Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in Evanston, IL
Therapy should be a place to not only get to know yourself but to grow, change, and flourish. If you have been looking to reconnect with yourself in a space free from outside noise and judgement this is the place for you! I specialize in working with LGBTQIA+ individuals, survivors of intimate partner trauma, and those navigating PTSD, anxiety, depression, as well as the unique experiences of being neurodivergent. We will work collaboratively to honor your individual needs and identities, and create a space where you feel safe, valued, and empowered to live authentically.
Therapy should be a place to not only get to know yourself but to grow, change, and flourish. If you have been looking to reconnect with yourself in a space free from outside noise and judgement this is the place for you! I specialize in working with LGBTQIA+ individuals, survivors of intimate partner trauma, and those navigating PTSD, anxiety, depression, as well as the unique experiences of being neurodivergent. We will work collaboratively to honor your individual needs and identities, and create a space where you feel safe, valued, and empowered to live authentically.
Many are also exploring kink or non-monogamy to find what feels most exciting and authentic to them.
Are you feeling stuck in your sex life lately? You love your partner and think they're cute and a fantastic human, but you just don't have any interest in sex. You're busy. You're overwhelmed with decision fatigue. You're a recovering people pleaser. You WANT to want your partner in a sexy way . . . it's just not happening lately. Or at least it's not happening easily. Also, you're tired! How are you supposed to have the energy for sex? You may be wondering if this is just an issue you need to resolve on your own. Is this is a bad sign for the relationship? And importantly, can you get genuinely interested in sex again?
Many are also exploring kink or non-monogamy to find what feels most exciting and authentic to them.
Are you feeling stuck in your sex life lately? You love your partner and think they're cute and a fantastic human, but you just don't have any interest in sex. You're busy. You're overwhelmed with decision fatigue. You're a recovering people pleaser. You WANT to want your partner in a sexy way . . . it's just not happening lately. Or at least it's not happening easily. Also, you're tired! How are you supposed to have the energy for sex? You may be wondering if this is just an issue you need to resolve on your own. Is this is a bad sign for the relationship? And importantly, can you get genuinely interested in sex again?
We often try to deny and reject our past instead of embracing it, sometimes leading to self-doubt, negative thoughts and memories that can hinder us. Through collaboration and self-determination, we can reignite the drive that still lies within, so that we can increase your self-esteem, replace negative thoughts with positive thinking, and process those memories together. You are not alone. April has always been passionate about helping others achieve their goals for better mental health. From assistance with daily stressors to feelings of hopelessness, each client is unique and deserves a therapeutic journey tailored to them.
We often try to deny and reject our past instead of embracing it, sometimes leading to self-doubt, negative thoughts and memories that can hinder us. Through collaboration and self-determination, we can reignite the drive that still lies within, so that we can increase your self-esteem, replace negative thoughts with positive thinking, and process those memories together. You are not alone. April has always been passionate about helping others achieve their goals for better mental health. From assistance with daily stressors to feelings of hopelessness, each client is unique and deserves a therapeutic journey tailored to them.
Hi! My name is Cillian Green (he/him). As a therapist, it is important to me to work with my clients to understand the present day through the lens of past experiences, including significant relationships and our families of origin. The stories we tell ourselves about the past can have such an impact on our present! My sessions are characterized by humility, curiosity, and humor. My clients come from a variety of backgrounds and use their therapy time to work through challenges related to stress, anxiety, depression, identity, sexuality, and executive functioning.
Hi! My name is Cillian Green (he/him). As a therapist, it is important to me to work with my clients to understand the present day through the lens of past experiences, including significant relationships and our families of origin. The stories we tell ourselves about the past can have such an impact on our present! My sessions are characterized by humility, curiosity, and humor. My clients come from a variety of backgrounds and use their therapy time to work through challenges related to stress, anxiety, depression, identity, sexuality, and executive functioning.
I work with teens and adults who find themselves in transition- whether they are facing changes in life, relationships, career, or just feeling stuck between where they are and where they want to be. My work with clients is aimed at helping them identify who they are, what they want, and where they're going. I pull from a mix of modalities, including CBT, DBT, narrative therapy, and somatic work to help clients feel more connected to themselves and more equipped to move through the world with intention and understanding.
I work with teens and adults who find themselves in transition- whether they are facing changes in life, relationships, career, or just feeling stuck between where they are and where they want to be. My work with clients is aimed at helping them identify who they are, what they want, and where they're going. I pull from a mix of modalities, including CBT, DBT, narrative therapy, and somatic work to help clients feel more connected to themselves and more equipped to move through the world with intention and understanding.
