Infidelity Therapists in Crystal Lake, IL
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Melanie Johnson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
6 Endorsed
Verified
6 Endorsed
Did you or your spouse recently have an affair? Do you wonder if there is still hope for your marriage after a
betrayal
? I specialize in helping couples recover from an affair and have helped hundreds of couples move through the healing process. Many couples even report that they have a better marriage now than they did prior to the
betrayal
.
Waitlist for new clients

Mary J. Krueger
Counselor, MS, LCPC, CGP, AGPA-F
Verified
Verified
I have had the privilege of listening to the stories of those who have entered my office over the last 30 years. I know that every person is unique with their own experience of life. I work with issues such as relationship issues, loss, struggle,
betrayal
, fears, trauma and internal conflict. Through therapy you will come to understand your experience and develop tools for creating change. I am convinced me that each of us has the ability to heal.I have successfully worked with individuals, couples, families and groups around issues of anxiety, depression, loss, trauma, self-esteem, relationship issues.

Lindsey Patrick
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified
Verified
All relationships have chaotic or lonely times where you may feel incapable of approaching each other. Couples need a place to turn when they don't know what to do or have no support system. I help couples stuck in conflict gridlock begin to reengage with each other. I specialize in working with couples who experience: high levels of conflict; inability to communicate; emotional & physical distance or disengagement;
infidelity
; transitioning to parenthood; infertility/pregnancy loss; difficulty overcoming family of origin or cultural differences; and difficulty making the decision to divorce or separate.
Not accepting new clients

ProActive Behavioral Services (Amy Nolan, ALMFT)
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, ALMFT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
Rooted in a Family Systems approach, I have experience with depression, anxiety, loss/grief, life changes,
infidelity
, relational distress, blended families, co-parenting and stress management.
At any time in our lives, we may experience distance between where we are and where we'd like to be. Obstacles can sometimes stand in our way, and prevent us from achieving and living the life that we long for. I work with individuals and couples in a collaborative process to explore these obstacles, and to challenge old patterns and beliefs that may no longer be necessary, while finding new ways of thinking and living. With much compassion and understanding, I work with clients to facilitate healing and growth, grounded in a desire to empower others to achieve their goals, and to be brave, while deeply-rooted in hope.

Lindsay Keisman
Counselor, LCPC
Verified
6 Endorsed
Verified
6 Endorsed
All people have THAT moment. The big one, where we question if we are with the right person. We find ourselves loving someone, but falling into a pattern that we can't find our way out of. Communication, betrayals, falling out of sync, the fights that lead nowhere, someone shutting down, lack of emotional or physical intimacy, or not seeing eye to eye on important issues are all reasons people can benefit from an intensive look into their relationship. You want your person to be "your" person again. To love openly with affection, but also with the ability to resolve conflicts is what I wish for each couple I work with.

Gale Lee Harris
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
My job, as I see it, is not to fix you, but to help you fix yourself. To do that, I help you find the tools you already have and remind you that - on some deep level - you already know how to use them. My approach is cognitive, because I believe the way we think about our lives helps create them.

Lisa Marie Dydo
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LSW, QMHP, CTMH, CDVP
Verified
Verified
My specialization is focused on DBT and ACT, empowering, empirically based psychotherapy approaches that assist clients of all ages in meeting therapeutic goals in ways that are tangible and measurable while validating the client experience. DBT recognizes emotion as a valid response to experience, perceived or otherwise, with a focus on the development of skills that improve function and well-being. DBT skills include Mindfulness; Emotion Regulation; Distress Tolerance; and Interpersonal Effectiveness. ACT focuses on increasing mental flexibility and resilience through acceptance, mindfulness, and behavior-change strategies.
Not accepting new clients

Katie M Kroening
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, CADC
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
It takes courage to reach out for help. I am passionate about my clients and grateful to share in their journey. I meet clients in the valleys and help them walk through pain. I have a strong desire to help with emotional abuse recovery, restoring empowerment, equality, self-respect and self-love; I help clients learn how to set boundaries, and to experience emotional safety and growth. I specialize in Christian Counseling. I love all things relationship: restoration of marriages/couples: affair recovery, healing from high conflict. I enjoy working with anxiety and mood disorders such as bipolar/depression.

Innovative Counseling Partners, PLLC
Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified
Verified
Our life's work is helping clients achieve a better sense of self and happiness...more recently we've recognized that without good mental health providers finding this balance in life can be more difficult and stressful. As a result, we tend toward and Integrative approach and have our clients transform into the people they want to be. We see each client as an individual with many parts to their identity. Utilizing a holistic and systemic approach we help clients reintegrate the parts of themselves to function better as individuals and within their systems. Our focus tends toward a systems-based approach using behavior methods.

Heidi McCullough
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
Are there certain aspects of your life that you wish could be different or obstacles that are deterring you on your path? Are you offering the best version of yourself in your relationship with others? Do you ever question what it would mean to embrace the "real you"? We all have our own course to walk in this unique journey called life. But we also have the potential to change our direction at any time. The direction is determined by how we perceive our journey, and by the choices that we make as a result of those perceptions. Once we understand this concept, the potential for change becomes limitless!

