Sex Therapists in Chicago, IL
I have several years of experience and training offering sex therapy through a queer and trans lens.
You want to feel emotions fully without shame. You want to be connected to your own sense of desire and purpose. You deserve a space to explore the parts of you that feel unknown, “unacceptable,” or taboo. My commitment in the therapeutic relationship is to welcome and value all aspects of your experience – the stories that reflect humor and resilience, and the parts that have been shamed or dismissed. I combine EMDR trauma processing, somatic approaches, and discussions about how systems of oppression shape what we believe about ourselves to help clients express emotion and explore new patterns and identities.
I have several years of experience and training offering sex therapy through a queer and trans lens.
You want to feel emotions fully without shame. You want to be connected to your own sense of desire and purpose. You deserve a space to explore the parts of you that feel unknown, “unacceptable,” or taboo. My commitment in the therapeutic relationship is to welcome and value all aspects of your experience – the stories that reflect humor and resilience, and the parts that have been shamed or dismissed. I combine EMDR trauma processing, somatic approaches, and discussions about how systems of oppression shape what we believe about ourselves to help clients express emotion and explore new patterns and identities.
Sherraine Miller
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, ATR-P
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Chicago, IL 60652 (Online Only)
Are you facing intimacy issues, post-baby relationship dynamics, or the complexities of parenthood in your relationship? As a compassionate therapist specializing in perinatal care, sex therapy, and couples counseling, I’m here to support and guide you through challenging life transitions. Utilizing traditional and innovative art therapy techniques, I help you express those often-neglected vulnerable emotions so that you can experience profound healing, deepening the love and connection you deserve.
Are you facing intimacy issues, post-baby relationship dynamics, or the complexities of parenthood in your relationship? As a compassionate therapist specializing in perinatal care, sex therapy, and couples counseling, I’m here to support and guide you through challenging life transitions. Utilizing traditional and innovative art therapy techniques, I help you express those often-neglected vulnerable emotions so that you can experience profound healing, deepening the love and connection you deserve.
It's often uncomfortable to discuss personal problems, especially those pertaining to sexuality with a complete stranger.
Making your first therapy appointment can be daunting. As a psychotherapist, I get that. It is my priority to make individuals, couples, and families feel understood, heard, and respected. Here's your opportunity to make a change in your life. ..............................Life has its challenges. My therapeutic approach is to help you navigate the process of overcoming difficulties within your life. I enjoy working with individuals and couples who are apprehensive about starting treatment, are motivated for change, and are open to working outside of their comfort zone.
It's often uncomfortable to discuss personal problems, especially those pertaining to sexuality with a complete stranger.
Making your first therapy appointment can be daunting. As a psychotherapist, I get that. It is my priority to make individuals, couples, and families feel understood, heard, and respected. Here's your opportunity to make a change in your life. ..............................Life has its challenges. My therapeutic approach is to help you navigate the process of overcoming difficulties within your life. I enjoy working with individuals and couples who are apprehensive about starting treatment, are motivated for change, and are open to working outside of their comfort zone.
Amy M Berrafato
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CST
Verified Verified
Chicago, IL 60657 (Online Only)
As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist, I specialize in treating individuals and couples who wish to improve communication and conflict resolution, build emotional and physical intimacy, make authentic relationship decisions, and strengthen emotional resilience during stressful times.
Healthy relationships are an essential ingredient to living your best life possible. No matter your relationship status, it’s important to have support as you navigate relational stressors within different life stages. I respect the vulnerability in reaching out for help. Perhaps you’re feeling stuck and disconnected from your partner. Or having a hard time understanding your relationship patterns. Maybe it’s difficult to express or manage your emotions. Learning who you are in relationships is a lifelong process! My therapeutic approach is direct, emotion-focused, and client-centered so we can walk through that process together.
As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist, I specialize in treating individuals and couples who wish to improve communication and conflict resolution, build emotional and physical intimacy, make authentic relationship decisions, and strengthen emotional resilience during stressful times.
Healthy relationships are an essential ingredient to living your best life possible. No matter your relationship status, it’s important to have support as you navigate relational stressors within different life stages. I respect the vulnerability in reaching out for help. Perhaps you’re feeling stuck and disconnected from your partner. Or having a hard time understanding your relationship patterns. Maybe it’s difficult to express or manage your emotions. Learning who you are in relationships is a lifelong process! My therapeutic approach is direct, emotion-focused, and client-centered so we can walk through that process together.
