Imago Therapists in Lancaster, NY

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Sharon Deacon
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
Lancaster, NY 14086  (Online Only)
When your marriage or family is in crisis, you need more than a good listener who understands. You need an expert, with wisdom and experience, who will share knowledge, provide insight, teach skills, and enable experiences that make a real difference. You want someone specifically trained in relationship dynamics who can help you break down issues, overcome barriers, resolve conflicts, and achieve your goals. You value a research-based approach, backed by evidence of effective results. You seek therapy-- treatment intended to relieve your symptoms, heal your relationships, and stimulate positive growth.
When your marriage or family is in crisis, you need more than a good listener who understands. You need an expert, with wisdom and experience, who will share knowledge, provide insight, teach skills, and enable experiences that make a real difference. You want someone specifically trained in relationship dynamics who can help you break down issues, overcome barriers, resolve conflicts, and achieve your goals. You value a research-based approach, backed by evidence of effective results. You seek therapy-- treatment intended to relieve your symptoms, heal your relationships, and stimulate positive growth.
(716) 219-3591 View (716) 219-3591
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Erin M Ruston
Counselor, MSEd, LMHC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Lancaster, NY 14086
Not accepting new clients
Are you struggling with communication, lack of intimacy, feeling stagnant, or feel like you living with a roommate and not a partner? I would love to work with you to explore how to improve your relationship in a variety of ways. I can help you explore the barriers within your relationship and how to improve communication, fair fighting, work through infidelity, and heighten intimacy, both physically and emotionally.
Are you struggling with communication, lack of intimacy, feeling stagnant, or feel like you living with a roommate and not a partner? I would love to work with you to explore how to improve your relationship in a variety of ways. I can help you explore the barriers within your relationship and how to improve communication, fair fighting, work through infidelity, and heighten intimacy, both physically and emotionally.
(716) 771-2949 View (716) 771-2949

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Stephanie Palau
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Buffalo, NY 14214  (Online Only)
Navigating a toxic divorce and experiencing post separation abuse? Concerned about your children? I'm a licensed master social worker, psychotherapist, high conflict divorce coach, parenting coordinator and divorce/family mediator, with 25+ years of experience. I have trained at Columbia University School of Social Work , The International Trauma Studies Program, The Center for Mediation and Training and The High Conflict Divorce Coach Program. With a holistic, psychosocial approach, I utilize an attentive, reflective, and interactive therapeutic process enabling clients to gain deeper self-awareness, insight and strategy.
Navigating a toxic divorce and experiencing post separation abuse? Concerned about your children? I'm a licensed master social worker, psychotherapist, high conflict divorce coach, parenting coordinator and divorce/family mediator, with 25+ years of experience. I have trained at Columbia University School of Social Work , The International Trauma Studies Program, The Center for Mediation and Training and The High Conflict Divorce Coach Program. With a holistic, psychosocial approach, I utilize an attentive, reflective, and interactive therapeutic process enabling clients to gain deeper self-awareness, insight and strategy.
(716) 272-0463 View (716) 272-0463
Photo of Deborah Fiore, Marriage & Family Therapist in Lancaster, NY
Deborah Fiore
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Buffalo, NY 14218
Hello. If you are reading this, chances are very good that you are seeking to make changes in your relationship. I know how difficult it can be to share personal details with a stranger. It is my belief that every couple who seeks assistance is unique. Methods of treatment honor the individual and couple relationship. Couples therapy is not about right or wrong, but about perspective and patterns that may not be working. When we gain insight and develop communication skills that serve us we have healthier relationships. Relationship counseling is an investment in current relationships and complete health of the family.
Hello. If you are reading this, chances are very good that you are seeking to make changes in your relationship. I know how difficult it can be to share personal details with a stranger. It is my belief that every couple who seeks assistance is unique. Methods of treatment honor the individual and couple relationship. Couples therapy is not about right or wrong, but about perspective and patterns that may not be working. When we gain insight and develop communication skills that serve us we have healthier relationships. Relationship counseling is an investment in current relationships and complete health of the family.
(716) 351-2806 View (716) 351-2806
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Lynne Rifkin Shine
Counselor, MS, CRC, LMHC
Verified Verified
Getzville, NY 14068
I have been in private practice in my location since 1984, receiving the majority of my referrals from physicians and attorneys in the WNY area. I specialize in life transitions, school and career issues, relationship, marriage, infertility, post-partum depression, anxiety, sleep disorders,trauma,loss and change. I provide individual, couples, and group therapy. I also provide expertise in mental health to the local television and radio stations, and to local seminars in our area. Fees are reasonable and I provide appts. during the day, evenings and Saturdays. I look forward to meeting you.
I have been in private practice in my location since 1984, receiving the majority of my referrals from physicians and attorneys in the WNY area. I specialize in life transitions, school and career issues, relationship, marriage, infertility, post-partum depression, anxiety, sleep disorders,trauma,loss and change. I provide individual, couples, and group therapy. I also provide expertise in mental health to the local television and radio stations, and to local seminars in our area. Fees are reasonable and I provide appts. during the day, evenings and Saturdays. I look forward to meeting you.
(716) 748-7233 x1 View (716) 748-7233 x1
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Jeanie Tucker
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Williamsville, NY 14221
I enjoy helping individuals and couples utilize strengths as well as new skills to overcome personal challenges and relationship problems. I believe the relationships we have in our life can have a significant impact on our mental health and overall life satisfaction. Have relationships negatively affected your self-esteem, caused anxiety and depressed feelings, or opened your eyes to other concerns you would like to address? I can help you to find meaning in the difficulties you are facing, and learn to create satisfying relationships and outcomes that you want in your life.
I enjoy helping individuals and couples utilize strengths as well as new skills to overcome personal challenges and relationship problems. I believe the relationships we have in our life can have a significant impact on our mental health and overall life satisfaction. Have relationships negatively affected your self-esteem, caused anxiety and depressed feelings, or opened your eyes to other concerns you would like to address? I can help you to find meaning in the difficulties you are facing, and learn to create satisfying relationships and outcomes that you want in your life.
(716) 941-2765 View (716) 941-2765

