Photo of Michael J Mailloux, Licensed Master Social Worker in 07042, NJ
Michael J Mailloux
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW, LSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042  (Online Only)
I am a Licensed Social Worker in New York and New Jersey, and graduated from Fordham University where I earned my master’s degree in social work. I am passionate about helping my clients get to know and navigate their inner world. I work with individuals who have struggled with addiction, anxiety, depression, and trauma. In addition, I enjoy couples work, focusing on communication, negative patterns in relational conflict, and issues of infidelity. I decided to go back to school to earn my doctoral degree in social work at Capella University.
I am a Licensed Social Worker in New York and New Jersey, and graduated from Fordham University where I earned my master’s degree in social work. I am passionate about helping my clients get to know and navigate their inner world. I work with individuals who have struggled with addiction, anxiety, depression, and trauma. In addition, I enjoy couples work, focusing on communication, negative patterns in relational conflict, and issues of infidelity. I decided to go back to school to earn my doctoral degree in social work at Capella University.
(332) 249-8309 View (332) 249-8309
Photo of Ann Rasmussen, Psychologist in 07042, NJ
Ann Rasmussen
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
I will skillfully help you navigate the greatest struggles of your life, and emerge empowered to move beyond whatever patterns are holding you back. Whether it's external pain (trauma, betrayal, death, illness) or internal (anxiety, depression, shame, self-sabotage), I approach all with compassionate accepting care. I am not passively silent- I will endow you with self-empowering techniques, while also coaxing forth your best inner resources. I am LGBTQ affirming. We will create an open, authentic bond through which you can access and honor your own truths, and emerge confident, self-aligned, resourced, and relieved of symptoms.
I will skillfully help you navigate the greatest struggles of your life, and emerge empowered to move beyond whatever patterns are holding you back. Whether it's external pain (trauma, betrayal, death, illness) or internal (anxiety, depression, shame, self-sabotage), I approach all with compassionate accepting care. I am not passively silent- I will endow you with self-empowering techniques, while also coaxing forth your best inner resources. I am LGBTQ affirming. We will create an open, authentic bond through which you can access and honor your own truths, and emerge confident, self-aligned, resourced, and relieved of symptoms.
(973) 988-1540 View (973) 988-1540
Photo of Kristine Seitz, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 07042, NJ
Kristine Seitz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSW, MSW, MEd
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042
Trained in sex therapy, I specialize in all aspects of relationship & sexuality concerns including behaviors, communication & intimacy issues, desire, dysfunction, identity, infidelity, and sexual abuse.
Looking for a therapist can be a vulnerable time. Thank you for taking the first step. I believe that our relationships are the cornerstone of of our lives. This includes our relationship with our self, our family, our partner(s), our friends, and our community. I am an empathetic, collaborative, and strengths-based therapist. Through a systemic approach, I both support and challenge my clients by helping them to identify stuck points, heal wounds, re-write narratives, and strengthen relationships.
Trained in sex therapy, I specialize in all aspects of relationship & sexuality concerns including behaviors, communication & intimacy issues, desire, dysfunction, identity, infidelity, and sexual abuse.
Looking for a therapist can be a vulnerable time. Thank you for taking the first step. I believe that our relationships are the cornerstone of of our lives. This includes our relationship with our self, our family, our partner(s), our friends, and our community. I am an empathetic, collaborative, and strengths-based therapist. Through a systemic approach, I both support and challenge my clients by helping them to identify stuck points, heal wounds, re-write narratives, and strengthen relationships.
(215) 882-9078 View (215) 882-9078
Photo of Desirae Harden, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 07042, NJ
Desirae Harden
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042  (Online Only)
Healing begins right where you are...HOME.Sometimes life feels hard. Perhaps you're feeling lonely, depressed, stuck, anxious, stressed or just "not yourself". Maybe you're struggling with relationships, infidelity, childhood trauma, loss and events in life that feel overwhelming. It's difficult to take the first step, but therapy can help you to feel less alone with these feelings and help you to move forward and find long change!
