Infidelity Therapists in 96821

Photo of Britt Young - Xplor Counseling, Marriage & Family Therapist in 96821, HI
Britt Young - Xplor Counseling
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Honolulu, HI 96821
I also work with couples seeking help after infidelity, abuse, or other problems that are causing distress within the relationship.
If you're reading this, you've already taken the hardest step toward feeling better - reaching out for help. That's why it's so important my clients feel understood, heard, and supported. I use a collaborative, compassionate, yet direct approach to help my clients gain insight into patterns that may have them feeling "stuck" in place. Among other techniques, I use evidence-based approaches, such as Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy and Emotionally Focused Therapy, so you can make the long-term behavior changes that will put you on the right track.
I also work with couples seeking help after infidelity, abuse, or other problems that are causing distress within the relationship.
If you're reading this, you've already taken the hardest step toward feeling better - reaching out for help. That's why it's so important my clients feel understood, heard, and supported. I use a collaborative, compassionate, yet direct approach to help my clients gain insight into patterns that may have them feeling "stuck" in place. Among other techniques, I use evidence-based approaches, such as Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy and Emotionally Focused Therapy, so you can make the long-term behavior changes that will put you on the right track.
(808) 427-0694 View (808) 427-0694
Photo of Marisa Fialho, Marriage & Family Therapist in 96821, HI
Marisa Fialho
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, CSAC, LLC
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96821  (Online Only)
Looking for a therapist is no easy task yet here you are, taking an incredibly courageous step towards self-improvement. Whether you are thinking about therapy because you or your relationship feels stuck, hopeless, or you feel that an outsider's unbiased perspective could help, finding the right therapist is crucial. I would be honored in starting this very rewarding and life changing journey with you.
Looking for a therapist is no easy task yet here you are, taking an incredibly courageous step towards self-improvement. Whether you are thinking about therapy because you or your relationship feels stuck, hopeless, or you feel that an outsider's unbiased perspective could help, finding the right therapist is crucial. I would be honored in starting this very rewarding and life changing journey with you.
(808) 201-3079 View (808) 201-3079
Photo of Amir Ahmed Siddiqui, Mental Health Counselor in 96821, HI
Amir Ahmed Siddiqui
Mental Health Counselor, MS, LPCC, LPC
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96821
Over 11 years of experience in providing individual, couples, and family therapy services. I believe one is the driver and they can control how they want to live; however,I understand often times family, substances, depression, past trauma, anxiety, relationships, raising children, career/employment, financial, and personal struggles can be obstacles.My objective is to work with you in becoming aware and in creating solutions, which can counterattack these obstacles. Depending on your motivation this process can be short or long. It all depends on how much you want to live a productive life.
Over 11 years of experience in providing individual, couples, and family therapy services. I believe one is the driver and they can control how they want to live; however,I understand often times family, substances, depression, past trauma, anxiety, relationships, raising children, career/employment, financial, and personal struggles can be obstacles.My objective is to work with you in becoming aware and in creating solutions, which can counterattack these obstacles. Depending on your motivation this process can be short or long. It all depends on how much you want to live a productive life.
(727) 382-3411 View (727) 382-3411
Photo of Lauren Ashley Oiye, Counselor in 96821, HI
Lauren Ashley Oiye
Counselor, LMHC, MFT, MSCP, RYT200
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96821
Waitlist for new clients
The healing process is one that is infinite and the beauty of that rests in the fact that there are an abundance of healing methods and forms of healing. Sourcing the appropriate path is contingent upon our present state and what we need in that particular life moment. I believe that a holistic approach to psychological, emotional, and behavioral issues is the most effective way to reaching the source of our distress. Throughout treatment an individual or family is provided with various coping tools and skills to manage symptoms.
The healing process is one that is infinite and the beauty of that rests in the fact that there are an abundance of healing methods and forms of healing. Sourcing the appropriate path is contingent upon our present state and what we need in that particular life moment. I believe that a holistic approach to psychological, emotional, and behavioral issues is the most effective way to reaching the source of our distress. Throughout treatment an individual or family is provided with various coping tools and skills to manage symptoms.
(808) 202-2762 View (808) 202-2762
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Dr. Lisa L Gold
Counselor, PhD, LPC, LMFT, CMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Honolulu, HI 96821
Psychedelic medicine is revolutionizing psychotherapy. Transformation is now possible more quickly and easily than ever before. Reset and reconnect with yourself and your partner. Create the love and life you desire! I offer preparation, facilitation, and integration of ketamine-assisted psychotherapy and concierge retreats for individuals and couples.. Join me in Hawaii, Utah, Arizona, or Colorado for the ultimate corrective experience of the 6 foundational ketamine sessions, as well as maintenance sessions. Heal, create, and strengthen your emotional, sexual, and spiritual connection.
Psychedelic medicine is revolutionizing psychotherapy. Transformation is now possible more quickly and easily than ever before. Reset and reconnect with yourself and your partner. Create the love and life you desire! I offer preparation, facilitation, and integration of ketamine-assisted psychotherapy and concierge retreats for individuals and couples.. Join me in Hawaii, Utah, Arizona, or Colorado for the ultimate corrective experience of the 6 foundational ketamine sessions, as well as maintenance sessions. Heal, create, and strengthen your emotional, sexual, and spiritual connection.
(480) 630-4081 View (480) 630-4081
Photo of Dr Athena Kim LLC, Psychologist in 96821, HI
Dr Athena Kim LLC
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96821
Sometimes, you may experience some life obstacles that lower your quality of living. It helps to talk about your difficulties in psychotherapy so that you may learn the strategies and coping mechanisms to better deal with your difficulties, raise your quality of life, and enjoy your relationships with others. In my practice, I provide a safe, nonjudgmental environment where we can discuss these issues and find solutions together. I provide services to individuals (from the toddler to elderly age groups), families, and couples.
