Infidelity Therapists in Sylva, NC

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Judith Preiato
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Sylva, NC 28779  (Online Only)
Hello and welcome. Let me introduce myself as one who knows her soul’s purpose is to assist others find their soul’s purpose so that they may live a life of authenticity, abundance and joy just as I have learned. Often times we don’t even know that we have the capacity to create anything new. When we look around at our life’s circumstances sometimes all we can see is why we can’t. How do I know that? Because that was me. My thinking was so negatively conditioned from old emotional wounds and familial/societal conditioning. Let me show you how you have everything you need within to heal.
Hello and welcome. Let me introduce myself as one who knows her soul’s purpose is to assist others find their soul’s purpose so that they may live a life of authenticity, abundance and joy just as I have learned. Often times we don’t even know that we have the capacity to create anything new. When we look around at our life’s circumstances sometimes all we can see is why we can’t. How do I know that? Because that was me. My thinking was so negatively conditioned from old emotional wounds and familial/societal conditioning. Let me show you how you have everything you need within to heal.
(828) 383-0789 View (828) 383-0789
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Melissa Shelton
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LCAS-A
Verified Verified
Sylva, NC 28779
Way to go! You're making a hard decision! I'm so glad you're choosing to take care of yourself! Are you struggling with knowing who you are beyond a parent, partner, sibling, student, etc..? Maybe it's left you feeling ways you don't understand. Some phases in life are just so hard. I want to help you navigate through these phases with hope; not tell you how to live your life. When we struggle with our mental wellness, the systems around us also struggle, whether that's your family, kids, pets, relationships, work, friends/social life. In my sessions, you lead the way and I will challenge and encourage you to see beyond the surface.
Way to go! You're making a hard decision! I'm so glad you're choosing to take care of yourself! Are you struggling with knowing who you are beyond a parent, partner, sibling, student, etc..? Maybe it's left you feeling ways you don't understand. Some phases in life are just so hard. I want to help you navigate through these phases with hope; not tell you how to live your life. When we struggle with our mental wellness, the systems around us also struggle, whether that's your family, kids, pets, relationships, work, friends/social life. In my sessions, you lead the way and I will challenge and encourage you to see beyond the surface.
(828) 678-6157 View (828) 678-6157
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Karen A Smith LMFT, LCAS
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LCAS, MAC, EAP, SAE
Verified Verified
Sylva, NC 28779  (Online Only)
I enjoy working with clients who actively participate in their therapy. It is important to be ready to enter into therapy. The focus of therapy is on you not the others in your life - for after all you cannot change other people but rather the only person you can change is yourself. I can help you make the changes you want to make. Want to survive a trauma, stay sober, lose weight, interact better with others, recover from a loss, examine a troubled intimacy? This is what I do.
I enjoy working with clients who actively participate in their therapy. It is important to be ready to enter into therapy. The focus of therapy is on you not the others in your life - for after all you cannot change other people but rather the only person you can change is yourself. I can help you make the changes you want to make. Want to survive a trauma, stay sober, lose weight, interact better with others, recover from a loss, examine a troubled intimacy? This is what I do.
(828) 468-8275 View (828) 468-8275
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Pablo Javier Averza
Counselor, MA, NCC, LCMHCA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sylva, NC 28779
Thank you for taking the time to seek counseling. That is a huge step to trigger the change you want in your current situation. Congratulations! As a psychotherapist, I strive to provide a comfortable and nonjudgmental environment where my clients feel heard. I utilize an eclectic approach,  using a variety of tools according to the situation that the client presents.
Thank you for taking the time to seek counseling. That is a huge step to trigger the change you want in your current situation. Congratulations! As a psychotherapist, I strive to provide a comfortable and nonjudgmental environment where my clients feel heard. I utilize an eclectic approach,  using a variety of tools according to the situation that the client presents.
(828) 283-0614 View (828) 283-0614
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Maria A Averza
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, NCC, LCAS
Verified Verified
Sylva, NC 28779
Thanks for taking the time to consider me for potential counseling. You must be experiencing a time of significant distress during this part of your life. I’d like to help if I am a good fit for you! Mental health counseling is an investment in the quality of your life. That’s what we are trained to do, assist persons who can’t seem to find a way out of their suffering and negative circumstances. It offers a combination of human support, professional guidance and evidence-based psychoeducation.
