Infidelity Therapists in Rio Arriba County, NM

Photo of Gail Rae Walker, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Rio Arriba County, NM
Gail Rae Walker
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW, MA
Verified Verified
Espanola, NM 87532
I offer deep therapy based on attachment theory and communication skills development, depending on your needs, to engage you (and/or your partner) in a meaningful and heartfelt exploration of your life support needs. Move past limiting thoughts and behaviors and develop deeper connections. Clients have said that they appreciate my non-judgmental, yet direct approach. My response - "I am in your corner, routing for you". It takes courage but once you embark on this journey you will say, "Why didn't I do this sooner"?
I offer deep therapy based on attachment theory and communication skills development, depending on your needs, to engage you (and/or your partner) in a meaningful and heartfelt exploration of your life support needs. Move past limiting thoughts and behaviors and develop deeper connections. Clients have said that they appreciate my non-judgmental, yet direct approach. My response - "I am in your corner, routing for you". It takes courage but once you embark on this journey you will say, "Why didn't I do this sooner"?
(505) 660-8047 View (505) 660-8047
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Jean V Holley
Counselor, LPCC
Verified Verified
Espanola, NM 87532  (Online Only)
I enjoy assisting clients in finding meaning, joy and connection in their lives. All of us have had painful and traumatic experiences. Modern life is very stressful, and sometimes we need guidance and support in how to cope with difficult circumstances we might find ourselves facing. I can offer a variety of methods to let go of the past and find clarity and peace in the present, and hope for the future. Meditation, mindfulness, guided imagery, and EMDR are some of the techniques I utilize most. I look forward to meeting and working with you!
I enjoy assisting clients in finding meaning, joy and connection in their lives. All of us have had painful and traumatic experiences. Modern life is very stressful, and sometimes we need guidance and support in how to cope with difficult circumstances we might find ourselves facing. I can offer a variety of methods to let go of the past and find clarity and peace in the present, and hope for the future. Meditation, mindfulness, guided imagery, and EMDR are some of the techniques I utilize most. I look forward to meeting and working with you!
(505) 605-6881 View (505) 605-6881
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Elllen J Shabshai Fox
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Espanola, NM 87532  (Online Only)
I welcome clients who seek therapy in order to change behaviors, relationships, or careers that are unsatisfying, and those who wish to unleash their creative energies - in the arts, business, academia, in parenting, and partnership. I especially enjoy clients who are questioning their relationship with addictive substances and are ready to take positive action. I have a warm and engaging style that my cients enjoy. I also specialize in healing the trauma of equestrian accidents.
I welcome clients who seek therapy in order to change behaviors, relationships, or careers that are unsatisfying, and those who wish to unleash their creative energies - in the arts, business, academia, in parenting, and partnership. I especially enjoy clients who are questioning their relationship with addictive substances and are ready to take positive action. I have a warm and engaging style that my cients enjoy. I also specialize in healing the trauma of equestrian accidents.
(505) 484-2860 View (505) 484-2860
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Daybreak Counseling
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW
Verified Verified
Espanola, NM 87532
Daybreak Counseling is a team of highly trained and experienced providers with various skills to match our clients' needs. We will travel with you on your journey and open the doors to overcome challenges and life transitions. Whatever the issues you face, we have the therapists available to guide your choices and paths forward.
Daybreak Counseling is a team of highly trained and experienced providers with various skills to match our clients' needs. We will travel with you on your journey and open the doors to overcome challenges and life transitions. Whatever the issues you face, we have the therapists available to guide your choices and paths forward.
(505) 305-0522 View (505) 305-0522
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Kila Hillman, MA, LPCC
Counselor, MA, LPCC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Espanola, NM 87532
Kila is a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor specializing in Parts Work with an emphasis in Attachment Trauma. Her psychotherapeutic work, utilizes a dynamic and integrative approach that is experiential in nature, relationally oriented, emotionally focused, attachment and trauma informed, psychodynamic in depth, and guided by systems theory. This approach synergizes elements of Internal Family Systems, Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy, Empowerment and Resilience Trauma Treatment Structure, The Trauma Resiliency Model, Brainspotting, and the Healing in Resonance Approach, among others.