Healing begins right where you are...HOME.Sometimes life feels hard. Perhaps you're feeling lonely, depressed, stuck, anxious, stressed or just "not yourself". Maybe you're struggling with relationships, infidelity, childhood trauma, loss and events in life that feel overwhelming. It's difficult to take the first step, but therapy can help you to feel less alone with these feelings and help you to move forward and find long change!
(551) 248-9852 View (551) 248-9852
Photo of Stevette Heyliger, Licensed Professional Counselor in 07042, NJ
Stevette Heyliger
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
You’re stuck in a “negative pattern” with your partner. There’s been a breakdown in communication and you're often feeling misunderstood. You find yourself having the same old conflicts which never get resolved. No matter how you try explaining what you need and how you feel, your partner takes it the wrong way. You wonder: “does my partner care about me anymore?” You feel alone and disconnected and look to your partner for reassurance that you do matter. You've tried everything and nothing seems to help bring you closer together. And you don’t know how to talk to your partner about these concerns.
You’re stuck in a “negative pattern” with your partner. There’s been a breakdown in communication and you're often feeling misunderstood. You find yourself having the same old conflicts which never get resolved. No matter how you try explaining what you need and how you feel, your partner takes it the wrong way. You wonder: “does my partner care about me anymore?” You feel alone and disconnected and look to your partner for reassurance that you do matter. You've tried everything and nothing seems to help bring you closer together. And you don’t know how to talk to your partner about these concerns.
(973) 241-5306 View (973) 241-5306
Photo of Amy Lyburn, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 07042, NJ
Amy Lyburn
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042  (Online Only)
I help individuals and couples who are experiencing stress in their relationships. My therapeutic style creates a safe space for individuals as well as couples who wish to increase their connection and improve their communication skills. I am skilled at assisting couples with achieving better communication, increasing trust, and enhancing intimacy. My other specialties include assisting individuals with depression, anxiety, and addictions. I have also facilitated therapeutic groups and conducted educational seminars. I am an innovative thinker who’s always looking for new ways to empower clients.
I help individuals and couples who are experiencing stress in their relationships. My therapeutic style creates a safe space for individuals as well as couples who wish to increase their connection and improve their communication skills. I am skilled at assisting couples with achieving better communication, increasing trust, and enhancing intimacy. My other specialties include assisting individuals with depression, anxiety, and addictions. I have also facilitated therapeutic groups and conducted educational seminars. I am an innovative thinker who’s always looking for new ways to empower clients.
(917) 722-0521 View (917) 722-0521
Photo of Sharon Rothbart, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 07042, NJ
Sharon Rothbart
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, RN, MSW, LCSW, LLC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
I will assist you in identifying your strengths, and to help you flourish. I appreciate people's complexities, and will help you formulate the best way to move toward your goals. I have experience supporting clients with anxieties, panic, trauma, depression, isolation, divorce, relationship and career issues, and the grief associated with illness or loss. I am an avid LGBTQ supporter and have a deep commitment to human rights and exploring the gender spectrum as part of a healthy journey in life. I also help parents understand, support and accept children who are in the process of questioning their gender.
I will assist you in identifying your strengths, and to help you flourish. I appreciate people's complexities, and will help you formulate the best way to move toward your goals. I have experience supporting clients with anxieties, panic, trauma, depression, isolation, divorce, relationship and career issues, and the grief associated with illness or loss. I am an avid LGBTQ supporter and have a deep commitment to human rights and exploring the gender spectrum as part of a healthy journey in life. I also help parents understand, support and accept children who are in the process of questioning their gender.
(973) 888-1125 View (973) 888-1125
Photo of Adrienne Riofrio, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 07042, NJ
Adrienne Riofrio
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042
Whether you are experiencing a specific challenge or a general sense that your life can be better, therapy can help. I am an empathic, insightful therapist with 20+ years of experience and training in couple's therapy, depression, trauma, LGBTQIA, anxiety, immigration, family conflict, relationship issues, loss, and parenting. I am an active participant in your journey; one who will be direct about my thoughts and observations. I am a Latina and multicultural, anti-racist, LGBTQ-affirming clinician with a focus on exploring our multiple identities. Soy Latina y hablo espanol.
