Infidelity Therapists in Putnam Valley, NY

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David Silverman
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Putnam Valley, NY 10579
I specialize in marriage and couple therapy. Goals and Objectives of Couples Therapy: The major aim of therapy is increasing your knowledge about yourself, your partner and the patterns of interaction between you.I use: Attachment Therapy, Mindfulness, Body-centered Psychotherapy, Emotional Focused Therapy, Cognitive therapy, Structural therapy, Psychodynamic therapy, Family focused therapy, and Hakomi therapy.
I specialize in marriage and couple therapy. Goals and Objectives of Couples Therapy: The major aim of therapy is increasing your knowledge about yourself, your partner and the patterns of interaction between you.I use: Attachment Therapy, Mindfulness, Body-centered Psychotherapy, Emotional Focused Therapy, Cognitive therapy, Structural therapy, Psychodynamic therapy, Family focused therapy, and Hakomi therapy.
(845) 765-3094 View (845) 765-3094
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Perseverance Now Counseling Center
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CCATP, SIFI
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Putnam Valley, NY 10579
Great to meet you! My name is Briana! I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, with over 13 years' experience working with adult individuals, couples, and groups. I seek to not only challenge Clients, but to support, empower, and foster growth towards accomplishing their goals. I look to working with people who need support for Trauma, Addiction, Mental Health, Infertility, Conflict Resolution and Communication.
Great to meet you! My name is Briana! I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, with over 13 years' experience working with adult individuals, couples, and groups. I seek to not only challenge Clients, but to support, empower, and foster growth towards accomplishing their goals. I look to working with people who need support for Trauma, Addiction, Mental Health, Infertility, Conflict Resolution and Communication.
(845) 516-8830 View (845) 516-8830
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Claudia Rivas
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Putnam Valley, NY 10579  (Online Only)
Not accepting new clients
It’s not easy making the decision to begin therapy. As your therapist I will listen, connect, and collaborate with you to help you feel comfortable, safe and listened to. I have experience with clients from a wide variety of cultural, ethnic and socio-economic backgrounds as well as extensive knowledge working with patients with medical issues and dealing with end of life issues.
It’s not easy making the decision to begin therapy. As your therapist I will listen, connect, and collaborate with you to help you feel comfortable, safe and listened to. I have experience with clients from a wide variety of cultural, ethnic and socio-economic backgrounds as well as extensive knowledge working with patients with medical issues and dealing with end of life issues.
(347) 970-6678 View (347) 970-6678

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Photo of Lora Sant, Marriage & Family Therapist in Putnam Valley, NY
Lora Sant
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Mahopac, NY 10541  (Online Only)
My expertise is working with couples and individuals who want to improve their communication and resolve conflict harmoniously. Strong emotions such as anger, depression, and anxiety can stymie resolution or reconciliation. Are you both committed to your relationship, but struggling to resolve a conflict or get along? Learning how to process the dynamics in your relationships can empower you to make the changes you desire - including recovery from infidelity. I get excited when I have the opportunity to help couples find connection in the midst of the conflict.
My expertise is working with couples and individuals who want to improve their communication and resolve conflict harmoniously. Strong emotions such as anger, depression, and anxiety can stymie resolution or reconciliation. Are you both committed to your relationship, but struggling to resolve a conflict or get along? Learning how to process the dynamics in your relationships can empower you to make the changes you desire - including recovery from infidelity. I get excited when I have the opportunity to help couples find connection in the midst of the conflict.
(845) 839-4025 View (845) 839-4025
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Stephen A. Buglione, Ph.D.
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Somers, NY 10589
As a trained marriage and family therapist, I specialize in the counseling and treatment of distressed couples and families. With a special interest in family dynamics and couples' interaction patterns, I have expertise in helping couples to identify and overcome barriers to closeness and communication as may be affecting their ability to meet normative challenges of family life. I have experience helping couples recover from extramarital affairs, manage emotional or behavioral difficulties of children, negotiate divorce, remarriage and step-family adjustment issues, and cope with non-normative and more highly stressful life events.
As a trained marriage and family therapist, I specialize in the counseling and treatment of distressed couples and families. With a special interest in family dynamics and couples' interaction patterns, I have expertise in helping couples to identify and overcome barriers to closeness and communication as may be affecting their ability to meet normative challenges of family life. I have experience helping couples recover from extramarital affairs, manage emotional or behavioral difficulties of children, negotiate divorce, remarriage and step-family adjustment issues, and cope with non-normative and more highly stressful life events.
