Infidelity Therapists in Lansing, NY

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Kristiana Bowman
Pre-Licensed Professional, LP-MFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Lansing, NY 14882
I create a warm, collaborative, and human-centered therapeutic space with my clients and will work with you to find a path toward healing and growth. I support individuals, couples, and families in cultivating more nourishing relationships and addressing challenges related to anxiety, depression, life transitions, marital and family conflict, and infidelity. I draw from Family Systems, Emotionally-Focused, Narrative, and Creative Arts Therapies to bring a holistic, integrative approach to your therapeutic journey.
I create a warm, collaborative, and human-centered therapeutic space with my clients and will work with you to find a path toward healing and growth. I support individuals, couples, and families in cultivating more nourishing relationships and addressing challenges related to anxiety, depression, life transitions, marital and family conflict, and infidelity. I draw from Family Systems, Emotionally-Focused, Narrative, and Creative Arts Therapies to bring a holistic, integrative approach to your therapeutic journey.
(315) 873-3561 View (315) 873-3561
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Jennifer Greene
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lansing, NY 14882
Taking time to sort through your thoughts and feelings with someone safe and very present is one of the greatest gifts to give yourself. I'm here to help you find relief, understand, heal, integrate, and grow. Through warm acceptance, genuine presence, and attuned reflections, I build a trusting partnership. Together in this supportive, emotionally engaged alliance, we create the experiences that deepen your relationship with self and others. In this new self-awareness, I help you reconnect with your innate strengths. Using these capabilities, I will guide you to develop successful skills and coping strategies to reach your goals.
Taking time to sort through your thoughts and feelings with someone safe and very present is one of the greatest gifts to give yourself. I'm here to help you find relief, understand, heal, integrate, and grow. Through warm acceptance, genuine presence, and attuned reflections, I build a trusting partnership. Together in this supportive, emotionally engaged alliance, we create the experiences that deepen your relationship with self and others. In this new self-awareness, I help you reconnect with your innate strengths. Using these capabilities, I will guide you to develop successful skills and coping strategies to reach your goals.
(607) 275-5787 View (607) 275-5787
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Paul Mikowski, Psychologist PLLC
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Lansing, NY 14882
Not accepting new clients
I believe I can help you feel better if you experience overwhelming stress, sadness, or addictions. I focus on your individual needs and use the techniques that work, including psychotherapy, meditation, or short- term change strategies. You can feel better.
I believe I can help you feel better if you experience overwhelming stress, sadness, or addictions. I focus on your individual needs and use the techniques that work, including psychotherapy, meditation, or short- term change strategies. You can feel better.
(607) 289-2101 View (607) 289-2101

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Stephanie Zuber
Counselor, LMHC, MS
Verified Verified
Ithaca, NY 14850
I am currently not accepting new patients until 2024. Experiencing a loss of sexual desire? Arguing about frequency of sex? Worried about performance issues? Healing from sexual trauma or infidelity? Want to better understand your sexuality? I specialize in working with individuals, couples and multi-partnered relationships as they explore concerns related to sex, intimacy and gender identity. Using a combination of proven methods in sex therapy and relationship/family therapies, I help people heal and experience a satisfying sex life so they can live a more connected and thriving life.
I am currently not accepting new patients until 2024. Experiencing a loss of sexual desire? Arguing about frequency of sex? Worried about performance issues? Healing from sexual trauma or infidelity? Want to better understand your sexuality? I specialize in working with individuals, couples and multi-partnered relationships as they explore concerns related to sex, intimacy and gender identity. Using a combination of proven methods in sex therapy and relationship/family therapies, I help people heal and experience a satisfying sex life so they can live a more connected and thriving life.
