Photo of Ray Brandon, Licensed Professional Counselor in Kent County, MI
Ray Brandon
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LLC, NCC
Verified Verified
Grand Rapids, MI 49507
Using several approaches, EFT, Gottman, Imago Therapy, and CBT I help clients move forward.
The most important relationships in our lives sometimes feel like they are the most difficult. Clients that come to me are feeling "stuck" in their relationships with a marriage partner, or family member. They come asking how they can be better connected, feel closer and reduce conflict.
Using several approaches, EFT, Gottman, Imago Therapy, and CBT I help clients move forward.
The most important relationships in our lives sometimes feel like they are the most difficult. Clients that come to me are feeling "stuck" in their relationships with a marriage partner, or family member. They come asking how they can be better connected, feel closer and reduce conflict.
(269) 280-2114 View (269) 280-2114
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Vicki Nelson Smeby, MA, LLP
Limited Licensed Psychologist, MA, LLP
Verified Verified
Grand Rapids, MI 49546  (Online Only)
I view therapy as having three heavy hitters: 1) EMDR - to neutralize strong negative emotions around adverse events (big & little traumas) and 2) Understanding loss and how to release it by feeling it and then not going back to think about it and 3) Learning how to have an attitude of healing and letting go. These culminate in living an empowered life which results in having a calm confidence. My clients set weekly goals and amaze me with their determination and willingness to go the distance to grow, mature and experience full healing. My teachings and handouts are creative and original.
I view therapy as having three heavy hitters: 1) EMDR - to neutralize strong negative emotions around adverse events (big & little traumas) and 2) Understanding loss and how to release it by feeling it and then not going back to think about it and 3) Learning how to have an attitude of healing and letting go. These culminate in living an empowered life which results in having a calm confidence. My clients set weekly goals and amaze me with their determination and willingness to go the distance to grow, mature and experience full healing. My teachings and handouts are creative and original.
(616) 952-2128 View (616) 952-2128
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Life Journey Psychological Services PLLC
Psychologist, PhD, LP
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Grand Rapids, MI 49505
Each person is on a unique life journey. We look forward to learning where you are on your journey and how we can help you create the life you desire. It is not about dwelling on the past but about using life lessons to move forward in a positive way. Even our most difficult life experiences bring us wisdom, character and integrity.
Each person is on a unique life journey. We look forward to learning where you are on your journey and how we can help you create the life you desire. It is not about dwelling on the past but about using life lessons to move forward in a positive way. Even our most difficult life experiences bring us wisdom, character and integrity.
(616) 208-5881 View (616) 208-5881
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Jordi Cross
Counselor, LLPC
Verified Verified
Grand Rapids, MI 49525
I work with individuals, couples and families as they navigate a variety of life complexities. My practice is a safe and practical place to process the past and explore your future. Perhaps, you’re coping with a particular problem or feeling stuck in long-term patterns of dysfunction and individual therapy sounds like a great fit. Or maybe, you're hoping to renew hope in the relationships you treasure most via couples or family therapy where you will learn to improve communication, cultivate boundaries, and mend any past or present wounds to ensure the healing and sustainability of the relationships that matter most.
I work with individuals, couples and families as they navigate a variety of life complexities. My practice is a safe and practical place to process the past and explore your future. Perhaps, you’re coping with a particular problem or feeling stuck in long-term patterns of dysfunction and individual therapy sounds like a great fit. Or maybe, you're hoping to renew hope in the relationships you treasure most via couples or family therapy where you will learn to improve communication, cultivate boundaries, and mend any past or present wounds to ensure the healing and sustainability of the relationships that matter most.
(616) 808-0333 View (616) 808-0333
Photo of Daniel K Ehnis, Psychologist in Kent County, MI
Daniel K Ehnis
Psychologist, EdD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ada, MI 49301
I have 44 years experience in helping couples recover from affairs, manage conflict, improve communication and intimacy.
I have 44 years experience in helping couples recover from affairs, manage conflict, improve communication and intimacy.
(616) 377-0076 View (616) 377-0076
Photo of Ardean Brock Counseling, Licensed Professional Counselor in Kent County, MI
Ardean Brock Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor, MDiv, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Caledonia, MI 49316
I am a nationally certified and state licensed Christian counselor with a goal to serve with care and compassion while providing a safe place to grow. My experience is in relationship therapy, family conflict, depression, anxiety, adjustment issues, bi-polar, grief, and pastoral care. I work with children 10 and older. I have specialized expertise in aging and end of life spiritual issues.
I am a nationally certified and state licensed Christian counselor with a goal to serve with care and compassion while providing a safe place to grow. My experience is in relationship therapy, family conflict, depression, anxiety, adjustment issues, bi-polar, grief, and pastoral care. I work with children 10 and older. I have specialized expertise in aging and end of life spiritual issues.
