Infidelity Therapists in 61920

Karen Eyman Kinder
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCPC, LMHC, CSAT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Charleston, IL 61920
In our culture today eating disorders, sexual and porn addiction are constantly a topic in the media, conversations and of general interest to most individuals. Many times these issues, as well as others, are kept as secrets and only come to light when a crisis occurs with loved ones or in relationships. Clients want a therapist that has comprehensive knowledge and understanding of these difficulties and can lead them and/or family members into a better understanding, recovery, and healing.
In our culture today eating disorders, sexual and porn addiction are constantly a topic in the media, conversations and of general interest to most individuals. Many times these issues, as well as others, are kept as secrets and only come to light when a crisis occurs with loved ones or in relationships. Clients want a therapist that has comprehensive knowledge and understanding of these difficulties and can lead them and/or family members into a better understanding, recovery, and healing.
(618) 226-5088 View (618) 226-5088
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Pamela R. Miller
Counselor, LCPC, NCC
Verified Verified
Charleston, IL 61920
If you're ready to make a change and move in a new direction or if you're just looking for extra support and guidance with daily stressors, I can assist you in making changes toward a positive direction. Whether it is relationship, divorce or marriage issues, anxiety/depression, grief/loss or parenting problems, we can help. As a nationally licensed, clinical therapist, I use evidence based treatments to help you learn healthy life choices for a healthy balance! Today you are one step closer to a new you, on a path to health, well-being and life balance.
If you're ready to make a change and move in a new direction or if you're just looking for extra support and guidance with daily stressors, I can assist you in making changes toward a positive direction. Whether it is relationship, divorce or marriage issues, anxiety/depression, grief/loss or parenting problems, we can help. As a nationally licensed, clinical therapist, I use evidence based treatments to help you learn healthy life choices for a healthy balance! Today you are one step closer to a new you, on a path to health, well-being and life balance.
(217) 919-0395 View (217) 919-0395
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David Ehlers
Counselor, LCPC
Verified Verified
Charleston, IL 61920
We aim to provide a level of care that enables everyone who walks through our doors to be better equipped to live the life they were meant for. Firmly grounded in hope and compassion, we exist for all people to thrive and experience wholeness in mind, body, and spirit. Whether you’re looking to overcome past experiences, seeking personal growth, or are in the midst of marital challenges, we are committed to fostering a safe space for you to share your story.
We aim to provide a level of care that enables everyone who walks through our doors to be better equipped to live the life they were meant for. Firmly grounded in hope and compassion, we exist for all people to thrive and experience wholeness in mind, body, and spirit. Whether you’re looking to overcome past experiences, seeking personal growth, or are in the midst of marital challenges, we are committed to fostering a safe space for you to share your story.
(217) 765-8157 View (217) 765-8157
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Lisa M. Rankin
Counselor, LCPC, NCC, LSOTP, LSOE
Verified Verified
Charleston, IL 61920
I appreciate a person who is ready to work on becoming the best they can be. I have a "get real" approach to what matters and that is you! I utilize your strengths to identify interfering issues and will help you to develop effective coping strategies in a confidential setting.
I appreciate a person who is ready to work on becoming the best they can be. I have a "get real" approach to what matters and that is you! I utilize your strengths to identify interfering issues and will help you to develop effective coping strategies in a confidential setting.
(217) 885-4151 View (217) 885-4151
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Alexis Dearing
Counselor, LCPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Charleston, IL 61920  (Online Only)
Trying to find the counselor that best suits you can be frightening. It takes courage to try to seek help. Thank you for being here. Levels of resistance and vulnerability vary, but they are both important to understand for each unique individual. Whatever you bring to therapy, that is where I will meet you. I am here for who you are, and to meet you where you are at. This perspective speaks to my eclectic role as a therapist. I analyze a client and use the research and knowledge I have to apply the best theory or approach to help my client. I focus on what the client's goals are and how to help them reach them in healthy ways.
Trying to find the counselor that best suits you can be frightening. It takes courage to try to seek help. Thank you for being here. Levels of resistance and vulnerability vary, but they are both important to understand for each unique individual. Whatever you bring to therapy, that is where I will meet you. I am here for who you are, and to meet you where you are at. This perspective speaks to my eclectic role as a therapist. I analyze a client and use the research and knowledge I have to apply the best theory or approach to help my client. I focus on what the client's goals are and how to help them reach them in healthy ways.
(618) 232-4744 View (618) 232-4744
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Michael Kleppin
Counselor, MSEd, LCPC, CADC
Verified Verified
Charleston, IL 61920
Not accepting new clients
Kleppin & Associates specializes in the care of clients with compulsive, addictive or deviant behaviors which have caused consequences in the client's personl life, with their family, at work and possibly within the judicial system. These issues may include; pornography & sexual addiction/disorders, substance abuse & chemical dependency struggles, in addition to general mental health issues such as anxiety or depression. In therapy we assist the individual in addressing their specific issues while exploring new cognitive and behavioral changes in an effort to develop a healthier and more functional lifestyle.
Kleppin & Associates specializes in the care of clients with compulsive, addictive or deviant behaviors which have caused consequences in the client's personl life, with their family, at work and possibly within the judicial system. These issues may include; pornography & sexual addiction/disorders, substance abuse & chemical dependency struggles, in addition to general mental health issues such as anxiety or depression. In therapy we assist the individual in addressing their specific issues while exploring new cognitive and behavioral changes in an effort to develop a healthier and more functional lifestyle.
(217) 574-5174 View (217) 574-5174

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How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.