How you show up for yourself is just as important as how you show up for others. This fact often gets lost when we are faced with stress, trauma, illness or loss. “Coming back” to yourself with understanding, compassion and empathy is a critical first step toward personal recovery and restoring relationships that are hurting. In therapy with me you will gain tools to help with coping, communication, and setting boundaries. I help clients understand their own emotional attachment needs and interpersonal style and I believe therapy is most effective when grounded this way.
How you show up for yourself is just as important as how you show up for others. This fact often gets lost when we are faced with stress, trauma, illness or loss. “Coming back” to yourself with understanding, compassion and empathy is a critical first step toward personal recovery and restoring relationships that are hurting. In therapy with me you will gain tools to help with coping, communication, and setting boundaries. I help clients understand their own emotional attachment needs and interpersonal style and I believe therapy is most effective when grounded this way.
In the same way that lifes difficulties can hold us back, I think they can also teach us to grow. I see counseling as a cooperative space that serves to help you strive towards becoming the best version of yourself. Within session, I focus on creating a safe environment where you feel comfortable exploring your identity and working through inner struggles. At the core of the therapeutic process, I think deep connection matters and I strive to see each client as the unique individual they are. I value you for who you are and believe that your understanding of yourself is inextricably linked to your success.
In the same way that lifes difficulties can hold us back, I think they can also teach us to grow. I see counseling as a cooperative space that serves to help you strive towards becoming the best version of yourself. Within session, I focus on creating a safe environment where you feel comfortable exploring your identity and working through inner struggles. At the core of the therapeutic process, I think deep connection matters and I strive to see each client as the unique individual they are. I value you for who you are and believe that your understanding of yourself is inextricably linked to your success.
I believe therapy is a gift to oneself of a safe space to explore, reflect, understand, and identify what is important. It is necessary to challenge my clients to confront unfinished business within themselves in order to live freely in the present moment. Recognizably, I am not the expert in the therapeutic space—you are. I value collaboratively and energetically working towards a sense of healing and understanding.
I believe therapy is a gift to oneself of a safe space to explore, reflect, understand, and identify what is important. It is necessary to challenge my clients to confront unfinished business within themselves in order to live freely in the present moment. Recognizably, I am not the expert in the therapeutic space—you are. I value collaboratively and energetically working towards a sense of healing and understanding.
As a queer, Latinx therapist, Marisol believes that therapy should be a safe space to navigate feelings and foster a positive, trusting relationship between you and your therapist. Using lightness and humor, she aims to create a positive environment to slow down and make space for your emotions while navigating life’s complexities. She enjoys working with clients across the lifespan, with a particular interest in working with adolescents and young adults learning to navigate transition. She is passionate about creating a therapeutic space that is affirming, collaborative, and grounded in each client’s lived experience.
As a queer, Latinx therapist, Marisol believes that therapy should be a safe space to navigate feelings and foster a positive, trusting relationship between you and your therapist. Using lightness and humor, she aims to create a positive environment to slow down and make space for your emotions while navigating life’s complexities. She enjoys working with clients across the lifespan, with a particular interest in working with adolescents and young adults learning to navigate transition. She is passionate about creating a therapeutic space that is affirming, collaborative, and grounded in each client’s lived experience.
I am a seasoned therapist providing specialist care in the areas of sex therapy, couple/relationship therapy, and trauma treatment, including sex therapy for trauma survivors. I draw from several approaches to therapy, depending on the needs of my clients. But what centrally defines my approach is the relational perspective. I have come to value relationships as integrally important to healing: partner, family, and friend relationships, as well as a good quality therapeutic relationship. My approach is active, direct, and empathic. I understand that coming to therapy is a vulnerable experience, and I will be in it with you.
I am a seasoned therapist providing specialist care in the areas of sex therapy, couple/relationship therapy, and trauma treatment, including sex therapy for trauma survivors. I draw from several approaches to therapy, depending on the needs of my clients. But what centrally defines my approach is the relational perspective. I have come to value relationships as integrally important to healing: partner, family, and friend relationships, as well as a good quality therapeutic relationship. My approach is active, direct, and empathic. I understand that coming to therapy is a vulnerable experience, and I will be in it with you.
