Has your marriage been hurt by infidelity or sexual addiction? If you're feeling discouraged about your relationship, it's time to get support. I help couples create a safe space together to explore conflict, deepen their connection, resolve communication problems and repair trust. Your relationship does not have to be this hard. I'll show you how to to break old patterns, approach challenges together, and respond in ways that foster connection & enhance intimacy. Together we'll create a plan for your relationship to thrive.
(425) 287-5575 View (425) 287-5575
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Dr. Priyal Ranasinghe
Counselor, PsyD, MBA, LMHCA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bellevue, WA 98005  (Online Only)
Are neurodivergent traits from ADHD or autism causing challenges in your relationship? Has infidelity caused a rupture in trust with your partner? Do you struggle with sexual addiction? I specialize in helping individuals and couples navigate the unique challenges of neurodivergent relationships, as well as breaches of trust. I can help you navigate these painful wounds and leverage your strengths, while addressing emotional barriers and struggles to communicate empathy. Together, you can build a stronger, more supportive relationship, connect on a deeper level, and create the relationship you both want.
Are neurodivergent traits from ADHD or autism causing challenges in your relationship? Has infidelity caused a rupture in trust with your partner? Do you struggle with sexual addiction? I specialize in helping individuals and couples navigate the unique challenges of neurodivergent relationships, as well as breaches of trust. I can help you navigate these painful wounds and leverage your strengths, while addressing emotional barriers and struggles to communicate empathy. Together, you can build a stronger, more supportive relationship, connect on a deeper level, and create the relationship you both want.
(425) 437-2386 View (425) 437-2386
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Dr. Julian Dayton
Counselor, PsyD, MA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Bellevue, WA 98005
Are you thinking about divorce after discovering your partner's infidelity or sexual addiction? Are you tired of having the same arguments with no resolution? Is trauma or crippling anxiety keeping you from the life you want? I help clients navigate these challenges to create healthier relationships, heal from trauma, and create a path forward that supports a more meaningful and fulfilling life. I will provide you with empirically-based tools to overcome obstacles that may seem hopeless and help you create positive change in your life.
Are you thinking about divorce after discovering your partner's infidelity or sexual addiction? Are you tired of having the same arguments with no resolution? Is trauma or crippling anxiety keeping you from the life you want? I help clients navigate these challenges to create healthier relationships, heal from trauma, and create a path forward that supports a more meaningful and fulfilling life. I will provide you with empirically-based tools to overcome obstacles that may seem hopeless and help you create positive change in your life.
(425) 434-5968 View (425) 434-5968
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Dr. James Dillon
Psychologist, PhD, LPsy
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Bellevue, WA 98005
Do your sexual behaviors feel out of control? Are you concerned that you might be addicted to sex or porn? Has infidelity harmed your relationship? Perhaps you are struggling with sexual concerns like ED? If it's hard for you to stop problematic sexual behaviors on your own, it's time to see a specialist. I understand the impact compulsive sexual behavior can have on one's life and the toll of betrayal trauma on your relationship. I am committed to walking alongside my clients as they navigate their path to recovery. I am passionate about helping individuals achieve healthy intimacy, heal from trauma, and live a fulfilling life.
Do your sexual behaviors feel out of control? Are you concerned that you might be addicted to sex or porn? Has infidelity harmed your relationship? Perhaps you are struggling with sexual concerns like ED? If it's hard for you to stop problematic sexual behaviors on your own, it's time to see a specialist. I understand the impact compulsive sexual behavior can have on one's life and the toll of betrayal trauma on your relationship. I am committed to walking alongside my clients as they navigate their path to recovery. I am passionate about helping individuals achieve healthy intimacy, heal from trauma, and live a fulfilling life.
(425) 966-2275 View (425) 966-2275
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Dr. Keri Clark
Psychologist, PhD, LPsy
Verified Verified
Bellevue, WA 98005
Is your relationship struggling from the trauma of sexual secrets, sexual addiction, or infidelity? Has substance use hurt your relationships? If you are finding it difficult to move forward after the discovery of betrayal or addiction, I can help you create a plan to heal, reconnect with your partner, and save your relationship. I offer a safe space for you to discuss your past behaviors and the havoc they've created in your life. You will learn to free yourself from overwhelming feelings of shame and depression. I will support you with whatever you are facing so you know that you are not alone.