Thanks for taking the time to consider me for potential counseling. You must be experiencing a time of significant distress during this part of your life. I’d like to help if I am a good fit for you! Mental health counseling is an investment in the quality of your life. That’s what we are trained to do, assist persons who can’t seem to find a way out of their suffering and negative circumstances. It offers a combination of human support, professional guidance and evidence-based psychoeducation.
(828) 283-0113 View (828) 283-0113
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Suzanne Lloyd Stone
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LCMHCS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sylva, NC 28779
Not accepting new clients
Life can feel exhausting when you are isolated, facing one stressor after another all while trying to live life as your authentic self. Many times people feel stuck when a major life event happens or when life is not turning out as you imagined. The stressful event may interfere with your day to day life at home, work, school or in your relationships. My job as a therapist is to guide and support you along the way. I will draw out your own insights and at times challenge you to confront things you may be avoiding or holding on to that may be keeping you stuck. Proudly serving LGBTQ+ community. Neurodiversity affirming therapy.
Life can feel exhausting when you are isolated, facing one stressor after another all while trying to live life as your authentic self. Many times people feel stuck when a major life event happens or when life is not turning out as you imagined. The stressful event may interfere with your day to day life at home, work, school or in your relationships. My job as a therapist is to guide and support you along the way. I will draw out your own insights and at times challenge you to confront things you may be avoiding or holding on to that may be keeping you stuck. Proudly serving LGBTQ+ community. Neurodiversity affirming therapy.
(828) 586-5555 View (828) 586-5555
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Cailey Erin Clarke
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sylva, NC 28779
Not accepting new clients
Everyone has the potential to build resilience, communicate their needs effectively and to connect with themselves and others in a more intentional way. I specialize in treatment resistant depression, PPD, BDD, Eating disorders, anxiety, trauma, sexual trauma/violence, gender identity, sexual orientation concerns, stress, sleep, major life transitions and much more. My practice allows you to build practical skills and connect mind, body and spirit to help reduce distress and increase feelings of security in self.
Everyone has the potential to build resilience, communicate their needs effectively and to connect with themselves and others in a more intentional way. I specialize in treatment resistant depression, PPD, BDD, Eating disorders, anxiety, trauma, sexual trauma/violence, gender identity, sexual orientation concerns, stress, sleep, major life transitions and much more. My practice allows you to build practical skills and connect mind, body and spirit to help reduce distress and increase feelings of security in self.
(828) 532-3592 View (828) 532-3592
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Lucinda Ramsey
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCMHC, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sylva, NC 28779
Not accepting new clients
Do you feel that life is working on you in ways you feel ill prepared for? Do you experience emotions and reactions you are ready to shed? Can you imagine a version of yourself that can handle the challenges you face with equanimity and skill? Let's investigate the patterns unfolding in your life with safety. Together, we can unravel unhelpful patterns and learn the skills of wellbeing and happiness.
Do you feel that life is working on you in ways you feel ill prepared for? Do you experience emotions and reactions you are ready to shed? Can you imagine a version of yourself that can handle the challenges you face with equanimity and skill? Let's investigate the patterns unfolding in your life with safety. Together, we can unravel unhelpful patterns and learn the skills of wellbeing and happiness.
(828) 537-4647 View (828) 537-4647
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Susan P Kimball
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Sylva, NC 28779  (Online Only)
Not accepting new clients
Are you a woman losing your heart trying to make your life work? It is possible grow from your difficulties and feel better about your life. You've worked hard to get where you are; whether it's in a relationship, or that job you wanted, or being the kind of parent you wanted to be and maybe even have a little extra in the bank. But it's hard.
Are you a woman losing your heart trying to make your life work? It is possible grow from your difficulties and feel better about your life. You've worked hard to get where you are; whether it's in a relationship, or that job you wanted, or being the kind of parent you wanted to be and maybe even have a little extra in the bank. But it's hard.