(607) 228-8157 View (607) 228-8157
Photo of Kate Powers, Pre-Licensed Professional in Lansing, NY
Kate Powers
Pre-Licensed Professional, MHC-LP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ithaca, NY 14850
I believe that we can all benefit from building a connection with others. Perhaps you are dealing with anxiety, depression, stress, attachment and relationship issues, or adjustment and life transitions, I would be happy to assist you! I offer a safe, non-judgmental, compassionate atmosphere, and listen deeply. I look forward to helping you rediscover the strengths you already have inside to achieve a fully authentic life. Together, we will bravely learn to navigate your feelings to help you find renewed clarity and meaning in your life.
I believe that we can all benefit from building a connection with others. Perhaps you are dealing with anxiety, depression, stress, attachment and relationship issues, or adjustment and life transitions, I would be happy to assist you! I offer a safe, non-judgmental, compassionate atmosphere, and listen deeply. I look forward to helping you rediscover the strengths you already have inside to achieve a fully authentic life. Together, we will bravely learn to navigate your feelings to help you find renewed clarity and meaning in your life.
(607) 298-8474 View (607) 298-8474
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Rachael Shapiro
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MPH
Verified Verified
Ithaca, NY 14850
I am an experienced, long time psychotherapist, who helps create a nurturing environment that is warm, curious and non judgemental. I am focused on understanding the client and supporting the optimal healing process. I have an unconditional commitment to each of my clients to be open and honest, to be focused on their life-enhancing goals, and to work in a proactive manner to help them achieve these goals in the briefest possible time. No single approach works for everyone. Some issues may be addressed with a short-term, solution-focused approach. More complex issues may need a combination of approaches over a longer time.
I am an experienced, long time psychotherapist, who helps create a nurturing environment that is warm, curious and non judgemental. I am focused on understanding the client and supporting the optimal healing process. I have an unconditional commitment to each of my clients to be open and honest, to be focused on their life-enhancing goals, and to work in a proactive manner to help them achieve these goals in the briefest possible time. No single approach works for everyone. Some issues may be addressed with a short-term, solution-focused approach. More complex issues may need a combination of approaches over a longer time.
(607) 605-6486 View (607) 605-6486
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Rob Hovey
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSWR
Verified Verified
Ithaca, NY 14850  (Online Only)
I AM CURRENTLY. UNABLE TO ACCEPT NEW CLIENTS Seeing a therapist -- this is not an easy step you’re considering. Putting your most vulnerable thoughts and feelings in the hands of a stranger takes some courage and a bit of a leap of faith. Whether you’re feeling anxious or depressed, or are in a troubled marriage or relationship, or struggling with issues that have no label, you’re probably feeling stuck. Stuck is when people call a therapist. It’s after they have tried everything: waiting for things to get better, talking to friends or relatives, or reading self-help books.
I AM CURRENTLY. UNABLE TO ACCEPT NEW CLIENTS Seeing a therapist -- this is not an easy step you’re considering. Putting your most vulnerable thoughts and feelings in the hands of a stranger takes some courage and a bit of a leap of faith. Whether you’re feeling anxious or depressed, or are in a troubled marriage or relationship, or struggling with issues that have no label, you’re probably feeling stuck. Stuck is when people call a therapist. It’s after they have tried everything: waiting for things to get better, talking to friends or relatives, or reading self-help books.
(607) 882-6465 View (607) 882-6465
Photo of Griffin Church, Licensed Master Social Worker in Lansing, NY
Griffin Church
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW
Verified Verified
Ithaca, NY 14850
Hi, I'm Griffin! I specialize in gender and sexuality, including gender transition, kink, and nonmonogamy. I work with adults, couples, and teens ages 14+. I take a non-pathologizing, interdisciplinary approach, blending tools and insights from behavioral economics, creative writing, and positive psychology. I meet my clients with gentle humor, professionalism, and curiosity.
Hi, I'm Griffin! I specialize in gender and sexuality, including gender transition, kink, and nonmonogamy. I work with adults, couples, and teens ages 14+. I take a non-pathologizing, interdisciplinary approach, blending tools and insights from behavioral economics, creative writing, and positive psychology. I meet my clients with gentle humor, professionalism, and curiosity.