Whether you are experiencing a specific challenge or a general sense that your life can be better, therapy can help. I am an empathic, insightful therapist with 20+ years of experience and training in couple's therapy, depression, trauma, LGBTQIA, anxiety, immigration, family conflict, relationship issues, loss, and parenting. I am an active participant in your journey; one who will be direct about my thoughts and observations. I am a Latina and multicultural, anti-racist, LGBTQ-affirming clinician with a focus on exploring our multiple identities. Soy Latina y hablo espanol.
(973) 860-3202 View (973) 860-3202
Photo of Roxanne Ruiz-Adams, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 07042, NJ
Roxanne Ruiz-Adams
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, DSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
I firmly believe that life is easier lived when lived in relationship. In relationship, we can receive support, understanding, growth, and acceptance, making difficult life experiences much more bearable. We find and make relationships in so many domains; at home, with friends, in communities, and even with a therapist. That is why I think finding a therapist you feel safe with is so important.
I firmly believe that life is easier lived when lived in relationship. In relationship, we can receive support, understanding, growth, and acceptance, making difficult life experiences much more bearable. We find and make relationships in so many domains; at home, with friends, in communities, and even with a therapist. That is why I think finding a therapist you feel safe with is so important.
(908) 913-6571 View (908) 913-6571
Photo of Phoebe Farber, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 07042, NJ
Phoebe Farber
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, PhD
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
I am a psychotherapist with over 25 years of experience working with adults and adolescents. My background includes clinical work at several New York City hospitals, including Mount Sinai and Bellevue, as well as a private practice in Montclair, N.J. I am also a professor at Montclair State University since 2010, and have published articles on optimism and resilience.
I am a psychotherapist with over 25 years of experience working with adults and adolescents. My background includes clinical work at several New York City hospitals, including Mount Sinai and Bellevue, as well as a private practice in Montclair, N.J. I am also a professor at Montclair State University since 2010, and have published articles on optimism and resilience.
(973) 459-4039 View (973) 459-4039
Photo of Ali Whitney, Counselor in 07042, NJ
Ali Whitney
Counselor, LAC, MA, EdS
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
Much of my work has been dedicated to helping families experiencing major life transitions, focusing on healthy co-parenting, relationship challenges, divorce, and more. Not only do I consider myself a ‘safe place’ for all my clients, but I prioritize gender affirmation and have a comprehensive understanding of the complex ways in which the LGBTQIA+ community, as well as other diverse communities, have been impacted.
Much of my work has been dedicated to helping families experiencing major life transitions, focusing on healthy co-parenting, relationship challenges, divorce, and more. Not only do I consider myself a ‘safe place’ for all my clients, but I prioritize gender affirmation and have a comprehensive understanding of the complex ways in which the LGBTQIA+ community, as well as other diverse communities, have been impacted.
(973) 453-0584 View (973) 453-0584
Photo of Amos H Kamil, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 07042, NJ
Amos H Kamil
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042
Do you have a sense that you want more out of life but just can't seem to get there? Been there. My practice is dedicated to helping men, women, and couples work through relational, emotional and personal blocks so that they can lead a more meaningful life. I've played many roles in my life: actor, playwright, bio and adoptive father, branding consultant, son, journalist, brother, advocate, and therapist/coach to name a few. I understand and love working with searchers of all stripes in a style that can be warm, fun, and frank.
Do you have a sense that you want more out of life but just can't seem to get there? Been there. My practice is dedicated to helping men, women, and couples work through relational, emotional and personal blocks so that they can lead a more meaningful life. I've played many roles in my life: actor, playwright, bio and adoptive father, branding consultant, son, journalist, brother, advocate, and therapist/coach to name a few. I understand and love working with searchers of all stripes in a style that can be warm, fun, and frank.