Is your relationship struggling from the trauma of sexual secrets, sexual addiction, or infidelity? Has substance use hurt your relationships? If you are finding it difficult to move forward after the discovery of betrayal or addiction, I can help you create a plan to heal, reconnect with your partner, and save your relationship. I offer a safe space for you to discuss your past behaviors and the havoc they've created in your life. You will learn to free yourself from overwhelming feelings of shame and depression. I will support you with whatever you are facing so you know that you are not alone.
(425) 434-5931 View (425) 434-5931
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Preston Jones
Counselor, LMHCA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bellevue, WA 98004
Taking the first step can feel unsure, but after you reach out and make that call, I will walk with you through what the healing process looks like together - we will figure this out. I specialize in individual therapy and couples counseling, especially when dealing with addiction and/or infidelity. I use well established therapeutic modalities, some Gottman, and the Authentic Self Modality to help you build a happier life. More than anything else, I believe that we can find the answers, together. You can also see me on YouTube by searching: Preston Jones, Infidelity - 6 steps to building a healthier relationship.
Taking the first step can feel unsure, but after you reach out and make that call, I will walk with you through what the healing process looks like together - we will figure this out. I specialize in individual therapy and couples counseling, especially when dealing with addiction and/or infidelity. I use well established therapeutic modalities, some Gottman, and the Authentic Self Modality to help you build a happier life. More than anything else, I believe that we can find the answers, together. You can also see me on YouTube by searching: Preston Jones, Infidelity - 6 steps to building a healthier relationship.
(425) 217-8566 View (425) 217-8566
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Brian Humphries
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Bellevue, WA 98005
If sexual behavior is hurting you or someone you care about with affairs, problematic pornography use, or other secretive sexual activity, I can work with you to help you find effective solutions to restore trust, integrity and wholeness.
Are you tired of breaking commitments to yourself and others about stopping your sexual addiction or compulsive porn use? Have you hurt your partner from infidelity or sexual betrayal and desperately want to save your relationship? If your sexual behavior feels out of control and you're unable to stop, despite the havoc it's creating in your life, I can help you. Together we can create a plan to stop the destructive cycle you are stuck in, target feelings of shame and hopelessness and regain control over your life. Let me show you how to live within your values and how to show up authentically to repair trust with your partner.
If sexual behavior is hurting you or someone you care about with affairs, problematic pornography use, or other secretive sexual activity, I can work with you to help you find effective solutions to restore trust, integrity and wholeness.
Are you tired of breaking commitments to yourself and others about stopping your sexual addiction or compulsive porn use? Have you hurt your partner from infidelity or sexual betrayal and desperately want to save your relationship? If your sexual behavior feels out of control and you're unable to stop, despite the havoc it's creating in your life, I can help you. Together we can create a plan to stop the destructive cycle you are stuck in, target feelings of shame and hopelessness and regain control over your life. Let me show you how to live within your values and how to show up authentically to repair trust with your partner.
(425) 292-1528 View (425) 292-1528
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Brian Petermeyer
Counselor, MA, LMHCA
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Bellevue, WA 98006  (Online Only)
Healing, growth, and change. Are you wondering if these common outcomes of therapy are actually possible for you, or if therapy works at all? Maybe you have a different set of questions. Can someone really help me overcome this dark depression or intense anxiety? Am I the only one feeling like this? Can our relationship rebound after this betrayal? What's wrong with me/him/her/them/us? Will I ever be free of this addiction? Why can't they just be happy for me? Questions like these are worthy to be asked and take a great deal of courage to seek the answers. You don't have to do this alone.
Healing, growth, and change. Are you wondering if these common outcomes of therapy are actually possible for you, or if therapy works at all? Maybe you have a different set of questions. Can someone really help me overcome this dark depression or intense anxiety? Am I the only one feeling like this? Can our relationship rebound after this betrayal? What's wrong with me/him/her/them/us? Will I ever be free of this addiction? Why can't they just be happy for me? Questions like these are worthy to be asked and take a great deal of courage to seek the answers. You don't have to do this alone.