Online Therapists

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Gail Ferraioli
Verified Verified
Rochester, NY 14618
Trained in Imago Couples Therapy; Nonviolent Communication; Mindfulness; Advanced Practitioner of Association for Conflict Resolution; Accredited Member of NYS Council on Divorce Mediation; Advanced Mediator Member of Academy of Professional Family Mediators; Certified Restorative Justice and Peace Circle Facilitator.
Are you hoping to renew or deepen passion and joy in your relationship? Wondering how to reconnect and feel alive together? Desiring more harmony in your home or family? Searching for greater clarity, purpose or to calm inner conflict? Thinking about divorce and wondering if you have "tried everything"? When you need a relationship specialist, I offer guidance, support and mediation that builds upon trust, respect and dignity. I welcome couples who wish to strengthen their relationships, families experiencing conflict, and people seeking to resolve conflict within themselves, in congregations, and within extended families.
Trained in Imago Couples Therapy; Nonviolent Communication; Mindfulness; Advanced Practitioner of Association for Conflict Resolution; Accredited Member of NYS Council on Divorce Mediation; Advanced Mediator Member of Academy of Professional Family Mediators; Certified Restorative Justice and Peace Circle Facilitator.
Are you hoping to renew or deepen passion and joy in your relationship? Wondering how to reconnect and feel alive together? Desiring more harmony in your home or family? Searching for greater clarity, purpose or to calm inner conflict? Thinking about divorce and wondering if you have "tried everything"? When you need a relationship specialist, I offer guidance, support and mediation that builds upon trust, respect and dignity. I welcome couples who wish to strengthen their relationships, families experiencing conflict, and people seeking to resolve conflict within themselves, in congregations, and within extended families.
(585) 447-5029 View (585) 447-5029
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Laurie Majors
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Rochester, NY 14617
I am offering Tele-Health Therapy through video and/or phone calls, along with in-office appointments for those who want to be seen. It is possible to make the kind of changes that will bring peace deep inside yourself and in your interactions with the people and the world around you! I provide support and feedback to help you with change of patterns in thought and behaviors that will help you identify your strengths and achieve your life goals.
I am offering Tele-Health Therapy through video and/or phone calls, along with in-office appointments for those who want to be seen. It is possible to make the kind of changes that will bring peace deep inside yourself and in your interactions with the people and the world around you! I provide support and feedback to help you with change of patterns in thought and behaviors that will help you identify your strengths and achieve your life goals.
(585) 312-3853 View (585) 312-3853
Photo of Patricia Petrone - Whole Wellness Services, Counselor in Lancaster, NY
Patricia Petrone - Whole Wellness Services
Counselor, LMHC, CMHIMP, NCC, MS, CNC
Verified Verified
Pittsford, NY 14534
I am dedicated to helping you through mental health, family, and couples issues with empathy and expertise. Your first session will always be offered within 7 days, and guiding you to your "best self" is my priority. As owner of practice Whole Wellness Services, I have designed a treatment team of experts that are solution focused and utilize evidence based practices while retaining a holistic philosophy. Individuals that come to us for therapy are looking for help with getting to a more joyful place and alleviating symptoms or behaviors that may be holding them back from doing so.
I am dedicated to helping you through mental health, family, and couples issues with empathy and expertise. Your first session will always be offered within 7 days, and guiding you to your "best self" is my priority. As owner of practice Whole Wellness Services, I have designed a treatment team of experts that are solution focused and utilize evidence based practices while retaining a holistic philosophy. Individuals that come to us for therapy are looking for help with getting to a more joyful place and alleviating symptoms or behaviors that may be holding them back from doing so.
(585) 524-0008 View (585) 524-0008
Photo of Lauren Widmark, Counselor in Lancaster, NY
Lauren Widmark
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Webster, NY 14580
I am Lauren Widmark, an LMHC specializing in addiction, PTSD, Depression, Anxiety, life transitions, grief, and loss. My approach varies based on the client's needs, and I use a variety of methods that include Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral (CBT), Eclectic, Humanistic, and Trauma Focused therapies. I have found that each client requires a unique form of treatment. I believe that addiction and other issues are a symptoms of something deeper that is going on.
I am Lauren Widmark, an LMHC specializing in addiction, PTSD, Depression, Anxiety, life transitions, grief, and loss. My approach varies based on the client's needs, and I use a variety of methods that include Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral (CBT), Eclectic, Humanistic, and Trauma Focused therapies. I have found that each client requires a unique form of treatment. I believe that addiction and other issues are a symptoms of something deeper that is going on.
(518) 989-7041 View (518) 989-7041
Photo of Jessica Morillo, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Lancaster, NY
Jessica Morillo
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rochester, NY 14623
Waitlist for new clients
I welcome you as you on your journey to attain your best self. I will hold space and support you to process, gain insight and make the changes you seek. I've been a dedicated therapist for 15 years and I love working with individuals and couples with a wide variety of issues. As I work towards AASECT certification as a Sex Therapist, I offer special expertise to help you achieve your ideal sexual/relationship functioning. I invite you to consider vulnerability as we work through your issues with an Attachment-oriented lens. Let's work to improve the way you relate and give/receive love.