(518) 263-0835 View (518) 263-0835
Photo of Cecily Anders, Psychologist in Lansing, NY
Cecily Anders
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Ithaca, NY 14850
Therapy is a journey where you learn more about yourself, your internal experience, and your loved ones in order to change your life based on your own goals and values. I can help you and/or other members of your family gain flexibility in your thoughts and actions through experiential skill development. At times, therapy can involve vulnerability and emotional expression; while at other times, it can be playful and enlightening. My goal is to create a warm and safe environment where emotions, thoughts, memories, and other internal experiences can be explored with compassion and understanding.
Therapy is a journey where you learn more about yourself, your internal experience, and your loved ones in order to change your life based on your own goals and values. I can help you and/or other members of your family gain flexibility in your thoughts and actions through experiential skill development. At times, therapy can involve vulnerability and emotional expression; while at other times, it can be playful and enlightening. My goal is to create a warm and safe environment where emotions, thoughts, memories, and other internal experiences can be explored with compassion and understanding.
(855) 998-3758 View (855) 998-3758
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Jennifer Wolfe
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
11 Endorsed
Ithaca, NY 14850  (Online Only)
My practice focuses on individuals and couples, ranging in age from 18 to elderly. I strive to create a safe environment in which to explore life stressors, patterns of relating with others, and how past experiences impact the present. Areas of professional practice include anxiety/depression, chronic illness including HIV, grief/loss, relationships, sexual issues, separation/divorce, LGBTQ, family planning, career transition, and finances. I have extensive experience with addictions, and work collaboratively with clients, whether the goal is safer substance use, reducing use, or abstinence.
My practice focuses on individuals and couples, ranging in age from 18 to elderly. I strive to create a safe environment in which to explore life stressors, patterns of relating with others, and how past experiences impact the present. Areas of professional practice include anxiety/depression, chronic illness including HIV, grief/loss, relationships, sexual issues, separation/divorce, LGBTQ, family planning, career transition, and finances. I have extensive experience with addictions, and work collaboratively with clients, whether the goal is safer substance use, reducing use, or abstinence.
(646) 600-8129 View (646) 600-8129
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Amy Lee Jacobs
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Ithaca, NY 14850  (Online Only)
Hi and thanks for reading my profile. My name is Amy and I am a LCSW with almost 40 years of experience. I enjoy working with adults and couples who are experiencing trauma, adversity, anxiety, alienation and depression as there are many approaches and ways to heal. I use an integrative approach and tailor it based on what what you are comfortable with and willing to explore. I always encourage and respect your boundaries. Please email if you would like a free 15" phone consult to see if we are a good fit!
Hi and thanks for reading my profile. My name is Amy and I am a LCSW with almost 40 years of experience. I enjoy working with adults and couples who are experiencing trauma, adversity, anxiety, alienation and depression as there are many approaches and ways to heal. I use an integrative approach and tailor it based on what what you are comfortable with and willing to explore. I always encourage and respect your boundaries. Please email if you would like a free 15" phone consult to see if we are a good fit!
(607) 258-9281 View (607) 258-9281
Photo of Tim Johnston, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Lansing, NY
Tim Johnston
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Ithaca, NY 14850
Hello and welcome! My name is Tim (he/him) - I am a Licensed Master Social Worker at MindWell where I work with a wide variety of individuals and couples. I start from the perspective that you are the expert on your goals, and my role is to guide, coach, and support you in making the changes you want to see in your life and relationships. Please look below to learn more about my specialties and areas of expertise.
Hello and welcome! My name is Tim (he/him) - I am a Licensed Master Social Worker at MindWell where I work with a wide variety of individuals and couples. I start from the perspective that you are the expert on your goals, and my role is to guide, coach, and support you in making the changes you want to see in your life and relationships. Please look below to learn more about my specialties and areas of expertise.