Kila is a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor specializing in Parts Work with an emphasis in Attachment Trauma. Her psychotherapeutic work, utilizes a dynamic and integrative approach that is experiential in nature, relationally oriented, emotionally focused, attachment and trauma informed, psychodynamic in depth, and guided by systems theory. This approach synergizes elements of Internal Family Systems, Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy, Empowerment and Resilience Trauma Treatment Structure, The Trauma Resiliency Model, Brainspotting, and the Healing in Resonance Approach, among others.
(505) 795-5566 View (505) 795-5566
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Craig Thomas McAdams
Counselor, MA, LPCC
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Espanola, NM 87532  (Online Only)
Are you feeling stuck? To feel stuck emotionally, professionally, relationally and in thought patterns is a common experience of human beings. Let's work together to get unstuck: allowing your creativity to flow uninhibitedly, your emotions to become valuable and digest-able, your aspirations to become realities and your relationships to become more fulfilling. Providing online therapy for Ohio and New Mexico residents.
Are you feeling stuck? To feel stuck emotionally, professionally, relationally and in thought patterns is a common experience of human beings. Let's work together to get unstuck: allowing your creativity to flow uninhibitedly, your emotions to become valuable and digest-able, your aspirations to become realities and your relationships to become more fulfilling. Providing online therapy for Ohio and New Mexico residents.
(505) 431-7484 View (505) 431-7484

Online Therapists

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EMDR Therapy Solutions
Counselor, LPCC, BCC, NCC, CCTP, CST
Verified Verified
Albuquerque, NM 87112
You've experienced something terrible in your life, and you cannot stop thinking about it. You can't sleep, and barely function throughout the day. Or maybe you function, but you're unhappy, stressed and anxious. Maybe you cover the pain with drugs, sex or alcohol. Trauma affects everyone- and everyone reacts in their own way. You want to be able to look forward to your day, your life and your relationships. If you've been through sexual trauma, infidelity, relational issues or have low self esteem, EMDR can help.
You've experienced something terrible in your life, and you cannot stop thinking about it. You can't sleep, and barely function throughout the day. Or maybe you function, but you're unhappy, stressed and anxious. Maybe you cover the pain with drugs, sex or alcohol. Trauma affects everyone- and everyone reacts in their own way. You want to be able to look forward to your day, your life and your relationships. If you've been through sexual trauma, infidelity, relational issues or have low self esteem, EMDR can help.
(505) 391-5294 View (505) 391-5294
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Leanne Lusko
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Albuquerque, NM 87109
Leanne (she/her) is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor who is certified in Neuro-Linguistic Programming, Time Line Therapy, and Hypnotherapy. She utilizes an evidence-based approach that is grounded in psychoeducation, Cognitive Behavior Therapy, and Dialectical Behavior Therapy. Before focusing on sex therapy, she worked with clients to address issues such as anxiety, depression, domestic violence, infidelity, anger management, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).
Leanne (she/her) is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor who is certified in Neuro-Linguistic Programming, Time Line Therapy, and Hypnotherapy. She utilizes an evidence-based approach that is grounded in psychoeducation, Cognitive Behavior Therapy, and Dialectical Behavior Therapy. Before focusing on sex therapy, she worked with clients to address issues such as anxiety, depression, domestic violence, infidelity, anger management, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).
(505) 591-9375 View (505) 591-9375
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Especially For Families Therapy
Counselor, MA, NCC, CRS, LPCC
Verified Verified
Albuquerque, NM 87120
I focus on Communication, on Healing wounds from the past, on Changing Behavior, on Grief, on Addictions, Divorce, Infidelity, Violence or on whatever needs to happen to solve your problem.
I Love helping folks who are struggling with difficult problems. I'm a good listener and I have an unlimited number of practical suggestions and help for you. I will not give up! Together, you & I WILL get your problems solved. I have trained with some of the most experienced therapists worldwide and I have expertise in most areas that people struggle in. I've been a counselor/therapist for many years because I LOVE doing this! You & I will get to the root of your problem and we will solve it. No case is too difficult!