(914) 827-5214 View (914) 827-5214
Photo of Brenda Keenan Rodriguez, Marriage & Family Therapist in Putnam Valley, NY
Brenda Keenan Rodriguez
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Peekskill, NY 10566  (Online Only)
I offer cognitive behavioral therapy, communication skill building, relational therapy for couples and families, EMDR, DBT, and parent skill building, to address issues including infidelity, blended families, adoption, healthy boundary development, and PTSD.
My goal for treatment is to provide a safe environment for clients to increase awareness and learn to challenge themselves to make step-by-step changes. Anxiety and depression are many times clues to internal discourse. Whether it's related to a relationship, job, or general life stressors, learning to manage your thoughts, feelings and emotions will help keep functioning at optimal levels.
I offer cognitive behavioral therapy, communication skill building, relational therapy for couples and families, EMDR, DBT, and parent skill building, to address issues including infidelity, blended families, adoption, healthy boundary development, and PTSD.
My goal for treatment is to provide a safe environment for clients to increase awareness and learn to challenge themselves to make step-by-step changes. Anxiety and depression are many times clues to internal discourse. Whether it's related to a relationship, job, or general life stressors, learning to manage your thoughts, feelings and emotions will help keep functioning at optimal levels.
(315) 306-3940 View (315) 306-3940
Photo of Nancy W Cocola, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Putnam Valley, NY
Nancy W Cocola
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Somers, NY 10589
I have extensive experience working with straight, lesbian, and gay couples around pre-marital and marital healthy communication, sex, infidelity, parenting, amicable divorce, and retirement.
It can be daunting to find a therapist who speaks your language and is the right match for you. My professional experience and therapeutic approach has developed over more than 35 years of private practice. You will find my approach warm, straightforward, conversational, and focused. I offer a blend of psychodynamic and cognitive behavioral therapy, which means I respect the value of understanding past influences and patterns while believing that by developing specific new skills you can successfully change unhealthy behavior and thinking.
I have extensive experience working with straight, lesbian, and gay couples around pre-marital and marital healthy communication, sex, infidelity, parenting, amicable divorce, and retirement.
It can be daunting to find a therapist who speaks your language and is the right match for you. My professional experience and therapeutic approach has developed over more than 35 years of private practice. You will find my approach warm, straightforward, conversational, and focused. I offer a blend of psychodynamic and cognitive behavioral therapy, which means I respect the value of understanding past influences and patterns while believing that by developing specific new skills you can successfully change unhealthy behavior and thinking.
(845) 795-3031 View (845) 795-3031
Photo of Charlynn Ann Willis, Counselor in Putnam Valley, NY
Charlynn Ann Willis
Counselor, LMHC, MA
Verified Verified
Montrose, NY 10548
"Alis grave nihil": Nothing is heavy to those with wings. My goal is to help clients learn to fly above their pain, fears, stressors. My job is providing the tools and guidance to recognize the issues. In my practice, these tools might include cognitive or behavioral techniques or other methods/theories, including mindfulness. The approach to wellness might include spiritual or physical health but, in all things, the focus is on the client and it always takes his/her needs and desires as primary. Beyond techniques is always the importance in discovering the underlying causes. There is no one path. For each person it is unique.
"Alis grave nihil": Nothing is heavy to those with wings. My goal is to help clients learn to fly above their pain, fears, stressors. My job is providing the tools and guidance to recognize the issues. In my practice, these tools might include cognitive or behavioral techniques or other methods/theories, including mindfulness. The approach to wellness might include spiritual or physical health but, in all things, the focus is on the client and it always takes his/her needs and desires as primary. Beyond techniques is always the importance in discovering the underlying causes. There is no one path. For each person it is unique.
(646) 759-9321 View (646) 759-9321
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Kyla E Black
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, CST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cold Spring, NY 10516
Making the choice to seek and begin therapy is positive and courageous. It's often a valuable step toward resolving the issues that are blocking the pleasure and fulfillment you deserve. Are you feeling depressed or anxious? Poor body image? Do you have concerns about your sexual functioning? Issues with libido? Pain or discomfort with sexual activities? Having relationship difficulties? Struggling with sexual identity, orientation, or gender expression? Any or all of these can impact your overall well being. I aim to support your capacity to grow and change, feel grounded, and to live to your highest possibility!