Katina Beane- Doctoral Student
ALMFT, CADC, EMDR-C, LNHA, LPN
Hello, Congratulations on taking a step to get resolution for yourself! My name is Katina Beane. I am an empathetic, compassionate, self-motivated, genuine professional who strives to help individuals and families reach their full potential. My therapeutic approach is cognitive behavioral therapy, mindfulness, solution focused therapy. Life transitions and traumatic experiences can cause emotional and mental distress. Having someone to guide you in processing your thoughts will improve your overall well-being and make you feel less alone in your struggles.
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Center for Therapeutic Services-Crystal Lake
Counselor, PsyD, LCPC
Verified
Verified
At Center for Therapeutic Services and Psychodiagnostics, we are committed to helping you with the most comprehensive, holistic services that are established in evidence-based treatment. You are unique and your circumstances are unique! We will apply a broad range of dynamic assessments that are individualized and tailored to fit your unique needs. We take a creative approach to treating complex mental health problems both on an individual and group level.

Adam Rietveld
Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified
3 Endorsed
Verified
3 Endorsed
I have over 15 years of experience in the behavioral health field working with a variety of presenting problems and concerns, including but not limited to depression, anxiety, grief, substance use and abuse as well as other behavior changes. I have an eclectic style of counseling, drawing upon Motivational Interviewing, Solution Focused therapy, Person-Centered, and Cognitive Behavioral therapy in order to see how thoughts, feelings, and actions are connected and affect our daily lives.

Jeanne Coulson
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LCPC
Verified
2 Endorsed
Verified
2 Endorsed
Life is hard but harder when we deny that fact. We get "stuck", unmotivated, we give up. My practice is "real", it's comfortable and down to earth. It is a safe place free from judgement or criticism. You will be heard and validated and in that there will be growth and change You will find freedom from whatever is keeping you from being the person you want to be, from whatever is keeping you from experiencing the fullness of life. It's all about you. Let's get you out of your head and into living. If you are always trying to be normal, you will never know how amazing you can be.” -Maya Angelo

Lisa Sloka
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
Life is messy. That’s the motto I adopted a few years ago to remind myself that there is no such thing as perfect and rarely does everything go according to plan. My journey has taken me through a variety of messes…divorce, single parenting, job changes, remarriage and the blending of families, just to name a few. Although this isn’t the path that I planned to take, I am thankful for each step because of the healing and growth that accompanied it and ultimately led me to pursue my master’s degree in family and marriage therapy.

Celeste Faulkner
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified
Verified
We all cope with anger, grief, stress, disappointment & trauma differently. I understand firsthand how generational family dysfunction & toxic environments impact everyone involved. Some are able to thrive while others feel stuck. My greatest passion is empowering people to tap into their strengths and learning new ways to utilize hidden strengths, as well as new coping strategies that may be helpful to managing life, as well as care for self and those important to you. As a member of Thriving Sparrow Counseling in Crystal Lake, Illinois, it’s my pleasure to provide a safe space to explore your story and experiences.

Bob Zima
Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified
Verified
I provide non-blaming, non-judgmental, and collaborative counseling services to individuals and couples whose lives have been ripped apart due to loss/grief, relational conflict, and shattered dreams. Unresolved pain and fear from "doin' life" fuels anger and addictive behaviors that destroy relationships and turn life into a cardboard dirt sandwich with a side of sawdust. I help people separate themselves (and their friends and family) from the problems plaguing their life, allowing them to externalize their issues rather than internalize them.

Joseph Gottfried
Counselor, MA, LCPC
Verified
Verified
Have you been to counseling before but want more than just talking things out? Would you like to bring your spirituality to counseling as a simpler, easier way to become free from painful feelings and relationships? In this counseling approach you not only find a safe place to be heard and work through problems, but you also find ways to change troubling patterns from the inside out. Through powerful yet gentle methods alongside inner prayer/ intention, you can resolve the root causes of personal problems like anxiety, loss, feeling stuck, depression, relationship difficulties, lack of meaning or purpose, trauma & addiction.

Healing Through Connection Groups
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
Verified
An in-person support, recovery and growth group for women who have been betrayed in an intimate relationship.
Crystal Lake, IL 60012
Waitlist for new clients

Renae Mendez
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
Verified
I believe therapy is an opportunity to create a new path toward living a meaningful life. Often struggles or hardships we experience push us into following old patterns that may not fit our values or how we want to effectively live our lives. It can also be space to understand how we can be more fulfilled or effective in our many roles. I specialize in treating trauma and whether the event happened a month ago, or 20 years ago, there are effective, evidence-based strategies we can use to grow beyond that harm. I also enjoy working with people in the areas of self-esteem, anxiety, attachment, relationships, & LGBTQIA+ issues.
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Infidelity Therapists
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.