I focus on Communication, on Healing wounds from the past, on Changing Behavior, on Grief, on Addictions, Divorce, Infidelity, Violence or on whatever needs to happen to solve your problem.
I Love helping folks who are struggling with difficult problems. I'm a good listener and I have an unlimited number of practical suggestions and help for you. I will not give up! Together, you & I WILL get your problems solved. I have trained with some of the most experienced therapists worldwide and I have expertise in most areas that people struggle in. I've been a counselor/therapist for many years because I LOVE doing this! You & I will get to the root of your problem and we will solve it. No case is too difficult!
(505) 219-4069 View (505) 219-4069
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Brian Milliken
Counselor, LPCC, LMFT
Verified Verified
Santa Fe, NM 87505  (Online Only)
In session, we will look at what you are hoping to get from the counseling experience and collaboratively discover what will work for your situation toward getting unstuck from emotional, behavioral and relationship issues. I commonly see people with concerns such as depression, anxiety, relationship issues, financial difficulties, anger management, addictions, and grief. I also specialize in couples counseling issues such as communication, trust, and infidelity, and guide you through turbulent times. I have been in practice for over 25 years.
In session, we will look at what you are hoping to get from the counseling experience and collaboratively discover what will work for your situation toward getting unstuck from emotional, behavioral and relationship issues. I commonly see people with concerns such as depression, anxiety, relationship issues, financial difficulties, anger management, addictions, and grief. I also specialize in couples counseling issues such as communication, trust, and infidelity, and guide you through turbulent times. I have been in practice for over 25 years.
(505) 216-2942 View (505) 216-2942
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Gwenevere Abriel
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Santa Fe, NM 87507
Romantic partnerships ruptured by affairs or from living parallel lives can regain trust, intimacy and the spark of romantic-love.
Thank you for considering me as an active partner on your journey to self-understanding, self-compassion, inspiration, playfulness, intimacy and congruency. I work with individuals, couples, families and organizational groups. I use a psychodynamic frame drawing from specialized training in Complex Trauma, CBT, DBT, EMDR, Somatic Experiencing, Internal Family Systems (IFS), IMAGO Relationship Therapy, Life Coaching, Mindfulness and Collaborative Dispute practices.
Romantic partnerships ruptured by affairs or from living parallel lives can regain trust, intimacy and the spark of romantic-love.
Thank you for considering me as an active partner on your journey to self-understanding, self-compassion, inspiration, playfulness, intimacy and congruency. I work with individuals, couples, families and organizational groups. I use a psychodynamic frame drawing from specialized training in Complex Trauma, CBT, DBT, EMDR, Somatic Experiencing, Internal Family Systems (IFS), IMAGO Relationship Therapy, Life Coaching, Mindfulness and Collaborative Dispute practices.
(754) 704-9497 View (754) 704-9497
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Mary Archibeque
Counselor, LPCC, CSAT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Albuquerque, NM 87110
Relationships: Healing after infidelity or betrayal, improve communication, and establish trust.
Are you struggling with intimacy, betrayal, sex or porn? I use a compassionate strength based approach to help you be your best self, live a fulfilling life and realize your full potential. I specialize in empowerment, healing trauma, anxiety, sexual addictions and affairs. I'm a former personal trainer, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist and EMDR certified. I work with those who are new to therapy and those with high self awareness seeking ongoing growth. I'm passionate about empowering you in everyway. Together we'll improve your relationships, self-worth and help you regain wholeness using a body, mind, and Spirit approach.
Relationships: Healing after infidelity or betrayal, improve communication, and establish trust.
Are you struggling with intimacy, betrayal, sex or porn? I use a compassionate strength based approach to help you be your best self, live a fulfilling life and realize your full potential. I specialize in empowerment, healing trauma, anxiety, sexual addictions and affairs. I'm a former personal trainer, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist and EMDR certified. I work with those who are new to therapy and those with high self awareness seeking ongoing growth. I'm passionate about empowering you in everyway. Together we'll improve your relationships, self-worth and help you regain wholeness using a body, mind, and Spirit approach.
