Photo of Tim Martin, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Raleigh, NC
Tim Martin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, CSAT, CMAT, CPTT, LCSW
Verified Verified
22 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27609  (Online Only)
Infidelity? Porn addiction? Sex addiction? Trauma? All of these issues can be tough to deal with, but I can help. I have specialized training so that you're not wasting your time and money. Not just talk, talk, talk that gets you nowhere. I used evidence-based treatments so that you're feeling better soon. As a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), a Certified Partner Trauma Therapist (CPTT), and a Certified Multiple Addiction Therapist (CMAT), I'm trained in many addictions, including substances. Most therapists aren't trained in all these issues. I offer EMDR, as well. There is hope. Together, we'll figure things out.
Infidelity? Porn addiction? Sex addiction? Trauma? All of these issues can be tough to deal with, but I can help. I have specialized training so that you're not wasting your time and money. Not just talk, talk, talk that gets you nowhere. I used evidence-based treatments so that you're feeling better soon. As a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), a Certified Partner Trauma Therapist (CPTT), and a Certified Multiple Addiction Therapist (CMAT), I'm trained in many addictions, including substances. Most therapists aren't trained in all these issues. I offer EMDR, as well. There is hope. Together, we'll figure things out.
(919) 746-7779 View (919) 746-7779
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Lauren Stevens
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MA, LCMHC
Verified Verified
Raleigh, NC 27612  (Online Only)
I am passionate about helping both individuals and couples navigate current struggles such as depression, anxiety, and life changes. I look to provide you with healing and growth. I am experienced in working with women's issues, LGBTQ+ individuals, depression, anxiety, grief, and relationship challenges (communication, infidelity, intimacy, and connection). I base my treatment and recommendations on each client's unique situation, history, and presenting needs or goals.
I am passionate about helping both individuals and couples navigate current struggles such as depression, anxiety, and life changes. I look to provide you with healing and growth. I am experienced in working with women's issues, LGBTQ+ individuals, depression, anxiety, grief, and relationship challenges (communication, infidelity, intimacy, and connection). I base my treatment and recommendations on each client's unique situation, history, and presenting needs or goals.
(919) 444-8859 View (919) 444-8859
Photo of Anna K Smith, Psychologist in Raleigh, NC
Anna K Smith
Psychologist, PsyD, MEd
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27615
I am a Licensed Psychologist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and I specialize in couples & sex therapy, affairs, trauma recovery, as well as depression, anxiety, bipolar, & other mental health issues.
I delight in working with couples to repair troubled relationships & find a deeper, more secure connection with one another by helping partners bring their needs into awareness, share those unmasked parts, and transform old patterns of communication & interaction. I strive to create a safe, non-judgmental space, whatever your orientation, identity, ethnicity, or sexual preference. I meet my clients where they are & am open, compassionate, and curious, whether we are discussing interpersonal conflicts, relationship issues, or other stressors. I am honored by the individuals & couples who have let me join them in those places.
I am a Licensed Psychologist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and I specialize in couples & sex therapy, affairs, trauma recovery, as well as depression, anxiety, bipolar, & other mental health issues.
I delight in working with couples to repair troubled relationships & find a deeper, more secure connection with one another by helping partners bring their needs into awareness, share those unmasked parts, and transform old patterns of communication & interaction. I strive to create a safe, non-judgmental space, whatever your orientation, identity, ethnicity, or sexual preference. I meet my clients where they are & am open, compassionate, and curious, whether we are discussing interpersonal conflicts, relationship issues, or other stressors. I am honored by the individuals & couples who have let me join them in those places.
(984) 205-5731 View (984) 205-5731
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Julian Crespo
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
Raleigh, NC 27604  (Online Only)
I am a bilingual (English/Spanish) therapist with extensive experience working with individuals, couples, and families. I am also an assistant professor of Marriage and Family Therapy and a clinical supervisor. I have been able to help many couples and families acquire the necessary skills needed to cope with very real relational problems (e.g., communication issues, infidelity, and power dynamics). I also help individuals from multiple cultural and ethnic backgrounds struggling with anxiety, depression, acculturation, and discrimination/oppression issues. I am committed to offering you a safe space where you can grow.