(828) 944-8664 View (828) 944-8664

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Kristin Mamrack
Counselor, MA, LCMHCA, NCC
Verified Verified
Cullowhee, NC 28723
You're worried and irritable, thinking of worst-case scenarios for everything. Are you constantly questioning yourself? Or afraid if you drop your guard, you'll lose control of yourself? You're probably exhausted and worry it will always be like this. You need a change. Constant stress and fear is so overwhelming and can have a chilling effect both on your relationship with others and with yourself. You want to be able to enjoy your life, without worrying about what comes next. You want to let go of the struggle for perfection. You deserve some peace. I can help you get there.
You're worried and irritable, thinking of worst-case scenarios for everything. Are you constantly questioning yourself? Or afraid if you drop your guard, you'll lose control of yourself? You're probably exhausted and worry it will always be like this. You need a change. Constant stress and fear is so overwhelming and can have a chilling effect both on your relationship with others and with yourself. You want to be able to enjoy your life, without worrying about what comes next. You want to let go of the struggle for perfection. You deserve some peace. I can help you get there.
(828) 301-4110 View (828) 301-4110

Online Therapists

Photo of Paula Zerfoss, LCSW, Couple Therapy That Works, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Sylva, NC
Paula Zerfoss, LCSW, Couple Therapy That Works
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Asheville, NC 28801
If you are having the same arguments over and over again, you are not alone. I will be with you every step of the way. I use Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples to interrupt repetitive Cycles where one person reaches out in frustration, causing their partner to withdraw and hide out. Couple Therapy doesn't have to be torture, and there doesn't have to be a "bad guy". I have helped couples with a range of issues from Domestic Abuse to infidelity to communication issues. I even use humor sometimes, but we don't waste a moment! I welcome couples who have been in couple therapy before and have almost given up.
If you are having the same arguments over and over again, you are not alone. I will be with you every step of the way. I use Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples to interrupt repetitive Cycles where one person reaches out in frustration, causing their partner to withdraw and hide out. Couple Therapy doesn't have to be torture, and there doesn't have to be a "bad guy". I have helped couples with a range of issues from Domestic Abuse to infidelity to communication issues. I even use humor sometimes, but we don't waste a moment! I welcome couples who have been in couple therapy before and have almost given up.
(857) 342-3184 View (857) 342-3184
Photo of Sandra Kahn, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor in Sylva, NC
Sandra Kahn
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MA, LCMHC, LCPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Hendersonville, NC 28739
Other personal and relationship concerns including sex and porn addiction / infidelity can begin steps toward better days.
Taking new clients - It is my privilege to work with individuals who courageously look for hope. I seek to embark with clients on gentle heroic journeys toward change, and finding rest so old wounds might become scars of life to empower a stronger sense of self and a more hopeful future. I provide trained and experienced professional services with a warm, calm, compassionate presence as I assist individuals and couples. I join with individuals whose lives are interrupted by anger, perfectionism, loss, life stage or career changes, health concerns, intrusive thoughts, behaviors, or betrayal injury, on first or next steps.
Other personal and relationship concerns including sex and porn addiction / infidelity can begin steps toward better days.
Taking new clients - It is my privilege to work with individuals who courageously look for hope. I seek to embark with clients on gentle heroic journeys toward change, and finding rest so old wounds might become scars of life to empower a stronger sense of self and a more hopeful future. I provide trained and experienced professional services with a warm, calm, compassionate presence as I assist individuals and couples. I join with individuals whose lives are interrupted by anger, perfectionism, loss, life stage or career changes, health concerns, intrusive thoughts, behaviors, or betrayal injury, on first or next steps.
(828) 677-2375 View (828) 677-2375
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Coyle Coaching and Consulting
PhD
Verified Verified
Weaverville, NC 28787
As a counseling psychologist by education, I have been blessed to provide individual, group, marital and family counseling for over 30 years in various settings including major medical centers, university counseling centers, and private practices. I prefer to work collaboratively with clients, ages 13 to adult, and assist in their development of life and relational skills to help moderate their anxiety, depression, grief, frustration or relationship distress. My clients are confronting various life transitions including job stress/dissatisfaction, mid-life confusion, betrayal, divorce, adjustment to change or loss of a loved one.