You are a whole person who deserves to be seen, supported, and given access to the tools that can help you thrive through whatever you are going through. I am both sex and religion positive and enjoy working with people who are struggling, or have strengths that they’d like to access, in either area. My main passions include men’s mental health, relationships, and intimacy and I believe that the greatest change in all of these things comes from working on it with others— working with couples and families is the way I most enjoy tackling issues!
You are a whole person who deserves to be seen, supported, and given access to the tools that can help you thrive through whatever you are going through. I am both sex and religion positive and enjoy working with people who are struggling, or have strengths that they’d like to access, in either area. My main passions include men’s mental health, relationships, and intimacy and I believe that the greatest change in all of these things comes from working on it with others— working with couples and families is the way I most enjoy tackling issues!
In addition, particularly with sex therapy, I incorporate behavioral and cognitive approaches.
Hello! I am a sex, couples, and individual therapist who treats the following presenting issues: desire discrepancy, out of control sexual behaviors ( sex addictions), sexual pain, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, sexual trauma, anxiety or shame around sex, low libido, difficulty with orgasm, couples conflict, infidelity, lack of emotional connection, communication issues, depression, and anxiety
In addition, particularly with sex therapy, I incorporate behavioral and cognitive approaches.
Hello! I am a sex, couples, and individual therapist who treats the following presenting issues: desire discrepancy, out of control sexual behaviors ( sex addictions), sexual pain, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, sexual trauma, anxiety or shame around sex, low libido, difficulty with orgasm, couples conflict, infidelity, lack of emotional connection, communication issues, depression, and anxiety
Rachel Zar
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, CST
Verified Verified
Chicago, IL 60642
Waitlist for new clients
For clients working on general anxiety, major life transitions, or other relational issues, she offers a sex-positive and sex-inclusive approach.
Rachel Zar, PhD, LMFT, CST, is an individual and couples therapist—and an AASECT-certified sex therapist. Rachel knows that sex and relationships can be among the most difficult topics to talk about, so she strives to create a safe, non-judgmental space for these intimate and essential conversations. Her integrative approach is both warm and direct; it’s both creative and based in current therapeutic and medical research. She believes that collaboration is the key to success, so she meets clients where they are and works with them to access their unique strengths and empower them to reach their goals.
For clients working on general anxiety, major life transitions, or other relational issues, she offers a sex-positive and sex-inclusive approach.
Rachel Zar, PhD, LMFT, CST, is an individual and couples therapist—and an AASECT-certified sex therapist. Rachel knows that sex and relationships can be among the most difficult topics to talk about, so she strives to create a safe, non-judgmental space for these intimate and essential conversations. Her integrative approach is both warm and direct; it’s both creative and based in current therapeutic and medical research. She believes that collaboration is the key to success, so she meets clients where they are and works with them to access their unique strengths and empower them to reach their goals.
I work with marginalized clients/families (ages 12+) with many concerns, especially focusing on the following: intersectional identities including racial/ethnic/religious minorities, LGBTQ+ and first generation, trauma/attachment therapy, and sex therapy.
You have decided it's time for a change and therapy is a great tool to get you there. We can work on finding your inner strength and ultimately achieve your goals to improve your quality of life. We'll work together to enhance your/your teen's strengths to help you overcome the challenges you are currently experiencing as well as helping you develop tools for your future. I believe therapy is a collaborative process in change and will be dedicated in walking through your journey with you.
I work with marginalized clients/families (ages 12+) with many concerns, especially focusing on the following: intersectional identities including racial/ethnic/religious minorities, LGBTQ+ and first generation, trauma/attachment therapy, and sex therapy.
You have decided it's time for a change and therapy is a great tool to get you there. We can work on finding your inner strength and ultimately achieve your goals to improve your quality of life. We'll work together to enhance your/your teen's strengths to help you overcome the challenges you are currently experiencing as well as helping you develop tools for your future. I believe therapy is a collaborative process in change and will be dedicated in walking through your journey with you.
Chris Tennant
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, C-EMDR
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Chicago, IL 60613 (Online Only)
I also teach sex education classes in partnership with local non profits, so please feel free to ask me any questions.