I am a bilingual (English/Spanish) therapist with extensive experience working with individuals, couples, and families. I am also an assistant professor of Marriage and Family Therapy and a clinical supervisor. I have been able to help many couples and families acquire the necessary skills needed to cope with very real relational problems (e.g., communication issues, infidelity, and power dynamics). I also help individuals from multiple cultural and ethnic backgrounds struggling with anxiety, depression, acculturation, and discrimination/oppression issues. I am committed to offering you a safe space where you can grow.
(919) 443-6170 View (919) 443-6170
Photo of Leah Powell, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Raleigh, NC
Leah Powell
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSWA
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27605
Are you feeling stuck in your relationship? Maybe you have experienced betrayal on behalf of your partner, maybe you are coping with infertility, or maybe you are longing for the emotional connection you once felt with your partner. Relationships can be difficult, and investing in your relationship through couples’ therapy is a vulnerable and commendable step in the right direction. I am passionate about working with women and couples dealing with infertility/difficulty with family building, helping couples recover from a rupture in the relationship, or rediscovering the connection that once was.
Are you feeling stuck in your relationship? Maybe you have experienced betrayal on behalf of your partner, maybe you are coping with infertility, or maybe you are longing for the emotional connection you once felt with your partner. Relationships can be difficult, and investing in your relationship through couples’ therapy is a vulnerable and commendable step in the right direction. I am passionate about working with women and couples dealing with infertility/difficulty with family building, helping couples recover from a rupture in the relationship, or rediscovering the connection that once was.
(984) 409-7330 View (984) 409-7330
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Taylor Anderson
Psychologist, PsyD, HSP-P
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27615
Waitlist for new clients
Couples who are struggling in their relationship with trust/betrayal, communication, and intimacy may often feel as if they are on a completely different page from their partner. My goal is to help you reconnect in your relationship, communicate better, and get back to a place of comfort and support. I also work with adult individuals struggling with depression, anxiety, life transitions/adjustment, poor interpersonal relationships, and stress. I strive to help you better understand your past experiences and the influence this is having on your life now. I balance process oriented work with skills needed to make changes now.
Couples who are struggling in their relationship with trust/betrayal, communication, and intimacy may often feel as if they are on a completely different page from their partner. My goal is to help you reconnect in your relationship, communicate better, and get back to a place of comfort and support. I also work with adult individuals struggling with depression, anxiety, life transitions/adjustment, poor interpersonal relationships, and stress. I strive to help you better understand your past experiences and the influence this is having on your life now. I balance process oriented work with skills needed to make changes now.
(919) 899-4704 View (919) 899-4704
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Gosha Stanchak
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, QS, LCAS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27613  (Online Only)
Welcome to a safe space where healing begins and hope thrives. If you struggle with trauma-related issues, such as complex / attachment / betrayal trauma, traumatic grief, migration grief, interpersonal trauma, or PTSD, I'm here to guide you on your journey toward healing and resilience. My passion lies in helping individuals navigate the challenges of trauma and reclaim their lives with courage and strength. My therapeutic approach is experiential and grounded in empathy, authenticity, and compassion. I believe in the power of building a trusting therapeutic relationship as the foundation for healing. I tailor my approach to meet
Welcome to a safe space where healing begins and hope thrives. If you struggle with trauma-related issues, such as complex / attachment / betrayal trauma, traumatic grief, migration grief, interpersonal trauma, or PTSD, I'm here to guide you on your journey toward healing and resilience. My passion lies in helping individuals navigate the challenges of trauma and reclaim their lives with courage and strength. My therapeutic approach is experiential and grounded in empathy, authenticity, and compassion. I believe in the power of building a trusting therapeutic relationship as the foundation for healing. I tailor my approach to meet
(252) 297-6681 View (252) 297-6681
Photo of Alyssa Doberstein, Marriage & Family Therapist in Raleigh, NC
Alyssa Doberstein
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27612
I specialize in working with couples and individuals around relationship concerns, intimacy, desire discrepancies/low desire, trauma, infidelity, anxiety, and sexual health & pleasure.
Finding a therapist that you connect with and feel understood by is an integral part of therapy. I help people work towards improved connection within themselves, their relationships, and their sexuality. At times we may struggle to communicate and connect with our partners, experience a lack of passion and romance, or have difficulty managing life struggles, distressing events, or conflict in our relationships. Therapy can be a chance to rediscover yourself, your relationships, and heal from painful life experiences while exploring new skills and resources to grow and develop increased relationship and life satisfaction.