I welcome you as you on your journey to attain your best self. I will hold space and support you to process, gain insight and make the changes you seek. I've been a dedicated therapist for 15 years and I love working with individuals and couples with a wide variety of issues. As I work towards AASECT certification as a Sex Therapist, I offer special expertise to help you achieve your ideal sexual/relationship functioning. I invite you to consider vulnerability as we work through your issues with an Attachment-oriented lens. Let's work to improve the way you relate and give/receive love.
(585) 797-1399 View (585) 797-1399
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Cheryl A. Bianchi
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, ACSW, EAS-C
Verified Verified
Rochester, NY 14610
I have been helping individuals, couples and families for over 30 years. Clients & colleagues describe me as experienced, effective, direct, honest, kind, compassionate, genuine & caring. Strengths are my empathy & ability to connect with others in a therapeutic way as to help facilitate growth, change and movement in their lives & acceptance of self. I use an eclectic approach: cognitive-behavioral, experiential, relational, solution-focused, supportive, trauma informed, and insight-oriented psychotherapy. Expertise working with couples, families & adolescents. An Addiction Specialist and an OASAS-DMV Provider for drug & alcohol evaluations, assessment and treatment. I am also certified by EAPA as a Employee Assistance Specialist-Clinical(EAS-C).
I have been helping individuals, couples and families for over 30 years. Clients & colleagues describe me as experienced, effective, direct, honest, kind, compassionate, genuine & caring. Strengths are my empathy & ability to connect with others in a therapeutic way as to help facilitate growth, change and movement in their lives & acceptance of self. I use an eclectic approach: cognitive-behavioral, experiential, relational, solution-focused, supportive, trauma informed, and insight-oriented psychotherapy. Expertise working with couples, families & adolescents. An Addiction Specialist and an OASAS-DMV Provider for drug & alcohol evaluations, assessment and treatment. I am also certified by EAPA as a Employee Assistance Specialist-Clinical(EAS-C).
(585) 492-6195 View (585) 492-6195
Photo of Brittany Schwarz, Marriage & Family Therapist in Lancaster, NY
Brittany Schwarz
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Pittsford, NY 14534
Hi there! What a gift to yourself to seek support! Whether you are struggling with relationships, trauma, stress, parenting, postpartum, and more, I welcome you on this journey to feeling more grounded, connected to self, freer, and fulfilled. We are all part of a larger system in which we influence and are influenced by internal and external worlds. As humans, it is our life's work to find a balance between being a separate self and maintaining connection with others. I will work with you to process through your struggles within the context of your larger system and to implement lasting changes to prevent struggles from repeating.
Hi there! What a gift to yourself to seek support! Whether you are struggling with relationships, trauma, stress, parenting, postpartum, and more, I welcome you on this journey to feeling more grounded, connected to self, freer, and fulfilled. We are all part of a larger system in which we influence and are influenced by internal and external worlds. As humans, it is our life's work to find a balance between being a separate self and maintaining connection with others. I will work with you to process through your struggles within the context of your larger system and to implement lasting changes to prevent struggles from repeating.
(806) 429-0995 View (806) 429-0995
Photo of Evelyn Bennett, Art Therapist in Lancaster, NY
Evelyn Bennett
Art Therapist, LCAT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rochester, NY 14625
I support individuals and all consensual relationships, who are struggling with anxiety, depression, the impact of trauma, and any relational concerns to create a meaningful way of being. I hope to work with you to question the expectations placed on you by society to enhance your lived experience. My work with you is person-centered, in that your goals and experiences are essential to our process. I believe deeply that I am guiding, witnessing, and holding space for you to grow. I am an ally to the LGBTQIA+ community and am Kink, BDSM, and Poly aware. All your expressions and relationship structures are welcome.
I support individuals and all consensual relationships, who are struggling with anxiety, depression, the impact of trauma, and any relational concerns to create a meaningful way of being. I hope to work with you to question the expectations placed on you by society to enhance your lived experience. My work with you is person-centered, in that your goals and experiences are essential to our process. I believe deeply that I am guiding, witnessing, and holding space for you to grow. I am an ally to the LGBTQIA+ community and am Kink, BDSM, and Poly aware. All your expressions and relationship structures are welcome.
(585) 669-6483 View (585) 669-6483
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Brigid Sboto
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Rochester, NY 14618
Often people interested in therapy are stuck or overwhelmed by a problem they have been trying to resolve. Sometimes the problem is not even clear. Yet, almost always the goal is relief from the struggle along with a sense of some mastery over the problem. Having studied both philosophy and psychology for many years, coupled with my history as an Executive Coach, my goal is to provide a broad range of tools and support so that the therapeutic experience brings about relief and a sense of success.