As a counseling psychologist by education, I have been blessed to provide individual, group, marital and family counseling for over 30 years in various settings including major medical centers, university counseling centers, and private practices. I prefer to work collaboratively with clients, ages 13 to adult, and assist in their development of life and relational skills to help moderate their anxiety, depression, grief, frustration or relationship distress. My clients are confronting various life transitions including job stress/dissatisfaction, mid-life confusion, betrayal, divorce, adjustment to change or loss of a loved one.
(865) 290-7293 View (865) 290-7293
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Jennifer Carragher
Lic Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate, MA, LCMHCA
Verified Verified
Saluda, NC 28773  (Online Only)
I have specialized training in intimate partner abuse, domestic violence, and betrayal trauma related to infidelity.
I’m a down-to-earth therapist and trauma specialist dedicated to helping anyone who feels misused, abused, lost, invisible or stuck in dysfunctional patterns. I often see those feelings change when clients have someone firmly in their corner (that’s me!) - someone who helps them understand their unique experience, creates a 100% safe and non-judgmental space to process their traumas, provides them with tools and education to make their struggle easier, crawls below blanket mountain with them during the bad times, and showers them in chocolate and eco-friendly glitter during the good times.
I have specialized training in intimate partner abuse, domestic violence, and betrayal trauma related to infidelity.
I’m a down-to-earth therapist and trauma specialist dedicated to helping anyone who feels misused, abused, lost, invisible or stuck in dysfunctional patterns. I often see those feelings change when clients have someone firmly in their corner (that’s me!) - someone who helps them understand their unique experience, creates a 100% safe and non-judgmental space to process their traumas, provides them with tools and education to make their struggle easier, crawls below blanket mountain with them during the bad times, and showers them in chocolate and eco-friendly glitter during the good times.
(828) 520-2240 View (828) 520-2240
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Pia Arrendell
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Asheville, NC 28801
You are here because of conflict, infidelity, lack of intimacy and you feel disconnected in your relationship. You've been trying to reconnect but when your relationship is in crisis, it can be hard to bridge the gap yourselves. When you can't trust your partner, where do you start? You're hurt, scared and lost but It's possible to let go of the pain and face your fears. Whether you're ready to come in as an individual or as a couple, we can work together to find solutions. No judgement here. It's time to get to work.
You are here because of conflict, infidelity, lack of intimacy and you feel disconnected in your relationship. You've been trying to reconnect but when your relationship is in crisis, it can be hard to bridge the gap yourselves. When you can't trust your partner, where do you start? You're hurt, scared and lost but It's possible to let go of the pain and face your fears. Whether you're ready to come in as an individual or as a couple, we can work together to find solutions. No judgement here. It's time to get to work.
(828) 551-2048 View (828) 551-2048
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Alexis Honeycutt
Counselor, LMHC, NCC, QS-FL
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Arden, NC 28704
I work with FL and NC couples on issues including: Deeper Communication, Sexual Intimacy, Cheating/ Infidelity, Parenting, Marital Conflict, Pre-Marital Counseling, and Restoring Trust.
Saturday appointments are available now for couples intensives! Do you feel lonely even though you are in a committed relationship? Do you and your partner find yourselves spending less and less time together or having little to no sex? Are you fighting about the same thing over and over? Have the arguments grown in intensity over time? I can help.
I work with FL and NC couples on issues including: Deeper Communication, Sexual Intimacy, Cheating/ Infidelity, Parenting, Marital Conflict, Pre-Marital Counseling, and Restoring Trust.
Saturday appointments are available now for couples intensives! Do you feel lonely even though you are in a committed relationship? Do you and your partner find yourselves spending less and less time together or having little to no sex? Are you fighting about the same thing over and over? Have the arguments grown in intensity over time? I can help.