Making the choice to seek and begin therapy is positive and courageous. It's often a valuable step toward resolving the issues that are blocking the pleasure and fulfillment you deserve. Are you feeling depressed or anxious? Poor body image? Do you have concerns about your sexual functioning? Issues with libido? Pain or discomfort with sexual activities? Having relationship difficulties? Struggling with sexual identity, orientation, or gender expression? Any or all of these can impact your overall well being. I aim to support your capacity to grow and change, feel grounded, and to live to your highest possibility!
(347) 695-8708 View (347) 695-8708
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Christopher L Villani
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Mahopac, NY 10541
Do any of the following statements feel like you? 1: I can't seem to fulfill my short or long term goals. 2: I'm often anxious, even panicky. 3: I'm often depressed. 4: I often feel unappreciated. 5: I'm uncomfortable around people. 6: I pull away when feeling close to someone. 7: My wife/lover & i are not doing well. 8: I have family, friends, a good job, & feel empty and alone. 9: I have difficulty expressing my feelings, & thoughts, to others. 10: I tend to put everyone's feelings before mine, then feel resentful & angry. You are the expert on you let me be your guide on your journey to self-fulfillment and self-realization.
Do any of the following statements feel like you? 1: I can't seem to fulfill my short or long term goals. 2: I'm often anxious, even panicky. 3: I'm often depressed. 4: I often feel unappreciated. 5: I'm uncomfortable around people. 6: I pull away when feeling close to someone. 7: My wife/lover & i are not doing well. 8: I have family, friends, a good job, & feel empty and alone. 9: I have difficulty expressing my feelings, & thoughts, to others. 10: I tend to put everyone's feelings before mine, then feel resentful & angry. You are the expert on you let me be your guide on your journey to self-fulfillment and self-realization.
(914) 303-7937 View (914) 303-7937
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Dr. Jennifer F. D'Agostino
Counselor, PhD, MS, LMHC, NCC, CASAC
Verified Verified
Somers, NY 10589
I offer a non-judgmental, holistic, supportive approach to therapy with a focus on positive self-improvement, transformation & wellness. I believe that everyone can benefit from therapy even when there is not an immediate challenge or crisis. Goals in therapy are achieved collaboratively. I specialize in anxiety, depression, trauma/PTSD, loss/bereavement, mood/personality/eating disorders, substance abuse, ADHD & changing destructive patterns. I work with individuals (children/adolescents/adults), families, couples, and groups. I offer animal-assisted interventions including therapy dogs and equine-assisted mental health sessions.
I offer a non-judgmental, holistic, supportive approach to therapy with a focus on positive self-improvement, transformation & wellness. I believe that everyone can benefit from therapy even when there is not an immediate challenge or crisis. Goals in therapy are achieved collaboratively. I specialize in anxiety, depression, trauma/PTSD, loss/bereavement, mood/personality/eating disorders, substance abuse, ADHD & changing destructive patterns. I work with individuals (children/adolescents/adults), families, couples, and groups. I offer animal-assisted interventions including therapy dogs and equine-assisted mental health sessions.
(914) 368-2533 View (914) 368-2533
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Riverview Psychological Services
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Carmel, NY 10512
Riverview Psychological Services offers an experienced and dedicated staff of mental health professionals with diverse backgrounds, interests, and skills. We provide therapeutic services and psychological / neuropsychological assessment for children, adolescents, adults, families, and couples. Conveniently located in Fishkill and Carmel, NY, we accept many insurance plans and Medicare. Immediate appointments available. ........................OVER 65 and on Medicare? Ask about NO-COST memory / cognitive testing. You will receive a free report with your results and recommendations to help preserve or improve your thinking skills.
Riverview Psychological Services offers an experienced and dedicated staff of mental health professionals with diverse backgrounds, interests, and skills. We provide therapeutic services and psychological / neuropsychological assessment for children, adolescents, adults, families, and couples. Conveniently located in Fishkill and Carmel, NY, we accept many insurance plans and Medicare. Immediate appointments available. ........................OVER 65 and on Medicare? Ask about NO-COST memory / cognitive testing. You will receive a free report with your results and recommendations to help preserve or improve your thinking skills.