(616) 219-2701 View (616) 219-2701
Photo of Steven Kreitzer, Licensed Professional Counselor in Kent County, MI
Steven Kreitzer
Licensed Professional Counselor, MDiv, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Grandville, MI 49418
I believe progression towards healing is always possible. The ability to heal is not the problem. It is getting the right help and doing “the work” that creates healing. A big part of the healing is feeling valued, understood, accepted, and heard in the therapeutic relationship.
I believe progression towards healing is always possible. The ability to heal is not the problem. It is getting the right help and doing “the work” that creates healing. A big part of the healing is feeling valued, understood, accepted, and heard in the therapeutic relationship.
(616) 208-3257 View (616) 208-3257
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Brian Ulrich
Counselor, PhD, LLPC
Verified Verified
Grand Rapids, MI 49546
My passion is serving others through a relational style of therapy that is meant to help people repair emotional wounds, restore relationships, and develop a greater sense of wholeness within their lives. I seek to create a warm, supportive, and genuine climate where clients feel comfortable and safe working on problems and making progress towards life goals.
My passion is serving others through a relational style of therapy that is meant to help people repair emotional wounds, restore relationships, and develop a greater sense of wholeness within their lives. I seek to create a warm, supportive, and genuine climate where clients feel comfortable and safe working on problems and making progress towards life goals.
(616) 207-1968 View (616) 207-1968
Photo of Kimberly Hoke, Marriage & Family Therapist in Kent County, MI
Kimberly Hoke
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LPC, LLMFT, NCC
Verified Verified
Grand Rapids, MI 49508
Do you feel stuck having the same arguments where you know how things will end before it begins? Everyone experiences periods of difficulties as life changes and turns in unexpected directions. Whatever difficulties you are facing, you do not need to face them alone. As a marriage and family therapist, I will provide you and your family the tools needed to navigate life’s challenges in a safe, warm and understanding environment. Seeking help is not always easy although it can be rewarding.
Do you feel stuck having the same arguments where you know how things will end before it begins? Everyone experiences periods of difficulties as life changes and turns in unexpected directions. Whatever difficulties you are facing, you do not need to face them alone. As a marriage and family therapist, I will provide you and your family the tools needed to navigate life’s challenges in a safe, warm and understanding environment. Seeking help is not always easy although it can be rewarding.
(616) 236-2672 View (616) 236-2672
Photo of Ilene Crysler Bosscher, Marriage & Family Therapist in Kent County, MI
Ilene Crysler Bosscher
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT-S, RPT-S
Verified Verified
12 Endorsed
Grand Rapids, MI 49503  (Online Only)
You're wondering what you could do to improve your life your relationships. You need a safe place to unload everything and have someone guide you to a better place with real communication skills and a new direction. Someone that has 'been there' and guided others in their journey. I will listen to you. Then together we will move forward with options, a plan, and goals for uniquely you. We will figure things out and look for options to improve your life, your relationships, and issues you have.
You're wondering what you could do to improve your life your relationships. You need a safe place to unload everything and have someone guide you to a better place with real communication skills and a new direction. Someone that has 'been there' and guided others in their journey. I will listen to you. Then together we will move forward with options, a plan, and goals for uniquely you. We will figure things out and look for options to improve your life, your relationships, and issues you have.
(772) 222-3973 View (772) 222-3973
Photo of Chantelle Benko, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Kent County, MI
Chantelle Benko
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, MHP &ES
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Rockford, MI 49341
Waitlist for new clients
Sometimes life gives us more than we can handle by ourselves & we could use a bit of help navigating our way through it. We all have struggles as well as our own individualized higher purpose to fulfill. I'm here to help process your thoughts, feelings, & experiences so you may move forward in a healthier, more positive direction where peace & contentment can be found using a mind, body, spirit approach to healing & growth. We all deserve to live life to the fullest & I can offer you the counseling tools, resources, encouragement & support to assist you in overcoming life's obstacles & challenges encountered throughout your journey.
Sometimes life gives us more than we can handle by ourselves & we could use a bit of help navigating our way through it. We all have struggles as well as our own individualized higher purpose to fulfill. I'm here to help process your thoughts, feelings, & experiences so you may move forward in a healthier, more positive direction where peace & contentment can be found using a mind, body, spirit approach to healing & growth. We all deserve to live life to the fullest & I can offer you the counseling tools, resources, encouragement & support to assist you in overcoming life's obstacles & challenges encountered throughout your journey.
(616) 205-9126 View (616) 205-9126