Often people interested in therapy are stuck or overwhelmed by a problem they have been trying to resolve. Sometimes the problem is not even clear. Yet, almost always the goal is relief from the struggle along with a sense of some mastery over the problem. Having studied both philosophy and psychology for many years, coupled with my history as an Executive Coach, my goal is to provide a broad range of tools and support so that the therapeutic experience brings about relief and a sense of success.
(585) 348-7987 View (585) 348-7987
Photo of Danielle Luz Matias, Counselor in Lancaster, NY
Danielle Luz Matias
Counselor, LMHC, LPC
Verified Verified
Rochester, NY 14624
The goal of my practice is to improve the quality of life of my clients and assist them reach their full potential and personal goals. Specializing in family and couple therapy. I also specialize in depression and anxiety. The ideal client will be dedicated to their own treatment and have a strong desire to feel better. Together with my client we work as a team to achieve the therapeutic goals and make life worth living and enjoying. I have been working in a mental health for over a decade and it's my greatest passion in life.
The goal of my practice is to improve the quality of life of my clients and assist them reach their full potential and personal goals. Specializing in family and couple therapy. I also specialize in depression and anxiety. The ideal client will be dedicated to their own treatment and have a strong desire to feel better. Together with my client we work as a team to achieve the therapeutic goals and make life worth living and enjoying. I have been working in a mental health for over a decade and it's my greatest passion in life.
(646) 204-2295 View (646) 204-2295
Photo of Durdane Hatun Guler, Counselor in Lancaster, NY
Durdane Hatun Guler
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Rochester, NY 14618
Is it hard for you to open up to others? Do you want to reach inner peace and learn to balance your life overall? I'm passionate about working with individuals who are truly committed to personal growth and transformation. I believe in providing a safe and supportive space for them to explore their needs, address their issues, and achieve their goals. We'll work side by side to help you create the life you desire.
Is it hard for you to open up to others? Do you want to reach inner peace and learn to balance your life overall? I'm passionate about working with individuals who are truly committed to personal growth and transformation. I believe in providing a safe and supportive space for them to explore their needs, address their issues, and achieve their goals. We'll work side by side to help you create the life you desire.
(585) 310-2022 View (585) 310-2022
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Kora Hauryski
LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rochester, NY 14609  (Online Only)
Are you a young adult feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or stressed? Let's collaborate to make a safe and supportive environment where you feel heard and empowered. I'm warm, down-to-earth, and genuinely invested in your well-being.
Are you a young adult feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or stressed? Let's collaborate to make a safe and supportive environment where you feel heard and empowered. I'm warm, down-to-earth, and genuinely invested in your well-being.
(585) 541-2801 View (585) 541-2801
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Kodie Sears
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Rochester, NY 14607
Are you finding yourself in a pattern of repetitive behaviors that often interfere with your relationships/self-esteem? This may look like: relationships characterized by high conflict or codependency; periods of intense self-shaming/negative self-talk; emotional reactivity; or may show up as self-harming behaviors. If you are looking to receive non-judgmental care focused on building self-esteem and improving emotional regulation, you are in the right place! I have experience working specifically with young adults 18-35, the LGBTQ+ community and those diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder or PTSD.
Are you finding yourself in a pattern of repetitive behaviors that often interfere with your relationships/self-esteem? This may look like: relationships characterized by high conflict or codependency; periods of intense self-shaming/negative self-talk; emotional reactivity; or may show up as self-harming behaviors. If you are looking to receive non-judgmental care focused on building self-esteem and improving emotional regulation, you are in the right place! I have experience working specifically with young adults 18-35, the LGBTQ+ community and those diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder or PTSD.
(585) 632-6861 View (585) 632-6861
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The Queer Wellness Center: Channyn Quinn
LMHC
Verified Verified
Fairport, NY 14450
My name is Channyn (pronounced Shannon). Congratulations for starting (or restarting) your journey in taking care of yourself. My goal is to assist you with self-discovery, change, and improving your quality of life. I help my clients cope with the psychological and emotional difficulties that underlie unhealthy thoughts, patterns, and behaviors. I am anti-racist & committed to working with people regardless of gender identity, race, religion, or sexual orientation. My therapy style is warm, supportive, empowering, interactive, sometimes funny, and focused on assisting clients in developing mindful awareness.
My name is Channyn (pronounced Shannon). Congratulations for starting (or restarting) your journey in taking care of yourself. My goal is to assist you with self-discovery, change, and improving your quality of life. I help my clients cope with the psychological and emotional difficulties that underlie unhealthy thoughts, patterns, and behaviors. I am anti-racist & committed to working with people regardless of gender identity, race, religion, or sexual orientation. My therapy style is warm, supportive, empowering, interactive, sometimes funny, and focused on assisting clients in developing mindful awareness.
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Imago Therapists