(505) 278-6207 View (505) 278-6207
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Angela Porter
Counselor, MA, LPCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Albuquerque, NM 87111
I specialize in all aspects of couples work, including: infidelity repair, sex related issues, anxiety, depression, and other parts of the human experience that cause distress.
Now accepting new clients. I strive to provide a therapeutic experience where you, alone, or with your partner, can explore the depths of your relationship and work together to find deeper intimacy and connection. I work with you to develop communication skills, reduce anxiety, and create strategies to find your inner peace. Conflict is inevitable for any relationship, and it is my goal to work along side you, to repair the parts that cause harm. I have worked with all types of couples to strengthen and build upon the parts that brought you together.
I specialize in all aspects of couples work, including: infidelity repair, sex related issues, anxiety, depression, and other parts of the human experience that cause distress.
Now accepting new clients. I strive to provide a therapeutic experience where you, alone, or with your partner, can explore the depths of your relationship and work together to find deeper intimacy and connection. I work with you to develop communication skills, reduce anxiety, and create strategies to find your inner peace. Conflict is inevitable for any relationship, and it is my goal to work along side you, to repair the parts that cause harm. I have worked with all types of couples to strengthen and build upon the parts that brought you together.
(505) 393-7634 View (505) 393-7634
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Open Access Video Counseling
Counselor, LPCC, LMFT
Verified Verified
Las Vegas, NM 87701  (Online Only)
In session, we will look at what you are hoping to get from the counseling experience and collaboratively discover what will work for your situation toward getting unstuck from emotional, behavioral and relationship issues. I commonly see people with concerns such as depression, anxiety, relationship issues, financial difficulties, anger management, addictions, and grief. I also specialize in couples counseling issues such as communication, trust, and infidelity, and guide you through turbulent times. I have been in practice for over 25 years.
In session, we will look at what you are hoping to get from the counseling experience and collaboratively discover what will work for your situation toward getting unstuck from emotional, behavioral and relationship issues. I commonly see people with concerns such as depression, anxiety, relationship issues, financial difficulties, anger management, addictions, and grief. I also specialize in couples counseling issues such as communication, trust, and infidelity, and guide you through turbulent times. I have been in practice for over 25 years.
(505) 587-7948 View (505) 587-7948
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Restorative Practices, LLC
Counselor, MA, , LMHC
Verified Verified
Albuquerque, NM 87111
My goal is to support & encourage with compassion, empathy & respect. I have become painfully aware of the need for affordable, professional & efficient, solution focused support, especially during the holidays! I am experienced in working with individuals &/or couples who are struggling alone &/or in their relationships or who are dealing with such issues as anxiety &/or depression, trauma, addiction, legal issues, gender identity, infidelity, divorce, ADHD/Autism (I am a professional member of AANE, the Asperger/Autism Network) &/or learning disorders, physical conditions, bullying, suicidal ideation &/or grief & loss.
My goal is to support & encourage with compassion, empathy & respect. I have become painfully aware of the need for affordable, professional & efficient, solution focused support, especially during the holidays! I am experienced in working with individuals &/or couples who are struggling alone &/or in their relationships or who are dealing with such issues as anxiety &/or depression, trauma, addiction, legal issues, gender identity, infidelity, divorce, ADHD/Autism (I am a professional member of AANE, the Asperger/Autism Network) &/or learning disorders, physical conditions, bullying, suicidal ideation &/or grief & loss.
(505) 391-3361 View (505) 391-3361
Photo of Patricia Allaire, Counselor in Rio Arriba County, NM
Patricia Allaire
Counselor, MA, LPCC
Verified Verified
Albuquerque, NM 87107
Couples that are stuck in dysfunctional patterns of relating and are perhaps contemplating separation will find time spent working towards solutions is an investment with life-long returns. People struggling with anxiety and or depression will learn mindfulness tools to live a full life. Through acceptance commitment therapy, intensive short-term psychotherapy, and PACT counseling you will find your way to becoming the person you want to be, and the relationships you long to have. Stop never-ending arguments and silent feuding. Learn to welcome differences and enjoy situations that once left you feeling helpless.
