Couples Counseling Therapists in Evanston, IL
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Sarah B Warren
Psychologist, PhD
Verified
Verified
I work with adults, adolescents,
couples
and families as well as employers who are concerned about an under functioning employee.
I work with many successful people who are struggling in a particular area such as work or marriage. I enjoy working with people to find more meaning in their careers. I also have a subspecialization in addictions.
I also use my behavior change expertise to address our addiction to oil and the preservation of our planet for future generations.
Not accepting new clients

Jamie Edwards
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, SEP
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
My specialties include trauma/stress response, grief,
relationship
issues, and life transitions.
We all have a natural resilience to heal from trauma, loss, and unexpected setbacks, however stories created about who we are can get in the way. They tell us we are not good enough, that we will fail, that we are not safe. They disconnect us from others, the world around us, and the goals we seek, they wreak havoc in our bodies. Together, we will
partner
to make sense of and transform these stories, allowing for growth and connection. I believe that even our adversities can be a source of strength and an opportunity to better ourselves.

Dr. Henry James Perkins
Psychologist, PhD
Verified
Verified
My work with
couples
is informed by a neurobiological perspective with a focus on conditions that promote thriving and
relationship
satisfaction.
My treatment philosophy rests on the belief that the
relationship
established between myself and my clients is the vehicle in which the various tools, strategies, and interventions of therapy are delivered and made useful. Current neuroscience research suggests that the decision to seek counseling in and of itself may set into motion hard-wired capacities for healing. And while there are myriad compelling reasons to seek therapy, it is not unusual for individuals to hold ambivalent feelings about making life changes; in short, to hold 'two minds' about addressing a significant life issue.

Carissa Francisco
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified
Verified
Carissa Francisco works with clients to create a safe and collaborative therapeutic environment. Carissa's goal in working with clients is to aid in their therapeutic process and recovery by assisting in the healing of
relationship
wounds or other personally identified goals. Carissa works with children and teens to identify their emotions and understand their behaviors. In her work with
couples
, Carissa aims to stay neutral to the
relationship
. Utilizing in-session exercises, clients will learn self awareness as it pertains to their
relationship
.

Cassidy Buckelew
Pre-Licensed Professional, PsyD
Verified
Verified
My practice includes addressing life challenges such as anxiety, depression, and
relationship
difficulties through the use of psychodynamic approaches.
In my practice, I prioritize creating an environment that feels safe, respectful, and warm for each unique person. My goals as a therapist are to establish an authentic connection, to be aware and supportive of individual and cultural differences, and to identify strengths that can serve as a foundation for healthy coping. To facilitate the growth you'd like to see, we'll discuss your aspirations and collaboratively set goals toward finding balance. A prospective client might recognize the need for support or change in their situation and be brave enough to take the next step in connecting.
Waitlist for new clients

Ben Fogel
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
3 Endorsed
Verified
3 Endorsed
I specialize in helping people achieve lasting and meaningful change in their lives. My goal is to help you increase your understanding of yourself and your struggles, alleviate emotional pain, and help you lead a fulfilling and meaningful life. I frequently work with people who experience anxiety or depression, or feelings related to a life change or transition. I also work extensively with
couples
to re-establish intimacy and connection, and to communicate effectively.

Steph Meyers
Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I specialize in
relationship
issues, stress reduction, anxiety, depression, women's concerns and adolescent struggles.
Is the stress of work or school overwhelming you? Are your relationships difficult? Are you struggling with feelings of shame or vulnerability? Do you feel unsatisfied? Everyone experiences life differently. My training and experience as a counselor has led me to a deep understanding of how we live in our worlds: with our families, within our relationships, and even how we perceive ourselves. My approach to counseling is based on helping others find the solutions that lie within themselves. Evening and weekend appointments are available.

Laura Elk-Weist
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, AM, LCSW, CCTP
Verified
Verified
You are the expert of your experience and I will
partner
with you so you can create a more meaningful life.
3/20/23: Currently accepting new clients. Do you feel like you can’t catch a break? Are your thoughts are constantly racing? Anxiety, depression and isolation from friends or family feel like insurmountable obstacles? You are not alone. Whatever you are facing, you deserve a space that is solely dedicated to you. I have over 15 years of experience collaborating with individuals to quiet their inner critic, establish positive habits and implement strategies to become “unstuck” and find direction in the midst of life’s challenges.

Lyrra Isanberg
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, ALMFT
Verified
Verified
My specialties include
couples
therapy, sex therapy, and therapy with individuals and
couples
who identify as Black and/or multiracial.
I believe that problems are best understood in the context of relationships - with loved ones, with intimate partners, and with oneself. Perhaps you are noticing room for improvement in one or in multiple relationships, or perhaps you have a strong desire for increased understanding of yourself and others. It takes a great deal of insight and strength to even begin this journey towards greater harmony. My hope as a clinician is to help foster within you a sense of renewed curiosity, compassion, and hope as you undertake this journey.

Rosie Gianforte
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
Verified
I provide psychotherapy to individuals, high school/college students,
couples
and families.
It's a brave decision to seek therapy and the experience can be the greatest gift you give yourself. I offer a relaxing space where you can reflect and focus on personal growth and positive change. I provide positive feedback to help you address current life challenges and resolve long standing issues. Often the goal of therapy can be as simple as becoming aware of patterns and understanding how your motivations are linked to certain behaviors.
Not accepting new clients

Dr. Kelsey Critchell
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified
2 Endorsed
Verified
2 Endorsed
I believe the goal of therapy is to help individuals live their most authentic and fulfilling lives. This includes exploring themselves, their relationships to others, and their place in the world. Within the context of a safe and non-judgmental therapeutic
relationship
, individuals can develop self-awareness and identify patterns they desire to change. Using empathy, direct feedback, and skill building, I believe individuals can heal, grow, and enjoy their lives more fully. I practice using an integrative approach grounded in psychodynamic and relational theories as well as incorporating mindfulness techniques.