How does Imago therapy work?

Imago relationship therapy is a form of couples counseling meant to help partners address conflict, communication problems, and related issues. Imago sessions typically involve couples sitting facing each other and participating in guided conversations. Therapy will also involve exercises such as re-imagining one’s partner as a wounded child; re-romanticizing a relationship through appreciation, surprises, and even gift-giving and restructuring frustrations by transforming complaints into requests. The ultimate goal is to re-envision the relationship as a source of safety and happiness.

What is the Imago method?

A core technique of Imago therapy is the Imago dialogue, in which partners learn to avoid hurtful statements and establish ways to interact based on each having equal space and power. In the dialogue, partners take turns as the “sender,” who shares their thoughts, and the “receiver.” The receiver is asked to “mirror,” or paraphrase, what their partner has said, without response or rebuttal, and then validate their statements, acknowledging understanding even if they do not personally agree with it. Finally, the receiver displays empathy by stating what they imagine the other is feeling, and showing appreciation for it.

How long does Imago therapy take?

As with most forms of talk therapy, there is no set duration or end point for Imago therapy. After becoming comfortable with a therapist and the core techniques of Imago coaching, some couples quickly make progress, but most should expect sessions to extend for months, encompassing at least 12 to 20 sessions, along with extensive “homework” from their therapist.

Does Imago therapy work?

There is limited empirical evidence to support the benefits of Imago therapy, but some smaller studies suggest that it does help couples, at least in the short-term. A 2017 study found that marital satisfaction increased significantly after couples completed 12 sessions of Imago therapy, and remained higher for some time after that, but did not always result in “complete recovery.” Other studies found greater empathy and fewer feelings of relationship burnout in couples after therapy. Some research suggests that Imago therapy can aid individuals as well as couples; people with ADHD in particular may benefit from the development of communication, self-control, and listening skills that form the basis of the technique.