(425) 225-3469 x703 View (425) 225-3469 x703
Photo of Chris Byers, Counselor in Bellevue, WA
Chris Byers
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Bellevue, WA 98006
Healing, growth, and change. Are you wondering if these common outcomes of therapy are actually possible for you, or if therapy works at all? Maybe you have a different set of questions. Can someone really help me overcome this dark depression or intense anxiety? Am I the only one feeling like this? Can our relationship rebound after this betrayal? What's wrong with me/him/her/us? Will I ever be free of this addiction? Why can't they just be happy for me? Questions like these are worthy to ask and it takes courage to seek the answers.
Healing, growth, and change. Are you wondering if these common outcomes of therapy are actually possible for you, or if therapy works at all? Maybe you have a different set of questions. Can someone really help me overcome this dark depression or intense anxiety? Am I the only one feeling like this? Can our relationship rebound after this betrayal? What's wrong with me/him/her/us? Will I ever be free of this addiction? Why can't they just be happy for me? Questions like these are worthy to ask and it takes courage to seek the answers.
(425) 409-9002 x700 View (425) 409-9002 x700
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Marlon Familton
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bellevue, WA 98004
Betrayal, infidelity, fighting, or distance are all common issues.
Are you in a relationship and still feel alone? Do you find yourself feeling angry all the time? Have you started to lose hope in your relationship? It doesn't have to be that way. Most couples learn that it isn't their partner they are tired of, rather the problem is the negative cycle that takes over every time they try to talk or connect. Individually, we can focus on easing anxiety and depression, boosting your self-esteem and setting boundaries where necessary.
Betrayal, infidelity, fighting, or distance are all common issues.
Are you in a relationship and still feel alone? Do you find yourself feeling angry all the time? Have you started to lose hope in your relationship? It doesn't have to be that way. Most couples learn that it isn't their partner they are tired of, rather the problem is the negative cycle that takes over every time they try to talk or connect. Individually, we can focus on easing anxiety and depression, boosting your self-esteem and setting boundaries where necessary.
(425) 650-0041 View (425) 650-0041
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Dr Jeff Gold, Psychotherapy and Video Counseling
MSW, PhD
Verified Verified
Bellevue, WA 98006
My work with clients focuses on relationships. I have over 40 years of experience with couples, individuals and families. I specialize in couple therapy but work well with individuals and families.I am active as a therapist, and will be direct and clear about the patterns I see. I will come right to the point, but with care and compassion. I will meet with you in my office or by video. I work with with a range of clients, including straight, gay and lesbians. They may be married, co-habitating or single. Issues include attachment, commitment, betrayal or "heating-up" a partnership gone cold.
My work with clients focuses on relationships. I have over 40 years of experience with couples, individuals and families. I specialize in couple therapy but work well with individuals and families.I am active as a therapist, and will be direct and clear about the patterns I see. I will come right to the point, but with care and compassion. I will meet with you in my office or by video. I work with with a range of clients, including straight, gay and lesbians. They may be married, co-habitating or single. Issues include attachment, commitment, betrayal or "heating-up" a partnership gone cold.
(206) 222-7285 View (206) 222-7285
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John Buscher
Counselor, MA, LMHC, NBCC, MHP
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Bellevue, WA 98015
I specialize in helping (non-)neurotypical couples learn to restore intimacy, communicate better, overcome hurtful events & affairs using Gottman methods.
If there is one constant in life, it's change; a new job or suddenly having to look for one , a new relationship or a heart break, a marriage, a divorce, life not working out the way you had hoped. Let me help you navigate these uncertain times, helping you to find a way through them or take a new tack or tap into hidden strengths. Sometimes we can change the situation; sometimes we must change ourselves, tearing down limiting beliefs and narratives to create new beliefs and narratives that honor our true self, our true values, and our goals.
I specialize in helping (non-)neurotypical couples learn to restore intimacy, communicate better, overcome hurtful events & affairs using Gottman methods.
If there is one constant in life, it's change; a new job or suddenly having to look for one , a new relationship or a heart break, a marriage, a divorce, life not working out the way you had hoped. Let me help you navigate these uncertain times, helping you to find a way through them or take a new tack or tap into hidden strengths. Sometimes we can change the situation; sometimes we must change ourselves, tearing down limiting beliefs and narratives to create new beliefs and narratives that honor our true self, our true values, and our goals.