Evanston Counseling, PLLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
You’ve been carrying the anxiety and pain for far too long. No one really knows what it's like to be you. It feels utterly lonely. But you are at the point, where you want to find hope again and see if there is a chance that it doesn’t have to be this way. You are navigating relationships with your intimate
partner
and friends, and experiencing difficult lonely feelings about your life, family, health, and career. Whether you have a
relationship
or are starting a new one, planning a family or maintaining one, struggling at college, battling chronic pain or IBS, or moving into the empty nest syndrome, there is so much to worry about.

Edward Patzelt
Psychologist, PhD
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I specialize in the assessment and treatment of personality disorders, anxiety, addiction, depression, trauma, PTSD and
relationship
issues.
The people I work with sense a shift could be important. Their relationships seem to have a lot of ups and downs, they feel like they cannot control their emotions, and they sometimes experience unwanted mood swings. Specialized evidence-based treatment can generate a shift. They feel more centered in themselves, are less likely to be taken over by emotions, and can more quickly recover from intense feelings. Their relationships with themselves, and with others, improves. They gain a stronger sense of purpose, increased ability to communicate, more often avoid misunderstandings, and can resolve conflicts more quickly.

Alisa Jaffe Holleron
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
Verified
If you are experiencing marriage or
relationship
challenges, a difficult divorced co-parenting situation, or stressful parenting issues, there are powerful skills, and simple shifts in thinking that can give you relief and help you find peace. I believe that the challenges we face are not failures; rather they are opportunities to grow and mature into ourselves. I specialize in
relationship
work,
couples
work, divorced co-parenting issues, family
relationship
work, emotions work (anger issues, anxiety and grief) and individual self-growth, including life transitions. Through my work with high-conflict divorced co-parenting, I have developed tolerance, patience, compassion and skill for working with difficult and challenging
relationship
dynamics.
Christopher George Miller
Counselor, LCPC, LLC
Verified
Verified
I have been working for over thirty years to master the art of developing trusting relationships with individuals,
couples
and families. I use psychological theories, family systems theory and integrated spirituality to allow my relationships with people to reveal new ways to live life and function effectively in both personal and professional contexts.

Dr. Peter W. Demuth
Psychologist, PsyD, MS
Verified
Verified
And as Henry Thoreau once stated: It takes two (a
relationship
) to speak the truth, -- one to speak, and another to hear.
The purpose of therapy is to help you get beyond a state of elementary survival -to a place where there's energy to be creative, the drive to motivate yourself, some space to take a walk, and perhaps time to attend a class. You may ask yourself constantly: "Isn't there more to life than struggle? Instead of walking in circles wouldn't it be nice to expand your horizons and gain a new perspective? Therapy is the place to do such things. It's a safe environment to become more awake and to develop more fully your genuine Self.

Dr. Ivy Burgo
Psychologist, PsyD, HSP, LPC, NCC
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
Honoring who you are is an essential part of experiencing a collaborative and compassionate
relationship
.
We all endure adversities and challenges that can cause us to question our identities, our relationships, and our lives. Navigating and processing these experiences on our own can leave us feeling overwhelmed, confused, and lonely. It is in the midst of such distress that we benefit deeply from receiving warm and empathic support. Given the unique complexity of each person’s life experiences, I emphasize multicultural sensitivity and the use of a holistic approach to therapy.
Waitlist for new clients

Cindy L Robinson
Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I bring patience and the ability to "hang in there," as I keep in mind the ways in which the past may be affecting our
relationship
.
While relationships have the power to injure they also have the power to heal. When early experiences have been less than optimal, building relationships can be challenging, both inside and outside of therapy. This affects family, friendships, employment and, most importantly, your
relationship
with yourself. I will work with you on trying to make sense of why certain patterns repeat in your life. We will consider the ways in which you survived past hurts and how that might interfere with living a fuller life today.

Julie Oscherwitz Grant
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
Verified
I specialize in the following areas:grief and loss, depression, marital and other
relationship
difficulties, divorce, young adult transitions and challenges, parenting, and women's medical issues.
We all work hard to take care of ourselves and build positive relationships, but sometimes obstacles get in our way. For more than 20 years, I have worked with people to identify and remove those obstacles, so that they can lead fuller and more joyful lives. You may be derailed by the loss of a job or
relationship
; feel depressed and not know why, or struggle as a parent. I work with individuals,
couples
and families to pinpoint your concerns and work toward change. My emphasis is on building honest, open relationships and on using insight to fuel change.

Barbara Monier
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified
Verified
With more than thirty years experience practicing clinical social work, I have had the privilege of working with hundreds of individuals,
couples
and families in their quest to understand themselves more fully and lead healthier, more satisfying lives. There is no question that therapy and counseling works, and the benefits that can be yielded are many. With the foundation of an accepting, supportive
relationship
with an experienced and caring therapist, difficulties that can otherwise seem overwhelming and unmanageable can be understood, and strategies explored.
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Couples Counseling Therapists
Does couples counseling work?
Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.
When should a couple seek counseling?
Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.
How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?
The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.
How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?
The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.