I specialize in working with couples and individuals around relationship concerns, intimacy, desire discrepancies/low desire, trauma, infidelity, anxiety, and sexual health & pleasure.
Finding a therapist that you connect with and feel understood by is an integral part of therapy. I help people work towards improved connection within themselves, their relationships, and their sexuality. At times we may struggle to communicate and connect with our partners, experience a lack of passion and romance, or have difficulty managing life struggles, distressing events, or conflict in our relationships. Therapy can be a chance to rediscover yourself, your relationships, and heal from painful life experiences while exploring new skills and resources to grow and develop increased relationship and life satisfaction.
(984) 217-2820 View (984) 217-2820
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Tracy Nalory Fultz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27602  (Online Only)
Are you depressed, anxious, stressed, and feeling lost? Does childhood trauma or past experiences continue to cause you pain? Are you grieving the loss of a loved one? Has betrayal touched you in a way that you never expected? If you answered yes to any of these questions it is my desire to come along side of you in order to help you navigate your healing and recovery journey. I know for some it is hard to connect through video that is why I work to create a space for you to feel safe, heard, and challenged in order to get to the place you desire to be.
Are you depressed, anxious, stressed, and feeling lost? Does childhood trauma or past experiences continue to cause you pain? Are you grieving the loss of a loved one? Has betrayal touched you in a way that you never expected? If you answered yes to any of these questions it is my desire to come along side of you in order to help you navigate your healing and recovery journey. I know for some it is hard to connect through video that is why I work to create a space for you to feel safe, heard, and challenged in order to get to the place you desire to be.
(423) 226-5663 View (423) 226-5663
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Emotivate Counseling, PLLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, MDiv, LCSW, LCAS, CCS
Verified Verified
Raleigh, NC 27601
Are you trying to navigate relationship difficulties? Do your conflicts seem to repeat themselves over and over? Perhaps, you and your partner have simply grown distant from each other, or you are just looking for a more intimate bond and connection. Whether you are newly weds, having trouble conceiving, facing infidelity, or empty nesters, there is a tried and true way to navigate these experiences. Your relationship doesn't have to suffer any longer, there is a way through your unique circumstances. Let us help you find the connection that you truly desire in your relationship.
Are you trying to navigate relationship difficulties? Do your conflicts seem to repeat themselves over and over? Perhaps, you and your partner have simply grown distant from each other, or you are just looking for a more intimate bond and connection. Whether you are newly weds, having trouble conceiving, facing infidelity, or empty nesters, there is a tried and true way to navigate these experiences. Your relationship doesn't have to suffer any longer, there is a way through your unique circumstances. Let us help you find the connection that you truly desire in your relationship.
(585) 501-3045 View (585) 501-3045
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Stephanie K Moore
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Raleigh, NC 27607
I work with adolescents and adults who are experiencing anxiety, depression, family conflict, parenting issues, grief/loss, trauma recovery, infidelity, and several other life transitions.
Your decision to start therapy is a courageous step toward living a full life. I believe that good emotional health is a vital part of life and that choosing therapy is a gift that we can give to ourselves. I know and understand that the prospect of entering therapy can seem daunting. My goal is for you to feel accepted, and heard. I want you to know that whatever you are working through, it is important to me and I recognize the courage it takes to heal. I am a strengths-based therapist believing that each person has gifts enabling them to make desired changes.
I work with adolescents and adults who are experiencing anxiety, depression, family conflict, parenting issues, grief/loss, trauma recovery, infidelity, and several other life transitions.
Your decision to start therapy is a courageous step toward living a full life. I believe that good emotional health is a vital part of life and that choosing therapy is a gift that we can give to ourselves. I know and understand that the prospect of entering therapy can seem daunting. My goal is for you to feel accepted, and heard. I want you to know that whatever you are working through, it is important to me and I recognize the courage it takes to heal. I am a strengths-based therapist believing that each person has gifts enabling them to make desired changes.
(919) 689-4288 View (919) 689-4288
Photo of Kirsten Figaro, Marriage & Family Therapist in Raleigh, NC
Kirsten Figaro
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27612
My mission in therapy is to hold space where positive change can happen, hope can flourish, and relationships can thrive. I encourage clients to explore their roots and worldview and identify areas for growth and healing. Clients can expect that each of their sessions with me will be an experience where they can safely share and edit their story so that they can find the freedom to live the life they truly want. I am passionate about assisting clients with: anxiety, attachment wounds, trauma, sex & intimacy, depression, relationship issues, infidelity & affairs, pre-marital counseling, and family functioning & dynamics.