I believe the therapeutic relationship is the crucible within which clients are helped to heal their pain. I take an active role in the therapeutic process by engaging with the client so he or she feels understood, respected, and seen. The feelings of shame, fear, anxiety and other painful emotions are worked through so the client feels taken care of. The clients I treat often come into therapy in a survival mode. I help people in moving from survival to a life of thriving and self love. Dysfunctional behaviors creates people who feel inauthentic, even to themselves. I assist people in developing true authenticity and a real self.
I believe the therapeutic relationship is the crucible within which clients are helped to heal their pain. I take an active role in the therapeutic process by engaging with the client so he or she feels understood, respected, and seen. The feelings of shame, fear, anxiety and other painful emotions are worked through so the client feels taken care of. The clients I treat often come into therapy in a survival mode. I help people in moving from survival to a life of thriving and self love. Dysfunctional behaviors creates people who feel inauthentic, even to themselves. I assist people in developing true authenticity and a real self.
Feeling stuck, overwhelmed by anxiety, or unsure how to make a change in life is a common experience, especially in this world! It’s normal to feel intimidated, especially if past therapy experiences were difficult or if you are new to the process. I will work with you to guide you to make the best decision for yourself.
An EMDR-trained therapist, I use a trauma-informed approach to help clients move through their trauma, fostering healing in a way that is safe and empowering. My therapeutic methods are diverse, integrating behavioral practices, narrative therapy, queer theory, solution-focused techniques, and psychoeducation.
Feeling stuck, overwhelmed by anxiety, or unsure how to make a change in life is a common experience, especially in this world! It’s normal to feel intimidated, especially if past therapy experiences were difficult or if you are new to the process. I will work with you to guide you to make the best decision for yourself.
An EMDR-trained therapist, I use a trauma-informed approach to help clients move through their trauma, fostering healing in a way that is safe and empowering. My therapeutic methods are diverse, integrating behavioral practices, narrative therapy, queer theory, solution-focused techniques, and psychoeducation.
I am an experienced clinician with over 15 years of experience working with clients across gender, ethnic, generational & religious differences. I am dedicated to establishing an authentic connection and creating a safe space for you to begin or continue your process of growth and healing. I tailor my approach to each client and their values and goals. In meeting you exactly where you are with empathy, we will work towards exploring what is at the core of your struggle and develop the insight and tools needed to help you improve your overall wellbeing.
I am an experienced clinician with over 15 years of experience working with clients across gender, ethnic, generational & religious differences. I am dedicated to establishing an authentic connection and creating a safe space for you to begin or continue your process of growth and healing. I tailor my approach to each client and their values and goals. In meeting you exactly where you are with empathy, we will work towards exploring what is at the core of your struggle and develop the insight and tools needed to help you improve your overall wellbeing.
Hi! My name is Jake. Therapy can be a great source of support when managing symptoms of anxiety, depression or ADHD. It also can be a place to engage in self-discovery, get support managing life changes, or to chart out a path for the future. I am a fully-licensed, trauma-informed therapist who works to provide care to a diverse group of clients. I have experience working with individual across many gender, racial, and sexual identities. I have particular experience working with men of all sexual orientations, as well as members of the LGBTQ+ community. I also have specialized experience working with adults with ADHD.
Hi! My name is Jake. Therapy can be a great source of support when managing symptoms of anxiety, depression or ADHD. It also can be a place to engage in self-discovery, get support managing life changes, or to chart out a path for the future. I am a fully-licensed, trauma-informed therapist who works to provide care to a diverse group of clients. I have experience working with individual across many gender, racial, and sexual identities. I have particular experience working with men of all sexual orientations, as well as members of the LGBTQ+ community. I also have specialized experience working with adults with ADHD.
I specialize in trauma, mood disorders, LGBTQIA, gender-affirming care, and support for polyamory and kink-affirming relationships.
Accepting new clients now!
Healing starts with safety and connection. I believe therapy works best when it’s grounded in a trusting, authentic relationship. It’s not just about showing up to talk—it’s about both of us showing up with honesty, care, and commitment. For many people, trusting others can feel risky or impossible. That’s okay. Therapy can be a space where we explore those fears together, at your pace and on your terms. My role is to walk beside you, to listen deeply, and to support your sense of empowerment and autonomy. Together, we’ll build a relationship that feels safe, collaborative, and respectful.
I specialize in trauma, mood disorders, LGBTQIA, gender-affirming care, and support for polyamory and kink-affirming relationships.