Couples that are stuck in dysfunctional patterns of relating and are perhaps contemplating separation will find time spent working towards solutions is an investment with life-long returns. People struggling with anxiety and or depression will learn mindfulness tools to live a full life. Through acceptance commitment therapy, intensive short-term psychotherapy, and PACT counseling you will find your way to becoming the person you want to be, and the relationships you long to have. Stop never-ending arguments and silent feuding. Learn to welcome differences and enjoy situations that once left you feeling helpless.
(505) 421-5304 View (505) 421-5304
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Kirsten Rogoff
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Albuquerque, NM 87111  (Online Only)
You may be repeating negative patterns/emotions or dealing with situations causing difficulties. You may even have tried therapy before but with limited improvement. It is frustrating to find that you do well in some areas of your life but not in others. From choosing toxic relationships to breaking old habits, problems are meant to be solved. It's never too late to grow and change the way one responds to what life hands to us. As we change how we view things, so do our emotions. If you have struggled with compulsive or self-defeating behaviors, you too can finally stop them for good.
You may be repeating negative patterns/emotions or dealing with situations causing difficulties. You may even have tried therapy before but with limited improvement. It is frustrating to find that you do well in some areas of your life but not in others. From choosing toxic relationships to breaking old habits, problems are meant to be solved. It's never too late to grow and change the way one responds to what life hands to us. As we change how we view things, so do our emotions. If you have struggled with compulsive or self-defeating behaviors, you too can finally stop them for good.
(505) 557-2379 View (505) 557-2379
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Marianne Nathan
DPsa, MA
Verified Verified
Santa Fe, NM 87507
Are you suffering from personal problems in love, work, grief or other crises? I can help you assess the situation and strategize for the outcome you desire.
Are you suffering from personal problems in love, work, grief or other crises? I can help you assess the situation and strategize for the outcome you desire.
(505) 375-6386 View (505) 375-6386
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Ana Salvatierra
LCPC, LPCC
Verified Verified
Albuquerque, NM 87111  (Online Only)
I am a Bilingual Licensed Psychotherapist with 13 years of experience, working with individuals and families in areas of community mental health, the corporate sector, and private practice. Currently, I work with immigrant families, adults, and adolescents with a history of intergenerational trauma. I believe that what is helpful for the therapeutic process is providing undivided attention, empathic support, and addressing challenges along the way. The path to meaning and development is by coalescing all aspects of the self into this existence. We are not a separate entity, but united and connected with everything around us.
I am a Bilingual Licensed Psychotherapist with 13 years of experience, working with individuals and families in areas of community mental health, the corporate sector, and private practice. Currently, I work with immigrant families, adults, and adolescents with a history of intergenerational trauma. I believe that what is helpful for the therapeutic process is providing undivided attention, empathic support, and addressing challenges along the way. The path to meaning and development is by coalescing all aspects of the self into this existence. We are not a separate entity, but united and connected with everything around us.
(872) 246-9630 View (872) 246-9630
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Nora Gluck
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Santa Fe, NM 87506  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
For 50 years, I have helped individuals and couples find more pleasure in life through creating satisfying relationships and meaningful work. Therapy at its best is a collaborative process between client and therapist. I have special interest and expertise in couple therapy and psychotherapy and have extensive training and experience in both. I practice trauma-informed therapy, including EMDR and other trauma-clearing techniques. I incorporate yoga, meditation, deep relaxation, visualization and other mind/body techniques. I customize my approach to the unique needs of each client. My work is informed by my own healing journey.
For 50 years, I have helped individuals and couples find more pleasure in life through creating satisfying relationships and meaningful work. Therapy at its best is a collaborative process between client and therapist. I have special interest and expertise in couple therapy and psychotherapy and have extensive training and experience in both. I practice trauma-informed therapy, including EMDR and other trauma-clearing techniques. I incorporate yoga, meditation, deep relaxation, visualization and other mind/body techniques. I customize my approach to the unique needs of each client. My work is informed by my own healing journey.
(505) 210-8660 View (505) 210-8660

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Infidelity Therapists

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.