(973) 833-5987 View (973) 833-5987
Photo of Carol D Pauls, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 07042, NJ
Carol D Pauls
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MS, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042
Therapy is a wonderful first step on your journey of discovery about yourself and your relationships. Therapy can be life changing. I am a hands-on active therapist who is not afraid to roll up my sleeves and get to work. I will seek to give you real, concrete takeaways in order to help jumpstart meaningful change. Whether it is focusing on painful feelings, trauma, relationships, difficult life transitions, creative blocks, stress, or healing from challenging life experiences, my goal is to help you discover the obstacles that block positive growth while building on your strengths.
Therapy is a wonderful first step on your journey of discovery about yourself and your relationships. Therapy can be life changing. I am a hands-on active therapist who is not afraid to roll up my sleeves and get to work. I will seek to give you real, concrete takeaways in order to help jumpstart meaningful change. Whether it is focusing on painful feelings, trauma, relationships, difficult life transitions, creative blocks, stress, or healing from challenging life experiences, my goal is to help you discover the obstacles that block positive growth while building on your strengths.
(973) 434-5308 View (973) 434-5308
Photo of Dina M Cagliostro, Psychologist in 07042, NJ
Dina M Cagliostro
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042
In my work with children, adolescents and adults, I attempt to create a warm, peaceful and engaging environment. I work with individuals and groups with a variety of emotional, behavioral and social issues. In addition to considering the individual needs of a client, my approach to treatment also accounts for the support structure a client has in place. Particularly in my work with children, I often find parents and school professionals to be crucial partners in the process of therapy. In addition, many years of experience working within schools, makes me a strong advocate for parents and students who are struggling to succeed in their school environment.
In my work with children, adolescents and adults, I attempt to create a warm, peaceful and engaging environment. I work with individuals and groups with a variety of emotional, behavioral and social issues. In addition to considering the individual needs of a client, my approach to treatment also accounts for the support structure a client has in place. Particularly in my work with children, I often find parents and school professionals to be crucial partners in the process of therapy. In addition, many years of experience working within schools, makes me a strong advocate for parents and students who are struggling to succeed in their school environment.
(973) 552-2381 View (973) 552-2381
Photo of Chris DeSerio in 07042, NJ
Chris DeSerio
MA, CHT
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042
In all his work, Chris always looks towards your empowerment and in that provides guidance and helps you to truly recognize your strengths and how to build upon them. Most every appointment is available and is as effective by phone or video chat (Zoom or FaceTime), and can further be more expeditiously scheduled these ways. Guidance, support, and objectivity are key elements in any service provided along with the addition of any tools and action plans as appropriate that have you manifest more of what you want being an active agent of your own change. Chris' experience is with ages 4 and up with children, adolescents, and adults.
In all his work, Chris always looks towards your empowerment and in that provides guidance and helps you to truly recognize your strengths and how to build upon them. Most every appointment is available and is as effective by phone or video chat (Zoom or FaceTime), and can further be more expeditiously scheduled these ways. Guidance, support, and objectivity are key elements in any service provided along with the addition of any tools and action plans as appropriate that have you manifest more of what you want being an active agent of your own change. Chris' experience is with ages 4 and up with children, adolescents, and adults.
(201) 233-4838 View (201) 233-4838
Photo of Lewis C Pagano, Licensed Professional Counselor in 07042, NJ
Lewis C Pagano
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
Talk therapy can help you become your true self. I have worked extensively with adults and adolescents for over 30 years and have a good understanding of childhood issues.I work with individuals and families with a focus on emotions.I believe that all people have resources to solve problems.I am easy to talk to and I have great listening skills.I have worked with individuals who are depressed and with adolescents in public education with great success I also have an extensive background in substance abuse and am certified to work with clients on Suboxone (Buprenorphine) for treatment of opiate addiction.
Talk therapy can help you become your true self. I have worked extensively with adults and adolescents for over 30 years and have a good understanding of childhood issues.I work with individuals and families with a focus on emotions.I believe that all people have resources to solve problems.I am easy to talk to and I have great listening skills.I have worked with individuals who are depressed and with adolescents in public education with great success I also have an extensive background in substance abuse and am certified to work with clients on Suboxone (Buprenorphine) for treatment of opiate addiction.