(845) 719-4960 x2 View (845) 719-4960 x2
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Pam McGurgan Marinelli
LMHC
Verified Verified
Mahopac, NY 10541
I believe that holding space for another person, using empathy, compassion, and connection is the greatest gift we can share. My counseling process is a collaborative relationship of communication, investigation, exploration, reflection, and insight. Counseling and/or coaching sessions can take place in a variety of formats including, individual, couples, and/or family. Together we will figure out the best modality. I love to incorporate creativity, spirituality, and even nature into our work. Together we will work on creating a more flowing, wholehearted life.
I believe that holding space for another person, using empathy, compassion, and connection is the greatest gift we can share. My counseling process is a collaborative relationship of communication, investigation, exploration, reflection, and insight. Counseling and/or coaching sessions can take place in a variety of formats including, individual, couples, and/or family. Together we will figure out the best modality. I love to incorporate creativity, spirituality, and even nature into our work. Together we will work on creating a more flowing, wholehearted life.
(845) 254-2107 View (845) 254-2107
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Arnold C Morgan
Psychologist, MS, PsyD
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Somers, NY 10589
Waitlist for new clients
Stress compromises your immune system, quality of life, and push you out of balance. Please click on "website" located under my picture to the left of this paragraph for information about how I practice and the services I offer. Under the "De-Stress" heading you will find free guided audio relaxation selections. Share them with friends and family. I can help you to change your anxiety and stress even in these most stressful times.
Stress compromises your immune system, quality of life, and push you out of balance. Please click on "website" located under my picture to the left of this paragraph for information about how I practice and the services I offer. Under the "De-Stress" heading you will find free guided audio relaxation selections. Share them with friends and family. I can help you to change your anxiety and stress even in these most stressful times.
(914) 502-4873 View (914) 502-4873
Photo of Marian E Dunn, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Putnam Valley, NY
Marian E Dunn
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Garrison, NY 10524
I offer brief effective counseling for relationship and sexual enhancement. For forty years, I've been helping individuals and couples to meet their goals: better communication, less conflict, greater intimacy and a better sexual life.I take a fresh approch to everyone to find the most efficient yet sensitive way to help. My training in Psychotherapy, Family and Relationship Therapy and Sex Therapy allows me a full range of skills to improve your life.I have experience working with persons of various religious and cultural traditions and work with people of all ages and sexual orientations. Check out www.mariandunn.com
I offer brief effective counseling for relationship and sexual enhancement. For forty years, I've been helping individuals and couples to meet their goals: better communication, less conflict, greater intimacy and a better sexual life.I take a fresh approch to everyone to find the most efficient yet sensitive way to help. My training in Psychotherapy, Family and Relationship Therapy and Sex Therapy allows me a full range of skills to improve your life.I have experience working with persons of various religious and cultural traditions and work with people of all ages and sexual orientations. Check out www.mariandunn.com
(914) 618-3159 View (914) 618-3159
Photo of Alexandra Sallese Devin, Art Therapist in Putnam Valley, NY
Alexandra Sallese Devin
Art Therapist, LCAT, RDT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Cold Spring, NY 10516
Does anxiety, stress, and/or depression have you longing for positive change and reconnection to the world? I am a licensed psychotherapist helping adults find balance and direction in their personal and professional lives. I will guide your discovery of yourself, helping you to blossom into a more fulfilled human being. Most of my current patients and clients are struggling with anxiety, depression, poor body image, difficult relationships, or past trauma. We can work towards goals of healthy relationships, personal growth, job changes, parenthood, and overall life satisfaction. Together, we journey towards mental health and wellness.
Does anxiety, stress, and/or depression have you longing for positive change and reconnection to the world? I am a licensed psychotherapist helping adults find balance and direction in their personal and professional lives. I will guide your discovery of yourself, helping you to blossom into a more fulfilled human being. Most of my current patients and clients are struggling with anxiety, depression, poor body image, difficult relationships, or past trauma. We can work towards goals of healthy relationships, personal growth, job changes, parenthood, and overall life satisfaction. Together, we journey towards mental health and wellness.