Your decision to seek therapy is a sign of strength, courage, and respect for your personal well-being. I welcome people facing a variety of challenges including depression, anxiety, trauma, substance use challenges, LBGTQ+ identities, relationship issues, and the general "stuck" feeling. My therapeutic style is caring, encouraging and individualized in order to help each person learn skills to work with their emotions, see situations without judgment and recognize solutions that fit personal values. I also have a strong emphasis on diversity and social justice and incorporate it into my practice.
I also teach sex education classes in partnership with local non profits, so please feel free to ask me any questions.
Your decision to seek therapy is a sign of strength, courage, and respect for your personal well-being. I welcome people facing a variety of challenges including depression, anxiety, trauma, substance use challenges, LBGTQ+ identities, relationship issues, and the general "stuck" feeling. My therapeutic style is caring, encouraging and individualized in order to help each person learn skills to work with their emotions, see situations without judgment and recognize solutions that fit personal values. I also have a strong emphasis on diversity and social justice and incorporate it into my practice.
I work at Practical Audacity. We are a Group Practice where therapy is performed by Queer Identified/ Aligned and Trauma-Informed Professionals. We want people to find Pleasure, Joy, and Confidence in their sexuality no matter what barriers they face. We provide therapy and coaching grounded in feminist ideals and collaboration, focusing on strengths, trauma-informed care, and science-backed interventions and, at the same time, providing a space for you to feel safe and seen right where you are.
I work at Practical Audacity. We are a Group Practice where therapy is performed by Queer Identified/ Aligned and Trauma-Informed Professionals. We want people to find Pleasure, Joy, and Confidence in their sexuality no matter what barriers they face. We provide therapy and coaching grounded in feminist ideals and collaboration, focusing on strengths, trauma-informed care, and science-backed interventions and, at the same time, providing a space for you to feel safe and seen right where you are.
Marissa Bohrer
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Chicago, IL 60660 (Online Only)
I specialize in issues around gender, sex and sexuality, and operate from a cognitive-behavioral (CBT) framework.
Ready to get into it? Taking the first step into a therapeutic setting requires enormous vulnerability, as well as a great deal of strength, and I strive to make every client feel warm and welcomed. Therapy is an opportunity to create the change in your life that has always been possible – even if it may not feel that way to you right now. My therapeutic style is straightforward, honest, and goal-oriented, and more often than not, there is room for humor and laughter in a therapy session. I am currently licensed in IL and NJ,
I specialize in issues around gender, sex and sexuality, and operate from a cognitive-behavioral (CBT) framework.
Ready to get into it? Taking the first step into a therapeutic setting requires enormous vulnerability, as well as a great deal of strength, and I strive to make every client feel warm and welcomed. Therapy is an opportunity to create the change in your life that has always been possible – even if it may not feel that way to you right now. My therapeutic style is straightforward, honest, and goal-oriented, and more often than not, there is room for humor and laughter in a therapy session. I am currently licensed in IL and NJ,
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Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW, CST, MT-BC
Verified Verified
Chicago, IL 60618
Waitlist for new clients
I am a certified Sex Therapist who is sex positive and who has special interest in helping individuals and couples improve their sexual relationship including those who are suffering from reproductive difficulties as well as helping persons learn how middle age and older adulthood influences sexuality.
I am a direct, interactive, and insightful psychotherapist who has a thoughtful, patient, and collaborative approach to therapy. My clinical practice focuses on sexual and reproductive health as well as relationship issues in individuals and couples. Therapy is about improving relationships with oneself and others by working through unexpected difficulties and changes which occur in life and creating better possibilities for the future. Therapy can help explore patterns of relating, both past and present, and find alternative ways of expressing these thoughts and feelings so that one may achieve increased life satisfaction.
I am a certified Sex Therapist who is sex positive and who has special interest in helping individuals and couples improve their sexual relationship including those who are suffering from reproductive difficulties as well as helping persons learn how middle age and older adulthood influences sexuality.
I am a direct, interactive, and insightful psychotherapist who has a thoughtful, patient, and collaborative approach to therapy. My clinical practice focuses on sexual and reproductive health as well as relationship issues in individuals and couples. Therapy is about improving relationships with oneself and others by working through unexpected difficulties and changes which occur in life and creating better possibilities for the future. Therapy can help explore patterns of relating, both past and present, and find alternative ways of expressing these thoughts and feelings so that one may achieve increased life satisfaction.
My therapeutic work focuses on individuals and couples exploring sex, intimacy, sexuality, and relationship matters. I understand the vulnerability involved in sharing these personal aspects of life, so I strive to create a safe, welcoming, and encouraging space through a strong therapeutic relationship built on authenticity, compassion, and shared laughter. I am LGBTQIA+ affirming, sex-positive, and provide a trauma-informed and strengths-based approach.