My mission in therapy is to hold space where positive change can happen, hope can flourish, and relationships can thrive. I encourage clients to explore their roots and worldview and identify areas for growth and healing. Clients can expect that each of their sessions with me will be an experience where they can safely share and edit their story so that they can find the freedom to live the life they truly want. I am passionate about assisting clients with: anxiety, attachment wounds, trauma, sex & intimacy, depression, relationship issues, infidelity & affairs, pre-marital counseling, and family functioning & dynamics.
(919) 343-5380 View (919) 343-5380
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Jessica Miceli
Counselor, MSc, LCMHC
Verified Verified
Raleigh, NC 27601
Specializing in mood disorders, betrayal, relationship/attachment issues, grief, and trauma.
Life’s journey is filled with peaks and valleys, and it’s okay to seek guidance when the path feels unclear. Embarking on a therapeutic journey can be a transformative experience, providing individuals with the tools to overcome challenges, improve relationships, and achieve a greater sense of fulfillment. I am here to support you on this journey towards healing and self-discovery. If you are seeking wisdom on how to redirect your life, step into a space of healing and transformation, where individuals and couples are empowered to rewrite their stories.
Specializing in mood disorders, betrayal, relationship/attachment issues, grief, and trauma.
Life’s journey is filled with peaks and valleys, and it’s okay to seek guidance when the path feels unclear. Embarking on a therapeutic journey can be a transformative experience, providing individuals with the tools to overcome challenges, improve relationships, and achieve a greater sense of fulfillment. I am here to support you on this journey towards healing and self-discovery. If you are seeking wisdom on how to redirect your life, step into a space of healing and transformation, where individuals and couples are empowered to rewrite their stories.
(919) 899-1752 View (919) 899-1752
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Lauren (Stiegler) Lang
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MS, BA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27601
Throughout life, we encounter experiences and challenges that are unexpected. During these difficult times, the future may seem out of our control. I can help you gain insight into your situation and support you as you cope through it. I specialize in working with couples who have experienced infidelity, postpartum and other relational issues, young adults going through life transitions such as starting college, a new job or a family, and adults experiencing, anxiety, depression and/or trauma as a result of unhealthy relationship dynamics with romantic partners, friends, children and parents. I want you to know you are not alone.
Throughout life, we encounter experiences and challenges that are unexpected. During these difficult times, the future may seem out of our control. I can help you gain insight into your situation and support you as you cope through it. I specialize in working with couples who have experienced infidelity, postpartum and other relational issues, young adults going through life transitions such as starting college, a new job or a family, and adults experiencing, anxiety, depression and/or trauma as a result of unhealthy relationship dynamics with romantic partners, friends, children and parents. I want you to know you are not alone.
(984) 409-1984 View (984) 409-1984
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Kinga Gudor @ Deep Connections Counseling
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD
Verified Verified
Raleigh, NC 27609  (Online Only)
Do you feel disconnected and lonely in your relationship? I can help you re-connect and feel again the bond you once had. I use Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy ( EFT), an attachment based therapy method. I am also trained in EMDR ( Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing), ACT ( Acceptance and Commitment Therapy- a combination of CBT and mindfulness techniques) and IFS ( Internal Family Systems ) which are helpful in processing trauma.
Do you feel disconnected and lonely in your relationship? I can help you re-connect and feel again the bond you once had. I use Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy ( EFT), an attachment based therapy method. I am also trained in EMDR ( Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing), ACT ( Acceptance and Commitment Therapy- a combination of CBT and mindfulness techniques) and IFS ( Internal Family Systems ) which are helpful in processing trauma.
(252) 300-3150 View (252) 300-3150
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Holly Russell
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LMFTA
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27605
Feeling lost in the sea of therapists online? You do not want to book an intake and tell someone your whole life story only to realize a few sessions in that they are just nodding, not saying much and you don't click. So, are we going to talk about feelings? Sure. And, I believe in a no nonsense approach to therapy. I will hold you accountable to create the change you want to see in your life. Whether we meet in my office, go for a walk outdoors, or have a virtual session, my aim is to provide a safe and supportive space where meaningful change and healing can happen.
