Infidelity Therapists in Chicago, IL

Dr. Soloveychik focuses on treatment of sex and love addiction (pornography, infidelity , escorts, anonymous sexual partners, romantic obsessions) and sexual anorexia. Dr. Soloveychik provides a concierge therapeutic relationship of acceptance, to help individuals and their loved ones to stop out of control damaging sexually compulsive behaviors. You can heal the shame, loneliness, and possible presence of attachment failures/trauma. You can stop using sex to cope with stress, boredom, seek potential external validation or get a dopamine hit; regain lost time, become more present, and experience intimate loving honest relationships.

Whether you’re looking to address difficult life changes, relationship and intimacy challenges, or improve your overall mental health, I offer a comfortable, nonjudgmental, sex-positive, and inclusive space where we’ll work together to achieve your goals in therapy. I’m committed to working with individuals, couples, and those in open relationships. I am passionate about working with those in the LGBTQIA+ community, and on issues such as infidelity , sex and intimacy challenges, sex and gender identity, consensual non-monogamy, anxiety, depression, stress, life transitions, and other mental health challenges.

With more than 20 years of experience, I have learned to empower my clients with the proper tools to survive the upheaval, heal & then thrive. I believe the mind, body and spirit are all connected & the key to a healthy life is BALANCE. Each person has the ability to achieve this & by utilizing the body and spirit through different modalities, it is facilitated even faster. I provide a safe, nurturing & compassionate environment that promotes healing & growth through different expressions besides just talking including hypnotherapy, yoga & meditation, when appropriate . I work on focus,awareness and energy together with each client to help create a healthier balance.

We all yearn for fulfilling relationships with our partners, family, and other important people in our social circles. Sometimes we need help navigating the complexities of our connections. I believe the therapeutic experience can help clients better understand themselves and their relational needs. I am a Couple and Family Therapist intern and a second-year Ph.D. student in the Couple and Family Therapy program at Adler University in Chicago.

When your relationship is suffering, you're suffering. Oftentimes, terribly so. Maybe the partner you used to feel so close to now seems more like a distant stranger. Maybe a betrayal has left you outraged and alone. Maybe all the fighting and miscommunication makes you wonder at times what you ever saw in this person at all.

Has infidelity been an issue in your relationship? Are you concerned that you may be emotionally or verbally manipulated by your partner? Do you ever wonder, ‘am I the problem’? I am passionate about working with individuals struggling with relationship issues, including partner betrayal trauma, with a particular interest in infidelity and narcissistic (verbal/emotional) abuse recovery. I am here to listen, assist, and share skills with you to be where you want to be and live the life you desire and deserve, all coming from a life-lived and trauma-informed lens.

The Couple and Family Clinic is creating connections that heal. We specialize in relational conflict and trauma, partner betrayal trauma, sexual compulsion, cultural trauma and grief and loss. Pain and adjustment is a part of life. I am here to walk with you through the process so that you will arrive at your goal feeling healthy and whole. The client's experience from beginning to the end of treatment are all very important to me and the healing process. We all desire healthy, happy and loving relationships, and this takes courage and will pull us out of our comfort zone. Sometimes loving ourselves is the best place to start.

Is your life being controlled by feelings of anxiety? Do Mondays come around & you start to feel overwhelmed about your life? I can help with that. I offer a safe space for you to explore your fears and anxiousness. Your feelings of being overwhelmed will be reduced! I am a friendly down-to-earth person, who will support you in dealing with your problems and your tendency to second guess your feelings. Over time you'll feel less challenged by these anxious feelings. I'm an active therapist, will provide feedback, & you'll never sit in awkward silence. All of us have issues, and I know my struggles have made me a better therapist.

I am interested in helping individuals, families, and couples who are confronted with difficult challenges in their personal and professional lives. This includes marital obstacles of infidelity , marital stagnation, and partner abuse. It is also my desire to serve those struggling with issues of substance abuse and process addictions; such as pornography, compulsive sexual behaviors, and histories of sexual abuse. In addition, I look forward to helping teens and adolescents who find themselves struggling in areas of social relations, academic progress, and/or who are frequently in trouble at school or with the law due to challenging personal behaviors.

My specialties include working with individuals and couples struggling with infidelity , infertility, and/or difficulty with emotion regulation.

Are you struggling in your relationship to feel seen and understood? Do you want to improve your connection and communication with your partner? Do you want to live a more authentic and fulfilling life? I can help! I provide a supportive environment in which you can explore your experiences and overcome barriers that prevent you from living the life you want to live.

So you've decided to open up your relationship and delve into the world of ethical non-monogamy. You're feeling overwhelmed and excited at the prospect of what this could mean for your relationship. Things have shifted with your partner and you're ready to take the next steps but aren't quite sure where to start. You feel as though you still have some work to do in deconstructing monogamy and viewing your relationship through a non-monogamous lens. You're worried about jealousy or feelings are arising as other relationship dynamics begin to form. You've thought "if only we could talk to someone about these challenges."

I am a Licensed Social Worker, a Certified Alcohol and Drug Counselor, and a Sex Therapist. My clinical experience is focused on working with individuals, couples, adolescents, and families on issues including addiction, alcoholism, substance abuse, relationship/marital conflicts, codependency, divorce, infidelity , PTSD, childhood trauma, emotional abuse, anxiety, social anxiety, depression, life transition, LGBTQ+ issues, sexual health concerns, non-monogamy/polyamory, kink/BDSM, and intimacy injuries.

-Individual, Couple, & Family Therapy. Trained at the University of Rochester School of Medicine, Kansas State University's School of Family Studies, and The University of Chicago School of Medicine, Clinic Founder Rob Gellman has been a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist for 14 years, and was a professor at Adler University from 2008-2011. He is a regularly invited speaker with local mental health agencies and national conferences. A recognized expert on families coping with chronic illness, infidelity , and the training of therapists and physicians, Rob's clinical practice is diverse, helping adults, children, couples and families on the path to wellness. ***Specializing in Anxiety Disorders, Relationship Distress, Infidelity , Sex Therapy, Young Couples, Depression, Chronic Illness, Grief and Loss, Family Conflict, and Lifecycle Transitions.

My practice focuses on helping couples and individuals create more satisfying lives and relationships. Reasons for seeking therapy may include depression, anxiety, life transitions, finding healthy identities, communication concerns, improving intimacy, helping foster healthy connections and healing relationships. My passion and specialty is sex therapy. I work with individuals and couples to help them address concerns related to sexual health, sexual functioning, and finding ones' sexual identity. Common reasons clients see me include: desire discrepancies, communication problems around sex, infidelity , arousal or orgasm difficulties, erectile dysfunction, painful intercourse, body image, sexual trauma and problematic sexual behavior/sexual compulsivity.