Sometimes, you may experience some life obstacles that lower your quality of living. It helps to talk about your difficulties in psychotherapy so that you may learn the strategies and coping mechanisms to better deal with your difficulties, raise your quality of life, and enjoy your relationships with others. In my practice, I provide a safe, nonjudgmental environment where we can discuss these issues and find solutions together. I provide services to individuals (from the toddler to elderly age groups), families, and couples.
(808) 518-3719 View (808) 518-3719
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Larissa Cordeira
Psychologist, PsyD, MA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Honolulu, HI 96821  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
You're the person who struggles with hustling for their worth. It shows in your impeccable work ethic or your perfectionistic ways or even your need to show up for others before you show up for yourself. You find yourself unable to relax, biting off more than you can chew, extremely overwhelmed, and unsure of how to slow down. It's hard to find balance in your life and not feel so guilty in the process. Does this sound familiar?
You're the person who struggles with hustling for their worth. It shows in your impeccable work ethic or your perfectionistic ways or even your need to show up for others before you show up for yourself. You find yourself unable to relax, biting off more than you can chew, extremely overwhelmed, and unsure of how to slow down. It's hard to find balance in your life and not feel so guilty in the process. Does this sound familiar?
(808) 784-7268 View (808) 784-7268
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Justin Miller
Counselor, LMHC, LPC, LGBTQ+
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Honolulu, HI 96821
Your life journey as a gay person is full of unique joys and challenges. Most of us never learned how to be gay (and happy). I get it. But know this: you can create the life you want. You can find your chosen family, heal the past, overcome shame find your passion and learn to finally love yourself at any age. And you don't have to trek up this mountain alone. As a gay counselor, my passion is helping fellow gay people develop their own toolkits to overcome anxiety, heal and thrive. As a gay man I've tackled similar mountains in my life using Cognitive Behavior Therapy and tools that work. If you are ready, I'd be honored to help.
Your life journey as a gay person is full of unique joys and challenges. Most of us never learned how to be gay (and happy). I get it. But know this: you can create the life you want. You can find your chosen family, heal the past, overcome shame find your passion and learn to finally love yourself at any age. And you don't have to trek up this mountain alone. As a gay counselor, my passion is helping fellow gay people develop their own toolkits to overcome anxiety, heal and thrive. As a gay man I've tackled similar mountains in my life using Cognitive Behavior Therapy and tools that work. If you are ready, I'd be honored to help.
(808) 378-3799 View (808) 378-3799
Photo of Robert Asa Locklear-Xplor Counseling, Counselor in 96821, HI
Robert Asa Locklear-Xplor Counseling
Counselor, LMHC, CSAC, NCC
Verified Verified
Honolulu, HI 96821
Not accepting new clients
Outside stressors can so easily become internal struggles if we let them fester--so, it's important to know when to reach out for support and help. I work with clients of all faiths, backgrounds, and orientations who need guidance and support as they navigate the pitfalls, transitions, and obstacles that are part of the human condition and journey. I specialize in depression, anxiety, transitions, play therapy, and relational issues; however, I also have extensive experience helping those with past and current substance abuse.
Outside stressors can so easily become internal struggles if we let them fester--so, it's important to know when to reach out for support and help. I work with clients of all faiths, backgrounds, and orientations who need guidance and support as they navigate the pitfalls, transitions, and obstacles that are part of the human condition and journey. I specialize in depression, anxiety, transitions, play therapy, and relational issues; however, I also have extensive experience helping those with past and current substance abuse.
(808) 793-6885 View (808) 793-6885
Photo of Alexis Lane -Xplor Counseling, Counselor in 96821, HI
Alexis Lane -Xplor Counseling
Counselor, LMHC, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Honolulu, HI 96821
Not accepting new clients
Alexis is someone who believes in your ability to restore balance and happiness to your own life. Alexis is aware of the many stressors that arise while deciding which direction to steer your life. She helps clients navigate through these difficulties to regain a sense of stability and peace. Alexis has performed a majority of her clinical work on Oahu providing counseling services to clients from all walks of life. She has experience in a variety of settings including intensive outpatient centers, classrooms, private practices, and community health care offices.
Alexis is someone who believes in your ability to restore balance and happiness to your own life. Alexis is aware of the many stressors that arise while deciding which direction to steer your life. She helps clients navigate through these difficulties to regain a sense of stability and peace. Alexis has performed a majority of her clinical work on Oahu providing counseling services to clients from all walks of life. She has experience in a variety of settings including intensive outpatient centers, classrooms, private practices, and community health care offices.
(808) 468-7198 View (808) 468-7198
Photo of Mindie K. Ching-Xplor Counseling, Marriage & Family Therapist in 96821, HI
Mindie K. Ching-Xplor Counseling
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Honolulu, HI 96821
Not accepting new clients
I believe that therapy isn’t necessarily about “fixing what’s wrong” with you. Rather, it’s a place to recognize and develop what you do well. People are full of inherent strengths and talents that can be discovered and refined to extend one’s potential and utilized when times are challenging. Through active listening, empathy and understanding, I offer insight, perspective and support to empower clients to navigate their life path.
I believe that therapy isn’t necessarily about “fixing what’s wrong” with you. Rather, it’s a place to recognize and develop what you do well. People are full of inherent strengths and talents that can be discovered and refined to extend one’s potential and utilized when times are challenging. Through active listening, empathy and understanding, I offer insight, perspective and support to empower clients to navigate their life path.
(808) 278-9204 View (808) 278-9204

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Infidelity Therapists

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.