Online Therapists

Photo of Lennis Baggech, Limited Licensed Psychologist in Kent County, MI
Lennis Baggech
Limited Licensed Psychologist, MA, LLP
Verified Verified
Holland, MI 49423
I've been in practice 25 yrs - with individuals/couples & families -- kids 6+, many teens, college students & adults. I'm shamelessly informal -- no ties or pressed shirts here!. The office is quite unique - - very large, ultra comfy, w/MANY natural oddities... slightly chaotic -- like life! Good strong coffee/tea/soda & munchies always available. Pets welcome. I'm adopted myself, a licensed foster parent, & work with trauma and attachment. I have a multi-cultural family & lived abroad (Africa). I do co-parenting therapy & am also very familiar w/court systems, working with Dr.'s, lawyers, schools and custody issues.
I've been in practice 25 yrs - with individuals/couples & families -- kids 6+, many teens, college students & adults. I'm shamelessly informal -- no ties or pressed shirts here!. The office is quite unique - - very large, ultra comfy, w/MANY natural oddities... slightly chaotic -- like life! Good strong coffee/tea/soda & munchies always available. Pets welcome. I'm adopted myself, a licensed foster parent, & work with trauma and attachment. I have a multi-cultural family & lived abroad (Africa). I do co-parenting therapy & am also very familiar w/court systems, working with Dr.'s, lawyers, schools and custody issues.
(616) 504-2403 View (616) 504-2403
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Matthew Mosley, LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, LLC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Okemos, MI 48864
Matthew Mosley, MA, LPC, received his master’s degree in Professional Counseling at Cornerstone University, Grand Rapids, Michigan. Matthew has years of combined experience working with Teens, Men, Woman, and Couples. Matthew’s therapeutic approach is customized to the personality and presenting needs of his clients. Matthew is a passionate, caring, professional who focuses on helping clients achieve their personal and/or relational goals. I offer a non-judgmental approach to doing therapy and strive towards your treatment goals to help increase communications and rebuild trust/respect.
Matthew Mosley, MA, LPC, received his master’s degree in Professional Counseling at Cornerstone University, Grand Rapids, Michigan. Matthew has years of combined experience working with Teens, Men, Woman, and Couples. Matthew’s therapeutic approach is customized to the personality and presenting needs of his clients. Matthew is a passionate, caring, professional who focuses on helping clients achieve their personal and/or relational goals. I offer a non-judgmental approach to doing therapy and strive towards your treatment goals to help increase communications and rebuild trust/respect.
(810) 202-0832 View (810) 202-0832
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Quies Christian Counseling Services, LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Belding, MI 48809
We (Ben and Taylora Bookie) are a husband and wife team who share a common vision to minister to individuals, couples, and families who need support and encouragement in any area of their lives. We love God and we love people, and out of this love we want to come alongside others to promote wellness and health in all areas of life.
We (Ben and Taylora Bookie) are a husband and wife team who share a common vision to minister to individuals, couples, and families who need support and encouragement in any area of their lives. We love God and we love people, and out of this love we want to come alongside others to promote wellness and health in all areas of life.
(616) 208-2995 View (616) 208-2995
Photo of Brenda Wachter, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Kent County, MI
Brenda Wachter
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Grand Haven, MI 49417
Every person faces challenging circumstances throughout life, but no one has to endure the pain of difficult experiences alone. I share the journey to emotional wellness with my clients to discover the root of what is inhibiting them and help them to find freedom. I work to create a space of compassion and acceptance to support the healing process. I approach counseling in a strengths-based framework and recognize that we all have skills and abilities that have developed overtime to cope and carry us through our toughest times.
Every person faces challenging circumstances throughout life, but no one has to endure the pain of difficult experiences alone. I share the journey to emotional wellness with my clients to discover the root of what is inhibiting them and help them to find freedom. I work to create a space of compassion and acceptance to support the healing process. I approach counseling in a strengths-based framework and recognize that we all have skills and abilities that have developed overtime to cope and carry us through our toughest times.
(616) 504-6410 View (616) 504-6410
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Sollars & Associates
Psychologist, PhD, LP
Verified Verified
Flint, MI 48507
I am a licensed psychologist and the clinical director of Sollars and Associates Integrative Counseling and Psychological Services. I have been providing counseling and psychotherapy for over 30 years in the Metro Detroit area and our group practice spans across the state of Michigan. With support, encouragement and expert insight many people begin to feel better after their first session. We provide short-term and in-depth counseling and psychotherapy. Psychological evaluation and testing also available including: educational (developmental, learning disabilities, ADD/ADHD), medical (bariatric surgery and pain) and work disability
I am a licensed psychologist and the clinical director of Sollars and Associates Integrative Counseling and Psychological Services. I have been providing counseling and psychotherapy for over 30 years in the Metro Detroit area and our group practice spans across the state of Michigan. With support, encouragement and expert insight many people begin to feel better after their first session. We provide short-term and in-depth counseling and psychotherapy. Psychological evaluation and testing also available including: educational (developmental, learning disabilities, ADD/ADHD), medical (bariatric surgery and pain) and work disability
(248) 862-1171 View (248) 862-1171
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Bayside Counseling & Mediation Services, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Holland, MI 49423  (Online Only)
Featured as a Relationship Expert on television news programs and magazines, Remi Schloff of Bayside Counseling and Mediation Services can help you. Remi brings to her clients and sessions 22 years of experience helping people through life changes. Remi is adept at providing short term solution-focused therapy, longer-term insight oriented therapy, research-based couples communication interventions. "No situation is impossible," is her motto.
Featured as a Relationship Expert on television news programs and magazines, Remi Schloff of Bayside Counseling and Mediation Services can help you. Remi brings to her clients and sessions 22 years of experience helping people through life changes. Remi is adept at providing short term solution-focused therapy, longer-term insight oriented therapy, research-based couples communication interventions. "No situation is impossible," is her motto.
(616) 219-8484 View (616) 219-8484
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The Wellness Institute of Michigan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, ACSW
Verified Verified
Okemos, MI 48864
If you would like help with issues regarding daily life, work, family, blended families, academics, life decisions, gender identity we can help. If you have feelings of fatigue, worry, and being overwhelmed we can assist you. We operate a group practice with several therapists in three locations. In your initial call to us we listen carefully to understand what your needs are and then match you with the best method of treatment and therapist to help you. We understand that calling for counseling is an important choice and offer excellent customer service to facilitate the process. We provide highly professional services in a peaceful setting.
If you would like help with issues regarding daily life, work, family, blended families, academics, life decisions, gender identity we can help. If you have feelings of fatigue, worry, and being overwhelmed we can assist you. We operate a group practice with several therapists in three locations. In your initial call to us we listen carefully to understand what your needs are and then match you with the best method of treatment and therapist to help you. We understand that calling for counseling is an important choice and offer excellent customer service to facilitate the process. We provide highly professional services in a peaceful setting.
(517) 536-1142 View (517) 536-1142
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Awakenings Christian Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, ACS
Verified Verified
Kalamazoo, MI 49008
Our highly trained and compassionate therapists are here to help as am I. Life can quickly take a turn leaving us in shock, feeling like our future is uncertain and out of control. Seeking help processing is the first step to healing. Knowing that you are not alone as you navigate through the process brings a sense of comfort and reassurance needed in difficult times.
Our highly trained and compassionate therapists are here to help as am I. Life can quickly take a turn leaving us in shock, feeling like our future is uncertain and out of control. Seeking help processing is the first step to healing. Knowing that you are not alone as you navigate through the process brings a sense of comfort and reassurance needed in difficult times.
(269) 215-6687 View (269) 215-6687