(206) 207-4735 View (206) 207-4735
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Pete Lobert
Counselor, MA, LMHC, PCC-S
Verified Verified
Bellevue, WA 98006  (Online Only)
At The Care Center I specialize in relationship counseling and complex trauma, PTSD, and Dissociative Identity Disorder. I help marriages or couples dealing with infidelity, blended family issues, conflict, communication issues, and couples in crisis. I'm also passionate about helping others heal from past traumas. My philosophy is to find the roots of the problems and resolve them rather than simply helping learn awkward coping skills. At The Care Center you won't learn weird communication skills or deep breathing techniques. We work on healing wounds and rebuilding trust. When you do these things you won't need more "skills."
At The Care Center I specialize in relationship counseling and complex trauma, PTSD, and Dissociative Identity Disorder. I help marriages or couples dealing with infidelity, blended family issues, conflict, communication issues, and couples in crisis. I'm also passionate about helping others heal from past traumas. My philosophy is to find the roots of the problems and resolve them rather than simply helping learn awkward coping skills. At The Care Center you won't learn weird communication skills or deep breathing techniques. We work on healing wounds and rebuilding trust. When you do these things you won't need more "skills."
(206) 752-2665 View (206) 752-2665
Photo of Matt Cox, Marriage & Family Therapist in Bellevue, WA
Matt Cox
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT, MDiv, MBA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Bellevue, WA 98004  (Online Only)
If you and your partner want to work on your relationship, I have specific training in couples therapy and experience helping partners improve their connection, reduce fighting, and recover from affairs and other wounds to the relationship.
At one time or another, we all find ourselves stuck. We end up burdened by depression, loss, or anxiety. Our relationships become mired in conflict and disconnection. We feel the life we want is out of reach. As a therapist, my goal is to help you get unstuck and step into the life you want. I provide therapy to individuals and couples that is engaging, caring, practical, and applicable to your life and goals. I have experience working with anxiety, depression, and life transition issues. I also have training and experience supporting clients with issues related to spirituality or purpose.
If you and your partner want to work on your relationship, I have specific training in couples therapy and experience helping partners improve their connection, reduce fighting, and recover from affairs and other wounds to the relationship.
At one time or another, we all find ourselves stuck. We end up burdened by depression, loss, or anxiety. Our relationships become mired in conflict and disconnection. We feel the life we want is out of reach. As a therapist, my goal is to help you get unstuck and step into the life you want. I provide therapy to individuals and couples that is engaging, caring, practical, and applicable to your life and goals. I have experience working with anxiety, depression, and life transition issues. I also have training and experience supporting clients with issues related to spirituality or purpose.
(206) 231-6862 View (206) 231-6862
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Michael Baker
Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT, LMFT
Verified Verified
Bellevue, WA 98015  (Online Only)
Thanks for your interest in my profile. As a marriage and family therapist, I am specifically trained to see couples and families, but I very much enjoy working with individuals as well. Developing insight towards learning how to love others and be loved by others is the key to building healthy, connected relationships. If you are finding that you are struggling in maintaining or developing relationships with others, if you have experienced betrayal, or if you struggle to maintain connection with others, especially your partners, then I am the therapist you are looking for. I also enjoy working with a variety of individual issues.
Thanks for your interest in my profile. As a marriage and family therapist, I am specifically trained to see couples and families, but I very much enjoy working with individuals as well. Developing insight towards learning how to love others and be loved by others is the key to building healthy, connected relationships. If you are finding that you are struggling in maintaining or developing relationships with others, if you have experienced betrayal, or if you struggle to maintain connection with others, especially your partners, then I am the therapist you are looking for. I also enjoy working with a variety of individual issues.
(425) 528-8944 View (425) 528-8944
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Dr. James Olsen
Mental Health Counselor, JD, PhD, LMHC, CSAT, CST
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Bellevue, WA 98005
Dr. Olsen is a national leader in sexual addiction or compulsive sexual behaviors, men's sexual health, and intimacy disorders. His approach goes far beyond a "one size fits all" treatment model. There is no single treatment that works for everybody and no workbook that addresses everyone's needs. It is critical to assess for your unique struggles and to understand the true nature of your problematic sexual behaviors. He can develop a personalized care plan that will be effective at addressing all of the elements that are at play in your life struggles. Dr. Olsen will help you connect, be authentic, and make profound life changes.