(607) 536-9998 x2 View (607) 536-9998 x2
Photo of Molly Schamel Anchored Roots Therapy, PLLC, Counselor in Lansing, NY
Molly Schamel Anchored Roots Therapy, PLLC
Counselor, LMHC, MEd
Verified Verified
Ithaca, NY 14850
I am a Licenced Mental Health Counselor who has worked extensively with the treatment of trauma, anxiety, college mental health, depression, grief and loss, relationship and family issues, and gender identity and sexual orientation. I believe in cultivating a trusting, collaborative, and affirming therapeutic relationship. I will help you to achieve your goals by improving your self-understanding, processing difficult feelings and experiences, and decreasing self-doubt. I am passionate about working with you through difficult life transitions and helping you navigate life's ups and downs.
I am a Licenced Mental Health Counselor who has worked extensively with the treatment of trauma, anxiety, college mental health, depression, grief and loss, relationship and family issues, and gender identity and sexual orientation. I believe in cultivating a trusting, collaborative, and affirming therapeutic relationship. I will help you to achieve your goals by improving your self-understanding, processing difficult feelings and experiences, and decreasing self-doubt. I am passionate about working with you through difficult life transitions and helping you navigate life's ups and downs.
(607) 527-2719 View (607) 527-2719
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Becky Bordlemay Schafer
Counselor, MS, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ithaca, NY 14850
10-20-23 Currently accepting new clients. As a licensed mental health counselor (LMHC) with 15+ years of experience, I value the connection and collaborative nature of the therapeutic relationship. I provide straightforward, non-judgemental support and gently challenge you to explore, grow, and transform. As a team, we will work together to explore your stresses and life's challenges and develop strategies to help you lead a full and successful life.
10-20-23 Currently accepting new clients. As a licensed mental health counselor (LMHC) with 15+ years of experience, I value the connection and collaborative nature of the therapeutic relationship. I provide straightforward, non-judgemental support and gently challenge you to explore, grow, and transform. As a team, we will work together to explore your stresses and life's challenges and develop strategies to help you lead a full and successful life.
(607) 436-7058 View (607) 436-7058
Photo of Susan Hart, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Lansing, NY
Susan Hart
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
Ithaca, NY 14850
I treat anxiety, depression, narcissism, grief, couples, adults and more with science and care. I focus on comfort, precision and thoroughness to strengthen the dynamics and boundaries of life, event and issue strategies. Learn specific skills and understand how education, career, boundaries and justice combine to express themselves into human behavior and thought. All ages, experiences, education and careers, individual, marriage, family, career, sport, and court. Decades as a therapist, teacher, coach, investigation and research. Best performance outcomes in a diversity of settings and factors. CBT if desired. Private.
I treat anxiety, depression, narcissism, grief, couples, adults and more with science and care. I focus on comfort, precision and thoroughness to strengthen the dynamics and boundaries of life, event and issue strategies. Learn specific skills and understand how education, career, boundaries and justice combine to express themselves into human behavior and thought. All ages, experiences, education and careers, individual, marriage, family, career, sport, and court. Decades as a therapist, teacher, coach, investigation and research. Best performance outcomes in a diversity of settings and factors. CBT if desired. Private.
(315) 860-0044 View (315) 860-0044
Photo of Laurel Green, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Lansing, NY
Laurel Green
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ithaca, NY 14850
I specialize in offering am empathetic, open, non-confrontational, safe space for people with autism, justice involved youth, ADHD, mood disorders, behavioral issues, and LGBTQ+ teens to be truly seen and heard. My approach is holistic and eclectic, integrating different evidence-based therapeutic modalities to best support your needs. These include play therapy, somatic trauma work, and social emotional learning.
I specialize in offering am empathetic, open, non-confrontational, safe space for people with autism, justice involved youth, ADHD, mood disorders, behavioral issues, and LGBTQ+ teens to be truly seen and heard. My approach is holistic and eclectic, integrating different evidence-based therapeutic modalities to best support your needs. These include play therapy, somatic trauma work, and social emotional learning.