Imago Therapists

How does Imago therapy work?

Imago relationship therapy is a form of couples counseling meant to help partners address conflict, communication problems, and related issues. Imago sessions typically involve couples sitting facing each other and participating in guided conversations. Therapy will also involve exercises such as re-imagining one’s partner as a wounded child; re-romanticizing a relationship through appreciation, surprises, and even gift-giving and restructuring frustrations by transforming complaints into requests. The ultimate goal is to re-envision the relationship as a source of safety and happiness.

What is the Imago method?

A core technique of Imago therapy is the Imago dialogue, in which partners learn to avoid hurtful statements and establish ways to interact based on each having equal space and power. In the dialogue, partners take turns as the “sender,” who shares their thoughts, and the “receiver.” The receiver is asked to “mirror,” or paraphrase, what their partner has said, without response or rebuttal, and then validate their statements, acknowledging understanding even if they do not personally agree with it. Finally, the receiver displays empathy by stating what they imagine the other is feeling, and showing appreciation for it.

How long does Imago therapy take?

As with most forms of talk therapy, there is no set duration or end point for Imago therapy. After becoming comfortable with a therapist and the core techniques of Imago coaching, some couples quickly make progress, but most should expect sessions to extend for months, encompassing at least 12 to 20 sessions, along with extensive “homework” from their therapist.

Does Imago therapy work?

There is limited empirical evidence to support the benefits of Imago therapy, but some smaller studies suggest that it does help couples, at least in the short-term. A 2017 study found that marital satisfaction increased significantly after couples completed 12 sessions of Imago therapy, and remained higher for some time after that, but did not always result in “complete recovery.” Other studies found greater empathy and fewer feelings of relationship burnout in couples after therapy. Some research suggests that Imago therapy can aid individuals as well as couples; people with ADHD in particular may benefit from the development of communication, self-control, and listening skills that form the basis of the technique.