(321) 320-7511 View (321) 320-7511
Photo of Wendy Eliot, Lic Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate in Sylva, NC
Wendy Eliot
Lic Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate, LCMHCA
Verified Verified
Fairview, NC 28730
Clients I have worked with include: survivors of sexual violence; partners seeking to rebuild or recover sexual and emotional intimacy; partners in the aftermath of sexual infidelity; sex workers; people with erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation; asexuality; partners looking to explore ethical non-monogamy or polyamory. I work with clients building their relationship to their bodies, their sexual identities, and desires. My clients also include people processing complex grief, communication barriers in relationships, and exploring values and shifting behaviors to promote authenticity, mindfulness, and integrity.
Clients I have worked with include: survivors of sexual violence; partners seeking to rebuild or recover sexual and emotional intimacy; partners in the aftermath of sexual infidelity; sex workers; people with erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation; asexuality; partners looking to explore ethical non-monogamy or polyamory. I work with clients building their relationship to their bodies, their sexual identities, and desires. My clients also include people processing complex grief, communication barriers in relationships, and exploring values and shifting behaviors to promote authenticity, mindfulness, and integrity.
(828) 547-9479 View (828) 547-9479
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Jill Brooks
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Morganton, NC 28655
Areas of focus have been personal and relational upheaval around betrayal within a relationship.
Many of my clients say that, in one way or another, their life just seems disjointed, frustrating, overwhelming, lonely and confusing. Sometimes that is a description of their inner state of mind, or it could describe how they feel within their most personal relationships. Others report a significant life change that has thrown them off course. It could be a career crossroad, a traumatic event/upbringing, a relational struggle, or a spiritual battle that brings them to seek therapy.
Areas of focus have been personal and relational upheaval around betrayal within a relationship.
Many of my clients say that, in one way or another, their life just seems disjointed, frustrating, overwhelming, lonely and confusing. Sometimes that is a description of their inner state of mind, or it could describe how they feel within their most personal relationships. Others report a significant life change that has thrown them off course. It could be a career crossroad, a traumatic event/upbringing, a relational struggle, or a spiritual battle that brings them to seek therapy.
(828) 414-2505 View (828) 414-2505
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Elizabeth Heaney
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Asheville, NC 28801
Waitlist for new clients
With more than forty years of experience, I've helped clients with a wide range of issues: family of origin/childhood issues, grief and loss, life transitions, communication skills, relationship concerns and more. I work with individuals and couples, focusing on what is at the core of their difficulties. With couples, I've worked with everything from relationship dissatisfaction/boredom, affairs, communication issues, sexual/intimacy concerns, etc. As a civilian counselor on military bases for several years, I've got a clear understanding of the unique pressures and challenges facing service members and families. Let's talk!
With more than forty years of experience, I've helped clients with a wide range of issues: family of origin/childhood issues, grief and loss, life transitions, communication skills, relationship concerns and more. I work with individuals and couples, focusing on what is at the core of their difficulties. With couples, I've worked with everything from relationship dissatisfaction/boredom, affairs, communication issues, sexual/intimacy concerns, etc. As a civilian counselor on military bases for several years, I've got a clear understanding of the unique pressures and challenges facing service members and families. Let's talk!
(828) 575-5089 View (828) 575-5089
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LDH Counseling and Consulting, PLLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, LCAS-A
Verified Verified
Shelby, NC 28150
I look forward to assisting you with developing the skills to live a more abundant life while implementing the tools that you already have! Life can be hard at times and with the right coping skills, life can be more manageable to those experiencing depression, grief, anxiety, substance use, and other mental health issues. Working with those who have experienced relationship issues, such as infidelity, abuse (domestic, verbal and/ or physical) can learn how to become a survivor instead of a victim. I know that building a healthy therapeutic relationship is the first step in the therapy process in a non-judgmental environment.
I look forward to assisting you with developing the skills to live a more abundant life while implementing the tools that you already have! Life can be hard at times and with the right coping skills, life can be more manageable to those experiencing depression, grief, anxiety, substance use, and other mental health issues. Working with those who have experienced relationship issues, such as infidelity, abuse (domestic, verbal and/ or physical) can learn how to become a survivor instead of a victim. I know that building a healthy therapeutic relationship is the first step in the therapy process in a non-judgmental environment.
(980) 465-2533 View (980) 465-2533

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Infidelity Therapists

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.