(347) 647-9653 View (347) 647-9653
Photo of Jenny C. Carmona-Padilla, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Putnam Valley, NY
Jenny C. Carmona-Padilla
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, BC-TMH
Verified Verified
Mahopac, NY 10541  (Online Only)
As a Board Certified Telemental Health Clinician, I am excited to meet you and honored to join with you on your experiential journey towards enlightenment, strength-building, and tranquility! I provide support with a clinical and holistic lens, as well as wellness coach. My goal is to forge a therapeutic alliance with you, understand your challenges, and establish appropriate treatment goals individualized to your specific needs. I strive to assure that diversity and cultural norms are considered throughout my treatment efforts. Let us focus on managing the symptoms, not the labels. I also provide Clinical Supervision.
As a Board Certified Telemental Health Clinician, I am excited to meet you and honored to join with you on your experiential journey towards enlightenment, strength-building, and tranquility! I provide support with a clinical and holistic lens, as well as wellness coach. My goal is to forge a therapeutic alliance with you, understand your challenges, and establish appropriate treatment goals individualized to your specific needs. I strive to assure that diversity and cultural norms are considered throughout my treatment efforts. Let us focus on managing the symptoms, not the labels. I also provide Clinical Supervision.
(845) 391-0541 View (845) 391-0541
Photo of Brad Schultz, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Putnam Valley, NY
Brad Schultz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Cold Spring, NY 10516
My service – Jungian analysis – covers your concerns about mood, relationships, sex and sexuality, creativity issues, compulsions, coping with change or loss, lack of passion, disorganization, or effects of neglect, abuse or trauma. Whereas counseling covers such concerns by aiming at rehabilitation, improved coping or solving problems in functioning, my service goes deeper, aiming at self-acceptance, clarity, balance and authenticity. We would boldly explore dreams, fantasies or whatever else your soul expresses, sensitive to cruel injustice within society, your work setting, your relationships and especially within your psyche.
My service – Jungian analysis – covers your concerns about mood, relationships, sex and sexuality, creativity issues, compulsions, coping with change or loss, lack of passion, disorganization, or effects of neglect, abuse or trauma. Whereas counseling covers such concerns by aiming at rehabilitation, improved coping or solving problems in functioning, my service goes deeper, aiming at self-acceptance, clarity, balance and authenticity. We would boldly explore dreams, fantasies or whatever else your soul expresses, sensitive to cruel injustice within society, your work setting, your relationships and especially within your psyche.
(845) 552-9205 View (845) 552-9205
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Max Cutler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Garrison, NY 10524
I provide trauma-focused individual and EMDR therapy to adolescents and adults (ages 16 an up) who struggle with anxiety, depression, panic, trust/abandonment issues, relationship problems including codependency/intimacy dysfunction, self esteem/identity issues and symptoms related to childhood trauma which can include: flashbacks, nightmares/night terrors, sleep distrubance, avoidance of trauma-related stimuli and hypervigilance.
I provide trauma-focused individual and EMDR therapy to adolescents and adults (ages 16 an up) who struggle with anxiety, depression, panic, trust/abandonment issues, relationship problems including codependency/intimacy dysfunction, self esteem/identity issues and symptoms related to childhood trauma which can include: flashbacks, nightmares/night terrors, sleep distrubance, avoidance of trauma-related stimuli and hypervigilance.
(917) 775-0235 View (917) 775-0235
Photo of Brad Schultz, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Putnam Valley, NY
Brad Schultz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Cold Spring, NY 10516
My service – Jungian analysis – covers your concerns about mood, relationships, sex and sexuality, creativity issues, compulsions, coping with change or loss, lack of passion, disorganization, or effects of neglect, abuse or trauma. Whereas counseling covers such concerns by aiming at rehabilitation, improved coping or solving problems in functioning, my service goes deeper, aiming at self-acceptance, clarity, balance and authenticity. We would boldly explore dreams, fantasies or whatever else your soul expresses, sensitive to cruel injustice within society, your work setting, your relationships and especially within your psyche.
My service – Jungian analysis – covers your concerns about mood, relationships, sex and sexuality, creativity issues, compulsions, coping with change or loss, lack of passion, disorganization, or effects of neglect, abuse or trauma. Whereas counseling covers such concerns by aiming at rehabilitation, improved coping or solving problems in functioning, my service goes deeper, aiming at self-acceptance, clarity, balance and authenticity. We would boldly explore dreams, fantasies or whatever else your soul expresses, sensitive to cruel injustice within society, your work setting, your relationships and especially within your psyche.
(646) 461-4949 View (646) 461-4949

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Infidelity Therapists

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.