Feeling lost in the sea of therapists online? You do not want to book an intake and tell someone your whole life story only to realize a few sessions in that they are just nodding, not saying much and you don't click. So, are we going to talk about feelings? Sure. And, I believe in a no nonsense approach to therapy. I will hold you accountable to create the change you want to see in your life. Whether we meet in my office, go for a walk outdoors, or have a virtual session, my aim is to provide a safe and supportive space where meaningful change and healing can happen.
(984) 265-2321 View (984) 265-2321
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Eb Roberts
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCMHC, BC-TMH, JD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27606  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I enjoy meeting clients right where they are and partnering with them to consider and predict the natural consequences which come to bear based on choices. My approach to therapy integrates mindfulness with solution-focused and reality-based approaches. I am EMDR trained as well and we can incorporate this as needed. Often we are driven into counseling either by an internal or external demand which no longer allows us to exist as we are. Counseling is about making a choice to manage life differently, or not--and not making a choice, is nevertheless still a choice.
I enjoy meeting clients right where they are and partnering with them to consider and predict the natural consequences which come to bear based on choices. My approach to therapy integrates mindfulness with solution-focused and reality-based approaches. I am EMDR trained as well and we can incorporate this as needed. Often we are driven into counseling either by an internal or external demand which no longer allows us to exist as we are. Counseling is about making a choice to manage life differently, or not--and not making a choice, is nevertheless still a choice.
(919) 694-6052 View (919) 694-6052
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InBloom Relationship Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFTA
Verified Verified
Raleigh, NC 27603
{{{{ ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS }}}} Good therapy begins with a strong relationship between therapist and client, and I believe that creating this empathic connection is one of my greatest strengths. I provide a client-centered, strength-based, affirmative approach that is warm and welcoming — a safe space where clients can share, process, and experience their thoughts and emotions. I am committed to meeting clients where they would like to begin their journey, working collaboratively toward healing, acceptance, purpose, well-being, and fulfillment.
{{{{ ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS }}}} Good therapy begins with a strong relationship between therapist and client, and I believe that creating this empathic connection is one of my greatest strengths. I provide a client-centered, strength-based, affirmative approach that is warm and welcoming — a safe space where clients can share, process, and experience their thoughts and emotions. I am committed to meeting clients where they would like to begin their journey, working collaboratively toward healing, acceptance, purpose, well-being, and fulfillment.
(919) 582-5999 View (919) 582-5999
Photo of Arizona Danielle Faison, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor in Raleigh, NC
Arizona Danielle Faison
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LCMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
Raleigh, NC 27615
Welcome to my practice! Building a trusting and supportive therapeutic relationship is at the heart of my approach to counseling. I understand that taking the first step towards seeking help can be challenging, and I commend you for your courage. With a deep commitment to your well-being, I strive to create a safe and non-judgmental space where you can explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences openly. My therapeutic style is empathetic, collaborative, and tailored to meet your unique needs and goals.
Welcome to my practice! Building a trusting and supportive therapeutic relationship is at the heart of my approach to counseling. I understand that taking the first step towards seeking help can be challenging, and I commend you for your courage. With a deep commitment to your well-being, I strive to create a safe and non-judgmental space where you can explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences openly. My therapeutic style is empathetic, collaborative, and tailored to meet your unique needs and goals.
(984) 217-4817 View (984) 217-4817
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Rochelle Ragsdale
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Raleigh, NC 27609
Waitlist for new clients
Are you feeling overwhelmed, frustrated and discouraged in your relationships? Have you tried multiple solutions only to yield little to no results? Don't quit..... As a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, I'm here to help! I provide a safe and non-judgmental environment to promote trust and openness within the therapeutic relationship. I am passionate about empowering change and walking alongside you as you journey towards a positive path of growth and well-being.
Are you feeling overwhelmed, frustrated and discouraged in your relationships? Have you tried multiple solutions only to yield little to no results? Don't quit..... As a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, I'm here to help! I provide a safe and non-judgmental environment to promote trust and openness within the therapeutic relationship. I am passionate about empowering change and walking alongside you as you journey towards a positive path of growth and well-being.
(910) 408-7210 View (910) 408-7210
Infidelity Therapists

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.