Accepting new clients now!
Healing starts with safety and connection. I believe therapy works best when it’s grounded in a trusting, authentic relationship. It’s not just about showing up to talk—it’s about both of us showing up with honesty, care, and commitment. For many people, trusting others can feel risky or impossible. That’s okay. Therapy can be a space where we explore those fears together, at your pace and on your terms. My role is to walk beside you, to listen deeply, and to support your sense of empowerment and autonomy. Together, we’ll build a relationship that feels safe, collaborative, and respectful.
My aim is to create a safe and supportive environment where you can express and explore your needs, concerns, and fears, no matter what they are. Healing is a personal journey, and together, we will work towards achieving your goals and enhancing your overall-being. I strive for every individual who meets with me to feel valued and respected, as I honor each person's unique culture, gender, race, religion, and sexual identity.
My aim is to create a safe and supportive environment where you can express and explore your needs, concerns, and fears, no matter what they are. Healing is a personal journey, and together, we will work towards achieving your goals and enhancing your overall-being. I strive for every individual who meets with me to feel valued and respected, as I honor each person's unique culture, gender, race, religion, and sexual identity.
So, I have some shocking news: being a human is hard. Which is why I enjoy helping people navigate various life transitions, overcome challenging relationship dynamics (romantic, familial, platonic, professional, etc.), and heal from trauma. My approach is strengths-based and I often incorporate psychodynamic, Jungian, and Family Systems Theory with CBT, DBT, mindfulness, and consciousness-based interventions. Therapy with me is collaborative, holistic, and eclectic. I pride myself in creating a safe, judgment-free space for people to return to their most authentic selves, ultimately leading to a more meaningful experience of life.
So, I have some shocking news: being a human is hard. Which is why I enjoy helping people navigate various life transitions, overcome challenging relationship dynamics (romantic, familial, platonic, professional, etc.), and heal from trauma. My approach is strengths-based and I often incorporate psychodynamic, Jungian, and Family Systems Theory with CBT, DBT, mindfulness, and consciousness-based interventions. Therapy with me is collaborative, holistic, and eclectic. I pride myself in creating a safe, judgment-free space for people to return to their most authentic selves, ultimately leading to a more meaningful experience of life.
You are filled with feelings of dread, anxiety, fear, loneliness, and shame when thinking about, discussing, or engaging in sex. You feel disconnected from your partner because recurrent and unresolved conflict has left you feeling hopeless and trapped. You are struggling to build a fulfilling sex life with your partner because you and your partner each have a different level of desire. You have difficulties communicating your relationship desires, let alone your sexual wants and preferences. These are all common concerns that people experience and that we can work on together.
You are filled with feelings of dread, anxiety, fear, loneliness, and shame when thinking about, discussing, or engaging in sex. You feel disconnected from your partner because recurrent and unresolved conflict has left you feeling hopeless and trapped. You are struggling to build a fulfilling sex life with your partner because you and your partner each have a different level of desire. You have difficulties communicating your relationship desires, let alone your sexual wants and preferences. These are all common concerns that people experience and that we can work on together.
When junk food, Netflix binges, and a long cry aren’t quite enough to combat whatever has you feeling down or anxious, then perhaps it’s time to explore therapy. There is nothing quite as fulfilling as discovering the best version of yourself, and I’d be honored to help you find it!
When junk food, Netflix binges, and a long cry aren’t quite enough to combat whatever has you feeling down or anxious, then perhaps it’s time to explore therapy. There is nothing quite as fulfilling as discovering the best version of yourself, and I’d be honored to help you find it!
Life is full of challenges and it isn’t easy asking for help. I am happy you’re here and proud of you for taking this step! Clients would describe my style as collaborative, playful, and down to earth. I provide a strengths-based, trauma-informed approach to help clients gain clarity, acceptance, and effective strategies for navigating life’s stressors. I implement ACT, DBT, emotionally-focused, psychodynamic therapy, and mindfulness modalities.
Life is full of challenges and it isn’t easy asking for help. I am happy you’re here and proud of you for taking this step! Clients would describe my style as collaborative, playful, and down to earth. I provide a strengths-based, trauma-informed approach to help clients gain clarity, acceptance, and effective strategies for navigating life’s stressors. I implement ACT, DBT, emotionally-focused, psychodynamic therapy, and mindfulness modalities.
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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialized knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organizations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.
How can individuals recognize a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognize a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.