(973) 310-2273 View (973) 310-2273
Photo of Stacia Thiel, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 07042, NJ
Stacia Thiel
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW NJ, LCSW NY
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
Whether you seek individual, couples or family therapy I believe the challenges and struggles we face can be a doorway toward personal growth and the peace of mind that accompanies a deeper understanding of ourselves and others. I offer a client centered approach to treatment with a focus on client strengths and our innate ability as human beings to heal, connect and find wholeness. Whether you are looking for support with a current issue, wish to work through experiences of the past, or you are feeling stuck and seek more meaning and purpose, we will work together through an integrative approach to assist you in meeting your goals.
Whether you seek individual, couples or family therapy I believe the challenges and struggles we face can be a doorway toward personal growth and the peace of mind that accompanies a deeper understanding of ourselves and others. I offer a client centered approach to treatment with a focus on client strengths and our innate ability as human beings to heal, connect and find wholeness. Whether you are looking for support with a current issue, wish to work through experiences of the past, or you are feeling stuck and seek more meaning and purpose, we will work together through an integrative approach to assist you in meeting your goals.
(973) 221-9026 View (973) 221-9026
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Jennifer Grin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042  (Online Only)
Have you ever thought about what it would it feel like to maximize the meaning and joy in your life? If the answer is yes, then let’s work together to help you discover and meet your life goals. It does not matter how old we are, it is never too late. Life goals can include increasing self-esteem, investing in healthier relationships, decreasing anxiety and depression, career transitions, improving work or school performance, sobriety, and experiencing an overall sense of enhanced well-being.
Have you ever thought about what it would it feel like to maximize the meaning and joy in your life? If the answer is yes, then let’s work together to help you discover and meet your life goals. It does not matter how old we are, it is never too late. Life goals can include increasing self-esteem, investing in healthier relationships, decreasing anxiety and depression, career transitions, improving work or school performance, sobriety, and experiencing an overall sense of enhanced well-being.
(908) 516-3318 View (908) 516-3318
Photo of Allison S Stanton, LCSW, LLC, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 07042, NJ
Allison S Stanton, LCSW, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
My practice offers a variety of treatment options based on the client's needs and goals. After a thorough assessment some of the following treatment options may be recommended: individual psychotherapy, family therapy, marriage counseling, divorce counseling, or group therapy. Dialectic (DBT) and Cognitive (CBT) behavioral therapy techniques and practical interventions used in sessions will provide the client with tools and coping strategies to use between sessions. The therapeutic experience will assist clients with facilitating long term change, reducing anxiety and improving interpersonal relationships.
My practice offers a variety of treatment options based on the client's needs and goals. After a thorough assessment some of the following treatment options may be recommended: individual psychotherapy, family therapy, marriage counseling, divorce counseling, or group therapy. Dialectic (DBT) and Cognitive (CBT) behavioral therapy techniques and practical interventions used in sessions will provide the client with tools and coping strategies to use between sessions. The therapeutic experience will assist clients with facilitating long term change, reducing anxiety and improving interpersonal relationships.
(973) 928-0816 View (973) 928-0816
Photo of Charlena D. Sears, Psychologist in 07042, NJ
Charlena D. Sears
Psychologist
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
Your mental health matters. Therapy requires vulnerability and the courage to do something different especially when you're hurting. If you have become overwhelmed by difficulties that make it hard for you to function, you have come to the right place. If you are an empath like me, you know that the formula for living your best life is to heal your emotions. Family and friends cannot always help you get through the challenges of life; a good therapist can. The power of healing is a remarkable feeling. When transformation weaves itself into the fabric of your world, it provides the greatest rush.
Your mental health matters. Therapy requires vulnerability and the courage to do something different especially when you're hurting. If you have become overwhelmed by difficulties that make it hard for you to function, you have come to the right place. If you are an empath like me, you know that the formula for living your best life is to heal your emotions. Family and friends cannot always help you get through the challenges of life; a good therapist can. The power of healing is a remarkable feeling. When transformation weaves itself into the fabric of your world, it provides the greatest rush.
(973) 755-1882 View (973) 755-1882
Infidelity Therapists

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.