Dr. Olsen is a national leader in sexual addiction or compulsive sexual behaviors, men's sexual health, and intimacy disorders. His approach goes far beyond a "one size fits all" treatment model. There is no single treatment that works for everybody and no workbook that addresses everyone's needs. It is critical to assess for your unique struggles and to understand the true nature of your problematic sexual behaviors. He can develop a personalized care plan that will be effective at addressing all of the elements that are at play in your life struggles. Dr. Olsen will help you connect, be authentic, and make profound life changes.
(425) 678-3569 View (425) 678-3569
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Roger Baerwolf
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bellevue, WA 98004
I specialize in supporting couples and adult individuals in creating meaningful relationships and lives through lasting change. Whether you're experiencing a personal crisis or struggle, working through a conflict with a partner, wishing to feel more like a lover than a roommate, managing a rough patch with a co-parent, or seeking greater emotional connection with yourself, your children, or others, I can probably help.
I specialize in supporting couples and adult individuals in creating meaningful relationships and lives through lasting change. Whether you're experiencing a personal crisis or struggle, working through a conflict with a partner, wishing to feel more like a lover than a roommate, managing a rough patch with a co-parent, or seeking greater emotional connection with yourself, your children, or others, I can probably help.
(425) 230-3959 View (425) 230-3959
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Daniel McKenzie
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, CSAT
Verified Verified
Bellevue, WA 98004
Doesn't life feel too hard sometimes? Whether you're struggling with negative emotions, had something happen to you, or created a mess of your own, I want to help you find your way again and for you to know you're not alone. I've been helping adults, couples, parents, and families for over 15 years get their lives moving in the direction they want again, and hope you'll give me a chance too. I offer a client-centered approach for your unique situation and needs. For some people and in some stages of therapy I'll do a lot of listening. For other people and stages, I'll provide perspective and guidance as desired.
Doesn't life feel too hard sometimes? Whether you're struggling with negative emotions, had something happen to you, or created a mess of your own, I want to help you find your way again and for you to know you're not alone. I've been helping adults, couples, parents, and families for over 15 years get their lives moving in the direction they want again, and hope you'll give me a chance too. I offer a client-centered approach for your unique situation and needs. For some people and in some stages of therapy I'll do a lot of listening. For other people and stages, I'll provide perspective and guidance as desired.
(206) 900-8208 View (206) 900-8208
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Matthew J Bennett
Psychologist, PsyD, MA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Bellevue, WA 98004  (Online Only)
I am a licensed clinical psychologist with over 20 years of experience as a psychotherapist. Passion for my work, empathy, and excellence in clinical training (several years at University of Pennsylvania) allow me to provide effective, lasting results. I use an integrative, eclectic approach combining psychodynamic and interpersonal therapies to help adolescents and adults gain insight and work through varied life concerns. I see symptoms such as depression, anxiety, and relationship conflict as opportunities for change and personal growth.
I am a licensed clinical psychologist with over 20 years of experience as a psychotherapist. Passion for my work, empathy, and excellence in clinical training (several years at University of Pennsylvania) allow me to provide effective, lasting results. I use an integrative, eclectic approach combining psychodynamic and interpersonal therapies to help adolescents and adults gain insight and work through varied life concerns. I see symptoms such as depression, anxiety, and relationship conflict as opportunities for change and personal growth.
(425) 374-4661 View (425) 374-4661
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Adam Johnson
Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Bellevue, WA 98004  (Online Only)
Are you struggling with your mood or ADHD? Do you think your partner is not listening to you, not understanding you, or not considering you? Are you struggling with hope or your identity? Well I am here to help. If you find you having issues with controlling you emotions, negative thoughts about yourself or what is going on around you, or can not seem to do the things you want, then reach out now so you can start improving today. Do you find you have issues with accountability, discipline, or self-awareness, which impacts your everyday life? If these are issues that impact you, if you are not sure what to do, please reach out.
Are you struggling with your mood or ADHD? Do you think your partner is not listening to you, not understanding you, or not considering you? Are you struggling with hope or your identity? Well I am here to help. If you find you having issues with controlling you emotions, negative thoughts about yourself or what is going on around you, or can not seem to do the things you want, then reach out now so you can start improving today. Do you find you have issues with accountability, discipline, or self-awareness, which impacts your everyday life? If these are issues that impact you, if you are not sure what to do, please reach out.
(206) 567-1397 View (206) 567-1397
Infidelity Therapists

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.