(518) 759-7369 View (518) 759-7369
Photo of Jamie Sorrentino, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Lansing, NY
Jamie Sorrentino
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Ithaca, NY 14850
Are you seeking evidence-based psychotherapy to help you achieve your goals or manage your symptoms in the most effective way? I or another qualified therapist at MindWell Psychology may be able to help you. I engage in relational therapy that values authenticity, vulnerability, curiosity, collaboration, and compassionate care. As well, I utilize evidence-based practices that pull from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), mindfulness-based practice, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT).
Are you seeking evidence-based psychotherapy to help you achieve your goals or manage your symptoms in the most effective way? I or another qualified therapist at MindWell Psychology may be able to help you. I engage in relational therapy that values authenticity, vulnerability, curiosity, collaboration, and compassionate care. As well, I utilize evidence-based practices that pull from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), mindfulness-based practice, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT).
(607) 260-3100 View (607) 260-3100
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Meliora Counseling and Psychotherapy
LMHC, MS
Not Verified Not Verified
Ithaca, NY 14850  (Online Only)
In order to serve clients with a broad range of concerns and diagnoses, I provide therapeutic interventions tailored to each specific case. Whether you are a couple looking to improve your relationship, or an individual hoping to gain insight and coping skills, your goals can be addressed in a collaborative, supportive environment. I work with adults, adolescents (ages 12 and up) and couples.
In order to serve clients with a broad range of concerns and diagnoses, I provide therapeutic interventions tailored to each specific case. Whether you are a couple looking to improve your relationship, or an individual hoping to gain insight and coping skills, your goals can be addressed in a collaborative, supportive environment. I work with adults, adolescents (ages 12 and up) and couples.
(914) 730-4754 View (914) 730-4754
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Brad Schultz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Ithaca, NY 14853
My service – Jungian analysis – covers your concerns about mood, relationships, sex and sexuality, creativity issues, compulsions, coping with change or loss, lack of passion, disorganization, or effects of neglect, abuse or trauma. Whereas counseling covers such concerns by aiming at rehabilitation, improved coping or solving problems in functioning, my service goes deeper, aiming at self-acceptance, clarity, balance and authenticity. We would boldly explore dreams, fantasies or whatever else your soul expresses, sensitive to cruel injustice within society, your work setting, your relationships and especially within your psyche.
My service – Jungian analysis – covers your concerns about mood, relationships, sex and sexuality, creativity issues, compulsions, coping with change or loss, lack of passion, disorganization, or effects of neglect, abuse or trauma. Whereas counseling covers such concerns by aiming at rehabilitation, improved coping or solving problems in functioning, my service goes deeper, aiming at self-acceptance, clarity, balance and authenticity. We would boldly explore dreams, fantasies or whatever else your soul expresses, sensitive to cruel injustice within society, your work setting, your relationships and especially within your psyche.
(845) 552-9205 View (845) 552-9205
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Alexándrea Evans Oneal
Pre-Licensed Professional, PsyD
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Trumansburg, NY 14886  (Online Only)
To heal is to touch with love that which was previously touched by fear. We all have times when we need extra support to work through life's challenges. Whether it be mental health concerns, trauma, relationship dynamics, identity exploration, life transitions, family relations, work stressors, or any other difficult circumstance; you don't have to walk this journey alone. Together we will work to empower you to put your needs first and take steps to reach your goals. Everyone has a story and is worthy of space to tell it, and together we will honor, heal, and learn from your experiences.
To heal is to touch with love that which was previously touched by fear. We all have times when we need extra support to work through life's challenges. Whether it be mental health concerns, trauma, relationship dynamics, identity exploration, life transitions, family relations, work stressors, or any other difficult circumstance; you don't have to walk this journey alone. Together we will work to empower you to put your needs first and take steps to reach your goals. Everyone has a story and is worthy of space to tell it, and together we will honor, heal, and learn from your experiences.
(607) 246-8754 View (607) 246-8754

Infidelity Therapists

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.