My therapeutic work focuses on individuals and couples exploring sex, intimacy, sexuality, and relationship matters. I understand the vulnerability involved in sharing these personal aspects of life, so I strive to create a safe, welcoming, and encouraging space through a strong therapeutic relationship built on authenticity, compassion, and shared laughter. I am LGBTQIA+ affirming, sex-positive, and provide a trauma-informed and strengths-based approach.
Ashley Homa
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, CYT, LPC
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Chicago, IL 60613 (Online Only)
I am LGBTQIA+-affirming and sex-positive.
I believe in the power of human connection and the part it plays in healing. I bring genuineness to sessions and meet clients where they are at. In addition to my psychotherapy experience, I am a certified yoga instructor who strongly believes in the mind-body connection and approaching healing in a holistic manner. My approach to therapy emphasizes the power of being in-tuned with the body to help understand the mind. I am passionate about helping individuals overcome the challenges of significant life transitions such as infertility, postpartum struggles, and parenthood.
I am LGBTQIA+-affirming and sex-positive.
I believe in the power of human connection and the part it plays in healing. I bring genuineness to sessions and meet clients where they are at. In addition to my psychotherapy experience, I am a certified yoga instructor who strongly believes in the mind-body connection and approaching healing in a holistic manner. My approach to therapy emphasizes the power of being in-tuned with the body to help understand the mind. I am passionate about helping individuals overcome the challenges of significant life transitions such as infertility, postpartum struggles, and parenthood.
I specialize in sex therapy and am knowledgeable in kink and consensual non-monogamy (CNM).
Offering In Person Sessions in Chicago and Virtual in California- As a queer transgender therapist, I believe there isn't a one-size-fits-all approach to living our lives. The same goes for therapy - there isn't a "right way" to do it. In my practice, I am committed to helping individuals tap into their personal strengths and uncover a path that is meaningful and fulfilling. I trust that my clients are the experts on their own lives and have the skills and tools they need to navigate their problems. However, I'm here to provide support and guidance when they need it.
I specialize in sex therapy and am knowledgeable in kink and consensual non-monogamy (CNM).
Offering In Person Sessions in Chicago and Virtual in California- As a queer transgender therapist, I believe there isn't a one-size-fits-all approach to living our lives. The same goes for therapy - there isn't a "right way" to do it. In my practice, I am committed to helping individuals tap into their personal strengths and uncover a path that is meaningful and fulfilling. I trust that my clients are the experts on their own lives and have the skills and tools they need to navigate their problems. However, I'm here to provide support and guidance when they need it.
You deserve an honest and authentic relationship with yourself and those around you. I can help you build greater insight, self-awareness, and a renewed sense of empowerment to navigate life's challenges with confidence and authenticity. I work with adults of all identities and with diverse romantic and emotional relationship structures. I have a passion for working with and affirming folks in the queer community. I help folks looking to address anxiety, burnout, multicultural stressors, sexuality and gender exploration, relationship distress, and those wanting to explore their relationships with themselves and their bodies.
You deserve an honest and authentic relationship with yourself and those around you. I can help you build greater insight, self-awareness, and a renewed sense of empowerment to navigate life's challenges with confidence and authenticity. I work with adults of all identities and with diverse romantic and emotional relationship structures. I have a passion for working with and affirming folks in the queer community. I help folks looking to address anxiety, burnout, multicultural stressors, sexuality and gender exploration, relationship distress, and those wanting to explore their relationships with themselves and their bodies.
Sex Therapist + Couples Therapist Libby Ebert
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, ALMFT, MA
Verified Verified
Chicago, IL 60613
I am a trauma-informed, social justice-based Relationship and Family Therapist specializing in sex therapy. I have contributed to the sexual health field for a decade through research, advocacy, and education. This culminated in a sex therapy certificate at Adler University which allows me to systemically work with a variety of sexual identities. I have experience working with BIPOC, LGBTQIA+, and TGNC individuals and partnerships, including kink, polyamory, or CNM. Rekindling sexual intimacy, pre-orgasmic individuals, those healing through trauma, and those redefining their relationship outlook are also passions.
