Ilya Parizhsky
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT (he, him)
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
4 Endorsed
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| Русский As a licensed therapist, I’ve spent years helping people heal and grow. But I began to see the limits of the one-on-one model. Real transformation doesn’t happen alone — it happens in connection.
Every person has a natural ability to heal, not just themselves but others. Traditional therapy rarely activates that power. That’s why I now focus on Transformative Listening, a small-group practice that restores our built-in healing system through presence, safety, and love.
In groups of six, people don’t just receive healing — they become part of each other’s transformation. It’s an experience that turns emotional pain into freedom.
In Transformative Listening, you don’t just heal — you learn how to activate healing in others. Outside of group sessions, participants pair up for one-on-one exchanges, taking turns giving and receiving full, healing attention. The group sessions build this capacity, deepening fluency in presence, attunement, and the art of relational healing.
This group isn’t about managing or coping — it’s about unlocking your full capacity for connection, power, and ease. You’ll be surrounded by others who match your depth and desire for real growth. If you’re ready to experience what your system can do in the right environment, learn more and reach out to explore if it’s a fit.
Call or Email Ilya Parizhsky now for a free 15 minute consultation - (510) 876-4835
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Ilya Parizhsky
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (510) 876-4835
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Expired Licensed by State of California / 119479 Ilya Parizhsky
- In Practice for 12 years
- Attended California Institute of Integral Studies, Graduated 2014
- License: Washington, DC 200001284 / 2023
- Certificate from PACT Institute Level 2 Practitioner
Education and Years In Practice
Additional Credentials
Ilya Parizhsky
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (510) 876-4835
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Relationship Issues
- Trauma and PTSD
- Grief
Expertise
- ADHD
- Anger Management
- Anxiety
- Bisexual
- Chronic Impulsivity
- Codependency
- Depression
- Divorce
- Emotional Disturbance
- Family Conflict
- Internet Addiction
- LGBTQ+
- Life Coaching
- Life Transitions
- Marital and Premarital
- Men's Issues
- Narcissistic Personality (NPD)
- Parenting
- Peer Relationships
- Self Esteem
- Sexual Addiction
- Stress
Ilya Parizhsky
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (510) 876-4835
4 Endorsements
Client Focus
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Family
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied
Ethnicity
Black and African American ,
Hispanic and Latino
I also speak
Russian
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Family
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied
Ethnicity
Black and African American ,
Hispanic and Latino
I also speak
Russian
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Art Therapy
- Attachment-based
- Coaching
- Eclectic
- Emotionally Focused
- Existential
- Experiential Therapy
- Expressive Arts
- Family / Marital
- Family Systems
- Feminist
- Gestalt
- Humanistic
- Integrative
- Interpersonal
- Multicultural
- Person-Centered
- Play Therapy
- Positive Psychology
- Psychoanalytic
- Psychobiological Approach Couple Therapy
- Psychodynamic
- Relational
- Somatic
- Strength-Based
- Trauma Focused
Ilya Parizhsky
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (510) 876-4835
Groups
Transformative Listening 1-Week Online Experience
The Fully Alive One-Week Experience is a powerful small-group introduction to Transformative Listening—a practice that awakens your built-in healing system through connection. You’ll take part in a 3-hour live launch session with teaching, demonstrations, and guided turns, followed by a dedicated 1-to-1 session with your peer partner. Between meetings, you’ll access live support, community practice, and a bonus group Q&A call. By week’s end, you’ll know how to turn emotional intensity into clarity and freedom, and how to offer the same healing attention to others.
Session Cost
$300+
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Location
Additional Location
San Francisco, CA 94114
(510) 876-4835