I am a trauma-informed, social justice-based Relationship and Family Therapist specializing in sex therapy. I have contributed to the sexual health field for a decade through research, advocacy, and education. This culminated in a sex therapy certificate at Adler University which allows me to systemically work with a variety of sexual identities. I have experience working with BIPOC, LGBTQIA+, and TGNC individuals and partnerships, including kink, polyamory, or CNM. Rekindling sexual intimacy, pre-orgasmic individuals, those healing through trauma, and those redefining their relationship outlook are also passions.
With more than a decade of various forms of experience and training in the areas of LBGTQ+ affirming care, sex work, asexuality, BDSM, kink, fetish, fantasy, and diverse relationships, Sab is fueled by radical hope and an admiration for connection.
Sab is a trauma-informed therapist who works to create a collaborative space in which to seek wellness, pleasure, and liberation. They believe in supporting and empowering folx in navigating life’s troubles with recognition of systems of oppression, misinformation, shame and stigma. Sab is a creative community activist with a passion for expressive arts, dedication to racial justice, and commitment to their own shadow work regarding the use and impact of their whiteness.
With more than a decade of various forms of experience and training in the areas of LBGTQ+ affirming care, sex work, asexuality, BDSM, kink, fetish, fantasy, and diverse relationships, Sab is fueled by radical hope and an admiration for connection.
Sab is a trauma-informed therapist who works to create a collaborative space in which to seek wellness, pleasure, and liberation. They believe in supporting and empowering folx in navigating life’s troubles with recognition of systems of oppression, misinformation, shame and stigma. Sab is a creative community activist with a passion for expressive arts, dedication to racial justice, and commitment to their own shadow work regarding the use and impact of their whiteness.
Relationships, Intimacy, Gender/ sexuality exploration, Complex trauma, Anxiety, Religious trauma & Abortion support.
Our lives are full of relationships and we have an innate human desire to experience intimacy and connection. We can gain so much from experiencing intimate connections! Intimacy can make us feel fully alive, energized & liberated. Yet, we can often struggle to overcome hurdles along our path to deep, meaningful connection with others. We all have the capacity for intimacy and I’d love to help you discover and overcome what is standing in your way!
Relationships, Intimacy, Gender/ sexuality exploration, Complex trauma, Anxiety, Religious trauma & Abortion support.
Our lives are full of relationships and we have an innate human desire to experience intimacy and connection. We can gain so much from experiencing intimate connections! Intimacy can make us feel fully alive, energized & liberated. Yet, we can often struggle to overcome hurdles along our path to deep, meaningful connection with others. We all have the capacity for intimacy and I’d love to help you discover and overcome what is standing in your way!
Sherraine Miller
Pre-Licensed Professional, ATR-P, MA
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Chicago, IL 60605
With a master's in counseling & art therapy, & a certificate in sex therapy, I bring a mix of art, strengths-based, mindfulness, & evidenced-based approaches that enable me to be your guide, ally, & sounding board as we navigate your mental health journey together, fostering support, building community, & amplifying your voice along the way.
Guided by my passion for healing through creativity & understanding, I'm a dedicated therapist poised to empower you on your unique journey. I offer a safe & affirming space for individuals & couples from all walks of life. My clients come to me looking to tackle women's issues, depression, anxiety, perinatal/postpartum mood & anxiety disorders, sexuality, intimacy & libido issues, grief, gender, loss, trauma, life transitions, self-esteem, LGBTQIA+ exploration, relationship challenges, & more. My mission is to help you navigate life's twists & turns, weaving a path to well-being that's uniquely yours.
With a master's in counseling & art therapy, & a certificate in sex therapy, I bring a mix of art, strengths-based, mindfulness, & evidenced-based approaches that enable me to be your guide, ally, & sounding board as we navigate your mental health journey together, fostering support, building community, & amplifying your voice along the way.
Guided by my passion for healing through creativity & understanding, I'm a dedicated therapist poised to empower you on your unique journey. I offer a safe & affirming space for individuals & couples from all walks of life. My clients come to me looking to tackle women's issues, depression, anxiety, perinatal/postpartum mood & anxiety disorders, sexuality, intimacy & libido issues, grief, gender, loss, trauma, life transitions, self-esteem, LGBTQIA+ exploration, relationship challenges, & more. My mission is to help you navigate life's twists & turns, weaving a path to well-being that's uniquely yours.
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Sex Therapy
Who is sex therapy for?
Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.
Why do people need sex therapy?
Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.
What happens in sex therapy?
People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.
What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?
Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.